#stealthing

[gwydionmisha]

CW: Rape

[transenbyconfessions]

Is it wrong that I want to live completely in stealth? I’ve even lied to friends about it because I just want to be seen as a guy and not a trans guy.

Submitted June 12, 2023

[flawlessstriker]

Naruto Kinktober 2023 Day 12 - Root - Stealthing - Athletics AU @narutokinktober

Did another collab with my bf @damien-wolfram-art for today. His post is right over here!

[damien-wolfram-art]

You Saved Me

Guided by the intel he coerced from a shinobi at the entrance, Kakashi ran through the winding underground hallways of Danzo Shimura's Foundation. He had only one goal in mind– Kinoe. He had to find him quickly before something terrible happened to him.

Rounding a corner, he saw the door he was looking for. It was large, blue, and metal– the type you’d find in a medical building. Inside it, was his goal.

Under a bright medical lamp and strapped down to an exam chair, was Kinoe. His gray padded uniform matched Kakashi’s, and his long brown hair was pinned uncomfortably under his back. He rushed over to check if he was alright. Thankfully, he found that he was indeed breathing.

He was, however, heavily under the influence of a genjutsu. Kakashi intertwined his fingers and formed the sign of the snake. “Release!” He barked and then unshackled the younger teen from his restraints. “Let’s get outta here.”

Kinoe slowly opened his eyes and looked to his savior. He seemed dazed. “Kakashi?” He greeted; his voice cracked with confusion. “What are you? Why are you?” He stammered.

“No time,” answered Kakashi, checking out the exit. “Are you okay?”

“What? No no…I don’t feel great. Danz-” Kinoe’s words caught in his throat. His body wouldn’t move. He couldn’t finish his sentence.

“Kinoe?” Kakashi turned to see his friend looking defeated. He paced over and Kinoe pointed to his tongue. There was a curse mark there, preventing him from speaking. “I’m so sorry,” Kakashi said, gently caressing his cheek. “We’ll figure it out. For now, let’s go.”

The two ran out of that place together. There were a couple of hitches, but ultimately Friend Killer Kakashi managed to save his friend from that awful place. He brought him out of the darkness of The Foundation to the surface where he could feel the light and mentored him as his leader in Team Ro. This wouldn’t be the first or last time he’d save him either. 

On Team Ro, Kinoe used the name, Tenzo. It was a name he'd chosen on a whim, but Kakashi was stubborn and insisted he use it. Over time, the two got close– very close. Kakashi became very acquainted with Tenzo’s behaviors and unfortunately because The Third Hokage, Hiruzen, had been lenient with Danzo, the curse mark on Tenzo’s tongue had never been lifted. 

Kakashi caught Tenzo with his mouth open, prodding it in the bathroom mirror. He could tell he was still self-conscious about it. Instead of commenting on it though, Kakashi walked on by, keeping his nose in his favorite book, “Make Out Paradise”. Tenzo blushed, knowing that he had been seen and closed his mouth quickly. He followed Kakashi down the hall. “Captain?” He called.

“Hm?” Kakashi pivoted on a heel to face his teammate, not lifting his face from his book. It was beginning to get particularly spicy. “What is it, Tenzo?”

“Sorry about that.”

“That?”

“You were going to the restroom, right? I uh…was in the way.”

It was painful to see Tenzo so out of sorts. Kakashi sighed, closing the book, “come with me.”

“Ah, y-yes captain!” Tenzo stuttered. Kakashi brought him to a vacant locker room and locked the door behind them. Tenzo continued further in before turning around. “Uh Kakashi?”

“Let me see it.”

“What?” Tenzo asked. His face was getting redder.

The right eye of his fluffy white-haired captain almost never looked more than half open. Tenzo could never change that fact, even now. Kakashi looked just as unamused as ever. He breathed another slow sigh and clarified, “your tongue. Let me see it.”

“Wh-why would you? What if someone sees?”

“I’ve been doing undercover missions for years. You think I don’t know how to lock a door?”

