#stand to pee device ftm

[translgbtq]

Budget-Friendly Best STP Packers For FTM Trans Guys, And Others

Packing is a very common habit of FTM trans, non-binary, and others. The habit can’t make in a day. It takes years. While we start the FTM transition, we were so much about which STP packers we can use for daily life and which packers we can use for playing. Time changes. We start knowing and gathering the knowledge about how we trans guys and other guys can comfortably pack an STP packer for a…

[havinganormalone]

Independent Sex Toy Creators

Since Etsy is being a little bitch and banning sex toys, I wanted to make a reference list of independent sex toy creators. This is by no means exhaustive- literally thousands of sellers are getting screwed by this nonsensical puritanical bullshit- this is merely creators that caught my eye as people I might want to spend money on at a future date. I will be avoiding Etsy for even sfw purchases in the future, since this policy is out of hand and is going to disproportionately impact queer, trans creators. Because that is the way these things always work. Anyways, here's a list of artisans I don't want to lose.

Fantasticocks: Makes monster dildos, ftm strokers, eggs, and other goodies. I have bought from here, and am always in love with the pours- offers UV reactive stuff. Ohio based.

Odyssey Toys: They make some THICK boys. Firm grinders you can strap to things, inflatable knots, plugs. A lot of tentacles and a more old school swords and sorcery feel. UK based.

Chillow Fantasy: Makers of the Penis Fly Trap. Silly, memey sex toys. Michigan based.

Kreature Toys: They sale dildos that have a suction hole for fuck machines. Monster dildos. Michigan based.

Kinky Kreatures: Monster dildos. Sells knot sheaths and grinder gloves, as well as more standard toys. Australia based.

Frisk Toys: Ejaculating dildos. UK based.

Love Smiths: Monster toys, from dildos to butt plugs, with a wide variety of creative strokers. France based.

Okova: Sells tail plugs, including things like devil tails, horse tails, fox tails, etc. A very white variety, from whimsical to realistic, with good quality fur. Ukraine based.

Where is Willy: Specialist shop for FTM packers/strokers. Has strap on harnesses. Also has a line of binders in the works. Poland based.

TranZWear: Packers and stand to pee devices, medial grade materials, an emphasis more on utility than sex. Also sells binders, boxers for packing, and pumps. California based.

Xenocat Artifacts: Alien inspired toys, like double knotted dildos or tentacles. Also has furry explicit body pillows. Bought from them at a furry convention and the person in the pup hood working the booth was helpful and actually bothered to ask my pronouns, something that almost never happens to me (people assume I am she/her).

Primal Hardwere: Has sheaths, inflating dildos, and molds for gelatin eggs. More old school leather culture feel. US based. They made my favorite toy, a glow in the dark knotted sheath.

Tails of Fantasy: Tail plugs on a branch that is designed to have a more realistic placement than your typical tail plug. Also sells collars and ears. New York based.

Naughty Indulgence: Cheaper end sex toys and glass toys. Veteran owned.

BonBDSM: Silicone tail plugs, hoods, furred harnesses, medical fetish play. Thailand based.

FetFashions: Sells clothing that says things like Breed Me, Daddy, Slut, etc. The sort of thing etsy is trying to ban, so it's good to know a place that will do this.

These might be safe under the new TOS, as they are non-insertable BDSM gear, but at this point avoid shopping on Etsy whenever possible.

LeatherBond: Floggers, whips, restraints, all boasting made from real leather.

The Latex Store: Sells latex penis sheaths as well as some inflatable gags and other latex clothing.

Wruff Stuff: Animal hoods- of the puphood variety, but with a much wider selection, including pig, dragon, fox. Made of a neoprene material. I own one, it is more breathable than leather, and the design draws the eye. UK based.

Creative Kink: Paddles, canes, knives- both dull and sharpened. Pennsylvanian based.

Once again, this list is by no means exhaustive, and is mostly meant for my own personal reference. However, if you have a sex toy creator and you want to promote their stuff, feel free to drop a reference in the reblogs.

