#stand to pee device for ftm trans

[translgbtq]

Budget-Friendly Best STP Packers For FTM Trans Guys, And Others

Packing is a very common habit of FTM trans, non-binary, and others. The habit can’t make in a day. It takes years. While we start the FTM transition, we were so much about which STP packers we can use for daily life and which packers we can use for playing. Time changes. We start knowing and gathering the knowledge about how we trans guys and other guys can comfortably pack an STP packer for a…

[havinganormalone]

Independent Sex Toy Creators

Since Etsy is being a little bitch and banning sex toys, I wanted to make a reference list of independent sex toy creators. This is by no means exhaustive- literally thousands of sellers are getting screwed by this nonsensical puritanical bullshit- this is merely creators that caught my eye as people I might want to spend money on at a future date. I will be avoiding Etsy for even sfw purchases in the future, since this policy is out of hand and is going to disproportionately impact queer, trans creators. Because that is the way these things always work. Anyways, here's a list of artisans I don't want to lose.

Fantasticocks: Makes monster dildos, ftm strokers, eggs, and other goodies. I have bought from here, and am always in love with the pours- offers UV reactive stuff. Ohio based.

Odyssey Toys: They make some THICK boys. Firm grinders you can strap to things, inflatable knots, plugs. A lot of tentacles and a more old school swords and sorcery feel. UK based.

Chillow Fantasy: Makers of the Penis Fly Trap. Silly, memey sex toys. Michigan based.

Kreature Toys: They sale dildos that have a suction hole for fuck machines. Monster dildos. Michigan based.

Kinky Kreatures: Monster dildos. Sells knot sheaths and grinder gloves, as well as more standard toys. Australia based.

Frisk Toys: Ejaculating dildos. UK based.

Love Smiths: Monster toys, from dildos to butt plugs, with a wide variety of creative strokers. France based.

Okova: Sells tail plugs, including things like devil tails, horse tails, fox tails, etc. A very white variety, from whimsical to realistic, with good quality fur. Ukraine based.

Where is Willy: Specialist shop for FTM packers/strokers. Has strap on harnesses. Also has a line of binders in the works. Poland based.

TranZWear: Packers and stand to pee devices, medial grade materials, an emphasis more on utility than sex. Also sells binders, boxers for packing, and pumps. California based.

Xenocat Artifacts: Alien inspired toys, like double knotted dildos or tentacles. Also has furry explicit body pillows. Bought from them at a furry convention and the person in the pup hood working the booth was helpful and actually bothered to ask my pronouns, something that almost never happens to me (people assume I am she/her).

Primal Hardwere: Has sheaths, inflating dildos, and molds for gelatin eggs. More old school leather culture feel. US based. They made my favorite toy, a glow in the dark knotted sheath.

Tails of Fantasy: Tail plugs on a branch that is designed to have a more realistic placement than your typical tail plug. Also sells collars and ears. New York based.

Naughty Indulgence: Cheaper end sex toys and glass toys. Veteran owned.

BonBDSM: Silicone tail plugs, hoods, furred harnesses, medical fetish play. Thailand based.

FetFashions: Sells clothing that says things like Breed Me, Daddy, Slut, etc. The sort of thing etsy is trying to ban, so it's good to know a place that will do this.

These might be safe under the new TOS, as they are non-insertable BDSM gear, but at this point avoid shopping on Etsy whenever possible.

LeatherBond: Floggers, whips, restraints, all boasting made from real leather.

The Latex Store: Sells latex penis sheaths as well as some inflatable gags and other latex clothing.

Wruff Stuff: Animal hoods- of the puphood variety, but with a much wider selection, including pig, dragon, fox. Made of a neoprene material. I own one, it is more breathable than leather, and the design draws the eye. UK based.

Creative Kink: Paddles, canes, knives- both dull and sharpened. Pennsylvanian based.

Once again, this list is by no means exhaustive, and is mostly meant for my own personal reference. However, if you have a sex toy creator and you want to promote their stuff, feel free to drop a reference in the reblogs.

