#my fiancé needs this for their life
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realstrap · 1 year ago
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01/06/2024
We're at $200/2600
We need $750 to be able to pay off the rest of the amount needed to secure the dog!!! Please keep this going!!!
Please help my partner, a black multiply disabled lesbian, get their autonomy back!
‼️URGENT ACTION NEEDED IN 48 HOURS ‼️
01/03/2024
my partner @800-dick-pics is a multiply disabled black lesbian in need of urgent funds for a service dog and the costs associated with travel!!
This is all so sudden and short notice, they happened upon this prospect while doing research and it fell into their lap, a puppy in a breed with the best temperament and size for their mobility needs. This is opportunity is huge for the independence of my fiancé.
For years now, my fiancé has been fighting with the medical system, I've seen them struggle to be believed by doctors due to medical racism, turned away and ignored at the ER, gaslight by ED clinics and multiple times I've physically caught them when they've passed out during a POTS episode. Their POTS EDS and CFS have rendered them housebound in this past year, unable to leave the house by themselves and it's gotten to the point where we both are afraid for their safety when they're alone in any capacity. I worry for them so greatly when I have to leave them for more than 20 minutes at a time because anything could happen.
This has been years in the making, even before we were together even. We've had to put this on hold for countless reasons throughout the years and at this point it can no longer be put off for the sake of my fiance' autonomy independence and quality of life. They're tired of not being able to hold a job or go out with friends or even just experience life outside of the walls of the house. This is incredibly important and this is our chance to change their life forever.
We need to meet this goal THIS WEEK, to be able to secure this opportunity including flight tickets, hotel room, training toys for the dog and food
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We would not be asking if it wasn't so urgent, this can't be put on hold and all my fiance wants is to have a life again. Please help us if you're able, this opportunity means the world to my partner!
CA: $sleepyhen
VM: wildwotko
DM me for p@y pal
$0/2600 goal
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bondagebimbo · 24 days ago
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cables-and-wires · 3 months ago
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time sensitive mutual aid post but i have a very strict medically necessary diet and im out of my dried gluten-free pasta and almost all of my canned goods. im trying to resist eating something that i know is very harmful to me just so i can eat something tonight. it's been a very rough week if you can throw me a few dollars so i can try and get something to eat tonight, my p//y/p//l is @/scrump444 thanks and please share
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sarcasticandstoned · 14 days ago
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Even the thought of trying to make friends as an adult is so embarrassing wtf
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mothergold · 5 months ago
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guess who got engaged today? :3
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crowrelli · 8 months ago
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#vent post#tw vent#my mom: it’s okay you’re homeless u can come here and have a gentle landing and we can work together to get u and ur fiancé back on ur feet#me: okay great now I can work off my huge overdue queue that I was having panic attacks about daily-#mom: actually fuck u ur a disgrace I need you to clean my whole house every single day and I’m going to knock on ur door every 20 minutes#and disturb ur focus (ik u have adhd it’s stupid just get over it) also ur whole family knows how much of a failure u are and are going to#scream at you on the phone about how you’re not doing anything despite the fact you’ve helped out every time I’ve asked and THEN SOME to#the point of eye exhaustion and shivers and mental breakdowns and then I’m going to forget it ever happened and make you do MORE chores and#yell at u if you say u need to focus again#me: …….. so this is the gentle landing huh?#I’m so fucking exhausted#they keep saying my art doesn’t make money and isn’t a career LITERALLY IT IS HOW DO U THINK I PAID FOR FOOD AND RENT FOR THE LAST 4 YEARS#they keep calling it my ‘little art thing’ and insisting I get a real job WHEN I HAVE ACTUAL PAID COMMISSIONS I HAVE TO WORK ON#I can’t just ignore these and fuck off to answer phones or stock shelves at your friends friends aunts car dealers place fuck OFFFFFF#like being homeless with 4 cats and 6 boxes of belongings isn’t hard enough I have to be fucking berated by people who haven’t tried talking#to me IN MY LIFE EVERRRRRR#fuck off
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ghastlyinterspecies · 1 year ago
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Theodore Barclay is the love of my dreams
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heartshattering · 5 months ago
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Wish my friend could just send a message like "Hope things have been going okay" or whatever instead of "Where have you been? Where did you go? Why aren't you talking to me? WHAT HAPPENED???" etc.
