#songjia mindset

[elle1her]

How to be RESPECTED

Hi girls! Hope y'all are doing well, so today I wanna share with you some advice on how to be become Respected.

1. Respect yourself

How you wanna be respected while you don't even respect yourself?? You gotta learn how to respect you and your choices, for example if you manager at work proposed to you something might be uncomfortable for you say NO, let the others know that you also have a choice and you respect it ofc..I'm not saying you should raise your voice or refuse aggressively say no politely, don't let anyone force to do something you don't wanna do!! Even if it's your parents because it's your duty to respect you slef choices, your feelings and your freedom of course.

2. Don't Over Share

Over Sharing is so unattractive and it might cause you problems, don't let any one ANY SINGLE ONE know about: you plans, goal, future plans, and your salary. These kind of can make people envy you or try to imitate you which leads to bad luck, but if you act mysterious everyone would crave to know ANYTHING about YOU which is gonna make them respect off hand, the people around are gonna also realize that you respect your privacy so they'll respect it too.

3. Cut Off Toxic Friends

You see the Friends you're hanging out with?? The ones who spread rumors and gossip??? YES THEM...stay away from them no matter what, people will think that you're just like them cos you hang out with them, everyone will say about you "Ehmm that girl?? Naah don't talk to her I don't trust her she's friend with that TOXIC GROUP" so nobody LITERALLY NOBODY is gonna respect you, so what you're gonna do is cut off these friends you don't need people like in your life there's bunch of kind humans out there also don't say "Oh I'm not gonna find or have any friends if I cut my relationship with them" sweetie why you think need friends being alone is more peaceful LET YOURSELF KNOW THAT IT'S OKEY TO LIVE WITHOUT FRIENDS be that girl who says: I rather stay without friends that be with them.

4. Spoil Yourself

Treat your self like a QUEEN let everyone see how spoiled you are they're gonna treat you the way you treat yourself!! Show them that you were born to be spoiled and coquette. Always remind yourself that YOU WERE BORN TO BE TREATED LIKE A QUEEN.

To all my queens out there don't give up for you dreams love yaa <3.

[raemimuse]

YouTubers To watch ✨>

Thewizardliz- make your mindset broader and making yourself your top priority.+ Many other advices. Relationships friendship advices.

Persephonesmind- (personal experience) she is actually my fvt personally, thewizardliz is cool. But as per my personality I prefer a little soft behaviour, and watching thewizardliz is also good. If you want to be best version of urself as a HUMAN BEING, she's out girl!!!

Emi Wong- I bet many of you haven't heard of her. Healthy food, healthy lifestyle, arobics (kpop songs!!!) Excercise etc. Mainy a health care channel.

Affirmations by Rose- affirmations, guided meditation, success stories, laws of universe etc.

Free zzia (Song Jia)- our pretty princess. Vlogs, hauls, frequent advices, solo vlogs, makeup tutorials, many more.

Tam Kaur- boss girl vibes! Advice and helps in relationships. Laws of universe etc.

Lavendair- self development, self love, tips to be productive and many more!

(perhaps my channel If any in future)

Byee for today! (Feel free to ask anything in comments) and yeah, I feel like I'm getting a littile attention on this app! Hehe Thanks ✨🤍

[good4theitgirl]

𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘵 𝘨𝘪𝘳𝘭 (the ultimate guide to be a queen bee) 𝒑𝒂𝒓𝒕 1

🎀Body Language

🎀Attitude

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1.𝘽𝙤𝙙𝙮 𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙖𝙜𝙚:

Tout d'abord, fixer votre posture est vraiment important, parce que cela peut vous rendre plus confiant. Levez la tête et n'ayez pas peur que les gens disent que vous en faites trop.

Pendant que vous parlez, gardez le contact visuel, cela fera croire aux gens que vous êtes confiant, même si vous ne l'êtes pas, (fausez-le jusqu'à ce que vous y arriviez). Si vous êtes trop timide ou si un long contact visuel vous rend nerveux, vous pouvez pratiquer avec votre famille, ou regarder entre leurs yeux et leurs sourcils (ils ne verront pas la différence).

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2.𝑨𝒕𝒕𝒊𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒆:

N'insulte pas les gens car une it girl ne ferais pas ça reste toi même tout en étant mystérieuse.

Dites-moi si il faut que je continue.

