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(✿◕‿◕) die (ꈍ ꒳ ꈍ✿)
#MY GIRLLLLLLLL <333333 you're doing amazing sweetie kill them all you deserve to#anyway. coping mechanism. the problems in my life i could solve if society just let me have a death note#this show really is an exercise in patience and suffering i get SO squicked out#by how much the horrible characters and situations mirror the insanity of what's happening in real life#also the revelation that some of the actors are Exactly as shitty as their characters are is. ugh.#but every time i'm like okay i can't take it i need to stop to protect my headspace#i think of kimiko and am like.... no... i need to see my gir....#hope karen gets jucy roles in other shows too PLEASE#the boys#kimiko miyashiro#karen fukuhara#theboysedit#tvedit
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psychology is basically someone who went to too much school pulling out a bowl from the stew pot and calling the bowl that got mostly potatoes potato soup even though they picked out the potatoes and left behind meat
and then another doctor is like "hmm yes i think this is meat soup" because there's mostly meat left
and then a psychiatrist sees the lone bay leaf and exclaims "behold! bay leaf soup!" and pulls the bay leaf out and decides you're cured
#all psychology is misapplied sociology#all psychiatry is misapplied neurology#i have more experience in therapy than most therapists have giving it#the practice is neither regulated nor standardized#they're all making it up as they go along#which is great if you need to vent#or need some coping mechanisms#but terrible if you have a neurological condition like adhd or autism#and need actual real world help#rather than just ways to gaslight yourself into feeling like your anxiety isn't justified anymore
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why the fuck are you reacting like this is some big reveal
like the bitch you gave him the miraculous
#let's go#'oh he's reacting as if he doesn't know'#if he was pretending that#why would he react like that to luka#he's just a random kid#this is so lukadrien coded#lukadrien#arrow rewatches miraculous#(as a coping mechanism)#mlb ephemeral#i don't talk a lot past wishmaker bc to me that's where the shwo ended#but goddamn ephemeral has some moments#luka couffaine#adrien agreste#chat noir#viperion#i nEED to rewatch
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I can’t believe a boyfriend made a silly sex joke to lighten the mood after both partners had a moment of vulnerability. The audacity. The horror. The normalcy! Unbelievable. How dare a conversation about feelings turn to levity. How dare a couple have a light chat about trauma-related things over dinner that doesn’t turn into an incredibly deep heart to heart instead of a joke and moving on. Unbelievable. I’m never watching this show again! 👎🏻
#911 spoilers#bucktommy#Evan buckley#Tommy kinard#look#as a queer person in a relationship with another queer person#both of whom have major familial trauma#trust me when I say you generally DONT WANT ever reference to your feelings and trauma to turn into a huge deep discussion#sometimes you just say something vulnerable#and the other person does too#and then you joke about it and move on#humour is powerful coping mechanism as well#one that is pretty common especially among guys#people need to freaking relax ffs#Tommy is not a horrible person for making a flirty joke#things were said and feelings were acknowledged#and then they moved on#this is all perfectly freaking natural#Buck is not some sensitive flower that can’t handle a silly joke about daddy issues#please I beg you all to look at this at a distance with some common sense#rather than the ‘but Buck is traumatized and must always be treated delicately!!’ lens#and I am saying all of this as someone who really doesn’t give two fucks about the joke itself#I’m not into daddy kink idgaf#but if the idea that a queer couple isn’t allowed to insert a flirty joke to lighten a moment of vulnerability#then I don’t know what to tell you#you personally finding something innapropriate does not mean it’s actually innapropriate#please just chill out ffs#no one wants to hear about how evil Tommy is for hitting on his boyfriend for months and months to come
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You ever think about how in episode 1 of pvp civ its established with the 1v1 that saves Evbo's life that dropping your sword on the ground is enough to kill you and even counts as a win for Evbo how he never unequips his sword from his main hand and uses his offhand for eating, using other tools and placing blocks You ever think about how this detail is never brought up as an option for Evbo during the multiple times he asked someone to kill him or had to die for something to progress or otherwise You ever think about how he immediately chooses the option where he will get frankly, painfully maimed by someone he is close with and how nobody hesitates or brings up that he could drop the sword on the ground and seems to take the idea of being brutally killed too well for someone like him? Why would someone actively go for the worst option every single time when the better option is simple and doesn't involve suffering? Does he feel like he has to be suffering?
