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Suspected (and possibly self diagnosed) NPD is having a second disorder that affects your NPD, so one criteria doesn't exactly fit (ex. having high empathy), but you're unsure, so now you're constantly worrying that you're faking having NPD even though it explains a lot of your feelings and behaviors.
(PS. please let me know if this is invalid or not!)
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#thats completely valid#comorbidities will almost always have an affect on the overall presentation of symptoms#npd culture is#questioning npd culture is#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b
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#my art#feralnette au#birds of a feather#long tags#sorry I went apeshit in the tags#LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW#I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO#its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical#and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread#as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational#in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away#and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do#shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again#legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it#but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings#alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird#she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her#knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself#between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot#and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo#essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that#busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way#to show her she's self sabotaging#cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD
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is that disney-esque artstyle, peter parker look alike PILOT RANDY CUNNINGHAM???
also ngl i kinda dig Viceroy II and Deputy Mayor Kranski
+bonus Bible designs
#rc9gn#randy cunningham 9th grade ninja#randy cunningham#howard weinerman#listen i am still weak and sick and that pilot and bible leak have been killing me over the weekend lol#i never was a die-hard fan of vasquez artstyle. i think its fun and cool to draw but my personal style is closer to the disney-esque thing#but ive got to admit that rc9gn wouldnt be rc9gn without it. randy is memorable and iconic instead of being lost in disney-styled cartoons#pilot and final product are like two completely different worlds and im in love with both of them. it is now ninja-verse in my head#also i am pointing at pilot like di caprio meme because THAT is very validating for me personally cause i constantly say rc9gn is old 2000s#cartoon vibes and thats why i group it with shows like dp adjl and kp etc instead of cartoons from its own decade#ALSO x 2 i have now adopted Kranski and Viceroy II yes they are now canon in my rc9gn verse lol Judge is ok too but i am more into Kranski#who is straight up ready to murder. we love evil ladies in this house
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thinks about how john watson and sherlock holmes find eachother in every universe. every. single. one. and they fall in love in them all.
#sherlock holmes#john watson#johnlock#does it count as johnlock?#like honestly in some adaptations it could definitely be romantic love#and quite a few other adaptations have them platonic and thats completely valid as well#love a good relationship
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Underrated part of the newer Drizzt books is introducing a bunch of new drow groups and going "yeah everyone mass migrated and went underground because Something Really Horrible Happened!" and a trilogy before that it was like "we all went underground originally because Something Really Horrible Happened!" and they dont like super elaborate on it
but if you know like, anything about the Crown Wars youre just kinda like. Oh yeah, that time like all the elves started beating the piss out of each other and caused a concerning amount of destruction and a massive rift that never healed and it's vaguely talked around as this GIGANTIC cultural shame. Yeah I can see why you guys were all like GOODBYE WE ARE GOING DEEPER IN AND WILL NEVER COME OUT AGAIN
#Like the whole point of Generations is that 'true' history is sort of an unreachable fallible thing#because enough time has passed that the truth has been almost completely obscured#but it's still funny to look at like#older lore and be like#YEAH IM PRETTY SURE I KNOW WHAT THIS WAS#AND FRANKLY THATS A VALID RESPONSE
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boss makes a dollar, i make a dime, that why i create a 'mech themed around a red fox and their hunting habits that can theoretically deal a 73 damage alphastrike on company time