“Well, no, of course not…”

“Then open up,” Kakashi ordered.

Tenzo did. Kakashi then bent down to take a look. Sure enough, on Tenzo’s squirming tongue was Danzo’s curse mark– five lines with the last two broken to form the shape of an arrow pointing toward the tip. The younger teen was getting redder by the second. “Looks fine to me,” Kakashi concluded nonchalantly.

“W-what!? Captain!” Tenzo protested.

“In fact-” Kakashi grabbed Tenzo’s face and while he was too close to focus on, pulled down his mask to kiss him. Without a moment of thought Kakashi’s tongue was in his mouth, entwining with his. It was all so fast. He was remasked and had his book open again before Tenzo even knew it.

From then on, Tenzo was no longer embarrassed of his curse mark; Kakashi had saved him again. He watched Kakashi walk away from him, and his mind began to wander. What would it feel like to let it touch more of his captain?

Part of a collaboration with @flawlessstriker

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@narutokinktober

@bitchbot3000

[genderqueerdykes]

Anon who asked about stealthing as male here, I'm already well into my transition to where everyone around me only knows me by my preferred name (it's still in the process of being legally changed) save for those who knew me before I transitioned, and T has already gotten my voice to where it's incredibly deep even for a man. I don't wear anything flashy or brightly colored already due to it not being to my tastes (but my hair is streaked with an unnatural color). My hips haven't given me away to the best of my knowledge (in fact, when I was only a few months on T there was someone who literally couldn't tell I was trans until I ended up bringing it up, they were genuinely shocked), I don't actually think I had much hip or butt to begin with. I do already bind regularly as you say.

Really my only concern amongst the stuff you brought up is that I'm solely mlm, I have no attraction toward women at all. But at the same time I've never felt like being gay has made anyone wonder if I'm trans??? But maybe that's because I tend to fit really well into the more traditional definition of masculinity in terms of presentation, mannerisms, and hobbies. I guess I should also account for being in a very liberal area (I've never left the west coast of the US, which is largely liberal/accepting).

I guess maybe, to get more specific with my question, I wanted to know how I might know if stealthing is for me and what other information about myself to withhold that might clue someone in. Is it possible to stealth if I ever wanted to say, stream on Twitch (even if I accidentally become popular) or cosplay (I do plan on top surgery btw) and remain stealth? Do I need to understand a lot about AMAB anatomy? Do I HAVE to come out in order to hook up with another guy? Or at any other times? Generally stuff like what I need to hide, and if there's any point where I can't be stealth and how to navigate that.

(posting w/o comment as it's not needed, thank you so much for your response it's much appreciated! good luck out there, stay safe)

[no-barbarians-here]

[merv606]

Speaking of "I'll try and pull out sweetheart.. Oops, your tight juicy [👀] wouldn't let me..!" makes me think of Terry lying to Daniel that he's wearing a condom or taking it off when he's got Daniel in doggy and drooling into the pillows, too over stimulated to notice Terry taking it off and going back inside raw.

Got to love the (wrong) hot idea of Terry “blaming” Daniel for the reason Terry came inside him - “you just felt too good/tight around me baby.”

He’d probably follow up with - “I know you liked it.”

Also can we take a minute to appreciate that Daniel telling Terry something and Terry saying I call bullshit you liked it is CANON! What a time to be alive lol

This idea has crossed my mind many times and it wars with my near unshakeable head canon that Terry would just flat out tell him “I take you bare” - and that he would never wear a condom inside his Danny boy - always prefers to come inside him too.

When Daniel complains about cleanup - maybe Terry has him bent over something five minutes before they’re supposed to be at some charity thing Terry’s company is putting off - who can blame Terry - Daniel looks so good in his fitted suit ….. then he pulls out - unless he’s in the mood to hear Daniel bitching about Terry leaking out of him all night (and some nights he does - just smirking 😏 as Daniel rants, shifting around in his chair) - and if he complains enough well, he’ll get another load inside in the bathroom …. (It’s the game they play). Terry had gotten good and knowing the real complaining and the fake complaining - if he really was in a mood and tried it - he’d lose his 🍆.

