#some of them want to abuse you!! some of them want to be abused!!!! EXACTLY!!!

[loramystii]

Ellabs 3 way one of them is fucking the reader in the ass and the other one is fucking them in the cunt both being very rough might I add 🫣

no rush!

ᴛᴀɢ ᴛᴇᴀᴍ ᴡ/ ᴇʟʟᴀʙꜱ

— ꜱʏɴᴏᴘꜱɪꜱ; ꜱᴇᴄʀᴇᴛʟʏ ꜱᴇᴇɪɴɢ ʙᴏᴛʜ ᴀʙʙʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴇʟʟɪᴇ ᴡᴀꜱ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ɪᴅᴇᴀ, ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʜᴇʏ ꜱʜᴏᴡᴇᴅ ʏᴏᴜ ᴡʜʏ.

— ᴄᴡ; ɴᴏɴ/ᴅᴜʙ ᴄᴏɴ, ᴀɴᴀʟ, ꜱᴛ��ᴀᴘ ᴜꜱᴀɢᴇ, ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛɪɴɢ ɪᴍᴘʟɪᴄᴀᴛɪᴏɴꜱ, ᴅᴇɢʀᴀᴅᴀᴛɪᴏɴ, ʜᴀɪʀ ᴘᴜʟʟɪɴɢ, ʙʀᴜɪꜱɪɴɢ

Ellie and Abby were both women anybody would kill to have, and when you get both, it’s easy to become greedy. Your only rules were to not let them find out about eachother, yet it’s a shame both of them wanted to brag about you. They found you at your apartment, the look of terror when you realize they knew surpassed your face. You would’ve attempted to explain, but the look of anger on Ellie’s face and irritable indifference in Abby’s triggered your fight or flight.

You got up quickly from your bed, backing away from them as Abby stood in place at the door frame and Ellie got closer to cornering you. You were engrossed and the only way out was where Abby guarded, but you’d cross that bridge when if you got there. Ellie waited for you to move, to get the satisfcation of capturing you in her hold. You gave her exactly what she wanted, ducking and trying to run past her. Ellie snatched your hair, a firm grip on it while pulling. You yelped, nearly feeling fire on your scalp.

Your neck twisted back, almost collapsing on Ellie’s figure. She holds your back against her chest, her mouth at your ear. “What’s wrong?” She murmured, forcing a leg between yours. “You were being such a slut, sneaking around with both of us, it must mean something, right?” She whispered, her hot mouth now leaving incensed kisses below your ear. Abby closed the door with her heel once Ellie secured her clasp on you, locking it soon after.

The sound of Abby’s boots hitting the cold wooden floor was intimidating, how she looked at the pathetic sight of Ellie’s leg rubbing against your clothed cunt and you not being able to do anything but a whimper. “Baby,” Abby spoke, yet no tenderness behind her words. You nodded, eyebrows furrowing, trying to get a hold of some sympathy from either of them. Abby’s hand came to your chin, looking down at you and humming. “You wanted to get fucked by both of us so bad, didn’t you?” She mocked with condescension. “Abby—“ Your sentence was cut off by Ellie pressing harder on your crotch and tugging more at your hair, a pained whimper leaving your parted lips.

“Be nice, Williams.” Abby tuts, “You’re gonna be good, strip, and get on that bed, baby. You wanted this so you’re getting it.” You were frozen up, both Ellie and Abby releasing you. You could’ve run, the opportunity was presented, yet the lingering feeling that it would make this worse for yourself didn’t leave you alone. You didn't move, hands glued to your side. Ellie pushed against your head harshly, making you collapse on the bed, using your hands to stabilize yourself. Your fingertips fiddled with the buttons of your top, slowly unbuttoning them, not to tease but to stall. "Hurry up," Ellie spat at you.

Your fingers sped up, whimpering while stripping yourself. You could see the fat bulge in Ellie's and Abby's pants. You had seen both of their straps in person and fucked yourself onto them, but never done both, never planned to. Ellie kneeled on the bed infront of you, looking down at you degradingly. She spit on your palm, smothering the saliva all over your tits before slapping them roughly. You whine, sitting on your ass as Ellie kneels between your legs and abuses your tits. Abby was never this kind, it had you worried, concerned. Her shifting onto the bed made it sink slightly more, coming behind you and pulling your hair into a sweet, makeshift pony tail. Her hand left your hair and then went to your nape, cooing and holding it with gentleness. Ellie scoffed, landing one hard slap on your tits. The smacking noises had began to develop into visible red marks on your tits.

