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i ordered a used textbook and let me just say that i don't think you should get to list used items as being in good (or even fair) condition if they're so soaked in patchouli oil that you can smell it from two rooms over.
#this is an Actual Problem#i have had really really bad reactions to patchouli oil in the past#and my textbook is causing me some issues with breathing and headaches
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i'm on two shots of nyquil so consequences mean nothing to me.
places where protesting would be effective:
outside of news stations
outside of luigi mango ones peison (he's innocent and shot one pan and charged with terrorism)
capitol protest
in hospitals, in regular office buildings, in schools
by libraries (because they're banning books, violation of second amendment)
gets signs, wear masks and ear protection, get a burner phone or lockdown your regular phone
get angry, get furious. they are taking away our rights blatantly and we need to do something fast.
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playing with cute little kinetic sand on a tuesday night…
yeah i’m totally mentally stable.
#marauders#i can’t do anything without thinking about the marauders#this is an actual problem#ITS KINETIC SAND#wolfstar#jegulus#remus lupin#james potter#sirius black#padfoot#moony#send help#the brainrot is real
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Mental health win, my doctoral advisors want to give me every possible accommodation so I can graduate on time!
Mental health massive L, I am not used to it so I'm too embarrassed to ask for said accommodations!
#personal#juliusposting#grad school#phd#this is an actual problem#me: i wish i could work 4 days a week#supervisor: maybe working 4 days a week could help#me: ah no it's ok :)))))))#why am i like this
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If I see one more person take an mlm/wlw ship and genderbend one of them to make it straight I'm gonna implode
#this is an actual problem#it's thinly veiled homophobia#you're taking something queer and turning it straight because you like it better that way#because straight relationships are more palatable to you than queer ones#we have so little representation already#actually just stop it#it's so annoying#queer#mlm#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtq community#lgbtqplus#queer issues#lgbtq rights#fan art#wlw#gay#queer representation#artists on tumblr#digital art#artwork#fanartist#art community#queer community
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this is so real. you know yourself better than anyone, and even if it is nothing, it is better than WAITING AND WAITING AND NO ONE TAKING YOU SERIOUSLY and plus, the imposter syndrome is real. venting a lol here but if u think u have ocd, and all your friends think you have ocd, and you can't convince your parent/gaurdian to just get you tested for ocd already it's not that hard, if it comes back positive I can finally freaking do something about it and be taken seriously, and if it comes back negative then HOORAY I DON'T HAVE OCD but now I know and I don't have to stress and have severe imposter syndrome over it and I can get back to my life
dear parents, if your child has "seemed fine this entire time" but is now seeking out diagnoses, mobility aids, medical help, more doctors, and is sharing their pain more. do not fucking shut them down? even if it ends up being nothing, showing them that support through all of that will seriously help them. if it ends up being something and you're a bitch to them, the joke will be on you and that strain on your relationship will never go away because. you didn't listen.
listen to kids. we tell you what we need, it's not that hard.
#just cause this is a vent doesn't mean it's not real#this is an actual problem#plz stop assuming u know your child better than they do#it's sooooo harmful#ok anyway um#yeah
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My doctor and therapist: now with this autism + ADHD diagnosis you need to learn to unmask because masking all the time will make you burn out again and feel like shit
Other people: well it's just interesting how after getting the diagnosis you suddenly start behaving like that I mean I'm not saying you're faking it's just funny how you suddenly cannot be normal like you were before
#late diagnosed adhd#late diagnosed autistic#actually autism#autism spectrum disorder#actually autistic#autistic adult#autism#asd#adhd things#adhd problems#adhd brain#actually adhd#adhd#actually neurodivergent#neurodivergent
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sorry i cant hang out i forgot how to mimic human like behaviour
#bpd blog#bpd fp#bpd mood#bpd problems#bpd shit#bpd stuff#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#actually bpd#bpd#borderline pd#borderline things#borderline problems#living with borderline#borderline blog#borderline thoughts#being borderline#borderline culture is#actually borderline#borderline personality disorder#bpd feels#bpd safe#bpd culture is
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My biggest tip for fanfic writers is this: if you get a character's mannerisms and speech pattern down, you can make them do pretty much whatever you want and it'll feel in character.
Logic: Characters, just like real people, are mallable. There is typically very little that's so truly, heinously out of character that you absolutely cannot make it work under any circumstance. In addition, most fans are also willing to accept characterization stretches if it makes the fic work. Yeah, we all know the villain and the hero wouldn't cuddle for warmth in canon. But if they did do that, how would they do it?
What counts is often not so much 'would the character do this?' and more 'if the character did do this, how would they do it?' If you get 'how' part right, your readers will probably be willing to buy the rest, because it will still feel like their favourite character. But if it doesn't feel like the character anymore, why are they even reading the fic?
Worry less about whether a character would do something, and more about how they'd sound while doing it.