But back to the Stealthing thing.

Terry rolling on the condom and then getting into position behind him, would he push in first then after a few thrusts pretend to slip out on accident and remove it before pushing back in - or would he peel it off as soon as he was in position behind him - out of sight - wanting to be bare the minute he’s inside.

I can see him though, if it’s the wearing it for the first few thrusts before peeling it off then pushing inside bare now, saying stuff like:

“Feel so good - so warm and tight - so fucking wet for me. Like I knew you would be.”

Of course, he’s going harder and faster now, knowing that there is nothing between him - that it’s Daniel he feels wrapped so snug around his cock - no barriers.

Anyway - whatevery he does, it’s after they’ve come and he’s pulling out, cock as wet with cum as Daniel’s hole.

“I think it broke baby,”

“What?”

“The condom. I think it broke.”

Now if it is KK Daniel he assures Daniel he’s clean and does a test to prove it to him as well - if it is KK Daniel - Terry was his first.

But he would use that to later convince Daniel to just forge the things -

In ABO KK Daniel well then it’s Daniel asking, panicked, “what am I going to do?” He’s not on birth control - can’t spare the money with trying to keep the business afloat.

Terry corrects him - “what WE will do is see if it took and if it did I’m going to take such good care of you and the pup, Danny. Don’t you worry your head about that.”

That was Terry’s MO after all - make Daniel into his little house omega - always pupped up.

In CK well - he assures Daniel he’s clean and he assumes Daniel is as well considering he had slept with no one but Amanda during their marriage - Daniel admitting that to Terry. He was both nervous yet excited to finally be exploring his feelings for the older man. Now that him and Amanda are done, he’s the first person who Daniel has slept with but fair is fair - they both get tested and after that well no need for condoms then is there?

“I think you liked me coming deep inside you? Didn’t you?”

And he did - cue Daniel’s creampie kink 😈

Terry gets some new arsenal for his dirty talk - calling him, “my little cum slut,” or “act so prim and proper but you just want it raw don’t you?”

Always asking Daniel because he wants him to admit to it - “do you want me to come inside you baby? Fill up this needy little pussy like it needs?”

If it’s ABO CK - it’s probably Daniel not really thinking he can get pregnant now at his age - but low and behold, one morning, sleeping in Terry’s arms he wakes up, bolting to the bathroom, just making it in time.

Terry wakes up - he always does when Daniel isn’t near - and grabs something from the drawer - handing it to him - a pregnancy test.

“You can’t be serious? Terry I’m too old it’s probably something I ate ….”

“Humour me,” he says as he takes it out of the package - although he already knows what it’s going to tell them - that Terry will have his legacy and now Daniel is never getting away from him - they’ll be tied together forever by that little miracle growing deep and safe inside Daniel.

“Why do you even have that?” He asks, taking it just to prove Terry wrong - there is no way he’s pregnant / they’re both too old.

Terry doesn’t tell him it’s because he can smell he’s pupped up - he knew it within a week of him taking Daniel bare.

Terry is the one smirking and Daniel shocked when the test tells them Terry is about to be a first time father and Daniel again.

Now - there’s also the ABO trope of Terry poking holes in the condom ……..

[cis-hunting-trans-girl]

Good god, please coax me to open my legs for you by saying you'll wear a condom, then work it off and cum deep inside me, right before I reach the edge. Use my cunt as a fleshlight you can pour load after load into, then tell me you're spent and pull out after coating my cervix with seed. Don't let me cum - make me desperate to ride you and breed myself unknowingly on your girlcock

This is why I love fucking people from behind. It really is so easy to stealth someone, she won't question why you pulled out and aren't putting it back in for like 10 seconds. Little do they know I'm rolling off the condom and maybe even putting it on her back. She doesn't care about that feeling because as soon as she thinks about it you've already thrust into her, harder than ever.

