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No listen. I stan deeply problematic people because like recognises like. I strongly believe people deserve second chances if they’re genuinely trying to learn and grow.
Which leads me to Marat Safin, who has been a long time favourite player of mine. His career was definitely negatively affected by his temperament so if he’s helped Andrey Rublev in any way, it comes from hard won experience and there’s absolutely nothing surprising about it.
#andrey rublev#Marat Safin#tennis#non kpop#I really dislike people who are so quick to throw others away#some toxic people you cut out sure#but not the ones who are struggling and fighting to get better#cutting down people at their lowest point is evil#but cutting down people when they’re trying to improve is diabolical#I’ve seen some really interesting posts about AR on here#and I would hope that if those OPs ever make a mistake#someone shows them compassion#not everything had to be so bleak
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This is Tower & Broken's dynamic to me
#slay the princess#stp#stp tower#voice of the broken#stp voices#art#im realizing the size i draw tower & broken is very inconsistent & not at all reflective of her in-game size#oh well#i don't usually have that much to say about the voices but good for broken in the new update. happy for him.#i was always a broken apologist (i thought he was funny)#but i appreciated the compassion he shows towards the princess in this update#idk it felt like showing another side to his 'devotion' shtick#going from 'mindless devotion even to those who are cruel to you'#to 'sticking with someone through their worst moments bc you see a better side to them'#or that's how i interpreted it anyways
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[ cw: violence mention / death mention / ]
Will never stop thinking about how Leo, all alone in an endless void and being beaten again and again and again by the only other living thing around, still finds comfort in that space. The situation he was in was completely hopeless, and in any other circumstances he would not have escaped, at least not fast enough to save him from permanent (or even fatal) damage, be it physical or mental.
And yet, despite the bleakness of his situation, despite the agony and helplessness, all he needs is one glance at a crumbled photograph, one glance to remember his family, and that’s enough of a reason for him to smile.
Maybe that’s why his powers center around manipulating space - because no matter how much space is between them, no matter how dire his own situation may be, just the thought of his family, alive and okay, is enough to give Leo hope.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt leo#rise leo#the prison dimension is horrifying on its own#add in a monstrous being that towers over you and has vowed to ensure your suffering?#god I can’t imagine how scary that is#Mikey opening the portal was a miracle because if he hadn’t managed it there#it’s really up in the air what could have become of Leo#personally I subscribe by the theory that you straight up can’t die in the prison dimension#so it’s a prison in all ways#but the thought of a Leo who manages anyway who adapts and continues to have hope despite it all…#Leo saying he’s nothing without his family is a double edged sword really#because the thought of his family alone is all he needs to live. to hope.#to smile#nothing without them…but they’re EVERYTHING to him#and maybe he doesn’t realize it but…the feeling is mutual#one thing too is that hope that comforts Leo so much is not just that#should he think his family needs help - that hope can turn into determination#I’m unwell about this family#actually on my point of their powers - I truly do think the abilities tie in not only to their personalities#but to their relationship to family and love in general#kinda like love languages in a way#Mikey with his chains and time abilities values being around his family the most - he wants them to experience living in the moment togethe#Donnie is someone who is 100% a gift giver to show his love - his constructs are exactly that aren’t they? gifts of his mind#Raph is someone who willingly bears the weight of the shield - he protects his family like the best big brother possible#and Leo - he goes off on his own a lot but his mind is constantly on his family anyway#like a sailor at sea no matter how far he travels the compass always point in one direction - and for him that compass points home#even if he can’t make it back - it’s still there#and that’s enough
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Something that just continues surprising me is how much compassion Shu Takumi can write in characters
#lynne sympathizing with [redacted] in ghost trick made a big impression on me#same with the bartender in PLvsPW calling out phoenix for being selfish#but then showing compassion for his immense pain causing him to be like that#something about people just. sharing pain and understanding people around them#it's so heartfelt#sometimes all you need is someone giving you compassion and sympathy#sniffle#ace attorney#ghost trick#gattocatto's silly posts#gattocatto's ramblies
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young dutch and hosea, but its just them laying out in the grass, talking for hours as the time passes, neither realizing such until dutch's quiet snores halt hosea in his exaggerated talk. and all he can do is peer to his left, completely awestruck by not the stars, but him instead.