#I have a bit of a problem with giving everyone the same speech patterns but on god I try#Bc genuinely. This is the no. 1 most important thing while writing fanfic#If you can make a character sound like they would say that it doesn't matter if they actually would#My posts#Writing wise
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Ok so, I just remembered how people in the comments of a tiktok video were being assholes, and I want to rant now :3
The video showed two wheelchair users at a train(?), who had just arrived to their stop to find nobody was there with a ramp so they could leave the train. One of them blocked the door so it wouldn't close, and this lasted for 15 minutes. The train was stopped for said 15 minutes. There was a button by the door, that said that it'd contact the driver when pressed. It didn't. People offered to go find the driver, and they came back with the news that there were no people in the platform to put the ramp. In the end, passengers had to go out, and place the ramp themselves, before the train could carry on. The wheelchair users had warned they were coming, and asked to have the ramp put there so they could get down. The platform turned out to have workers, they all just ran away because they'd never encountered the situation in which they needed to do this simple task.
Because of the workers' negligence, the train was forced to stop for 15 minutes.
Everyone's comments?
"Why did they block the doors and stop the train? So selfish" Selfish were workers who refused to do their job.
"What if someone had needed to get to their stop urgently? They shouldn't have stopped the train" It wasn't the disabled people's fault, it was the workers who were negligent.
"Why didn't they just wheel themselves down those steps?" They shouldn't have to risk their (expensive) chairs just because people didn't do what they were paid to do.
"If I had been in that train I would've been pissed, how dare you stop it" And you probably wouldn't have even thought about fixing the problem yourself, would you?
"Entitled assholes" Ok I'll leave you stranded in a train with everyone who could help you get down outright refusing to. Let's see who's an entitled asshole now.
If someone fights for accessibility, as much as it might be a bother for you, you do not have the right to be mad at them. If someone fights for accessibility, it is exclusively the fault of a world catered exclusively for able-bodied people.
So next time you think, "hey the consequences of these disabled people fighting for their rights bother me", instead of blaming them for this, help them solve the issue. This way, next time they will not have to fight at all.
Able bodied people, go out and fight for a fucking accessible world if you're not an asshole.
[ Able-bodied people are encouraged to reblog this post, but try not to derail ]
#i wouldnt have had any problems leaving that train because as much as im not abled i still look like it#but i still want to fight for my people's rights#and also i fucking hate ableist people#i dont have the tiktok but i can try to find it later if ppl ask idk#cripple punk#disability#accessibility#actually disabled#disability awareness#rant#first post ever to have an ID without the images trust /j
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I highly recommend a clingy, lovey-dovey partner. Life’s too short to be with someone who acts like showing love is a chore
#actually borderline#actually bpd#being borderline#borderline personality disorder#borderline problems#borderline things#bpd feels#bpd#bpd problems#bpd thoughts#love#relationships#relationship#relatable
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#bpd#mental health#actually bpd#mental illness#bpd shit#actually borderline#bpd shitposting#bpd problems#bpd mood#bpd meme#autism#actually autistic#chronic pain#chronic illness
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"Are you ok?" I'm actually tired bro. From the bottom of my heart I'm tired
#bpd thoughts#bpd blog#actually bpd#bpd problems#bpd#bpd mood#bpd feels#bpd recovery#bpd meme#actually borderline#bpd stigma#bpd shit#bpd vent#bpd splitting#bpd stuff#bpd fp#borderline thoughts#living with borderline#borderline problems#borderline things#borderline pd#borderline blog#borderline personality disorder#borderline personality problems#life of a borderline#being borderline#bpd struggles#bpd symptoms#bpd triggers
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there’s something sooo sickening about how dunmeshis whole energy is like sometimes something terrible and awful happens to you and it changes you forever and nothing can make you the person you were before but there’s still love and there’s still sharing a meal together and there’s still living
#dungeon meshi#dunmeshi#it’s so AOUGH!!!#especially mithrun and falin and thistle#but everyone has some element of this#it’s also so important that the characters in majority DONT get what they want#marcille never gets to even out the lifespan between races#falin is never returned to her pre chimera state#mithrun never got to truly be the version of himself he want to be#like idk i could go on#but there’s smthn to the fact that not all the problems are fixed#and actually most of the time it’s better they aren’t#IDKKKK IRS JUST SO AOUGH
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the devil couldn’t reach me so he made me feel like i dont belong anywhere.
#actually bpd#bpd feels#bpd thoughts#depressing shit#relatable#tw depressing thoughts#tasiblog#bpd#bpd safe#bpd stuff#actually borderline#borderline things#borderline problems#living with borderline#borderline blog#borderline thoughts#borderline personality disorder#bpd triggers#bpd blog#bpd problems#bpd vent#bpd life#bpd is a bitch#bpd issues#bpd struggles#bpd shit#bpd tumblr#bpd emotions#bpd mood#bpd brain
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ADHD Dyslexics of the World UNTIE!!! ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
SHOP NOW
#funny#lol#memes#fashion#adhd#actually adhd#adult adhd#adhd problems#adhd things#adhd brain#dyslexic#dyslexia
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