I'll do like you say at first. I'll even let you put the condom on my cock. And then when you spread your legs, I'll lean up so you don't have a chance to look down and work out what I'm doing. Then, once I'm fucking you with my bare cock, I'm not gonna hold back and will use your tight cunt for what it was made to do: make me cum. Once you feel how wet it gets between your legs, it's not like you can stop me from fucking you anyway. And once I'm all out of cum, your cervix will be covered in it. Isn't it pathetic that you didn't reach a climax and still want to come back to me?

[sexualrevoluti0n]

Personal crappy venting stuff. Content warning for sexual assault. No graphic details of the actual sex acts, but lots of talk about the feelings and situations surrounding it. Please skip if you're not in a good place to read this.

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So I've been free from my ex for a while now and am extremely happy with friends and a partner who treat me well, celebrate my queerness instead of forcing me to hide and suppress it, and have generally been re-engaging with friends and hobbies that I ended up isolating myself from as the relationship got worse and more controlling. I haven't had any depressiony or anxious thoughts in a good 9 months now. That stuff is all great.

But also since I've been feeling more safe and relaxed and able to deal with things I've been remembering more things and more details of effects that I had blocked out, and have been realising quite how awful things had become. I was making excuses for everything and the ex would always make everything out to be my fault, even the multiple times he sexually assaulted me.

The first time was about 2 years into our relationship, and he blamed it on his autism not being able to understand signals and body language, (despite me having used words and been very clear) he kept going on about what a monster he was so that I would be forced to confort and reassure him, and would never actually talk about how I felt and how we could ensure communication wasn't misread like that in future. Just constantly made me reassure him and would never reassure me or talk about steps to ensure it wouldn't happen again. I never really got past that and we hardly ever had sex for years because I couldn't feel safe around him. He would never agree to counselling or talking things through ourselves and if I brought it up would do the whole making himself the victim who needed comforting again.

Something I had blocked out was that during our last week together he assaulted me again, but this time there was no misunderstanding, I was clearly saying I didn't want to do anything at all, and he forced himself on me and just kept going despite me constantly saying no, and then when I was crying he did the whole making himself the victim again who needed comforting.

He assaulted the new partner too that week by not using agreed-upon protection with them while they were apparently dissociating and not aware of what was happening, and then came to me crying about what to do, and I had to confirm him and literally force him to agree to talk about it with them and make sure they were ok. He would have just ignored it and hoped they had forgotten otherwise.

Ugh I've literally just now while writing this remembered that during a group time together that week, I reminded him to get protection to use with the new partner, and they both just told me that it was ok, they didn't need it in the most casual way possible, and just carried on. But they had never had that discussion with me, neither of them had taken std tests (despite us all agreeing to and me doing so and sharing my results with them), and they just sprung that on me in the middle of a sex session when I didn't feel able to stop to have a talk about this because everything was already happening and they'd been not using protection behind my back already without asking, but whenever I asked to have talks about things I was made out to be oversensitive or trying to spoil people's fun rather than just being a responsible adult.

And then new partner also assaulted me during that last week together.

I hadn't negotiated much about what was ok sexually with the new partner, because we'd had very little time together and had only done making out before, but when I was having a non-verbal episode because my pain was extremely high, I asked them via typed message if we could do a single specific thing that sometimes helps with my pain. Nothing else. They agreed, but then proceeded to do multiple things that we'd never talked about and that I'd not consented to or ever done with anyone else, involving my ex in this as well and talking together about me in ways I had never OK'd with either of them. I wasn't able to tell them to stop due to having lost speech at the time and being physically unable to move due to the positioning they had done to me that I hadn't agreed to.