Suddenly, Abby's grip on your neck gets tighter, pulling your back against her. She wraps her arm around your neck, mouth directly muffled against her bicep. You whimper, eyes widening, moving your hands to her biceps but unable to tug them off. Fear overtook your body along with tears but she shushed you right besides your ear. "Not gonna hurt you, promise." Your tears fall right onto her arms, Ellie laying on her stomach before you. "Spread them." She commanded and you reluctantly did so, watching her tap lightly on your clit. You squirm in Abby's arms, tears dying out. "Ellie is gonna get you all nice and wet for us, okay? You listen to us and won't get hurt, I don't break promises." You nod frantically, little headspace to move. You felt bruising develop on your neck, but decided not to complain.

Ellie worked her tongue against your clit, spelling her name on it to claim her stake. She was so generous with her movements, fucking you with her tongue and laying it flat on your cunt so you could grind your hips against it. She loved when you took some control, but today, this was the only moment she'd let you have some of it. Your moans were stifled by Abby's beefy arm nearly cutting all your circulation, her free hand around your tummy. Ellie watched your first orgasm crash upon you, your legs shaking slightly but staying upright from Abby's frame against yours. Ellie moved out the way, coming behind you to unbutton her pants. "I'm gonna stuff your pussy and I don't want to hear anything but moans or whimpering." Ellie stated coldly, waiting for you to arch and go on all fours. She wanted you to be quiet and obedient for once, you hoped she'd warm up to you again!

Similarly, Abby pulled her pants down, her strap resting on your ass cheek. "Guess I gotta stuff this gaping hole, huh?" She mocked, her thumb entering and leaving your asshole. You whimpered softly, unsure if speaking to Abby would anger Ellie. Ellie's tip started teasing your cunt, going over your folds before entering inside your velvety walls. Abby was prepping her cock and your hole, thumb stretching you while drenching her strap in lube. Ellie thrusted harshly, not waiting for a sign to move after bottom out. Your yelp had Ellie rolling her eyes, "Your pussy will adjust, stop fuckin' whining like a little bitch." You nod, babbling as she fucked in and out of you.

You completely forgot about the other stimulation till Abby pressed her fat cock into your asshole. It was painful yet the lube added pleasure into the mix. She pushed inch by inch carefully and at this point you didn't know which dick to focus on! You were fully stuffed and cockdrunk; not a single thought in your mind. When she bottomed out, your eyes basically rolled to the back of your head, hands grasping the sheets like crazy. "Fu— fuckkk–" You whined, sensing Abby pumping out of you and matching Ellie's rhythm to stuff you simultaneously. "Can't believe you thought you wouldn't get caught," Abby taunted, chuckling as she groaned, hardly able to keep the pace as you sucked her in. "But now that I think of it, maybe you wanted this all along, like a dirty fucking whore." You mindlessly rambled and noddded, head bobbing with every thrust they gave you.

"Fuck—" Ellie was high off your pussy, holding onto your hips like a vice. The harness was hitting her clit repeatedly, self control slipping away moment by moment. "Feel so good, baby," Her pet names made you moan louder, the way she forgot all her anger when she got the friction she craved. Your orgasm was building up again, a small knot in your tummy. "Cum, cum baby, love you—" Ellie slipped up, rushing while moaning to correct herself, hearing Abby mindlessly chuckle, still observing your hole sucking in her strap. "Love— love when you take my strap–" Her words and mistake sent you over the edge along with Abby filling your ass. You panted, cum dripping on the silicone cocks.

"So fucking whipped, Williams." Abby stated, pulling out her strap besides Ellie. You practically had heart eyes in your pupils, wiggling your ass to grab their attention. "What?" Ellie said with faux sternness, a small pout coming onto your lips. "Don't be mean after confessing your love." Abby rolled her eyes and stroked your hair.

[lananiscorner]

Eh... this is not so much a "neurotypical" problem as it is a "general conflict management and de-escalation" problem, and it can have multiple reasons. Let's just say person A says person B did something wrong, B wants an explanation and A refuses to give one. This can be for any one of the following reasons:

A is used to good faith attempts at clarifying being met with bad faith/abusive/manipulative attempts to pick their logic apart and/or gaslight them by feigning ignorance/incompetence, and so has taken up a policy of "do not engage". This can be a generally good and healthy approach in many situations (e.g. someone hits on you at a bar, you tell them you're not interested, they ask you why not, you say they're not your type, they ask what exactly makes them not your type, etc. You are now already 2 levels deeper into this conversation than you ever wanted to be and feeling more gang-pressed into giving information, which is triggering your fight or flight instincts).