[r0gue-taxidermy]

PACKERS AND PACKING INFORMATION AND REVIEWS:

Cw: prosthetic male genitalia/penises for informational purposes only 

I’m going to start this by first introducing myself so hello I’m Jackson I’m a plus size ftm trans teenager and I’m going to go over the best and easiest way to pack as a trans dude

You may be asking what a packer is? Well a packer is a gender affirming tool that creates or mimics a bulge or a penis which may seem like it’s a thing meant for adults but actually it’s very useful for everyone it helps with dysphoria or even just helps if your wanting to appear more masculine

Another thing that will be mentioned are STPs; STP stands for stand to pee device which do make it possible to as said stand to pee which can go from looking realistic or just being a cup with a tube

so I will be ranking my favorite packers/STPs/packing alternatives and will include where to find and price ranges and packing ability’s. If you have any questions either message me or comment them down below! Starting off strong with number one my favorite packer is

1. STP FREELY:

This is my favorite STP packer it’s 3.5 inches long and is a SOFT packer with a wide brim cup with a lip so no worry about spills or anything made with a skin safe soft silicone , definitely more of an affordable packer + STP it ranges from 45-50$ and it comes in 5 different skin tones! there is a XL Version of this packer that is 5 inches that I have not tried that is 50$ (you can also buy the XL rod which turns this into a pack and play “toy” for around 16$) and both xl and regular come with the option of being circumcised or non circumcised which I think is a neat feature! This packer also requires a harness ! I recommend the cake bandit packing harness it’s comfortable and not too tight. you can find both of these on TransGuySupply.com

Packing ability:9/10 definitely my favorite packer I’ve owned packs very well

Looks:9/10 nice weight, decently realistic but there are definitely better packers on the market but overall a wonderful packer

Stp ability: 10/10 very easy to get used too, big cup with a lip and semi realistic urethra hole

Can’t stress how much I love this packer will buy again

2. EZ bulge:

Here’s a cheap simple packing option for people who want to try out packing as it’s a foam insert made of a thicker foam material that you put In your boxers, these usually range from 5-10$ which isn’t bad the only downside is that they are stiff and if your bigger like me it will rub against your thighs and become uncomfortable and there’s definitely pros and cons for this packer like it’s latex or silicone free but it is kind of stiff and hard to position you can get this packer from transguysupply.com or Etsy!

Packing ability: 7/10 it works but is kind of uncomfortable and if not positioned right can look funny

Looks: 6/10definitely a more discrete option if you don’t get one with a dick imprint

3.HOMEMADE SOCK PACKERS

Omg I can’t express how much these save my life if I’m dyphoric these are a simple, cheap and easy way to pack I can’t express how much I use these on a daily basis, there are plenty of videos on YouTube on how to make these (kade cooks has a good tutorial on YouTube btw)

Packing ability:5/10 definitely a easy packing tool but can look kinda wonky if not made right and may take some trial and error

Looks: 2/10 definitely not a good looking packer but gets the job done

4.FOAM INSERT PACKER

Similar to the EZ bulge this is another foam packer insert but definitely is more comfortable, it’s a thin foam works well with most of the packing jockstraps,briefs, or boxers it’s about 5$ usually. I had one for a couple months then it started falling apart as the first layer of thin fabric came off of back but was a cheap and easy packer and is way more discrete option you can find this packer on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: definitely a solid 6/10 it works well but can fold or bunch up easily if you have bigger thighs

Looks:5/10 decently discrete looks similar to a bra cup

5.PACKER GEAR STP

this was my first ever STP or packer in general and can I say how much I hate this packer very small cup with no lip so spills are a big problem, it is almost physically impossible to use this as a packer this is the stiffest packer I’ve ever had IT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR HARD, the urethra and hole of this packer is massive and it’s unrealistic you will piss a stream the size of a no.2 pencil. One of its cons though is that it is the cheapest stp packer I know it’s 15$ and comes in two different skin colors, it is around 4.5 inches and can be found on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: 0/10 it’s trash

Looks: 5/10 it definitely tried to look realistic

Stp ability: 5/10 definitely not the best on the market but for how affordable it is it’s not too bad minus the firm cheap silicone and small cup