#pvp civilization#pvp civ spoilers#pvp evbo needs a therapist#honestly there are better and healthier ways to like. fix your touch starvation issue#evbo also definitely needs better friends#like the fact that parrot and some of the diamond swords are the only people that don't insult or demean him is very sad#tw SH#<- since i agree with the others in the reblogs that its definitely a maladaptive coping mechanism for him to be doing this
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late night chat
#meeple.png#inanimate insanity#inanimate insanity invitational#ii oj#ii mephone4#ii mephoj#not inherently shippy but it is based on the weird gay little version of iii in my head#anyway i think they should've had some kind of summer romance in iii that changes their view on their lives forever#and leaves them haunted by eachother in a way that neither will want to address but it sticks with them#oj is Stuck in his shitty hotel job and kind of caged himself into that the more he insists its Just the way it is and hes fine with it#while mephone has simply gotten used to running away and hiding as much as he can#neither are good coping mechanisms but the kind of experience and perspective they have could be exactly what they need to hear#oj needs to Fucking Quit while mephone needs to let himself find community and let others know him#so he doesn't feel like he Has to run or he Has to do it alone#oj has connections albeit some messier than others#and hes a bit of a bitch but definitely more liked than mephone#and mephone has the If It Sucks Hit The Bricks mentality and the bluntness to get that through to oj#oj also has the perspective of being a s1 vet which means he has a very different view on mephone than others might#and that could do some good in getting through to mephone how his host behavior can negatively affect the contestants involved#mephone views oj as more equal to him as theyre business partners. hes very friendly to him (even if one sided.) he might just listen#sorry if this rant is redundant btw im not reading back any of this HAHA
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stacy is sooo interesting because she's in love with house but knows that they will never ever be able to have a healthy, stable, sane relationship because they're too similar so. she finds house-lite instead and marries him and. essentially moves on with her life! and is successful in this because she's a moderately well-adjusted person!
wilson, in contrast, never manages to escape the inevitable, in spite of his best efforts to find a house-lite of his very own, because he's an absolute fucking freak and ends up glued to house to the bitter. bitter end
#yeah im too sleepy to revise this. UNFILTERED posting wooahh#some may b shocked but i do actually read thru most of my posts several times to make sure i didnt accidentally write mein kampfe 2#recently ive come to the realization that i am in fact not an incredibly chill person#and that the constant paranoia and fear in which i live my life is actually PROBABLY a symptom of severe anxiety#like damn. ive always known that im pretty prone to depression but ive preetty much always been aware of that#my mom is a chronic depressive so i know the symptoms i know the signs i have a pretty good arsenal of healthy coping mechanisms#UNFORTUNATELY mommy's mental health problems did not help her not abuse me as a child#so i ended up being a terribly anxious kid who was constantly being screamed at and told i was overreacting (because i was. because i had#a severe anxiety problem that was making me react irrationally.) to everything all the time#which is you know. it is VERY difficult to deal with a mental health problem when you arent aware you have a problem!#its incredible how much. better. my life has gotten since i figured this out and started actively trying to work out what triggers it#and being able to like. realize 'oookay. there is an Issue here and it needs to be overcome'#instead of just beating on myself constantly for not being able to do things without feeling sick or getting breathing problems!#anyways. trauma dumping in tags is over now!#house md#hilson#greg house#james wilson#stacy warner
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Did you mean: Shallan Davar
#girl needs some better coping mechanisms#cosmere#stormlight archive#the cosmere#cremposting#stormlight#shallan#shallan davar#shallan veil radiant#cosmemes#crempost#words of radiance
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Thinking about Lestat seeing Louis’s eating patterns as a waste of his gift/himself while Armand gives Louis food that he literally can not enjoy or digest just so he has something on his stomach
