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i ordered a used textbook and let me just say that i don't think you should get to list used items as being in good (or even fair) condition if they're so soaked in patchouli oil that you can smell it from two rooms over.
#this is an Actual Problem#i have had really really bad reactions to patchouli oil in the past#and my textbook is causing me some issues with breathing and headaches
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playing with cute little kinetic sand on a tuesday night…
yeah i’m totally mentally stable.
#marauders#i can’t do anything without thinking about the marauders#this is an actual problem#ITS KINETIC SAND#wolfstar#jegulus#remus lupin#james potter#sirius black#padfoot#moony#send help#the brainrot is real
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Mental health win, my doctoral advisors want to give me every possible accommodation so I can graduate on time!
Mental health massive L, I am not used to it so I'm too embarrassed to ask for said accommodations!
#personal#juliusposting#grad school#phd#this is an actual problem#me: i wish i could work 4 days a week#supervisor: maybe working 4 days a week could help#me: ah no it's ok :)))))))#why am i like this
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If I see one more person take an mlm/wlw ship and genderbend one of them to make it straight I'm gonna implode
#this is an actual problem#it's thinly veiled homophobia#you're taking something queer and turning it straight because you like it better that way#because straight relationships are more palatable to you than queer ones#we have so little representation already#actually just stop it#it's so annoying#queer#mlm#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#lgbtqplus#queer issues#lgbtq rights#fan art#wlw#gay#queer representation#artists on tumblr#digital art#artwork#fanartist#art community#queer community
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i feel like you like reading books 📚
I DO!!! i looooooooove reading books. which is funny bc i have dyslexia. but that never stopped me lololol.
im also a very fast reader especially if im hooked. ill finish 100k+ word books and fanfics in a day. like ill go on tiktok for 20mins get bored and go read. i read when i eat, before i sleep, in study breaks, on transit (even tho it makes me sick), on road trips (even tho that also makes me sick), and i buy a special book before i go on any plane and i always finish the book on the flight. if i find a movie or show is from a book id rather read the book bc then i can control the pace in my head (exceptions being game of thrones bc i watched the show w my friends but asoiaf is amazing). ill read anything too: novels, novellas, short stories, comics, manga, manhua, webtoons, and anything in between.
#I AM AN AVID READER!!!#this isn't a flex#this is an actual problem#i got in loads of trouble for reading in class at school#like i had books confiscated from me#moots🫶🏼#asks#ask challenge
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The urge to dye my hair blue so I can finally stop trying to beat the blue hair and pronouns allegations
#tell me not to dye my hair#pls#i'm beggin you#last month I had to ask a friend to convince me not to get a buzz cut#this is an actual problem#plz
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this is so real. you know yourself better than anyone, and even if it is nothing, it is better than WAITING AND WAITING AND NO ONE TAKING YOU SERIOUSLY and plus, the imposter syndrome is real. venting a lol here but if u think u have ocd, and all your friends think you have ocd, and you can't convince your parent/gaurdian to just get you tested for ocd already it's not that hard, if it comes back positive I can finally freaking do something about it and be taken seriously, and if it comes back negative then HOORAY I DON'T HAVE OCD but now I know and I don't have to stress and have severe imposter syndrome over it and I can get back to my life
dear parents, if your child has "seemed fine this entire time" but is now seeking out diagnoses, mobility aids, medical help, more doctors, and is sharing their pain more. do not fucking shut them down? even if it ends up being nothing, showing them that support through all of that will seriously help them. if it ends up being something and you're a bitch to them, the joke will be on you and that strain on your relationship will never go away because. you didn't listen.
listen to kids. we tell you what we need, it's not that hard.