and it's the first time he's ever felt okay. it's the first time in what has felt to be a lifetime that he's realized that what dutch and he share, is so much more than his past.
that, with dutch, he can feel right, because dutch is what makes him that. and inspires him to continue being that.
#vandermatthews#hosea rdr2#hosea matthews#dutch rdr2#dutch van der linde#rdr2#red dead redemption 2#young hosea and young dutch are everything to me#theres not much said about it so you can just go wild#and i love that.#because in my mind#young hosea was someone meant to be feared - and WAS very dangerous#but dutch comes into his life and he suddenly thinks different#he doesnt have an itch to pull the trigger at some fool#what used to be reluctance#came in compassion#because of dutch#he started to use kindness instead of anger#and would fuel that out positively#BECAUSE of dutch he understood that yes#he may be scarred#but that does not mean he is broken#that does not mean he is meant to be forgotten#because to dutch#he is somebody#he is love to dutch#and thats what makes hosea believe in love#because dutch showed him that even the cruelest of things have love within them#— can you tell i think of this daily?#hosea x dutch
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tiny seed of a fic idea: the ghoul and lucy make it to vegas after 2+ weeks of Team Bonding Through The Power Of Life Threatening Road Trips, by now lucy has basically solemnly vowed to help him find his family, and then in homage to the new vegas game, cooper IMMEDIATELY gets shot in the head and dies the minute they enter vegas. he's fine, he'll be fine, he's gonna get patched up by some random good samaritan doctor and come back swinging for incredibly violent revenge. but lucy does not know this. bonus points if it's her shithead dad that shot him
#actually i wouldn't be surprised if season 2 went with something like this#lucy getting shot would also be interesting because like. everyone loves that trope#gruff mean morally gray dude ''doesn't care'' until someone he totally won't admit he cares about dies#and then it's a 🎶 fucking bloodbath 🎶#but on the other hand. cooper getting shot gives us plenty of lucy bending her moral compass juuuuuust a bit#tearing through vegas always on the verge of tears DETERMINED to find out where barb and janey ended up#because she made a promise gosh damn it#plus of the two of them who's gonna go for a reunion hug when it's revealed the shot wasn't fatal after all?#lucy. obviously#could get the best of both worlds by having cooper get shot and ''die'' but then give him some reason to believe lucy's dead too#he's on his murder revenge quest and finds out.... maybe that lucy was tracking down his family and died somehow because of it#(obviously she didn't)#and THEN we get a reunion hug!#oh. oh wait#oh no#this is becoming more than a seed FUCK#me#fallout show
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one thing I love about following celebrities/artists who are honest and proactive about their mental health struggles etc is I can’t count the number of times someone I know is going through something and I’m like ‘I’ve got a song for u’ and how much of my life involves telling myself ‘if [redacted] can do something/get better/etc then so can i’ (and having actual real evidence of it in front of me) and I can’t understate how much I appreciate these things.
but at the same time it involves a whole lot of watching people I care about suffer and you learn to read the signs and infer between the lines in songs and interviews, and yes we can never fully know what they don’t share with us, but when they do share things it’s not a big stretch to be like ‘this seems like it’s what life is like for you and I have taken encouragement from it but you deserve so much better’. and it’s easy to find ways to get angry at a predatory industry and realise things that could be hurtful if you’re already fragile.