#if i had to give each of louis relationship a theme loustat would be shame and loumand would be enabling#which are both really bad ways of “helping” a partner with an ed#lestats shame and anger tactics only make louis more resentful and less likely to eat#while armand having the little drinks and exotic animals and the human food dont actually deal with louis problem head on-#cus at the end of the day louis is still not eating enough#and i think they really exemplifies both of their trauma and abandonment issues#both of them came up chronically food insecure#lestat was put into the role of provider at a very early age and stayed in that role until he died/was turned#so for him rejecting what lestat gives is like rejecting lestat cus he doesnt have anything else to make him “useful”#and lestats reaction to rejection is anger and control so he tries to shame and control louis into eating more/human#while armand has been abandoned by literally everyone he loves up till this point so for him its like#ok i can make people dtay if i give them what they want and what louis wants is to not feel bad about eating and so armand does that#but it still doesnt get to the root of the issue which is louis having poor coping mechanisms for his grief and other emotions#like either way you slice it. louis is not meeting his nutritional needs. he eats drinks from one guy eats a fox or some other small animal#when he should be having like two dudes at least#and then he has human food which according to anne rice makes vampires vomit up their whole stomach content so...#louis imma send you to my therapist shes great#interview with the vampire#iwtv#louis de pointe du lac#amc iwtv#lestat de lioncourt#ldpdl#iwtv 2022#armand iwtv#armand#loumand#loustat#like armand gives louis food he cant eat just so he knows theres something in louis stomach even for a short while
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younger Roy laying in the ICU after his older teammate battered him, drugged up and in pain, regretting his cruel joke, swearing to himself he’d apologize to that guy the next time he saw him and just repeatedly thinking about how his grandad would be so disappointed in the man he’d become.
#sort of need to go back in time in the fictional Ted lasso world and comfort Roy#also put his angry ass in therapy sooner#get him some healthy coping mechanisms#but comforting him first#ted lasso#roy kent
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I was reading back through caged lungs and I realized just how many times Donnie got hit in the head during the last fight and how hard, no wonder Leo is concerned about brain damage.
Also, when Donnie goes to see April at the end of chapter 2, is he just dissociating really hard or is that an actual physical symptom from the…everything really!
not to mention the oxygen deprivation with raph throttling him! the last fight is so visceral and nasty and it was the final nail in the coffin when it came to donnie's issues physically and mentally, because although he would have been terrified of them regardless i dont think it wouldve been "inconsolable screaming heap at the sound of raph's voice" like it was in the early bit of CW.
and id mark that as dissociation personally. the second he registered as being in relative safety he kind of shut down because he wasn't able to process it, which had kind of been a running coping mechanism through the last month or so of CL. MIND YOU: IT IS NOT HELPED ALONG BY THE BRAIN FOG CAUSED BY HIS TIME IN ISOLATION, its a nasty concoction of problems. and also yeah physical exhaustion definitely doesnt help! he ran all the way to april's apartment while actively starving, after all.
although itll get better after [REDACTED PLOT THREAD] is handled, i think dissociation is gonna be something donnie will be dealing with for years, because spending four days in a quiet, enclosed dark space has some extremely messed up consequences for your brain and body. it was also in general something he used to cope under the abuse, so i could see him having issues with it when he's not in his right mind (sick or sleep-deprived, for example), i could see him regressing back to that old mindset when something like that happens. his perception of reality is permanently a little fucked :(
#ask#canary continuity#theres a lot of factors you have to put together for donnie's behavior right now#he's been so stressed that he's been running a low grade fever#the consequences of being in solitary are still taking a toll on him#his brain automatically shuts down as a coping mechanism when triggered#and he's absolutely dealing with both ptsd (notably about the closet the final fight and mikey attacking him in the kitchen)#AND cptsd. he definitely has cptsd. this is for absolute certain cptsd#+ he's still on some strong painkillers which are distorting his perception of reality#the source of the nosebleeds could very well be stress to be optimistic. but. well =) who's to say#everythings horrible but donnie is STILL too overwhelmed to process#its going to hit him very soon and its not gonna be pretty!#also despite his developed claustrophobia ive been haunted by the mental image of him waking up sick and immediately trying to hide-#-under his bed like a YEAR after all of this and Ouurgghhh#one of them comes looking for him when he doesnt leave his room and he just claps his hands over his mouth when he hears their footsteps#and his mind is just an endless mantra of “hes going to find me hes going to find me hes going to find me”#he doesnt know what he's so scared of. he just knows that something bad is going to happen and he needs to stay quiet#(remember when leo dragged him out of the laundry room? that left scars)#just thought i should share that cause it wouldnt leave my brain <3
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why is the concept of showing empathy for drug/alcohol addicts so hard to understand for some ppl? v.v they suffer too sis, that problem has to come from somewhere and i bet most of them would rather not be addicted in the first place. some people don't know what nuance is i swear. am i crazy for having empathy with addicts??? i don't think so.