This all got brought up again this weekend because a friend let me know that one of them might be at an event I was going to go to. Things have changed now and they won't be, which I'm grateful for, but I've been feeling scared and unsafe in my bed again where it all happened and unable to get to sleep. I've brought some of these things up with a friend who was been really supportive, but I'm still so fucking ashamed and embarrassed. I know I don't need to be, I know its not my fault, I know I'd tell literally anyone else in the world that its not shameful, that the people who actually did this should be the ones who are ashamed, but I can't let go of this feeling and I don't want to tell anyone else about any of this, but I also don't want to have the possibility of running into either of them again. I hate the idea of telling friends about this and being labelled as a jilted ex who is trying to drag people's names through the mud because we broke up in a painful and messy way. I feel like because I didn't talk about it at the time it would seem disingenuous or made up? God I hate this.

So it's 4:30am and I'm writing this all out because I can't sleep so I might as well get my thoughts out somewhere because maybe if they're not in my head I'll be able to get some rest, and if not it's better than lying in bed with all the memories going round. And Tumblr is a good void to shout into. If you've read this far, thank you. You should go look at something cute or funny. Look after yourself 💜

[rantsintechnicolor]

Speculation: Hal as a serial stealther

Hal is very charming. It isn’t hard to get a woman to sleep with him. He loves sex. He has a lot of it. He’s an excellent partner for it. He’s a responsible partner for it, always getting regular STI tests, checking in with his partners, etc. He’s GGG (#savage lovecast): giving, game, and what’s the other G? Oh. Good, Giving, and Game. And Hal is a really good guy. A conscientious neighbor. A good son. A person that sets a good example and wins awards for it. But in one aspect, he is not so good. The thing he most loves about sex? They are trying to pass laws criminalizing what he loves to do, which is take off his condom during intercourse. 

It’s not that it feels better without the condom, because when the condom is warmed up, it feels just fine. He absolutely hates the myth that sex is better without a condom. What are those people doing; double bagging??? They probably just don’t know how to pick the right size condom.

So why does he do it? Why does he take the condom off if it’s not for better sensation? It’s because he wants children. Lots of them. Hundreds of fat children. His seed with the right woman-- women, rather-- the women he chooses, will make strong babies able to survive in what the world is becoming. 

When he chooses a woman, they are attractive, obviously. They aren’t all gorgeous, but there is always something about them, something special. He chooses good, responsible women that want kids someday. He doesn’t worry too much if they are single. He doesn’t worry too much if they are married, either. He chooses women that have families or money or family with money, some safety net that won’t put the women at the mercy of the government that doesn’t appear to want to take care of them anyway. 

He meets them at mixers, on the internet, film festivals, and through friends of friends. He’s stealthed them in hotel rooms, convention center bathrooms, movie theaters, cars, their home garages, broom closets, and once an isolated copse of trees in a public park. Sometimes just once, sometimes all night long. He’s had sex with hundreds of women all around the world, but only removed his condom in countries where abortion is allowed; he believes in the right to choose. He guesses about fifty percent of the women he ejaculates into keep the baby if it’s conceived. Those are pretty good odds. 

As you might imagine, he doesn’t bring up female contraception much in conversation; he does insist on using a condom even if he is just going to take it off-- a useful misdirection. If he finds out they are on the pill or have an IUD, he can’t help but be a little less interested. He expects that more than half the women he’s had sex with are on some type of birth control if they don’t mention it. It lowers the odds of conception, but there is always a chance the method of contraception will fail. He does love a chance to beat the odds.

He sometimes marvels that women have not caught him doing this or tracked him down to tell him about their pregnancies. If they realized it was him, which is unlikely because they think he is using a condom, they might have trouble finding him, honestly; his legal name is pretty common. Though he does sometimes keep track of them, even checks in to say, “hey hey,” once in a while. Mostly, he doesn’t know how many times he’s been a father, but there are a few children out there that he suspects might be his. 

It’s not that he doesn’t want to raise a baby. He absolutely does want kids of his own one day. It’s just, right now he doesn’t have time. He’s too busy working on his other legacy, trying to be the next great film director. It’s so much harder for a person of color to break into that old white boys club, but he loves the challenge and he refuses to die without having tried.