#just cause this is a vent doesn't mean it's not real#this is an actual problem#plz stop assuming u know your child better than they do#it's sooooo harmful#ok anyway um#yeah
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sorry i cant hang out i forgot how to mimic human like behaviour
#bpd blog#bpd fp#bpd mood#bpd problems#bpd shit#bpd stuff#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#actually bpd#bpd#borderline pd#borderline things#borderline problems#living with borderline#borderline blog#borderline thoughts#being borderline#borderline culture is#actually borderline#borderline personality disorder#bpd feels#bpd safe#bpd culture is
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My doctor and therapist: now with this autism + ADHD diagnosis you need to learn to unmask because masking all the time will make you burn out again and feel like shit
Other people: well it's just interesting how after getting the diagnosis you suddenly start behaving like that I mean I'm not saying you're faking it's just funny how you suddenly cannot be normal like you were before
#late diagnosed adhd#late diagnosed autistic#actually autism#autism spectrum disorder#actually autistic#autistic adult#autism#asd#adhd things#adhd problems#adhd brain#actually adhd#adhd#actually neurodivergent#neurodivergent
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yeah, sorry i exhibited symptoms of the disorder i told you i have. it will happen again because i have that disorder and will continue having it. hope this helps!! 🫶🫶🫶
#bpd#actually bpd#actually borderline#bpd vent#bpd safe#bpd thoughts#bpd problems#bpd blog#bpd mood#borderline personality disorder#actually mentally ill#cluster b#i don’t have access to treatment/meds 🫶#cluster a#cluster c#mental health#mental illness#disability
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#bpd#mental health#actually bpd#mental illness#bpd shit#actually borderline#bpd shitposting#bpd problems#bpd mood#bpd meme#autism#actually autistic#chronic pain#chronic illness
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"Are you ok?" I'm actually tired bro. From the bottom of my heart I'm tired
#bpd thoughts#bpd blog#actually bpd#bpd problems#bpd#bpd mood#bpd feels#bpd recovery#bpd meme#actually borderline#bpd stigma#bpd shit#bpd vent#bpd splitting#bpd stuff#bpd fp#borderline thoughts#living with borderline#borderline problems#borderline things#borderline pd#borderline blog#borderline personality disorder#borderline personality problems#life of a borderline#being borderline#bpd struggles#bpd symptoms#bpd triggers
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My biggest tip for fanfic writers is this: if you get a character's mannerisms and speech pattern down, you can make them do pretty much whatever you want and it'll feel in character.
Logic: Characters, just like real people, are mallable. There is typically very little that's so truly, heinously out of character that you absolutely cannot make it work under any circumstance. In addition, most fans are also willing to accept characterization stretches if it makes the fic work. Yeah, we all know the villain and the hero wouldn't cuddle for warmth in canon. But if they did do that, how would they do it?
What counts is often not so much 'would the character do this?' and more 'if the character did do this, how would they do it?' If you get 'how' part right, your readers will probably be willing to buy the rest, because it will still feel like their favourite character. But if it doesn't feel like the character anymore, why are they even reading the fic?
Worry less about whether a character would do something, and more about how they'd sound while doing it.
#I have a bit of a problem with giving everyone the same speech patterns but on god I try#Bc genuinely. This is the no. 1 most important thing while writing fanfic#If you can make a character sound like they would say that it doesn't matter if they actually would#My posts#Writing wise
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there’s something sooo sickening about how dunmeshis whole energy is like sometimes something terrible and awful happens to you and it changes you forever and nothing can make you the person you were before but there’s still love and there’s still sharing a meal together and there’s still living
#dungeon meshi#dunmeshi#it’s so AOUGH!!!#especially mithrun and falin and thistle#but everyone has some element of this#it’s also so important that the characters in majority DONT get what they want#marcille never gets to even out the lifespan between races#falin is never returned to her pre chimera state#mithrun never got to truly be the version of himself he want to be#like idk i could go on#but there’s smthn to the fact that not all the problems are fixed#and actually most of the time it’s better they aren’t#IDKKKK IRS JUST SO AOUGH
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instead of working on my research or homework or anything academic i have spent the entire day writing a romcom oneshot that will never see the light of day. why.
#this is an actual problem#i have a research meeting tomorrow and my progress report is going to be “haha nothing...?”#save me
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sorry i overreacted i had no idea everything would be fine
#bpd blog#bpd fp#bpd mood#bpd problems#bpd shit#bpd stuff#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#actually bpd#bpd#bpd feels#bpd culture is#bpd safe#living with borderline#being borderline#borderline culture is#actually borderline#borderline things#borderline problems#borderline blog#borderline pd#borderline thoughts#borderline personality disorder#overreacting#anxitey#anxi4ty
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