[r0gue-taxidermy]

PACKERS AND PACKING INFORMATION AND REVIEWS:

Cw: prosthetic male genitalia/penises for informational purposes only 

I’m going to start this by first introducing myself so hello I’m Jackson I’m a plus size ftm trans teenager and I’m going to go over the best and easiest way to pack as a trans dude

You may be asking what a packer is? Well a packer is a gender affirming tool that creates or mimics a bulge or a penis which may seem like it’s a thing meant for adults but actually it’s very useful for everyone it helps with dysphoria or even just helps if your wanting to appear more masculine

Another thing that will be mentioned are STPs; STP stands for stand to pee device which do make it possible to as said stand to pee which can go from looking realistic or just being a cup with a tube

so I will be ranking my favorite packers/STPs/packing alternatives and will include where to find and price ranges and packing ability’s. If you have any questions either message me or comment them down below! Starting off strong with number one my favorite packer is

1. STP FREELY:

This is my favorite STP packer it’s 3.5 inches long and is a SOFT packer with a wide brim cup with a lip so no worry about spills or anything made with a skin safe soft silicone , definitely more of an affordable packer + STP it ranges from 45-50$ and it comes in 5 different skin tones! there is a XL Version of this packer that is 5 inches that I have not tried that is 50$ (you can also buy the XL rod which turns this into a pack and play “toy” for around 16$) and both xl and regular come with the option of being circumcised or non circumcised which I think is a neat feature! This packer also requires a harness ! I recommend the cake bandit packing harness it’s comfortable and not too tight. you can find both of these on TransGuySupply.com

Packing ability:9/10 definitely my favorite packer I’ve owned packs very well

Looks:9/10 nice weight, decently realistic but there are definitely better packers on the market but overall a wonderful packer

Stp ability: 10/10 very easy to get used too, big cup with a lip and semi realistic urethra hole

Can’t stress how much I love this packer will buy again

2. EZ bulge:

Here’s a cheap simple packing option for people who want to try out packing as it’s a foam insert made of a thicker foam material that you put In your boxers, these usually range from 5-10$ which isn’t bad the only downside is that they are stiff and if your bigger like me it will rub against your thighs and become uncomfortable and there’s definitely pros and cons for this packer like it’s latex or silicone free but it is kind of stiff and hard to position you can get this packer from transguysupply.com or Etsy!

Packing ability: 7/10 it works but is kind of uncomfortable and if not positioned right can look funny

Looks: 6/10definitely a more discrete option if you don’t get one with a dick imprint

3.HOMEMADE SOCK PACKERS

Omg I can’t express how much these save my life if I’m dyphoric these are a simple, cheap and easy way to pack I can’t express how much I use these on a daily basis, there are plenty of videos on YouTube on how to make these (kade cooks has a good tutorial on YouTube btw)

Packing ability:5/10 definitely a easy packing tool but can look kinda wonky if not made right and may take some trial and error

Looks: 2/10 definitely not a good looking packer but gets the job done

4.FOAM INSERT PACKER

Similar to the EZ bulge this is another foam packer insert but definitely is more comfortable, it’s a thin foam works well with most of the packing jockstraps,briefs, or boxers it’s about 5$ usually. I had one for a couple months then it started falling apart as the first layer of thin fabric came off of back but was a cheap and easy packer and is way more discrete option you can find this packer on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: definitely a solid 6/10 it works well but can fold or bunch up easily if you have bigger thighs

Looks:5/10 decently discrete looks similar to a bra cup

5.PACKER GEAR STP

this was my first ever STP or packer in general and can I say how much I hate this packer very small cup with no lip so spills are a big problem, it is almost physically impossible to use this as a packer this is the stiffest packer I’ve ever had IT WILL MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE YOUR HARD, the urethra and hole of this packer is massive and it’s unrealistic you will piss a stream the size of a no.2 pencil. One of its cons though is that it is the cheapest stp packer I know it’s 15$ and comes in two different skin colors, it is around 4.5 inches and can be found on transguysupply.com

Packing ability: 0/10 it’s trash

Looks: 5/10 it definitely tried to look realistic

Stp ability: 5/10 definitely not the best on the market but for how affordable it is it’s not too bad minus the firm cheap silicone and small cup