A is using this withholding of information as a means of emotional manipulation themselves, to keep B from properly articulating their own point/needs/wants/boundaries.

A doesn't quite understand the reasoning for why B is wrong themselves. This is common with social norms and behaviors, which are ingrained in most people at an age when they are too young to reason their way through them. Somebody in the notes mentioned the example of unspoken, nitty-gritty grammar rules, like how you would say "the big red truck" but not "the red big truck" and how to a non-native speaker this rule doesn't make sense. Sometimes the answer really is just "because" and nobody likes being grilled for information that they themselves don't have. It feels like being interrogated rather than having a conversation.

People who are good at something generally underestimate the knowledge/skill base of people who are not good at it. Y'all know that meme where the two scientists go "we have to be careful, most people probably only know X and maybe a bit of Y", where X and Y are things that nobody outside that field of study would know? This is the same thing. Sometimes people genuinely don't understand how specific you need them to be. Easy example: I grew in a culture that values punctuality. You show up to everything ideally 5-10 minutes before it starts. But I have one friend who absolutely hated that, who was constantly stressed out if I arrived at her place 5 minutes early, and I genuinely did not understand why this was such a problem for her and why she couldn't just prep for guests earlier (we had both grown up in this culture), until she explained to me in great detail how her mind would just use that extra time to find increasingly minute, procrastinating details to hyper focus on and lose track of time, giving me a few examples of such issues. That last bit was what was needed to make my brain go "oh, that's why, ok, I'll try to show up *shudders* 10 minutes late in the future".

They are low on spoons and don't have the time/energy needed to get into a longer conversation. This gets progressively worse the more introverted a person is.

Scenario 1, 3 and 4 are generally resolved fairly easily by being very upfront, but calm about it: "A, I like you and I want to do right by you, but I really, genuinely mean it when I say that I don't know what I did wrong. My brain is currently desperately trying to trace back every step that has happened and to find out what went wrong, and it can't, so clearly I'm missing some steps. Please explain it to me like you would explain it to some space alien that has just been dropped on Earth and has never been in situation X before, so I can do better next time."

At this point, if it's scenario 5 (no time/energy), Person A will usually say so (sometimes rudely, depending on how close they are to what Captain Awkward lovingly calls the Bitch Eating Crackers level of mental spoons exhaustion). This is a good point to ask " Okay, I understand. I'll ask some other time, when you have more time/energy if that's okay with you."

And if the answer you get then is some variation of "no it's fucking not, we're done talking about this ever", then you know that, at the very least, this person does not consider you important/worthwhile enough to set aside two minutes of their time to help you understand something, even when they have the time/energy.

And if you keep on running into this with the same person multiple times, then I'm sorry to say, it's likely scenario 2.

[certifiedsexed]

Hi,

I think I’ve experienced CoSA but when I first opened up about it to my then psychologist, she said what happened to me is a normal part of childhood sexual development and the sooner I understand and internalize that, the better. That it was only my own shame that made it feel like it was traumatic. She made me feel like I’ve overreacted and I shouldn’t even have brought it up in therapy. I almost felt scolded by her. She didn’t even let me finish the story, she just cut me off and started ranting. I’ve been very ashamed of the whole situation ever since and sometimes it feels like I must have made up the whole thing and even when I told my partner I felt like I was “appropriating serious trauma” and “faking”. Is that even possible?

The things he did also don’t feel “enough” to count as sexual abuse. Even if I’d never tell that to anybody else.

I’m so lost on how to move on from this situation, since I haven’t been able to bring this up to other mental health professionals because I don’t think I can take the situation with her repeating and it’s so difficult to find good providers to begin with.

Hi!

I'm so, so sorry you had to experience that, Anon. Your psychologist's response sounds inappropriate on several different levels (interrupting you, dismissing your feelings, ranting to you about it), that's awful. 💕

I know its so hard to open up about things like that and for her to not even let you finish and use what sounds like victim-blaming rhetoric to shut you down is devastating.

I'll say upfront, I don't know what happened to you specifically. But I do know people who went through trauma, especially sexual trauma, often feel like they're faking and/or their trauma isn't real/serious. That doesn't mean it isn't real or "enough" to actually be traumatic.