#tw drinking#tw alcohol abuse#tw depression#tw addiction#context: i have a friend i've known for a long time (i use the term friend loosely because she's getting on my nerves A LOT lately#and every time i show an ounce of empathy for someone whose addicted to any kind of substance she gets judgy as hell#and uses my personal experience against me to try and change my mind#“but didn't your dad drink himself to death and made life so hard for you and your family?”#sis °-° he had manic depressive episodes and drinking was his coping mechanism for it#he was never abusive towards other people only to himself but ofc watching him wasting away when i was a teen was fucking hard.#he also grew up in a time where mental health problems weren't talked about as much as it is today especially regarding men#so he had a hard time getting help#addiction is a symptom to a bigger problem most if not all of the time but so many people don't see that shit#they just talk for the sake of talking v.v#ofc are some addicts also abusive to others and that's not okay#but that problem comes from somewhere#also she is a smoker btw just saying ;)#sorry for rambling#needing to VENT °.°#prolly delete later#cw drinking#cw depression#cw addiction
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Actual (real life) photo of me scrolling through my little gay website at 3am to avoid my mental illness yelling at me
#self portrat#photogRATy#very really real#this used to be how i used reddit#196#i probably need some better coping mechanisms???
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are the timelines overlapping? because the scenes we saw is dome being alive (great rescued him) he's well at the hospital and then at the same time we see tonkla grieving for his brother which is dome so what is real ?!
because i believe the real one is the one dome being killed, right? because that is what really happened before great sees the future
now, we saw win knowing that tonkla is a suspect (so this time, he's still on the case unlike what we saw on the past episode) and then scene after was tonkla calling him. what timeline is that?
so it'll be like;
dome died, tonkla grieving, win & tonkla met, korn doesn't answer tonkla, win getting off the case, win & tonkla fucking, korn & tonkla ’break up’
dome is alive— (what do we know about this timeline?)
where in those timeline happening the one where win knew that tonkla was a suspect because he's (dome) still dead, but this time he was still working on the case
THIS IS SO MESSED UP IM SORRY JUST WANT TO KNOW WHAT REALLY HAPPENED IM SHOOK someone explain it to me please 😅
Anon, as I said in the previous ask, I'm not the suitable person to answer questions about the plot and what's really happening. I do, however, have to make one thing perfectly clear because I see a lot of people confused about it, you included: Win is NOT working on Dome's case. The beginning scene of Episode 4 hasn't happened yet! Same with all the previous episodes: all the scenes before the opening titles are from the future. This means that 1) Great and Tyme haven't died yet - or have they? (Episode 1), 2) Tonkla hasn't killed anyone yet (Episode 2), 3) the cops haven't found the second body yet, which is Tonkla's victim (Episode 3) and 4) Win hasn't been given the case for body No2, which leads to him finding out Tonkla's fingertips were on the rock (Episode 4). The phone call we saw at the end of the scene was a distraction - Tonkla did NOT call Win to help him with his brother's funeral then. Win is too nonchalant in the rest of the episode to have had the knowledge of Tonkla's involvement in any sort of serious crime. Seeing Win's supervisor being so demanding of Win to be quick and find out who killed victim No2 suggests they are of high importance. It strengthens the theory that the person Tonkla will kill is Title, after finding out Title killed Dome - another theory which is basically confirmed in the show, as we literally saw Title hit Dome with a rock repeatedly to the head before Great "went back in time/saw the future". And I say it this way because, even though Great says he "sees the future 4 minutes ahead", the show's presentation makes it seem as if he's going back in time 4 minutes in order to prevent stuff from happening. Or, everything Great has achieved with his power is an illusion - he never truly changed anything. In the "Dome is alive" timeline/reality/whatever it is, the only people involved are Great, Tyme, Den and Korn. Title too, since he fought Great after he saved Dome. Now, Korn is interesting, because he's in the middle of the two realities; he found out Dome died in Episode 4, but he's also hanging out with Great who's reality is that Dome survived. I'll be keeping my eyes on him and how the show will utilize this dichotomy. I will also be keeping my eyes on Tonkla, because of his scene in Episode 1 with the cat: that's Tonkla's cat without the collar on, which Tonkla keeps in his drawer. The significance of the scene, to me, is that Tonkla has a role to play in the whole timeline fuckery - which was also proven by the ending scene of Episode 4. By being able to sense his cat's presence and Dome's, he's the only one so far who has shown evidence of being connected to both realities somehow. And the cat is interesting to me, because it was killed YEARS before Great's powers "started" (we don't know that fully yet, the rest of the show will make a case for it being true or not). I'm just rambling at this point but this were important points to make in my opinion. I just can't wait to become even more confused with Episode 5.