6. ANY FEMALE CAMPING URINAL

Such a honorable mention this fuckin thing well these can be found in most camping places, Amazon or anywhere online really. I can’t say I hate them but I can’t say I like them either but definitely work, they look mad dumb honestly and make me dysphoric lowkey but they work as STPs but unlike the other two options on this list this can’t be used as at a urinal but they don’t spill and are easily found and can be used by people who aren’t FtM or transmasc and usually range about 5-20$ online

Packing ability:0/10

Looks:0/10 mad Fucking ugly

Stp ability:10/10 definitely does the job

And that’s the end of my review folks I hope this can help out other trans people

[boreal-sea]

STP

Just used an stp for the first time (a generic, non-penisy-looking one; the pStyle to be exact) and while it wasn’t like a hail-mary moment, it was pretty neat? I did not expect to be able to smell my pee so much though, that was gross hah.

I half got this because trans feels.

The other half reason I got it is because I’m going on another field trip next week and I have bathroom insecurity issues: any time I’m not in control of the vehicle and have no idea when the next bathroom stop will be, I have an uncontrollable urge to pee. Constantly. I can literally pee, stand up, and feel like my bladder is already bursting. This puts a major damper on field trips into actual forests. I have no shame about peeing behind a bush, but it definitely makes you reek of piss by the end of the day since there’s nothing to wipe with. Plus, kneeling to piss is a pain in the ass, and you have to take your pants down all the way, and it’s just annoying. So the STP device I bought specifically says it can be used to kinda wipe, at least to squeegee off any lingering pee, and I’m gonna use liners this time around too to protect my underwear and my pants.

[cryptidandrew]

hey, trans friends from Europe, does any of you know about a shop that ships packers and/or STPs within the EU?

[iblamemycatforit]

This was the weirdest peeing of my life

I was out drinking with friends and I peed before getting ready but it takes me a bit more than an hour to get home. I drank a lot so there was no way in hell I'd be able to hold it that long. The train I was going home with was a pretty old one. The type where the toilet doesn't have a bottom, your waste goes directly onto the rail track. So my drunk af self had to manage to pee on a moving train with an stp I haven't used in like a month. I actually ended up peeing when the train was at a station but I'm no superman. Sorry people who'll have to smell it later. It was definitely the weirdest bathroom situation I was on so far.

[i-want-it-all-or-nothing-at-all]

Looking to buy/trade for an EZP

Usually, these posts advertise the sale of an STP, but I am looking to buy one in one of the two lighter colors. Additionally, if trading is more your speed, I have a 6.5 inch 4 in 1 from Freetom and a 5.5 inch 4 in 1 from Freetom. I would happy trade away one of these. Please message me.

[axolom]

FTM Tutorial: How To Wear A Packer

The majority of people who use packers are those who are transgender or non-binary. When you’re a part of the trans* community, your mind and/or body can sometimes be your worst enemy. Axolom helps transgender and non-binary people access their gender euphoria instead of dysphoria. There are many options we’ll go over when we explain below how to wear a packer.  Just to make sure we’re on the same page, let’s start with why trans* people wear packers and what packers are:

What Are Packers?

Usually created out of silicone, packers are phallic (or penis-shaped) prosthetics some people use to create the appearance of a bulge in pants. For some back in the day, cis-guys used socks to make their own bulge look bigger. The transgender application in my experience similar: to combat dysphoria and/or boost confidence.

Some people use packers as a way to subtly validate themselves throughout the day. These packers can be a major piece of the puzzle when it comes to taking on bottom dysphoria for people across the world. Many trans* people use packers as a tool to keep their minds from saying negative things. If we can master our minds and retrain our thought processes to be positive, it can be a major game-changer in our day-to-day lives as transgender and non-binary people and, in some cases, save lives.

What Styles/Types Of Packers Are There?