and we can advocate for some things and help ourselves and the people around us feel better but it’s hard to meaningfully reach your faves as an individual. and there are things we can’t say on the internet in too much detail, speculation becomes the harmful kind of gossip, and so sometimes it’s a whole lot of internally saying ‘you’re doing incredibly well to have gotten to where you are but I wish for your sake things would get better faster’
#curse and catch 22 (not the song)#I didn’t mean to make this so anonymous as a post but maybe. it’s applicable to a lot of artists. I don’t know#just thinking about how sometimes someone will say something and it’s like ‘oh honey’ if you can see. why they might be saying it#like a glimpse into the top of an iceberg that makes a lot of sense to be there given other things they do and talk about#I feel like we’re in a unique position as a fandom with the way all four of them have been so vulnerable in different ways#and they may not be perfect but imo no one deserves to suffer like that especially for an extended amount of time. but the thing is#sometimes the fans are suffering and so are our faves and people appreciate the relatability and don’t have any basic compassion#or ability to see past their own struggles. with this fandom especially compared to a lot of others I’ve been in and I think I know why#but in the end the way I see it we’ve gotten so much relatable content and encouragement (bc the Finding The Positives Vibes which are ther#and sometimes there’s nothing we can give back apart from being a part of systemic change which all of us deserve for ourselves too#idk if this band is unique in this or I just find them more relatable personally and thus easier to see how hard they’ve worked#on themselves and taking risks in order to be honest. and it reminds me of the quote about how suffering won’t make your art better#healing will. and so imo anyone whose art is really good when they are going through a lot has me thinking. imagine what it’d be like#when life isn’t so hard for you?? or when you’re getting better but it just takes a long time I’m like. you deserve to feel better faster#this all said I’m incredibly proud and I’m not trying to insinuate there’s anything catastrophic going on bc there absolutely isnt#I am not in any way worried. I’ve seen tragedies about to happen and these guys show none of the signs. but I do relate to a lot of tidbits#pertaining to. certain chronic mental illnesses and/or being neurodivergent in an unaccommodating world (don’t ask which)#things I would anticipate would be a lot harder when there’s hordes of often fickle occasionally predatory fans to contend with#sometimes I just think of this idk#celebrities are people#5 seconds of summer#5sos#5sos fandom#cw mental health things
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I thought this was a very well-rounded episode with the writing, directing and editing. This felt like a true ensemble episode that gave both excellent group and individual scenes.
The pacing was great. It gave necessary space to each character to tell their story. Yet nothing felt dragged or rushed. It allowed the actors to showcase their acting chops, including their voice acting - in a clever way to show the intensity with the budget they have. (Which I personally prefer to the unrealistic disaster scenes.)
To me, those who made it happen, really know and love the characters. They respected the audience, esp. with the visual storytelling. The shots were creative and the close-up really showed the characters' POVs. Whatever convoluted and shoehorned plot points that brought them here, the scenarios felt true to characters.
For the team, it was a sort of a mid-season check-in and "day in the lives of", as they adjust to the new captain and new mayor. I love the structure that began with the flash forward of the climax (Andy's crisis) and ended with the resolution (Andy feeling she failed Pruitt's legacy). The episode fully captured the physical and emotional toll on the firefighters. Even with all the fighting, 19 felt like a team.
I love that the music was used to complement the aftermath of the climatic scene, to reflect on the mental states of the team members. Not during, and not to do the heavy lifting in an action montage.
Everyone else also had their moment of reflection or challenge, when they are forced to face the truth and make a difficult decision or remain in denial and fall back on their usual coping mechanisms.
The Marina scenes felt so them. They are so very married. How they fight and communicate evolved, showing their growth. I love how Stefania captured both the idiosyncrasies b/w Danielle n her, and Carina n Maya. The humor was on point.
Even with the darker scenes, this episode felt like a love letter, to the show, to the characters and to the fans. It exuded a warmth, like Stefania.