6. ANY FEMALE CAMPING URINAL

Such a honorable mention this fuckin thing well these can be found in most camping places, Amazon or anywhere online really. I can’t say I hate them but I can’t say I like them either but definitely work, they look mad dumb honestly and make me dysphoric lowkey but they work as STPs but unlike the other two options on this list this can’t be used as at a urinal but they don’t spill and are easily found and can be used by people who aren’t FtM or transmasc and usually range about 5-20$ online

Packing ability:0/10

Looks:0/10 mad Fucking ugly

Stp ability:10/10 definitely does the job

And that’s the end of my review folks I hope this can help out other trans people

[myragewillendworlds]

Hi. What is your opinion on Metoidioplasty and Phalloplasty as surgical medical transition options. Are they (in your opinion) advanced enough or do you think in the future we can expect better options. Maybe even functionality wise.

I recently watched a documentary about the different procedures in European countries, US and Thailand (they seem to be the most advanced due to high amount of practice they get by their mtf patients).

Both? Improvements are always a good thing and are surely going to keep coming, but that doesn't mean the current options aren't worth it. I never understood transsexual people saying things like "current bottom surgery options aren't ideal" because what, living out your life with the wrong set of genitals is?

Bottom surgery could give you a penis that looks and feels and, for the most part, functions like a penis. Post-phalloplasty most men have perfectly good sensation, i.e. tactile sensation, erotic sensation, ability to feel pain, temperature changes, etc. You could stand to pee, you could masturbate like a male, you could penetrate during sex. And you could just, you know, have a dick. When you take a shower, when you're putting on clothes, when you're laying down in bed, you could have a dick & balls between your legs and it would be the most normal thing in the world.

Appearance is subjective, but I've rarely (if ever) seen a phalloplasty image that I thought looked particularly abnormal, when most just look like, y'know, average penises, and, while the length might be a downside, metoidioplasty looks quite good as well. I've read more than one story of post-bottom surgery men who weren't immediately 'clocked' as transsexual by their doctors. I also recall seeing one of those photography projects with a series of men photographed nude that included a transsexual man; if not for the length standing out a bit against the average flaccid length, he wouldn't have particularly stood out at all. I do wonder how many average, non-porn penises these young FtMs, that complain about the appearance of bottom surgery, have actually witnessed; probably not a lot.

For as long as I've been on Tumblr, I've seen young transsexual people say they'll "just wait for better options." What better options? When do you expect that's going to happen? Improvements you can expect will be things like reducing the risk of certain complications, improved patient recovery, better erectile devices, etc. Massive improvements may eventually include something like 3D printing skin grafts. But a total overhaul of the surgery? Cyberdicks? Grow-a-cock home lab kits? That shit isn't happening any time soon, or ever. You'll waste your life away waiting for that.

I'd say an "imperfect" penis is a hell of an improvement over living with the wrong set of genitals.

[boreal-sea]

STP

Just used an stp for the first time (a generic, non-penisy-looking one; the pStyle to be exact) and while it wasn’t like a hail-mary moment, it was pretty neat? I did not expect to be able to smell my pee so much though, that was gross hah.

I half got this because trans feels.

The other half reason I got it is because I’m going on another field trip next week and I have bathroom insecurity issues: any time I’m not in control of the vehicle and have no idea when the next bathroom stop will be, I have an uncontrollable urge to pee. Constantly. I can literally pee, stand up, and feel like my bladder is already bursting. This puts a major damper on field trips into actual forests. I have no shame about peeing behind a bush, but it definitely makes you reek of piss by the end of the day since there’s nothing to wipe with. Plus, kneeling to piss is a pain in the ass, and you have to take your pants down all the way, and it’s just annoying. So the STP device I bought specifically says it can be used to kinda wipe, at least to squeegee off any lingering pee, and I’m gonna use liners this time around too to protect my underwear and my pants.

[skeleslime-phantom]

Selling an STP

Ey for any of my followers who are maybe FTM or just interested in general, I have an EZP* STP Packer (cut version C002 coloration) that I no longer use and I'd like to sell it at a discounted price, like for $140.00 compared to its original $195+shipping

ANYWAY, shoot me an email if you're interested, first come first serve, I don't really wanna take any holds on this. I'll make another post for when it's been sold.