Here, Axolom offers cut, uncut, flat back, and curved for AFAB anatomy. The cut and uncut are circumcised and uncircumcised respectively. The star feature is the back which has two inner half-moon shapes that allow your anatomy to rest in these indentions flat on the body. You want to be comfortable with your packer and have it feel like an extension of you. You can also have packers that double as other products like STPs (Stand to Pee Devices), pleasure edges, or products to be able to make prosthetics erect. But How Do I Wear A Packer?

Let’s say you already have a packer in mind but don’t understand how it can attach to the body. There are a few different ways you’re able to:

Adhesive

The Axolom product Monsieur Wiggle Super Soft Packer also has a tab that may be adhered to the body using these reusable sheets allowing for a free feeling of natural movement. You can purchase adhesive sheets, but if you’re tight on cash, you can always tuck the tab under the elastic band of your underwear or one of the next few options.

Harnesses

From minimal straps to velcro with snap buttons, you can get all types of harnesses to wear underneath your underwear. The key is to make sure your harness feels secure and people often go with these because they know and trust that these won’t fail. The worst-case scenario for any person using prosthetics is it falling off, especially in public. If you’re not one for extra layers, the other options might be better choices.

Snug Boxer Briefs

The most accessible option found locally is often boxer briefs. Their snug fit and pocket for junk support are ideal for a pouch for your packer so it remains against your body as it should. It’s important to pay attention to the pouch size, open/closed fly, and material because you want it to be comfortable and breathable down there. Stay sanitary people!

Speciality Boxer Briefs

In the last decade, there has been an increase in transgender and nonbinary products to aid in your battle against dysphoria and/or self-esteem. Companies such as RodeoH and FtM Essentials offer a variety of packing boxer solutions that are made just for keeping your packer in place. Often this is the go-to answer for people who want the security of a harness but the comfort of boxer briefs.

Impact

According to its second annual National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, The Trevor Project discovered some disturbing stats about gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and other gender nonconforming young Americans between 13-24.

“48% of LGBTQ youth reported engaging in self-harm in the past twelve months, including over 60% of transgender and nonbinary youth.”

As this wasn’t enough to be concerned about, 40% of those surveyed said to have seriously considered attempting suicide during that period, and of these young people who identified as trans or nonbinary, more than half said they strongly considered ending their lives.

Axolom knows how much of an impact it can make on people’s quality of life as transgender and non-binary people who want to learn how to wear a packer. I can tell they want to make the lives of transgender and non-binary people easier so we lose less precious transgender souls. And that’s what this is all about. I’m very glad I crossed paths with Axolom and I appreciate you taking the time to read this post.

As always, sending you love and light.

Axolom Team.

[transadvice]

hi have you heard of ftm-essentials? A family member gave me a gift card there, and idk if their binders are good, or what to expect. If you know anything that would be cool! thanks!

What a cool family member! 

FTM Essentials is a website which carries a number of items that may be of interest to trans masculine folks, including binders, packers, stand-to-pee devices, and so on. They’re a subsidiary of Early 2 Bed, a feminist sex toy shop in Chicago. I have bought from both stores and had good experiences. (I am not being paid for this post, lol.) 

It looks like the binders they have are mostly Underworks. They’re a legit company, though with all binder companies, you know, the sizing works for some people and not for others. Because Underworks’ products were originally intended for cis men with gynecomastia, they can be too broad in the shoulders and narrow in the hips for some trans men, although they work perfectly for some! It depends so much on your shape. 

The site also carries New York Toy Collective; I don’t know anything about their binders, although I like their packers. As far as I can tell from interview on the internet and such, NYTC seems like they generally “get it” in that they were founded by queer people of color, people who really use the products they make. 

I’d say before buying anything on the site you might want to search around for the same product and brand on other places on the Internet and see what the reviews are like, take a look at the size charts, etc. If you decide you don’t want any of the binders or other items, you can always get a copy of The Quick and Dirty Guide to They/Them Pronouns (which I really liked!), or donate to the binders for youth program. 

[transgenderteensurvivalguide]

Is there any place that sells packers in like a real store?

Kii says:

Some sex shops sell pack and play devices, but you have to be of the age of majority to buy them.