#station 19#station 19 comments#maybe there's a metaphor#in the use of mirrors#to show how vic n kate cope with trauma#vic seems to be suffering from#emotional burnout#compassion fatigue#she's great at helping others but not herself#maybe kate lost someone#she's keeping people at a distance#n avoiding attachment#my issues with sullivan n beckett#were never the addiction#but the double standards n plot armor#it's interesting how they pointed out#the compassion of 19#was crucial to their healing#sullivan beckett n kate being outsiders at some point#19 rubbing off on them#sth I always rmb#gabor mate#said#don't ask why the addiction ask why the pain
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I went through my mom tag yesterday and im so upset i rlly need to talk to my parents abt things they said and didnt say to me as a kid and teen bc wtf reading this now im so upset.. she’s always been like this.. i was 14 i was 15
#always getting angry at me when i was upset#i just needed someone to listen and show compassion#they made me hide everything that upset me because i never felt like they understood me#the amount of times i made a post about being upsey abt the way my mom reacted when i was visibly upset…#never really supporting me when i got excited about my interest or hobbies#telling me i should be more realistic or that its too expensive or always some excuse#telling me i will lose interest after a month so no were not gonna do it#like shouldn’t you be happy for your kid if they’re passionate abt something?? at least tell them instead of brushing everything off#ive been talking abt theatre and dancing and music since i was 13/14#and i always got told its stupud and unrealistic#but im 10 years later im doing theatre and im doing dancing and music and i still love that more than anything so#im so mad
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It's the Little Things
The other day, I went in to get a sandwich from the sub shop where my 20 y.o. son works. My son rang me up and as I was about to leave, in front of all of his coworkers and other customers, he said, "Bye Mom. Love you, drive home safely!"
My heart melted like butter on a 100 degree day. That feeling has stayed with me all week.
#the little things#show your love#express love#love#sons#kids#when you love someone tell them#love makes the world go round#moms#kindness#compassion#be yourself#authenticity
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✨️Magenta✨️
#I've been really sad lately#its logical I've had a lot happen and a lot going on#and I've been mostly bedridden the past week cause of fibro flares#my brain can see the logic of why my body feels burnt out and why i feel anxious#but i also have this profound sense of loneliness that's been weighing on my chest#I feel the need to isolate and get away from people because it feels like it doesn't matter how much i try to blend in someone#will catch onto me being an “alien” or not quite fitting their mold or having a difference of opinion and i get bullied or ostracized#out of participating with folks or doing activities#and i get so overwhelmed by people and their literal energy/vibes that it feels as though I'm caught in a sneaker wave and being pulled#from shore and this is compounded on top of that feeling of being surrounded by people like tons of them who may even enjoy your company#but still feel very much isolated and alone the whole time#it could be winter triggering trauma responses in me due to childhood abuse related to the holidays#and then there's me trying to brainstorm how i can make money with my creativity when i have little to no help with anyone#and no one will give me a chance to bounce ideas and get a third persons opinion#its felt like this since i can remember: people value that i listen and reflect all the while show compassion#and then when i really need it myself and attempt to reach out i get the door shut in my face#it feels like the only people that have truly listened to me are therapists lmao and it hurts cause its like i gotta pay someone#just to listen to me go off on this idea i have for a side hustle a creative pursuit something i love#and i can't really share that with anyone irl because I'm supposed to be everyones therapist#and its shitty i dont get paid for it if thats the case lol#i feel like tumblr is the only spot I really have where i can share a lot of myself and make things that make others and myself happy#i don't know what id do without it#magenta is my safe word for venting#thanks for coming to my tedtalk as i write into the void#getting shit off my chest at 4am#i aint gettin no sleep cause of yall yall not gon get no sleep cause of meeee
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as much as I generally like the ending of brooklyn nine nine I don’t love what they did with Jake’s character. I feel like his friendship with Doug Judy and the way it ended was a missed opportunity for Jake to re-evaluate policemanship and what he’s actually doing at the 99th precint. Jake has always had a very childish, idealised perspective of a police officer. His character arc centres around growing up and maturing - it seems like such a missed opportunity not to have his persepctive of a police officer also mature, especially considering he’s had so many moments that might prompt him to re-consider. After he’s wrongly imprisoned, he struggles with the responsibility of arresting the right person for the crime. He makes a wrongful arrest and is guilting of intimidating an innocent person - and he feels remorse when he realises the subject is innocent, but feels justified in his actions when he thinks they’re guilty. All throughout his relationship with Sofia, they argued about the ethics of her job, because she was defending “criminals”. And yes, she’s a defense lawyer, she does represent clients that have commited crimes.