Payment will be through PayPal

Email: nostalgia.phantom@gmail.com

[cryptidandrew]

hey, trans friends from Europe, does any of you know about a shop that ships packers and/or STPs within the EU?

[iblamemycatforit]

This was the weirdest peeing of my life

I was out drinking with friends and I peed before getting ready but it takes me a bit more than an hour to get home. I drank a lot so there was no way in hell I'd be able to hold it that long. The train I was going home with was a pretty old one. The type where the toilet doesn't have a bottom, your waste goes directly onto the rail track. So my drunk af self had to manage to pee on a moving train with an stp I haven't used in like a month. I actually ended up peeing when the train was at a station but I'm no superman. Sorry people who'll have to smell it later. It was definitely the weirdest bathroom situation I was on so far.

[i-want-it-all-or-nothing-at-all]

Looking to buy/trade for an EZP

Usually, these posts advertise the sale of an STP, but I am looking to buy one in one of the two lighter colors. Additionally, if trading is more your speed, I have a 6.5 inch 4 in 1 from Freetom and a 5.5 inch 4 in 1 from Freetom. I would happy trade away one of these. Please message me.

[axolom]

FTM Tutorial: How To Wear A Packer

The majority of people who use packers are those who are transgender or non-binary. When you’re a part of the trans* community, your mind and/or body can sometimes be your worst enemy. Axolom helps transgender and non-binary people access their gender euphoria instead of dysphoria. There are many options we’ll go over when we explain below how to wear a packer.  Just to make sure we’re on the same page, let’s start with why trans* people wear packers and what packers are:

What Are Packers?

Usually created out of silicone, packers are phallic (or penis-shaped) prosthetics some people use to create the appearance of a bulge in pants. For some back in the day, cis-guys used socks to make their own bulge look bigger. The transgender application in my experience similar: to combat dysphoria and/or boost confidence.

Some people use packers as a way to subtly validate themselves throughout the day. These packers can be a major piece of the puzzle when it comes to taking on bottom dysphoria for people across the world. Many trans* people use packers as a tool to keep their minds from saying negative things. If we can master our minds and retrain our thought processes to be positive, it can be a major game-changer in our day-to-day lives as transgender and non-binary people and, in some cases, save lives.

What Styles/Types Of Packers Are There?

Here, Axolom offers cut, uncut, flat back, and curved for AFAB anatomy. The cut and uncut are circumcised and uncircumcised respectively. The star feature is the back which has two inner half-moon shapes that allow your anatomy to rest in these indentions flat on the body. You want to be comfortable with your packer and have it feel like an extension of you. You can also have packers that double as other products like STPs (Stand to Pee Devices), pleasure edges, or products to be able to make prosthetics erect. But How Do I Wear A Packer?

Let’s say you already have a packer in mind but don’t understand how it can attach to the body. There are a few different ways you’re able to:

Adhesive

The Axolom product Monsieur Wiggle Super Soft Packer also has a tab that may be adhered to the body using these reusable sheets allowing for a free feeling of natural movement. You can purchase adhesive sheets, but if you’re tight on cash, you can always tuck the tab under the elastic band of your underwear or one of the next few options.

Harnesses

From minimal straps to velcro with snap buttons, you can get all types of harnesses to wear underneath your underwear. The key is to make sure your harness feels secure and people often go with these because they know and trust that these won’t fail. The worst-case scenario for any person using prosthetics is it falling off, especially in public. If you’re not one for extra layers, the other options might be better choices.

Snug Boxer Briefs

The most accessible option found locally is often boxer briefs. Their snug fit and pocket for junk support are ideal for a pouch for your packer so it remains against your body as it should. It’s important to pay attention to the pouch size, open/closed fly, and material because you want it to be comfortable and breathable down there. Stay sanitary people!

Speciality Boxer Briefs

In the last decade, there has been an increase in transgender and nonbinary products to aid in your battle against dysphoria and/or self-esteem. Companies such as RodeoH and FtM Essentials offer a variety of packing boxer solutions that are made just for keeping your packer in place. Often this is the go-to answer for people who want the security of a harness but the comfort of boxer briefs.