Lee says:

Our Packing and standing to pee post has links to lists of packers made for trans folk that you can buy online, and here’s how to buy an item online without parents knowing.

Followers say:

thetruewizardkitty said: If you are in the Edmonton/Alberta area, there is a sex shop called the Travelling Tickle Trunk that sells a bunch of trans masc supplies such as mr limpy’s, sam stps, underworks binders, packing underwear/straps, and ftm specific sex toys. I don’t know if there are other sex shops that do this, but it would be worth checking their inventory (even online if you don’t want to go in right away.)

[pantransautie]

Gift Ideas for Trans Men

- men’s accessories (belts, bow ties, cuff links, hats, men’s jewelry, sunglasses, suspenders, ties, watches, etc.)

- an apron

- a binder

- a book (about a trans man, trans men, masculinity in general or specifically trans masculinity)

- a candle or candle wax with a masculine scent

- a cookbook

- cooking ingredients (oil, spices, etc.)

- cooking supplies (utensils, pots, pans, etc.)

- masculine home decor

- glassware for the kinds of drinks he likes

- a grooming kit (after shave, comb, hairbrush, razor, shaving cream, etc.)

- ingredients for the kinds of drinks he likes

- a journal

- a keychain that has the transgender flag on it

- men’s clothing (bathrobes, button-up shirts, coats, jeans, rash guards, raincoats, shorts, slacks, socks, suits, sweaters, sweater vests, sweatshirts, sweatpants, swim trunks, tee shirts, underwear, vests, etc.)

- men’s shoes (boots, dress shoes, sandals, sneakers, tennis shoes, etc.)

- men’s toiletries (shampoo, conditioner, soap, etc.)

- money

- a packer

- a packer harness

- pens for his journal

- Romeos (2011) DVD if he is also gay

- a satchel

- smell-goods (cologne, men’s deodorant, etc. that

- a swimming binder

- a subscription to ftm magazine

- a stand-to-pee device

- something that has his name on it

- something that has he/him/his pronouns on it

- a fully-stocked tool box

- a watch

- a wallet

- weights

[sad-noodle-soup]

AMAZING NEWS

Yesterday I got my first STP and I’ve used it twice and I haven’t had any issues yet! I’ve heard that a lot of people have to try a few different models before they find one that works well for them, so I’m pretty happy that my money was well spent. 

This morning I also got my first email to set up a consultation for Top Surgery!!! It was the surgeon farthest away from me but he seems like a wonderful surgeon and he does the Button Hole procedure that not a lot of surgeons do.

Things are really moving forward and I’ve never been so happy.

[queercondensed]

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Packing Guide v1.0

This is the second guide I’ve developed for DysphoriAid, a project meant to create simple and printable guides for transgender people on the topic of dysphoria-relieving items. This packing guide includes basics, where to buy packers, making your own, Do’s and Don’ts, and additional information. It was developed with the help of a coworker and friend Richard Cole.

Click here to find the link to download the most recent version of this resource and the other documents Queer Condensed has to offer.

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DysphoriAid Packer Sheet Online v1.0

Trusted Companies - Make Your Own - Do’s and Don’ts - Further Info

The Basics, What to Keep in Mind, and Where to Buy

A packer is an item used to replicate a bulge and occasionally other features associated with having a penis for those born without one. There are multiple reasons why someone would choose to pack, including lessening dysphoria, improving body image, and increasing personal safety in public places and for people who are expected to “pass” as a non-transgender man. Making the choice to pack can be very personal and not everyone who “could” pack will or wants to. Discomfort with or a lack of a need to pack doesn’t make anyone any less transgender or nonbinary, nor does packing make anyone more transgender or nonbinary.

The decision to pack starts with the decision of one’s price range and what one would like from a packer. There are three main times of packers: soft packers, pack n plays (packers that can also be used for sex via an insertable rod), and pack, play, and pees (packers that can be used for both sex and for peeing in a standing position). Usually, the ones with more uses are more expensive. Packers come in many different materials, sizes, and colors as well. Packers made from porous material and can easily soak up bacteria and dirt, which can cause urinary tract infections and skin problems, but can be more comfortable for the wearer. Silicone packers are more durable but still need to be cared for. When it comes to size, bigger is not always better. There are definitely large packers, as there are definitely people with large penises, but smaller packers give a more realistic look and are often more comfortable to wear. Finally, most packer companies offer a range of skin colors, but finding one to match your exact skin tone if desired may make the search for a packer take more time. It is possible to recolor some packers, look for a link in “Additional Information.”