I'll also say, it's not "faking" or "appropriation" to be upset or feel traumatized by something and its definitely not faking to tell your partner about something that happened to you. You did not make it up, which means you are not faking shit.

Treat yourself as if you are someone else.

If someone else, let's say your partner, told you they experienced exactly what you experienced and that they were worried they'd been sexually assaulted, what would you say? What would you think?

I don't know you, but I suspect you wouldn't react as aggressively as your psychologist did. I suspect you would have an entirely different perspective and you would, at the very least, be respectful and kind about it.

I understand the fear of talking to another therapist/psychologist about it. The struggle to find good mental health professionals is dire, tbh.

(I hope you are no longer with the psychologist who treated you like that because that's unacceptable.)

I don't know if you want advice on that front but I would suggest while you obviously don't have to talk about it again if you're not comfortable, if you find someone that you think you might be able to discuss it with, I'd ask some questions first!

Tell them you're scared to tell them something that happened to you because people have reacted badly before. Ask them what they'd do if you told them something that you felt traumatized/hurt you and they thought "wasn't really traumatizing".

Ask them if they have patients/experience with sexual abuse, childhood in particular.

Hell, if it helps, see if your partner can stick with you when/if you ever decide to discuss it with someone else again. Whatever helps.

Hope this helps, Anon. Let me know if you have any other questions. <33

[bouncinghedgehog]

I know a little something that so many do not appreciate about Donald, but that those of us who worked with him in the financial services game have known for many decades—LONG before he ever made a run at politics.

His stated motives rarely reveal his true agenda. His showmanship and charisma bedazzles the uninformed, which is exactly how he likes it. He never signed a contract or met an agreement he wouldn’t violate or wriggle out of if it suited his hidden agenda. He never met an investor whose purse he didn’t consider his own in some strategic way. And he never met a human being he wouldn’t screw in order to advance or satisfy himself.

If you want to understand his beef with Panama, don’t look at the canal to which he now points. Look at Trump enterprises and their fraught financial and criminal relationship with Panama, and look to the Russian oligarchs who bought condos in his Panama Tower. If you want to understand his fixation with Gaza, don’t look at the Palestinian or Israeli people; look at the real estate value he now perceives that Gaza holds, and he’d like to unlock. If you want to understand his insane, obsessive beef with energy renewable windmills, don’t look at the wind energy aspect; look at his beef with Scotland over his golf course and the nearby windmills that damaged his idea of its aesthetics.

If you want to understand his irrational hatred of Obama, don’t look at the policies of the Obama administration; look to the annual press corp dinner where Obama poked fun at him and bruised his ego. If you want to understand his demonization of Democrats, look not to Democratic social policy, but to the fact they didn’t want him to run under color of their party. If you want to understand his hatred of “immigrants” don’t look to the actual contributions and challenges related to immigration, but to his own germophobia and personal disgust for all things “dirty and brown.”

What he does SO masterfully, as many sociopaths do, is figure out how to align, however temporarily, his own personal agenda with the drives of those he can then USE to help him execute it.

And the GOP fell right in line with that abusive strategy. The GOP now looks much like a battered wife who would LOVE to quit Trump, but who also knows their financial security, personal comfort, and social status would collapse if they ran away. And they fear they won’t get much sympathy or support from the people who tried to warn them not to marry the dude—a serial, liar, cheater, thief, sadist, and a generally Bad Person.

Many of the GOP politicians today are busily masking their own abuse from the general public; at some point, however, as they watch their power continue to erode, their reputations get smashed, and themselves get blamed for the extensive abuse they now suffer, something’s gonna give.

I don’t know what it is, but every bone in my body FEELS an energetic convergence heading toward a massive, MASSIVE explosion—coming soon.

Eilene Workman

[vonlipvig]

KINDS OF KINDNESS!!!!!!!!!!!! SO GOOD!!!!!!!!!!

[gayfertilitygoddess]

I see where @yaoist is coming from, and I think the misunderstanding is about who this quote is addressing. It’s true that studying why people became Nazis is important for making sure we don’t get more Nazis. The quoted author literally agrees with this, according to the summary for his essay collection, Very Fine People (source):

For some people, the rise of Donald Trump's MAGA cult represented only ongoing proof of a supremacist nation they had endured all along. Author A.R. Moxon was not one of them. He was caught unaware. Thus begins this confession of an American fool, a methodical mapping of the nation the author failed to see—a nation of "very fine people" too convinced they are exceptionally good to acknowledge the ways they participate in abuse and harm.