Impact

According to its second annual National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, The Trevor Project discovered some disturbing stats about gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and other gender nonconforming young Americans between 13-24.

“48% of LGBTQ youth reported engaging in self-harm in the past twelve months, including over 60% of transgender and nonbinary youth.”

As this wasn’t enough to be concerned about, 40% of those surveyed said to have seriously considered attempting suicide during that period, and of these young people who identified as trans or nonbinary, more than half said they strongly considered ending their lives.

Axolom knows how much of an impact it can make on people’s quality of life as transgender and non-binary people who want to learn how to wear a packer. I can tell they want to make the lives of transgender and non-binary people easier so we lose less precious transgender souls. And that’s what this is all about. I’m very glad I crossed paths with Axolom and I appreciate you taking the time to read this post.

As always, sending you love and light.

Axolom Team.

[translifetoday]

do u have any advice for someone suffering from bottom dysphoria? i'm struggling a lot. thanks

Hey! Sorry to hear that you’re struggling.

The first thing I always tell myself is that my gender has nothing to do with my anatomy, it’s just a part of me and doesn’t change who I am and I think that’s an important thing to tell yourself.

However if you are struggling with it then there are a few things you can do. Depending on which way you’re transitioning, if you’re ftm you can use packers which often helps with feeling more masculine, you can also use a stand to pee device which could help you feel more confident when using public bathrooms. If it’s about dysphoria during sex then there are a lot of toys out there that could help and also communicating how you feel about your body with your partner would help to make it more enjoyable for both of you. At the end of the day if it feels good then you’re doing it right!

I don’t have much information for mtf unfortunately, if that’s what you’re looking for then I would suggest asking someone on here that has experience in that area? All I can say is that a big part of feeling better about your body is looking at why you feel the way you feel, and don’t ever waste time on someone who makes you feel bad about yourself.

I really hope I helped and if you have any other questions I would be happy to answer them 😊

[xeno-aligned]

DIY instructions for how to make a STP (stand to pee) device from a sauce bottle, from the FTM Shed

[transadvice]

hi have you heard of ftm-essentials? A family member gave me a gift card there, and idk if their binders are good, or what to expect. If you know anything that would be cool! thanks!

What a cool family member! 

FTM Essentials is a website which carries a number of items that may be of interest to trans masculine folks, including binders, packers, stand-to-pee devices, and so on. They’re a subsidiary of Early 2 Bed, a feminist sex toy shop in Chicago. I have bought from both stores and had good experiences. (I am not being paid for this post, lol.) 

It looks like the binders they have are mostly Underworks. They’re a legit company, though with all binder companies, you know, the sizing works for some people and not for others. Because Underworks’ products were originally intended for cis men with gynecomastia, they can be too broad in the shoulders and narrow in the hips for some trans men, although they work perfectly for some! It depends so much on your shape. 

The site also carries New York Toy Collective; I don’t know anything about their binders, although I like their packers. As far as I can tell from interview on the internet and such, NYTC seems like they generally “get it” in that they were founded by queer people of color, people who really use the products they make. 

I’d say before buying anything on the site you might want to search around for the same product and brand on other places on the Internet and see what the reviews are like, take a look at the size charts, etc. If you decide you don’t want any of the binders or other items, you can always get a copy of The Quick and Dirty Guide to They/Them Pronouns (which I really liked!), or donate to the binders for youth program. 

[transgenderteensurvivalguide]

Genitals and clitoris m I don’t know if this had been asked, or if it’s a weird question but when you’ve been on T as a ftm person and had your clitoris growth, is it possible to stp or do you still need a device for that?

Lee says:

Clitoris growth does not affect how you use the bathroom. Your clitoris grows larger, but you pee through your urethra- not your clitoris. 

Your urethra stays the same unless you get surgery to have an urethral lengthening as part of lower/bottom surgery. 

That means you will still need a device to stand to pee if you want to use the urinals in the men’s bathroom. 

Testosterone FAQ

[myspouti]

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[iblamemycatforit]

My ezp arrived

I should be able to pick it up tomorrow before work. It will be so hard to work the whole day when I'll just wanna come home to open it.