Most people who own packers own a variety of accessories as well. Packers, especially the lower-end ones, do not stay in place well. Harnesses and special underwear can be used to keep them from falling out. Pack and plays cannot be used for the “play” function without a harness. Most packers can be cleaned with soap and water, but some companies and some materials warrant special cleaning solutions. Going to websites listed in the next paragraph and the “Additional Information” section can help you make an informed decision and show you what else you need along with a packer.

If everything written here sounds confusing and convoluted to you, there’s good news - transgender and nonbinary people have been packing for decades and companies are more than willing to help you understand their products. The Tool Shed (toolshedtoys.com) is an LGBT-owned business that focuses on sex positivity and safety and offers a good selection of packers in a clean layout, including the popular first-time-packer line Mr. Limpy / Softie. TranZwear (tranzwear.net) is a transgender-owned business that focuses mostly on packers and packer accessories. A note for TranZwear however: the site may be difficult or impossible to navigate for those with reading or sensory difficulties due to the general uncleanliness of the design. For the extreme end of quality and price, look at the transgender-owned Transthetics (transthetics.com).

Make Your Own / Packing Without a Packer

Sometimes, purchasing a packer is not feasible for any number of reasons. So, here are some alternatives! All the rules to regular packing - found in the “Do’s and Don’ts” section - should be followed even when not wearing an official packer. These methods are often helped by the use of the specialized underwear made for packers.

NOTE: Never ever use tape or adhesive to secure a packer of any type. Surgical glue is used in some cases, but only for prosthetic packers and only by trained medical professionals.

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Option #2: Fill an unlubricated condom about halfway with some sort of gel, like hair gel, and tie it off tightly at the desired length. Place within another unlubricated condom or two, typing those off as well. Cover with a sock or other sleeve to reduce tugging and catching. Place in a jock strap or tight-fitting underwear. Watch for tearing and leakage, replace often.

Option #1: Roll a pair of socks into itself to create an oval-ish shape, manipulating the socks until a desirable bulge is achieved. Stick the faux-bulge into your underwear, securing it with safety pins if there’s concern of it falling out or losing its shape. Not always realistic-looking, but cheap and easy. Use thin socks to reduce heat.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Packing

Do

Wash your packer every day after wearing it with at least soap and water

Try out different placements and ways of securing your packer to find out what fits and feels comfortable

Look at examples of cisgender men and other packing transgender people online for placement reference, like underwear models

Listen to your body and make sure your packer isn’t overheating or hurting your genital region

Replace your packer if it becomes damaged, worn out, or cannot be cleaned properly

Look up reviews and videos on packing and specific packers and accessories before buying

Dust non-hommade packers with cornstarch before wearing to lessen the dirt and hair they pick up

Experiment if resources permit you to

Don’t

Leave your packer in a damp area or where bacteria is likely to flourish

Expect other transgender people to always feel comfortable talking about their packing experiences

Place tape or adhesive anywhere near your genital area

Trade your packers with other transgender people, especially if they are pack and plays or pack, play, and pees.

Feel discouraged if a popular packer isn’t right for you

Boil silicone / cyberskin / thermal gel packers, as they will melt

Ignore the directions of the manufacturer or seller - they know best!

