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bitchybylershipper · 4 months ago

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highlight of my day so far was getting yelled at for having a meltdown 😀👍

#to be fair i was overreacting #i was going to have chips and salsa but then my mom got the wrong kind of salsa so yeah #so fun #i love my sister #and my mom #and my dad #so much #😀👍#personal

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helianthus21 · 5 months ago

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Louis: sorry for almost killing you back then:(

Daniel: no no I deserved that i was super annoying

insane interaction between insane people

#daniel.... i wanna study you #iwtv #daniel molloy #louis de pointe du lac #louis after almost killing him: oops sorry i overreacted #daniel: no that's fair

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dalvs-wife · 17 days ago

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ok so im just gonna copy and paste this from my twitter bc i dont have the energy to type it out again

goshhh hi sorry i really dont like to be overly negative but umm. important: please please dont follow me if you follow/support other dalv kissers/selfshippers/etc ... i know this seems gatekeepy (which is why i dont ask this for any other f/o) so im sorry ab that

legitimately have it here if u haven't seen!! i reiterate this now because i just got recommended a post of a dalv double due to one of my mutuals liking the post, and i feel really sick right now

im sorry if this seems unreasonable , you have every right to unmoot/unfollow, but it genuinely hurts me so bad to see that stuff

#will not be naming the mutual bc im not insane and clearly they dont have malicious intent #it'd be stupid to assume that #but i hope they see this and come 2 their own decision #bc that really really fcked with my head #if it seems like im overreacting: yeah thats a fair assumption #but admittedly the ut/y fandom has made me so very paranoid and distrustful #important #ray rambles

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dogearedheart · 21 hours ago

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I am glad that my ex best friend and I are talking again, but I still feel like we are still stuck

#it's just...#I'm not sure if I'm allowed to complain or if I'm overreacting #before we took a break... she was doing pretty bad and i thought i was there and i tried to help her whenever #and i always felt like she was unloading her stuff onto me #which is fair because i wanted her to do it i wanted to help her and take care of her #but i often felt like i wasn't allowed to do the same #and even after i was brave enough to tell her that... things didn't change #and i know I'm an idiot because i want her to ask me how i am and i want her to be there #but if she ever asked I'd say 'it's nothing'#god idk if that even makes sense #I'm just... i feel so selfish for asking for anything #and... is that how it's supposed to be? idk #txt.#personal

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jesse-pinko · 4 months ago

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#to be fair it was actually two passive aggressive texts… i never stood a chance 😔#but fr i cannot fucking do this anymore #i forgot to text her back and she immediately starts trying to guilt me ab it #and then immediately reminds me that i have a tendency to overreact so i can’t call her out on how shitty she’s being #even though she was the one overreacting in the first place on god i cannot do this shit anymore #but i have no choice bc even working full time i can’t support me or my dog w/out borrowing money from her #so i just have to take whatever she throws at me and she knows it

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dracanboys-m · 3 months ago

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i really love this post and i also think it sums up . the au really well

#ff7 monhun au #i do not think this one is deserving of Tags bc its so messy #nnyway zack and tifa ARE friends in this au but they DO try to kill each other first. it's a really great time #be tifa lockhart. find cloud strife your old friend and also giant man (zack fair) passed out outside of your town #take in your old friend. against your better judgement and the judgement of barret wallace take in the giant man #decide youre overreacting and things will probably be ok #he wakes up #HE TRIES TO KILL YOU #Sorry actuall this au is jusyt my thinly veiled expression of zack being more unhinged than any canon will give me #implaying TOUYS !!#also zack is smiling like a threat. i think he does that in canon. To me . In my mind palace #regardless of au i think zack fair would Threat Smile like an animal

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pillowenvelopchair · 4 months ago

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Absolutely fucking stupid that my schools suicide prevention protocol is to basically to put someone in house arrest until a professional can write and “prove” that theyre okay so that theyre sure that they can let a student back in. Yeah. Sure. Just force someone to be in the house where they are even MORE at danger when there are literal sharp objects makes it easier to do it