The overturn of Roe v. Wade has him spooked; it may not change the odds of him getting laid or conception but, remember, he is concerned that women have the choice. The laws that criminalize stealthing have spooked him more. While women have never called him out on removing his condom, that doesn’t mean they haven’t noticed. Now, they might start to say something. Now that the law might listen to them more, he is in more danger of being caught. Criminal charges would absolutely destroy his career, and what he was doing was almost worse than Harvey Weinstein. And that high feeling of a successful stealth-- where else is he going to get that feeling? How will he fill this need without getting in trouble?

He is starting to think he might need to settle down. He is getting older and while he loves fucking younger women (actually, he loves fucking a huge age range) he is not sure he wants one as a partner to raise children with. He thinks he would prefer someone his age, and a woman nearing the age of forty, well, pregnancies are more risky. But yeah, settling down and looking for the mother of his children might be the safest thing to do. And then they could role play the stealthing. Maybe that would be fine… for a while.

What about Hal’s secret wife? The woman he married so she didn’t have to go back to her tumultuous home country, the one he doesn’t tell anyone about? Well, she doesn’t want kids. He loves her. They are best friends. But that is not enough. She made her choice, and it unfortunately doomed their marriage. As for his proclivity, of course she knows nothing about it. They don’t live together, and Hal doesn’t bring his women home to his mom. Nobody knows. And Hal would like to keep it that way.

[themetalhiro]

Awkward.

[certifiedsexed]

I'm so sorry for not mentioning this in the first post, Anon, but what that guy did to you is quite literally a type of rape in case you didn't know. It's called stealthing and an explicit violation of consent.

Do you know anything about emergency contraception for bigger folk? The guy I was sort-of seeing slipped the condom off on me earlier and I am freaking out because my BMI is in the 40s and I've heard that the usual things aren't effective when you're this big. I've tried reading about it but some places say buy two doses, some places say that doesn't help and I don't know what's correct.

Some!

Here's the thing, Anon. Some emergency contraception aren't as effective for fat/bigger folks, you're right. But its debatable by how much.

It's still worth taking emergency contraception! And if you have the option, take two! It's not proven that's definitely helpful but it has been helpful in some cases, so if you can, go the fuck ahead. It's very unlikely to hurt you.

Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions. <3

[dannymans66]

He spends half his surgeon salary in merchandise

Little continuation to this post, kind of

[merv606]

So, first time in Mercy, Terry will be very anti-condoms? Either he takes Danny bare or not at all? I wonder how Daniel feels about that (because we all know he has no choice). Lol

Well, I HC Terry as someone who, with Daniel anyway, would flat out refuse to wear one - it’s bare whenever he’s inside Daniel.

Even when Daniel grouses about cleanup - Terry’s compromise is to pull out inside of coming inside him - something he still doesn’t always follow through on.

Now, in Mercy - you can bet he’s not wearing a condom.

The only way I could see him wearing one is to appease Daniel but then stealthing him - cock falling out only for him to slip the condom off before fucking back in and when he comes, it’s simply, “oops the condom must have broke.”

And it wouldn’t be an in the moment decision - he would probably know Daniel is going to demand a condom and he already knows he’ll agree, knowing he’s going to remove it anyway.

By the time Daniel is willing to let Terry have him like that though - the fact that Terry isn’t wearing a condom won’t even register really.

[cis-hunting-trans-girl]

If there's a crime worse than denying me your cunt, it's asking me to use a condom. Yeah, of course I will. I've got some right here. Don't worry about me poking any holes in them, or even just taking them off while I'm fucking you.

[baddywronglegs]

So I'm looking through the changes in the 2024 D&D players' handbook and this catches my eye.

I'm sorry go over that bit again?

Uh huh...

"I'm going to roll stealth to sneak in undetected."

"OK, how do you see that working?"

"I am very angry."

"... And that helps you how?"

"Ah, I see"

shaking dice "Oh do you now..."