#btw since we'll be past the middle point with tomorrow's ep I'm pretty sure the format of the scenes before the opening credits will change#meaning the scenes before that will probably not be from the future#maybe there won't be an opening scene at all#who knows#I can't wait to find out#but do keep in mind they are scenes of events yet to happen#it's vital to understand some things a little more#I can't WAIT to see how Tonkla will do what he'll do#especially what will tip him over the edge#my beautiful baby boy with unhealthy coping mechanisms and the need to dom#4 minutes#asks
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I genuinely cannot stop rotting about my Dark DOFP AU I've been thinking about 2 animatic ideas in the past week for it all while writing an over 2K fic at the same time. Send help
#the rot is rotting too hard#this always happens during assessment crunch#probably some kind of coping mechanism#no I do not need therapy#I just need THEM#dadneto#quickson#tiger talks#Dark DOFP AU
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"I'm not Starfire" could've been better if...
INTRODUCTION
BOTH parents were involved (I'd like to think Nightwing's the dad)
Both Star and Dick wanted to raise the daughter as a normal kid
But then daughter started showing physical Tamaranean traits I guess? (height, strength, etc etc)
Which could prompt Star to train their daughter in case her powers fully manifest
Dick, reluctant cuz he still wishes for her to grow up like a normal girl, trains her how to yk fight
So now the daughter has this standard she wishes to reach at a certain point in her life...
Time skip, the girl's a teen now and her powers STILL haven't manifested.
Then I guess a worried Starfire gets her magically checked by Raven or someone else (I prefer Raven bc I love her too)
Raven concludes that her powers are blocked by something emotional (ooo self vs self conflict)
Maybe Star and Dick could enroll her in Titans Academy?
SCHOOL ARC OOOOOO
(Note that I haven't read much on Titans Academy, only bits and pieces of the story told to me by my s/o)
Maybe at first she's reluctant to mingle cuz she has no powers
Idk are there any students without powers like her?? :'D
I'd like to think a combat class would be her favorite considering both her parents trained her
SHE'LL BE PROFECIENT IN THE STAFF YEAAAAHHH
Little by little, she gains a few friends and maybe slowly starts to accept the fact it's okay to not have her mom's powers
But deep deeeeeep down she still wishes to have those abilities
Maybe somewhere down the line, the school gets attacked? And she's forced to fight and gets taken down, and using the last of her energy, manages to shoot an energy beam before passing out. (DRAMATIC EFFECT)
She wakes up in the hospital and sees her parents and tells them that she managed to shoot an energy beam. She tries to do it again but nothing's coming out, which frustrates her because she thought she finally got it.
Starfire and Dick comfort her and tell her that they'll continue to help and train her until she gets all her powers.
Obviously, there are some details that I might've missed that have completely escaped my brain. but that's all I can yap about for now. Will I fully flesh this out? Probably not XD buuuut this was fun to type out.
#imnotstarfire#starfire#dick grayson#koriand'r#nightwing#dc comics#fanfiction#fanfic#rewrite#do my girl starfire justice please#no seriously#pleaseeee#god please#i need my copium#coping mechanism#it could have been worse#it could be so good#if the authOR DID SOME READING#anyway
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