#battletech#so red foxes hunt by jumping up and diving on their prey#so i thought “lets make a mech based on this” with reinforced legs and jumpjets for DFA#but then ig i got carried away with the weapons#and forgot what clantech was like#my go-to 50 tonners the crab and the centurion#can do 24 (Crab) and 30 (Cent) damage respectively#this 'Red Fox' (creative name ik) is also 50 tons#but 4x ATM-3s with HE ammo go off ig#(theres some lasers and SRMs aswell)#this is what happens when i stop staring at the pretty pictures and actually try making stuff (esp. with clantech)#that said; my complete lack of experience with the tabletop rules means this thing probably has some fatal flaw(s) that i dont know#megamek say its valid but it also says “Heat: 32/22” and something tells me thats not ideal
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sharing this here too.... Got up to ep 47 in the my s class hunters webtoon and asked a korean friend about Sung Hyunje's way of speaking bc i noticed he seemed to talk like an old man..... MFNSMDBSNN THIS IS AMAZING 😭😭🤭
edit: apparently there's a lore reason he talks like that that neither of us knew at the time... i appreciate everyone who's holding back from telling me what it is🫡
just to be thorough i asked about -군(-gun) too which is how SHJ calls HYJ (han yoojin-gun) (in ep 46-47 at least) (i believe the jp equivalent is -kun, which more ppl r prob familiar w)
#my s class hunters#msch#tsctir#the s classes that i raised#sung hyunje#s class liveblog#talk tag#oh btw another psa#SHJ's name is spelled sung hyunje (not sung hyunJAE)...#i literally just got to him btw I STARTED READING ONLY A FEW DAYS AGO#but yea i noticed on twt everyone was misspelling his name??? and then i found out its bc#the novel mtl that everyone uses spelled it wrong.... RIP😭#the thing is ㅐ(ae) and ㅔ(e) are completely diff vowels in kr (despite being pronounced the same)#theyre not interchangeable..!#so its not a case of yoojin vs yujin or yoohyun vs yuhyeon...#the last syllable is definitely je(제) not jae(재)#hyunje and hyeonje r both valid but not hyunjae/hyeonjae...#I FEEL RLY BAD CORRECTING PPL SINCE I *JUST* GOT INTO SCLASSES BUT... i hope more ppl can correct it from now on... mcndnfd#성현제#<--thats his name
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last thing i’ll say; people aren’t owed free content but creatives aren’t owed financial compensation either
#i say all this as a cretive btw lets head that off#their bottom line was ‘we want more money to make bigger things and we cant afford to so we want more money in order to do them’#and that is a valid desire#but you cant just expect everyone to go along with that just bc you want it#watcher got where they are due to a loyal viewer base#to reject money from corporations in favour of money from that viewer base? thats skeevy#to default to a complete and absolute paywall removing all your content then pretend that you weren't going to? thats skeevy#to make a countdown to an announcement then make the announcement a somber trip down memory lane#and an ‘if only we can make more stuff like this wink wink’? thats skeevy#and its skeevy bc theyre a company and no matter how personable they are companies are not your friend#are they the rich we should be eating? no#but when your ceo drives a tesla and eats expensive food that is written off as a buisness expense#AND you have a patreon that you dont capitalise on but still brings you on average 100k a month#you cant act like youre a hard done by creative#endevouring to make more elaborate creations is a good idea#monetisation is a good idea#absolute monetisation with no thought to an alternative isnt#name one indie artist that relies entirely on paid content ill wait#coming out of my cage and ive been doing just fine.txt#watcher#shane madej#ryan bergara#steven lim#hey there demons it’s me ya boy#ghost files
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i love how werewolves are a metaphor for so many things. queerness. trauma. menstruation. chronic illness. like... its the best fictional creature for a reason
#my post#werewolves#*me saying its the best is a personal opinion youre perfectly valid in thinking otherwise lol#ive been watching a show lately called being human#i tried watching it years ago but i was too young and all the sex and presumably all the blood was too much for me back then#and one of the main characters is a werewolf and his experience. at least in the first season. was resonating with me about trauma#also. i do like the wolf forms of the werewolves in this show! not the best but DEFINITELY not the worst.#if a wolf form is *too* wolf or *too* human its an instant fail#its gotta be a healthy middle ground#the 2nd season is kinda losing me on the metaphor for plot reasons but thats ok lol#my biggest issue is that it made me completely stop liking one of the characters because of how they changed for the worse
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wanna ask how you feel about the eridan bpd headcanon/theory(?? not sure what to call it!) you're so good at your character analysis and i'd love to see your outlook on it
Since I don't have a degree or any formal training in psychology, I feel deeply uncomfortable diagnosing characters. I've made an autism joke before but only because I'm on the spectrum. He's definitely traumatized and anxious, but I mean those as descriptors of his behavior rather than capital-D Diagnoses. I try to focus on those when I can - the cause and effect of cognition, self-image, and behavior - and those factors may very well match up with DSM criteria, but I try not to touch an actual diagnosis with a ten foot pole unless the author has explicitly stated that X character has Y condition.