Even though the last season tackled police reform in a lot of detail, it stopped short of defending the idea that even criminals deserve human rights. Even as it represented Doug Judy’s bittersweet departure from the show, highlighting that he ended up in a life of crime because he couldn’t get his life back on track after being convicted of a minor offense -- Jake is sympathetic and helps his friend, but none of the team acknowledge with any serious depth how badly the justice system failed Doug Judy.
That could have been a catalyst for Jake’s character, but it wasn’t.
Although it’s rewarding to see Jake go from fatherless to the-father-he-never-had, and his dedication as a stay-at-home dad and everything that means to him, I don’t think it was the most rewarding end to his character arc.
Instead, I’d love to have seen him do a deep-dive into Doug Judy’s old case files after his arrest/escape. (He’d have to be cautious, so that no one picked up on what he did). To really take the time and think back on every criminal he’d arrested and how much it changed the trajectory of their life. To look at the arrest record of someone he’d booked as a first-time offender, noticing that they’d been convicted of multiple crimes since then...and wondering if he’d condemned them to a cycle they couldn’t get out of with that first arrest. Looking back on his career and everything he did, without that idyllic, childish, ‘good guys vs. bad guys’ mindset.
And after all that, he goes back to Sofia. Not to get back together with her, but to tell her she was right. Defending the human rights of the accused, even if they’re guilty really is the basis of their entire justice system. So he re-connects with her - to network and gain her advice.
Because he’s decided - he wants to become a defense lawyer.
#jake peralta#brooklyn nine nine#and THAT'S how you show he's grown up#jake has such an idyllic childish borderline HARMFUL perspective of a police officer#he's ALWAYS been the character with the good guys vs bad guys mentality#treating victims and perpetrators alike as if they're all in a movie and he's the hero#have him grapple with it#reflect on it#use doug judy's arc to rock the boat#truly look back on his life's work#and re-evaluate#because the police reform program holt and amy are working on is great#but it only focuses on protecting the rights of the innocent#even if someone is guilty#they still deserve human rights#jake needed to be the character to take a stand and say that#because HE is the character with the criminal = dirtbag mindset#none of them really show compassion to the guilty but Jake perpetuates the good guys vs. bad guys mentality the MOST#his actual character arc ending is borderline ableist imo#because the idea is that he has 'matured' into a proper adult#because he's RESPONSIBLE now#ill admit that his last goodbye with holt is touching#but it's hard to really appreciate it for me#bc like every single reason that he struggles with responsibility#is a symptom of ADHD#expecting a character to 'overcome' that through working harder#is just NOT POSSIBLE for someone with ADHD#the expectation that Jake should overcome his struggles (all of which are ADHD symptoms)#without ever having his ADHD treated/mentioned/acknowledged#ust rubs me the wrong way
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i have been waiting for boston to fuck chueam's brother and it is so tasty now that she kind of put him in her corner again. this is going to be such a mess. i didn't even yell "boston, no!" at my screen because i knew there was nothing going to stop him
#only friends the series#only friends#gods....nick's senior is also a creep...however...there was a daddy in boston's phone so the chances are very high that boston has had sex#with him which will bring them together at some points although i don't know to which capacity#atm i wouldn't like it if the senior turns out to be a worse guy (eh already is based on the preview) and boston comes in to 'save' nick#but i believe boston will protect nick in that regard#boston after all has a moral (?) compass - just one that usually doesn't allign with any of his friends#like: i will fuck your man but really i am just showing you who he is and since you didn't actually know him your relationship really isn#t worth enough to consider this a transgression against you as my friend#and sure i know you wouldn't want me to have sex with your little brother because you know the type of guy i am but have you considered tha#it is not your business whether he wants me#but let boston meet someone who he thinks does underhanded shit and he will fuck them up even if it looks on paper as if he's doing the sam#shit#so far the unsorted thoughts on bostonnick
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#laughing bc it was supposed to be the year of devouring. and now its like its all i can do to stay alive day in and day out#and ive ruined everything else#and its so embarrassing. tearing it down to the foundation when ive supposed to have built so. so much more. like i have nothing to show#like i really wish someone would swoop in and hand me a pass- for being such a fucking wreck at this point.#it feels like celebrities and others share their mental health struggles and you feel compassion- you dont judge them. dont look down.#so why cant i feel the same way for myself? like. why is this all you have to show for yourself??