#jesus fucking christ sorry im having anxiety palpitations again #its not fair #guidance counselor isnt even fucking. doing shit. not replying or making any fucking meetings with my therapist #just fucking great #its been on my mind recently #i never accepted it because i never realized it #i knew it wad unfair but i never realized that until now #just like one week before school starts #its not fair for them to basically put me in house arrest for a year while my anxiety brews every day while they sit on their fucking asses #and just. not do anything. be slow with arranging everything. isnt that your whole job?#literally fuck you #this was supposed to make me feel ‘better’ ive literally gotten worse #nothing has changed and i have become a worse person than i was before #i wasted a whole year rotting in anxiety AGAIN. its literally just like the pandemic happened again but im stuck watching everyone be free #and yeah! im bitter about the whole fucking thing! i think i deserve it #maybe i shouldnt talk like this. maybe im just overreacting #all i got out of this was heart palpitations and an english essay topic #just needed to type this out to ground myself a little #anyways ill go back to my regular insane posting after this. maybe…#who knows? maybe ill just be gone one day #whatever #im deleting this later #tw suicide #vent

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like-wuatafauq · 2 months ago

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I feel bad for getting upset at things cuz idk what's a normal amount, like the other day with the security guard and me being dressed in more relaxed masculine clothes and going to girls restroom. Like a part of me is like maybe I shouldn't be too upset??? Cuz like I dealt with it even as a teen so I should know what to expect being dressed more masculine? Idk yall Like I'm afraid to either overreact and underreact I suppose idk

#is it just me #cuz like i also dont want to underreact cuz its not fair for me but i dont want to overreact bcuz its not someone i want to be #this probably sounds like gibberish but its my public diary so whatever #butch problems #rant #like im not a doormat but i also dont want to be known as a violent person i guess #and theeeen like i tie that with other things upset me about being butch and i dont wanna do that i like dressing masc #i like having butch pride i want to be known as a gentleman so maybe i should also know what to expect if i come off the opposite idk idddk #im just ranting #idk #long tags #genderqueer

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professor-rye · 3 months ago

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One of my biggest frustrations with brain fuckery and self awareness is that so often I will see people talking about problematic behavior that I am feeling, only to not really offer a solution for how to stop feeling it. Which, to be fair, is not really their responsibility. For many people, awareness is more than enough for them to start the process of restructuring their beliefs and stopping the problematic attachment. But I am already aware, and that apparently isn't enough to get my brain to let the fuck go.

Creators made a choice, which is their right, and for some reason, my brain decided that was a betrayal and now I am hurt beyond belief. This is unreasonable, and I know that.

Every other time something like this has happened before, I can just acknowledge that I didn't like that choice and move on. But for some reason, these creators and these choices are different, and I can't seem to get my brain to behave anymore.

And anytime I try to talk about it, either the listener has no advice they can give (I still appreciate you listening though, I promise) or they just tell me "But hey. That's parasocial and unreasonable."

#I just really miss that fandom so much you guys #and I hate that my brain is holding it hostage behind feelings that I know aren't fair to anyone #There should be a therapist who specializes in fandom brainrot #because my therapist was very unhelpful when it came to this topic #yes. trust me ma'am. I am VERY well aware that it is their right to choose how their game goes.#Yes. I am very well aware that this level of hurt is disproportionate to the actions that “Caused” it.#Yes. I am aware that my brain is overreacting and that this is extremely parasocial.#Now can you please help me STOP IT?#Also: for the record #This is not trying to excuse the behavior when others engage in it by the way #note that I do what I can to avoid sharing these negative feelings within the fandom space #I mostly only talk about it in certain discord servers and in private messages to friends because these feelings ARE unreasonable

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hauntedtotem · 7 months ago

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I think the biggest red flag for me regarding the hopelesspeaches and lio convoy stuff, their entire group (especially lio) has near identical speech patterns and dynamics as my mom's online friend group. Which is less of a red flag and more of a raging wildfire tbh