This essay collection contemplates what to do about a populist far-right authoritarian uprising involving so many of our friends and family members. Written from 2016 to 2023, it is a work of progressing awareness, pondering the questions "how did we get here?" and "what do we do about it?"

With clarity and wit, Moxon charts the insidious and destructive nature of American supremacy—the foundational lies empowering it, the social instinct accommodating it, the systemic sabotage of shared human society entrenching it into all of our lives—and finds some tools that might let us oppose it by becoming people who fix what is broken...which means realizing, at long last, who the "very fine people" truly are.

Rather than assuring people that they’re not The Bad Guys and giving them a pat on the back, I think this quote is urging everyone to look at their own actions to check who they’re aligning themselves with. It’s directed at the kind of people who voted for Trump, not because they hate immigrants or trans people, but for some reason that seems legitimate like struggling with rising grocery prices. It’s telling them, “You’ve aligned yourself with this movement. Untangle yourself now or you’ll be bound to whatever comes of your choices.”

If you want to nitpick the wording…okay. “Nobody cares” is a sloppy way of putting it and doesn’t cover every possible interpretation of what he’s trying to say. But what this quote means if you read it in the context of his other work is exactly what @thatweirdguyinthebushes is saying it means: that by co-signing a movement, whatever your reasoning, you are responsible for what comes next. “Nobody cares” means it doesn’t make a difference to the victims why you decided to attack them. Your reasoning doesn’t absolve you of responsibility.

I think this reading is especially important for leftists, who have been time and again proven capable of incredible cruelty when they think their reasons are legitimate and The Bad Guys are someone else.

[sandinmybed]

can i be fr for a minute?? sending abuse to people online for holding different views than you is not activism and in fact actively hurts your cause. most people are not extreme in their viewpoints, you can give them a new perspective if you're willing to spend some time explaining shit. if someone is saying something you disagree with and you rush in there to condescend to them and call them disgusting and subhuman and dont even TRY to explain calmly why their views are harmful, they're going to shut you out instantly and double down on their views.

most people are simply genuinely ignorant to the issues they're talking about - they just pick their views up from the news and the world around them and express opinions because that's what every person does. if you run in there and tell them they're scum for it, what then? if someone does that to you, are you going to think "maybe i should do some research" or are you going to think "this person is an asshole, im blocking them." a lot of you think you're activists and then refuse to do any kind of actual WORK to support your cause.

[kasumingo]

it's utterly wild how transparent people are about depicting "problematic things" in stories, because people keep repeating that it's good if it isn't romanticized but cannot define romanticization, cannot tell romanticization and depiction apart and outright shun artists and writers who clearly condemn and repeat themselves over and over again what function in the story the unpleasant themes have

[valar-did-me-wrong]

Adar and Sauron are very different characters with very different motivations.

1. Adar wasn't the lord of Mordor for 3k years.. he spent those 3 k years trying to find a way to get his children to have a home where noone will experiment, torture & breed them like Sauron & Morgoth or kill them on sight like the elves & men.. that is a VERY FUNDAMENTALLY different reasoning to become a Lord of land than Sauron "power over flesh" The Dark Lord

Adar took over Southlands because he wanted a home & there was No Other Way for it.. Yes it was a horrendous way in which he chose to do it & that's why he isn't a Hero, he's an anti-hero.. he did many many wrong things..

But at the same time you cannot push a whole people into a corner to rot in torture & abuse for millenia, refuse any help or understanding & not expect them to hate you & fight back in desperation, so there's a reasoning beyond greed & power for his actions.. which cannot be said for for Sauron in most of the story imo..

Also he's the lord of Mordor literally from S1 to S2 not 3k years xD

2. We know for a fact Sauron wasn't kissing orcs on the head and giving them funerals, it's literally in the show's S2E1.. Sauron was experimenting on them like lab rats & the orcs hated him & Morgoth since the very beginning of their race.. mentioned in the books too.. they wouldn't have done that if he was giving goodnight kisses (seeing as they did not kill Adar untill he stood by them & actually cared about them instead of killing Sauron)

3. Orcs slaughtered him & left him in a cave to rot because he bred them like animals for millenia, kept them as slaves & used them as lab rats.. and tried to blackmail them into submission by making them believe noone will accept them ever so darkness is their only option, which was proven wrong by Galadriel in S2E8

4. Adar killed and tortured people. Yes bad. No doubt. No question. But for a bunch of people who love to find complexity in Sauron, I find it very missing in you guy's Adar character readings for some reason.. like there's this very insistent push for months to read a VERY clearly actively created morally grey character as the same as a Dark lord of 2 whole ages who choses to become & remain that way even after getting second chances..