Use non-skin-safe cleaning materials on your packer

Force yourself to pack even if you identify as a trans male or trans masculine

Additional Information

Online*:

A Guide to Packers for Transmen (http://ftm-guide.com/guide-to-packers-for-transmen/)

Hudson’s FTM Resource Guide (http://www.ftmguide.org/packing.html)

Making your own Stand to Pee (http://www.wikihow.com/Make-an-Easy-StP-(Stand-to-Pee)-Device)

Reviews on packing harnesses (http://transguys.com/features/packing-harness-roundup)

How to recolor your packer (http://toysfortransmen.tumblr.com/post/36054626438/how-to-recoloring-your-packer)

*While this info sheet includes both binary and nonbinary transgender people, a great deal of the online resources available for packing only includes language about transgender men. The information is still good for nonbinary people, but readers should be aware of this. Additionally, online guides and resources often include pictures of packers, many of which are very realistic. Keep this in mind when searching on a non-private computer, browsing in public, or if you are adverse to images of penises.

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[a-safe-blog-for-trans-men]

Hey so I'm sorta new to understanding gender identities and all of this. And I found out that I'm FTM trans and I was wondering dog pinned to wash your packer every time you use it? Like I know urine is sterile but do people wash it every night or...? Thank so much for helping me out

No problem!

Packers don’t necessarily need to be washed every night but if it contacts your skin it’s probably best to. Even just running it under some warm water with a bit of hand soap should be enough. If you bought a packer it should come with it’s own care instructions depending on the durability of the material. I know that some need to be dusted with cornstarch every so often to keep the material from getting sticky. 

If you’re using an STP packer, or “stand to pee” device you should wash it every night with soap. Mine just recommends using a “gentle cleaner” so I’ve been using hand soap and that tends to get it fresh and clean. 

If you’re using a hard packer, or a packer that can be used during sex you should definitely wash it thoroughly between uses. If it’s a three-in-one (can be used as an STP as well) and has a hole in the shaft you should put a condom on it during intercourse.

If anyone has any else to add please feel free to do so~

-Tyler    

[mouseblob]

Hey!

Hey guys its blob, I just wanted to let you I got my first affiliate link! It is from FTM Essentials, an mainly trans-masculine/FTM targeted  webstore where you can buy packers, stps [ stand to pee device], masturbation sleeves and more! http://www.ftmessentials.com?aff=75 

if you use this link to go to the website I will receive a sight chip of money, if you use this thank you!

[reviewsfortheftmconsumer-blog]

Are you aware of any small (I'm a short and small trans guy), adherable STP packers?

Hey there anon! Yeah, the average STP Packer is 5.5 inches, so I understand the frustration trying to find something a little smaller. I did a little digging and found a few options that aren’t perfect, but they might work for you: 

The Reelmagik STP- 5 inches long. It may be a little big for you but it does adhere to skin. It’s expensive at 519 dollars.

 http://www.reelmagik.com/ftm-store-directory/all-in-one.html 

Next isn’t an STP, but you can get it as small as 3 inches. GenderCat has these self-adhesive packers that look super groundbreaking. It’s 228 dollars, but they offer payment plans.

 https://gendercat.com/products/copy-of-hard-gendermender-self-adhesive-and-adhesible-prosthetics-for-play-custom-colors-payment-plans-1 

FreeToM Buddy STP- FreeToM says that while products aren’t made for adhesive, a lot of their customers do it and have no problem. The Buddy Stp is 3.5 inches long and I believe you can get one for as little as 79 dollars. 

Heres the link:https://www.freetomprosthetics.com/collections/2-in-1-pack-and-pee-prosthetic/products/already-made-buddy-3-5-stp?variant=24240400774

Emisil STP- 5 inches, but I believe it’s adhesive safe. There’s the STP packer Gen 2, and the compact STP

STP Packer 340 euros- https://www.emisil.com/s-t-p-stand-to-pee-urination-device-2nd-generation.html

Compact STP- 92 euros- https://www.emisil.com/compact-s-t-p-stand-to-pee.html 

Peecock Gen 3S stp/play/pack prosthetic- This comes in a 3.75 inch version. It’s 169 dollars, but it is a 3 in1. It isn’t made for adhesive but it is possible to use it a little.

https://peecockproducts.com/gen3s/peecock-gen3s-3-75inch.html 

Overall, there aren’t a ton of options, but some things here may work for you. If you’re concerned with packing a little bigger, tucking the shaft up into the waistband has been helpful for me personally. Hopefully this helps for you! If I find anything else, I’ll make an update post about it so you can see it.