#I listened to all the calls when they 'leaked' but I didn't know they were leaks I thought lio posted that stuff proudly #I didn't know that they weren't meant to be seen by the public until just now lol #Anyways I'm pleasantly surprised people are talking about how fucked up they were #Bc tbh when I was like 'oh this makes peaches (and everyone else) look like a bitch kinda' the first time I heard the calls-#I thought I was maybe being too judgey or sensitive or something?#But now everyone else is like 'yeah they are all being bitches actually' im like. Oh! So I understood right and wasn't just overreacting #Mostly bc lio was ranting about being a conservative Christian and weird 'nuclear family values' on one call and my immediate thought was #'oh gross Im too biased against this man to be able to look at this-#-discussion objectively. I'm gonna think he sucks regardless of the situation and therefore idk lf im a fair judge ?'#So it's cool to get confirmation from other ppl saying 'oh no ur right he sucks and here's why'#this is the 2nd time this week I got 'no youre not just overreacting. Other ppl are upset too' validation abt a topic. cool #//shade #I'm sure there's plenty of found family groups online that are great but so many of the ones i hear abt feel like a cult imo #My mom is in a group where this dude calls her and other women there his daughters like lio does to peaches and it feels gross to me idk #Ik everyone craves found family connections but. Idkk it feels weird to be taking that in a literal sense and calling them dad/my daughter #Feels like introducing unnecessary power dynamics.#Theres a difference between 'oh this person is like family to me because we're so close'#vs 'oh i am adopting this person and assuming a parental position over them'. that sounds unhealthy I think ?#Edit I just found out lio posted a response but it's midnight and I have a date tomorrow I'm not watching that rn lol #imo both him and peaches are bad and idc if one is worse than the other or whatever.#Peaches has been two faced for a while; lio might've taken advantage of her bc he's kinda creepy. They're both saying the other abused them #This is like jade and julian talking shit about each other to me. Idc guys I hate both of u srry <3 #Iykyk

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fierykitten2 · 7 months ago

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Anyone wanna see some Pokémon GO glitches?

Spriggie, I think you forgot you need to take your yo-yo out in order to use your yo-yo

Okay that’s kinda cute but I’m also kinda scared about what GO’s doing to my Togedemaru rn so I might just take a break and play Merge Dragons instead thanks

#floragato #togedemaru #pokémon go #pokemon glitches #yeah I’m overreacting #I’d say I overreact to glitches but I guess I wouldn’t be so obsessed with Scarlet and Violet if this is normal #to be fair that Togedemaru is more glitched out than anything I’ve seen in Scarlet or Violet #anyway I don’t wanna know what happens when I tap her

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vengeful4ever · 11 months ago

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guess who just got banished from the dinner table because they didn't wanna be insulted by their brother the whole time

#jinx's hijinks #to be fair my brother is 11 but I Cannot Take It Anymore #i am overreacting in some sense #but also i dont really like that his “brotherly love” is negatively impacting me #like i do not enjoy being insulted everytime i leave my room #to my family im just being dramatic but it is having an effect on me and its not an effect i need right now #because like hes not even funny about it hes just acting like a bully #WHICH EVERYONE IN THIS HOUSE KNOWS I WAS BULLIED FOR ALL OF MY PRIMARY SCHOOLING #everyone knows but no one actually wants to explain to him that #i feel like im crazy for reacting the way i am because hes fucking 11 #but like this is sonot good for me on so many levels

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unnerving-presence · 2 years ago

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How would Wesker be with a reader with an age gap?

i don’t think he’d necessarily treat them differently honestly. it’s kind of hard to see him doing that.

underwhelming answer but he probably would just treat you like he would if there wasn’t an age gap LMAO

age gap might tie a bit into the corruption kink aspect if you’re into that but that’s it