[writtenvlogs]

🎀Diary entry #001                                                                                                    13/08/2024

This is my very first entry yayy! ^_^  I’m starting off excited since I've been wanting to start this for quite some time now. This is more meant to keep track of the progress I'm making, journal about certain moments and thoughts and at the same time keep me motivated during my process of discovering myself and becoming someone I can be happy living with. We are with ourselves every second of our lives, so even if certain people around us won't accept or be okay with the way we are (personality, style, etc.) we shouldn’t be part of them.   What am I starting with right now? I can say that I'm in the middle. If on one side there are ‘haters’ and on the other side there are ‘fans’, then I am somewhere in between them. It’s not that I despise myself, nor am I completely happy with who I am. I haven’t figured out much if this has to do with the way I look, habits or my day to day life.  Something I believe is that looks can be influenced by certain habits and the other way around as well. Like diet and exercise, hygiene routines, etc. And these habits also influence day to day life. This is why I don't have a specific focus on just my looks or just one habit. Basically, I hope to improve my overall life and get the most out of it.   My inspirations, who I look up to Wonyoungism, SongJia mindset, WizardLiz, TamKaur Idols; NingNing and Karina (Aespa), Meghan Thee Stallion, Jia, Wonyoung, Seonghwa, Yeosang There are certain things I want to start incorporating in my daily routine. These are habits I believe are necessary basics (in my life): Consistent hygiene routine; skincare, bodycare, haircare Focus on having a healthy lifestyle; diet, exercise, therapy Improve my spiritual path; prayer, meditation, journaling So I already have a workout routine I used to follow and have gotten back to as well as a diet. I’ve also been going to therapy for some time and gonna try to talk about that in future entries.  Incorporating these habits in my daily life: 1. Be consistent with my morning and nighttime skincare as well as my haircare and bodycare.  2. Workout 4-5x a week (this is what i know i am able to do and gives me enough rest days!)   3. Go for walks on rest days so i’ll stay active in a relaxed way. (i want to try 10k steps or just 30 mins is also fine)  4. Pray 2-3x a day (morning, afternoon, before bed)  5. Meditate right after waking up (MUST) and before bed 6. Try journaling everyday (that's what this blog is for 😛) I’m not focussed on growing a following, but I hope that people who stumble across my blog can be inspired and motivated and maybe we can be friends who support each other on a similar journey! ^_^

Love, Sunny

[elle1her]

How to be confident ?

Hey lovlyzz💕 Hope y’all are pretty well! Today I wanna talk about some of the tips that can help you to reach ‘confidence is the key’ mindset. Enjoy!

(Before I start I want y’all to know that what I’m gonna say is what I experienced in the past, so I wanted to share this tips with you all and try to help everyone who’s trying to be a better version).

.Find your style

Nowadays I see a lot of people copying influencers, celebrities styles, even tho it makes them uncomfortable they keep copying them which is wrong! If you wanna be confident and attractive at the same time wear what makes you comfortable..these influencers are wearing what please them so why you’re copying them? Unless if their style match yours or you take it as an inspo, because by imitating them you’re to be them, but they’re already someone.

If you find it hard to find your style go to Pinterest look for the style that you like the most and buy some pieces that match the style you want, you don’t have to go to store you can go thrifting instead if you don’t have enough money just wear what makes you super comfortable, by that you’ll gain more confidence.

Also for makeup try to find the makeup that suits you the best! For me I used to wear heavy makeup but it wasn’t fitting my features but after I watched some videos on YouTube I realized that soft makeup match me so well.

.Compliment yourself

Believe me or not since I start complimenting myself I felt like someone new!

Whenever you wake up tell yourself how pretty you are how gourous you are, look at the mirror and keep complimenting your look.

By doing that your subconscious mind will believe this idea so you’re gonna start to feel more confident certainly.

.Fake it

When I used to be very insecure and unsure of my self, I was always faking my confidence..for example if someone tries to bring about my insecurities I act like I don’t have any of these insecurities they’re talking about like (my curly hair, my bunny teeth..ect) until I made them believe that I really don’t care what they’re saying and it made me believe it too! Until I became confident.

.Heal your trauma

I know this might be weird to hear but you should heal your trauma (your inner child) so you’re gonna be able to trust yourself which means ‘confident’.

you can’t be confident and weak at the same time you have to heal every part of you, start meditation, go see a therapist, try to change your bad habits, work on your personality until you’re satisfied with who you are. You’re gonna feel assertive and stronger immediately!

Hope this tips will help all of you! I didn’t want to add too much details since these tips are the main ones who helped me to reach this mindset..I’ll share more next time thank you sm for reading my blog may god bless y’all 🩷

[raemimuse]