#there's a variety of reasons for this#part of it is that im GROSSLY unqualified to be handing out diagnoses when it takes a full on PhD to do that in real life#part of it is that psychology is inchoate and we are still very much in murky waters#for example: complex ptsd isn't even IN the DSM yet#and iirc my therapist told me it was because theyre still figuring out how to classify it (attachment disorder? trauma disorder? etc.)#part of it is that (from my limited and undereducated understanding) there are diagnoses that you can assign by completing a checklist...#but some that require a hell of a lot more testing and ruling out other potential causes#and the cluster-b personalities are (IIRC) not even ones you're supposed to diagnose minors with#bc of fears of self fulfilling prophecy and because minors in general are still developing personalities In General#and like the fact that i can't say that with authority speaks to how unqualified i am to do any diagnosing right? hahaha#and part of it is just because like#unless the story is specifically About That and the author has stated so explicitly#i think diagnosing characters tends to put blinders on analysis#like if i were to seriously go 'eridan is autistic' then it would massively bias my reading and understanding of his character#and we have 0 indication that eridan was ever explicitly intended to be autistic or that the author was trying to do an autism specifically#that doesn't mean that the reading is invalid because like thats what death of the author means#all readings are technically valid including stuff the author didn't necessarily intend#but that's just not the way i like to engage with media and not the way i like to approach character analysis#because PERSONALLY it just feels kind of reductive - but also -#i'd wager MOST of us don't have degrees in psychology#so when i say 'X character has Y condition' it might mean something totally different to somebody reading my analysis#even people who have Y condition aren't exempt because a lot of mental illnesses differ from person to person#whereas if i explain “X character has Y thoughts and Z behaviors” there's no ambiguity in that#eridan struggles with noticing that people are suffering and with realizing that he should care#at least part of this is due to his horrific murder-filled upbringing which rendered empathy a detriment & so he learned to ignore it#it could be autism - but it could also be trauma -#or he might just be Like That without actually meeting the diagnostic criteria for autism#& you can't even technically be diagnosed with C-PTSD#or maybe he has a burgeoning personality disorder but you aren't supposed to DX those too early anyway#or maybe hes just 13. see what i mean hahaha. ive reached the 30 tag limit
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i made a turtlesona just for fun
supposed to be a common snapping turtle but also obvs a bulbasaur thus his name is Bulba
#art#my art#turtlesona#? i guess? if thats a tag ?#i had thought abt this for a while but having the raph in my icon drawn to represent me was so validating so i wanted to make a proper sona#like id tried to draw spidersonas but its hard w a weird sense of self#but this was more fun#i hope he looks lesbian enough w the cargo shorts alkdsja;#our pact has been completed helli 🤝
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oh my god people really are using the song Ptolemaea for literally anything
#I had already heard how the warrior cats people started using it for cat murder but i finally started getting the videos recommended#Why are there so many what are you guys dOING#Ive related that song with love-related abuse I faced and a character thats personal to me for said reasons so maybe Im unreasonably mad#But also?? Idk I think its kinda valid to be uncomfortable with people using a song about love motivated violence and abuse#To draw cats killing each other not every song should be used for your cat murder#Just completely plugging your ears and ignoring the meaning of the song just so you can go oooo spooky sounds#I enjoy personal interpretations but you guys do know people write song lyrics a certain way for a reason still right?#Right????
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Yall might have to bare with me on this one I'm not great at articulating my thoughts and although I'm neurodivergent I really don't have the proper terms to explain myself here
But like
Okay so it's very obvious that Eli is not neurotypical. I don't want to really get into specific diagnoses because I very much do not want to fall into the serial killer = mental disorder trope. It's a shitty trope and very harmful when handled poorly, especially with Cluster B personalities. Under no circumstances am I saying that Eli's mental condition is the cause of him being a serial killer. I am in fact trying to say the opposite.
