#i wish i could just mind meld with ppl so they would understand what would actually be supportive and kind
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seriously, i am so sorry to anyone i have ever called brave for literally just doing the things that are required for existing lol, it's so fucking annoying
#sick posting#i have had to make a lot of changes to my thought process of how to respond to someone talking about an Illness or Disability they have#like#the problem is that it really is so well meaning when ppl say certain things#like they WANT to be supportive#they are showing extremely sincere support and compassion#and i do appreciate them for that very much#but that means there's no real way for me to contest it when it's not working#if i tell ppl to stop calling me brave or stop showing me sympathy#then i seem super ungrateful#and i don't want them to be hurt by that because i AM grateful for it#so it's really frustrating#i wish i could just mind meld with ppl so they would understand what would actually be supportive and kind#without me having to hurt their feelings or be rude#(and also of course#different people have different needs#so maybe some people really do like hearing that they're brave or tough or whatever#and so i'm always worried by talking about it ppl will see me as speaking for everyone in my situation#it's just really complicated and difficult and idk#i don't wanna deal with all that stuff#i'm just a girl(not-girl) lol#anyway alsk;hdlaksgl;h thank you to everyone for reading my vents and not taking them too seriously <3 <3 <3#i don't think anyone has called me 'brave' on here and even if u did u somehow did it in a way that didn't annoy the shit out of me#so thank you lol <3 <3 <3)#personal
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redacted was telling me how their relationship w their ex is like. theyve always known each other so well that they can sit in complete silence and just know what the other person is thinking. like just seem to understand each other perfectly n have this like crazy mind meld n at first i was like that sounds cute i wish i had that w someone n then i thought abt it more and im like idk that kinda sounds scary idk if i could handle someone else knowing what im thinking and just saying it out loud. i think if i met someone exactly like me i would probably find them annoying lol i get on a lot better w ppl who are a lot more loud and fearless than me
#mp#im still not sure whether i want that kinda relationship w someone tho. its tricky to imagine what thats like when u havnt actually#experienced it ig
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