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honestly I went into the sumeru archon quest ready to hate nahida or at the very least be very indifferent to her bc I was so like. Tired of how blatantly orientalist every aspect of sumeru seemed to be + nahidas design compounded w the fact that she's an archon using the chibi model reaaaalllly did not leave a good impression. .....However !! ! I actually ended up really liking her as a character despite my reservations. i think she might be my favorite archon if I'm going to be honest
#like i reallt really despise the 500 year old entity who looks like a 5 year old trope#but i get why they chose to make nahida a child/resemble a child. & tbh the more that i think abt it#the more i end up understainding it as a creative decision#since a lot of the archon quest involved subverting what wisdom traditionally looks by sumerus cultural standards (the thing w dreams + the#hamfisted ''the arts are Useless and Suck'' storyline lol)#what better way to subvert the traditional model of intelligence than to epitomize it w the visage of a child?#ie someone who is typically regarded as one of the lowest in society precisely because of the knowledge they lack & frequently treated as#subhuman for it#despite the fact that they are constantly accumulating knowledge at a rapid fire pace & are more open to the world around them as a result#you can only gain knowledge if you realize & respect that you only ever know so much etc.#intelligence not being a show of what you already know but rather a willingness to continue pursuing & understanding others with compassion#its Nice i Really Like that#i think the decision to represent the goddess of wisdom w childlike curiosity as opposed to an older wisened type was a good one#i just hate that its Genshin Impact doing this#so obviously their primary reasoning behind making her a child is the far more blatantly insidious one
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The Doren storyline has so much potential i hope it gets more content soon
#Just. The way Doren realizes that PC's behavior isn't normal and tries to genuinely help them#I especially like to imagine her and Foxy's dynamic... She knows Foxglove is a troublemaker but also worries abt her#She can see the signs of abuse a mile away and has the combo of authority and warmth that loosens up Foxy and helps her feel safe to vent#But like... Despite her noble ''i can fix her. platonically'' aspirations i doubt Doren would be able to scratch past the surface much#Foxglove is never saying the name of the partner that makes her cry and show up with a split lip or dried blood in her nose#And Doren is Too Nice to push the issue. So she just offers a warm embrace and whatever measly comfort she can#I also love the idea of her going softer on Foxglove despite her misdeeds because she can see she's Going Through It lol...#She endures the weird stares it gets her from other teachers if she mentions it (especially Winter) bc she just wants to help so bad#Doren and the dog with bite issues she picked up at the pound and insists it just needs some love#Meanwhile Foxglove i think would lightly cling to her. Probably run to her every time Avery is being a dick. Just to end up having another#breakdown bc it isn't Avery comforting her but also deep down i think she genuinely appreciates it#Just. Someone offering you compassion w no ulterior motives for the first time... Both scary and delicious#Foxglove trying her hardest to not Act Out because Doren is just So Nice would be so funny. Her veins r popping
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