To the point that you people actually go out and call the show writing bad instead of understanding that Adar's redemption required his efforts too instead of a simple magic ring..

Not very nuanced take

5. Adar killed all his enemies where?? He didn't kill much of his enemies??

He actively doesn't kill Elrond & Arondir in S2E7

Adar killed Sauron & he deserved that at that time.. rewatch the S2E1 flashback scene a few times you'll get it..

Celebrimbor was killed by Sauron.

Waldreg was killed by Sauron.

Glûg was killed by Sauron.

All the guards in Eregion who fought Annatar were killed by Sauron.

Bronwyn & that teen are probably the only 2 named characters Adar killed directly..

He did cause a lot of death indirectly but he interestingly didn't kill any elf directly in the series if I remember correctly..

6. Contrary to the comments & reblogs on this post.. Adar did much much better & different than Sauron. That's why the show gave him a way to redemption and not Sauron. That's why Galadriel accepts his offer of an alliance but not Sauron's..

That is the whole arc of S2 Adar.. The show again & again tried to show how he isn't exactly a villian & neither are his orcs just canon fodder evil.. so many scenes are there in the show just to highlight this..

I'm not saying Sauron is irredeemable forever, but in the Show's Story he isn't choosing redemption or healing or humbling but instead power & control..

While Adar since day one in the show has been shown to choose Love for his children (who are a result of his torture & who noone else loves in the world but still he does), he actually accepted his mistakes after wearing Nenya in S2E8 & was willing to put in effort to fix it & heal..

These are two very different characters.. both wrong in their own way for millenia yes, but only one of them actually on screen & canon tried to do something about it & the other deceived himself in the end & became a Dark Lord of Arda because redemption required actual self reflection and humility

Starting to see something more and more in other fandoms but it’s also brewing within Sauron fandom which is I don’t get villianfuckers who are deluded or in denial about the fact their fav is a villain.

Then woobify them to the gods until they resemble very closely of the “good” ML they hate lowkey which is funny.

Your fav did some pretty heinous fucking shit and should be either dead or punished severely for it and that’s what I advocate for in my villain favs cause I ain’t a PUSSY

Sauron is a villain. The reason we like him is because he’s a villain. He chooses villainy when he’s given many chances not to. I genuinely don’t get the urge of wanting to redeem him. Yes he’s complex with a lot of feelings and nuance but he doesn’t want to be redeemed. He’s not an ambiguous anti villain by the time we are in Second Age/Third Age. He’s not Adar

The serious woobification (not the semi-joking kind) needs to stop and frankly it’s lowkey insulting.

[jasontoddenthusiastt]

Observing peoples reactions to morally gray or black actions committed by different characters is so funny. Throughout all of G. War the character tags were chock-full of people unironically enraged claiming “Bruce isn’t even capable of doing something bad like that.” about an action that is pretty well in line with his character journey thus far, meanwhile there are still new posts that gain traction that open with lines like “I know Jason has committed his fair share of sins/crimes but” like bro when. In 2010?

Also. The whole premise of the b*tfamily™ that you so love is built on the load bearing wall being that they are a crime family. Hell, do people just collectively forget the part where Bruce manufactures and freely uses weapons with his own furry brand logo plastered all over them, causing all sorts of 'explosions and more!' property damage all over the streets of Gotham? Pretty sure that makes him a terrorist but you people don't feel the need to go around reminding fandom of that every five minutes.

[esterigermaine]

Sometimes I wonder about the limits of vampire spawn healing and then I remember Cazador and get really sad for all of his spawn.

[ask-codeearasure]

It's because people -- for whatever reason -- fetishize / stereotype mental health in the worst way possible.

If anyone who happens to be like me (Hey there fellow PTSD, Major Depressive Disorder, and General Anxiety Disorder havers!!!! Our lives are hell!!!) we don't exactly have the longest social and physical batteries ever.

With depression specifically, you get the usual "Oh you need to be out in the sun more often for that vitamin D!" Or "Oh you need to work out! [insert that one Friends quote]", or the best one yet: "You're just lazy!"