#wesker has not been on my brain much and i am afraid like noooo i want to stay interested in him #but to be fair i haven’t been thinking of any other media either #it’s been like a day i’m overreacting #brain is all static rn i swear

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phagodyke · 1 year ago

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my flatmate asking me the day before "do u want to hang out w me and [old friend] everyone else cancelled so I can invite u now" is not the heartfelt offer she thinks it is :^/

#what am i sloppy seconds. fuck off man #i like them both but im not in the place to socialise rn + also it just feels kinda mean. theyve had these plans for weeks #and i wasnt invited bc some of their other friends (who ive never met) didnt want me there which is fair enough ig #even tho their friends complained abt someone else bringing her bf but they both blocked the veto for that. pretty sure ik them-#better than some guy but whatever. i dont rly like their friends anyway bc they only ever have bad things to say abt them #like damn they sound like they have the emotional range of toddlers plus theyre all into shit like genshin. so i wasnt fazed abt it #hope they have a nice time etc but wow sure now theyve cancelled the day before u can invite me as a replacement. yeah thatll do wonders #for the social and self esteem issues i have around being single use and disposable and always on the outside etc yippee #the thing is if i go theyll just talk to each other anyway and leave me to be the fly on the wall like they always do. they dont want #me there they just want an audience i literally have nothing else to contribute i dont think they even like me that much so!#anyway complaint over. genuinely i hope they have a nice time im just annoyed at being treated like that + probably projecting a bit too #its not like i could go if i wanted to anyway bc i have shit to sort out + mail to wait for. maybe next time invite me from the start huh #we had another old friend visit last weekend but those plans were really made without me too and i was just added bc i Live Here so its #kind of unavoidable. but oh well whatever it was nice to see them either way #im too depressed rn to fix my social life or even rely on existing coping strategies in social situations so im having to temporarily #cut it back bc i get too trigger sensitive + dont want to hurt myself or others bc of an arbitrary emotional overreaction #its usually one of the first things to go when im Going Thru It not in a self isolating way but more bc its one of the hardest things #for me to maintain + im pretty self sufficient so its not absolutely crucial. like of course i love my friends but socialising is a #want not a need yknow. eating/sleeping/exercising/hygiene are all more fundamental parts of the engine so i gotta prioritise them #and it sucks but ill survive. anyway sorry for venting on everyones dash so early in the morning i woke up grumpy 👎#i need to get breakfast and then go out. ughhhhhhh okay.#.vent

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halfdeadwallfly · 1 year ago

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my mom said she looked at my schedule (classes, rehearsal, etc), factored in sleep and an hour of personal free time, and told me that i have 82 hours of free time a week to work on homework and stuff

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#i get why #it's to tell me that when i say that i'm overwhelmed #i shouldn't be #because i have plenty of time #and if i'm struggling to get things done #it's because i'm managing my time poorly #which is fair #but i also seriously hate that she would literally calculate my time out like that #like i don't know #i'm probably overreacting #but for some reason it just feels like an invasion #not of privacy #like i can't exactly quantify what it is about this that's making me feel so shaken #it's not the actual time itself #because i know that i need to manage my time better #she already tells me that plenty #and also i'm the one living my life so i can see that already for myself #i just feel like i already am so on the hook for what i'm doing all the time #i love talking to my mom #but there's always a layer of judgement behind our conversations about what i'm doing and when and where and why #like it's not because i particularly have anything to hide #just that hovering feeling all the time #even though i live at school and i'm technically an adult #and i know i'm still basically a child and probably shouldn't expect that much like . autonomy? control? idk #i just feel like there's always a hand reaching in and pushing down on my life. like it's not entirely my life #i feel so self centered #but it's just such a weird twisty feeling #idk #boink

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bestofanimaniacs · 2 years ago

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Round 1 - Bracket 3:

#buttons and mindy #buttons #katie kaboom #this was originally supposed to be buttons vs. runt but this feels more fair I suppose #animaniacs #animaniacs 1993 #animaniacs best character poll #I'm not overreacting I'm a TEENAGER!

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