TW for discussion of abuse and ableism
Basically, the crux of my argument lies with Eli's flashbacks in Vengeful, specifically when it comes to his father.
Eli mentions that the abuse started when he was around 9 years old because his father saw "the devil" in his eyes.
Eli's age at the time is very important. 9 years old. A literal child. Eli has done nothing wrong at this point aside from exist, and yet his father sees something wrong with him. It's possible that it was intended for Eli to have truly had some "evil" inside of him from the beginning, but it is far far more likely that Eli's father saw some kind of behavior out of the norm (we see that Eli was not a very expressive child. He had to learn all of those behaviors later on) and concluded that it hinted at some "hidden evil". We see those ideas reflected in our own society all the time, with apathy or lack of expression in face or vocal tone can be misconstrued or depicted as evil or heartless.
Eli was never evil or a bad kid. He was 9 years old. There was no devil in his eyes, he simply expressed himself in a way that was considered abnormal.
There's more I could say on this but I've run out of brain power. If anyone has any insight or ways they relate to Eli that they're comfortable talking about or even criticisms, I'm very open to discussion.
#there's also the argument to be made that Eli's quieter less expressive demeanor was a result of his trauma#and him having to learn how to mask by watching the kids around him could be less from neurodivergency and more from being isolated#and thats a completely valid and reasonable discussion#i feel like theres a lot of discussions that could be had about Eli#regarding ableism and religion and abuse and trauma and the dangers of predjudice and cycles of abuse#im definitely not the most qualified to talk on this#so if i get anything wrong feel free to correct me#but i am of the firm belief that there was nothing “wrong” with Eli before the abuse started#whether the reason was that Eli acted “abnormally” or that his father was just just doing what he did because he's a pos#vicious ve schwab#vengeful ve schwab#villains series#eli ever#eli cardale#vicious#vengeful
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Guys I understand the gatekeepers now like y’all didnt even know who spiderpunk was let alone his name till a few months ago STAY AWAY FROM HIM
#this is about white ppl btw#not to be toxic but if u have EVER said violence isn’t the answer hobie isn’t for u#if ur a liberal or centrist hobie isn’t for u#if u get mad at black ppl calling out racism hobie isn’t for u#if u tone police black ppl hobie isn’t for u#if u say informing ppl of lace code bc it’s dead doesn’t matter hobie isn’t for u#if u ever called miles a thief or even entertained that hc hobie isn’t for u#if UR WHITE HOBIE ISNT FOR U#thats only the start of my list#pretending that idc that I KNEW HIM FIRST NONE OF YALL CARED WHEN I WAS IN THE TRENCHES WITH MY THREE PUNKFLOWER FICS#😐😑😐#anyways…#that was a lil too toxic#but in conclusión#not excited for the influx of white hobie fans#who will say shit like ‘guys maybe violence against the oppressor isn’t bad! spiderverse taught me that :)’ and be completely serious#or even ‘i like hobie but he was too mean’#AND THATS ALL ASSUMING MARVEL DOESNT FUCK HIM WITH THEIR LIL COPAGANDA BOTH SIDES ARE VALID THING#like Im still half convinced they’re gonna do that thing where he overreacts to every little thing to make anarchism look stupid#so far it’s looking good but u never know#anyways.
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wow some of y’all really dont even want to give bit city a try huh :/
#i can understand favoring some parts more than others#or thinking it will only get better from here#those are all subjective opinions and thats valid#but to write off bit city completely after One episode is…..#not gonna tag this properly bc this is more of a rant/reaction
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I think Emet-Selch should meet Ardyn JUST BECAUSE of how deeply unimpressed he would be. It would be healing for me, specifically.
#ffxiv#'oh my. you took a nap for 2000 years. how unfortunate.'#chrost I dislike ardyn. every moment i am seeing him is odious.#if u dislike emet-selch thats completely valid but it could be so much worse
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