And there are so many more you could write a book about it!

A lot, and I do mean a LOT of people equate depression with "Just being a widdle sad :c" when it's not that at all.

Depression is more of an endless boredom that you cannot get the energy to fix. Everything you loved doing is now boring, and the things you know you need to get done you just can't find the energy to do.

I'm gonna project this into Killer now and it's gonna fucking hurt.

Killer would know he needs to do his laundry, brush his teeth, take a shower, fix his bed, sharpen his knife, wash said knife, clean his room and then the whole fucking house...

But the man can't even have the energy to do things he actually likes. The chores aren't gonna be things he has energy for.

And then there is the emotional battery which has been dead for the fucking ages he's been with Chara and Nightmare, which also just actively shoots down his physical energy because he has no more energy reserves to put up with any of their bullshit.

The man isn't going to be able to even try to do anything. The moment he gets rest he's more than likely doom scrolling, watching cat videos, or sleeping.

Notice I didn't put eating because when you're depressed, eating is often times something that is forgotten in a lot of cases, and Killer doesn't come across as the kind of guy to stuff his face for comfort.

For a lot of non depressed people, Depression is romanticized into the "I can totally fix them" manic pixie type. They want the idea of the mess not the actual mess.

The actual mess, unpacking that shit, that is terrifying and makes it real. They don't want to unpack that mess. They don't want to de-romantize Killer and his experience with Nightmare.

After all, Nightmare has a castle. Nightmare has a library. Nightmare has x,y,z. Life is good....

But that's the romanticized version.

Like the rich abusive partner who is slowly isolating their victim away from friends and family and convincing everyone around that their perfect and happy, and oh, the victim, they got that bruise because they tripped! Oh they just tripped and fell down the stairs, that's why their arm is broken!

Just a little clumsy, that's all!

How romantic. A rich partner -- who is TOTALLY NOT AN ABUSER -- and the sweet and frail victim who is always sad for some reason!

Just get them out in the sun more often! Daily affirmations should work! Hey here is some online cuddles! Oh they just need to work out! Everything will be perfect after that!

Just don't unpack the box.

Sorry if my tangent didn't make a lot of sense. I'm falling asleep and needed to type this out right away because knowing my dumbass I'd forget in the morning.

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Side note: I've always noticed that in a lot of fandoms hate unpacking shit for whatever reason. It gets people fucking violent. Fix yourself if my tangent made you violent.

-- Ouija

Ngl I find the idea that killer smells bad (even though he canonically smells good for some reason) just because people think it’s funny or something—or they wanna say “evil bad serial killer inherently ugly and smelly” or “grown man can’t take care of himself haha”—or they want to say he has bad hygiene without acknowledging the reasons why he would (dissociation and lack of identification with his physical form and appearance, his apathy that makes it hard to care enough to even get out of bed, being overworked half to death and constantly being so exhausted he literally faints than falls asleep and that’s only for as long as he’s allowed to sleep, feeling like he’s not even real or alive sometimes—that he is a thing, and a thing does not need or deserve food or a shower and has no need for looking good or put together—feeling he doesn’t deserve anything good) and the fact that—as a trafficking victim—his lack of access to the means to take care of himself is either completely outside of his control or he has to prioritize what is most important to him (something to drink, or brushing your teeth?) or even acknowledging the fact that he could very well have to earn access to things like a shower or a toothbrush depending on the Nightmare interpretation—kinda weird.

[cryptvokeeper]

Fudging the Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure Timeline so that I can pretend Giorno and Okuyasu could have interacted as kids

[everysongineverykey]

some guy commented on my narrator + toriel fic saying "well the narrator's done some questionable stuff once or twice but he's not the one who let SIX children DIE just to SPITE her ex-husband" lmaoooo bro did you even play undertale? you can just say you have no reading comprehension it's okay

[hellscape-halogens]

PEOPLE WHO CHANGE JOBS AS MUCH AS YOU END UP HOMELESS, ALONE, AND ON DRUGS. DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU.

[abyssalpriest]

I think whatever I end up doing the lesson is at its core "you need to stop seeing all attempts at saying you experience something as you taking up too much space and being dangerous, and you also need to understand everyone always makes mistakes sometimes (nothing anyone thinks is fully right) and you're not lesser and amateur at channelling because you aren't fully right, and also some third thing he says there is but idk what it is"