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damndude69 · 5 months ago
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#I do this thing where I keep comparing myself and my life to other people my age who live like ‘normal lives’ where they live with just#their partner and work decent-ish paying jobs#and don’t live near family/have large family obligations#like I make slightly more than minimum wage#my health stuff had been getting worse#my fiancé is disabled/chronically ill and working her ass off so she doesn’t have excess energy#which leaves a lot of house work on me#which is fine and I don’t mind#and our household is me my fiancé my 23 yo sister and we’ve all lived together for like 3 years now and my sister makes a lot more money &#helps with house stuff#/​maintenance#but my younger sister and her 9 month old moved in at the beginning of summer because her baby daddy is a scum bag#and she’s 20 and really mentally unwell#so a lot of baby care falls on me & my fiancé#along with trying to help my sister with her mental health#which is like not normal levels of unwell it’s like serious shit and she’s completely unmedicated and going through a real hard time and not#adjusting to motherhood well cause she was 19 and shouldn’t have had a baby#and like she knows that but what’s done is done#she can’t move back in with my parents because her relationship with them is too fucked#and like there’s also complicated stuff safety and bad ppl in her life so that’s a stress inducing factor#she’s unemployed and I’m not sure will ever be able to work and can’t drive#not her fault just the reality we live in#also we’re the ppl who live closest to my grandmother who’s health has been rapidly declining so a lot of that has fallen on my other sister#and me to manage#I also have to pet sit a lot because I need the money#and when I come home I have to spend all my time getting the house back in order#also I’m about to be losing a days worth of pay starting September cause the kids I nanny are doing two half days a week of prek#which means less money & with these grocery bills and two more mouths to feed is gonna fuck me in the ass#so like yeah I don’t have the time or energy for hobbies I spend all my damn free time trying to keep the house clean or taking care of#The baby & like it’s just the way it is but it’s not comprable to how all the ppl I knew in highschool r living rn
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daddy-suguru · 2 years ago
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It’s been almost four years since my fiancé and I have been together~ and in those past few years so much has changed yet haven’t at the same time.
We still have to hug at least 3-5 times, and he has to kiss my lips then my forehead in that order. And be it over the phone or in person, no matter how angry we get we always say I love you goodbye. Though if we are angry at each other we don’t blow kisses.
He calls me from his way home from work to tell me about his day. Meanwhile he already knows mine because he has already asked about it several times through text.
He sends me random messages telling me what he appreciates about me. And even though he hates writing he know how much I love it and how much writing means to me.
So he will write pages about how much he loves me, how he wants to grow old together. He even does written apologizes explaining what he did wrong and how he plans to fix it.
He always is spoons me every night and morning. Before he goes to turn on my person heater for me to stand in front of while I get ready for the day.
When he is stressed and upset about his work all he wants to do is cuddle me while watching movies. He says it’s because I ground him, keep him steady and help him forget the day.
He always interrupts my writing by stealing kisses. Telling me that my face of concentration is to cute.
He holds his finger out expecting me to boop my nose. Sometimes he pats my head since he knows that if he ruffles my hair and messes it up imma pout. My curls will just fizz ;-;
Over the years these little things I was told would fade away after the puppet stage. But if anything he has become more attentive and in-tune with my habits and moods.
He taught himself how to cook. And will happily make me my favorite comfort food of shredded chicken, rice and vegetables.
He knows my love of cows and found a huge squishy cow that is over half my size for me to sink into like a bean bag.
I’m so glad the girl before me fucked her chance up with this man. Because I’m so grateful to be his future wife and the love of his life :3
I have never felt so safe, comfortable, loved and beautiful.
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polyamoryprincess · 10 months ago
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fuck it’s 3am and I can’t get my wheezing under control and I’m tempted to use my nebulizer but it’s loud af 🙃 I’m tempted to wait until my mom leaves for work but that’s in like 3 and a half hours
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foldingfittedsheets · 2 years ago
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Sometime last year I saw a video of a park program that let people rent all terrain wheelchairs so they could go on hikes and trails that regular wheelchairs can’t tackle. I said to my fiancée, “Wow, this is so cool! People with accessibility issues will get to go on trails.”
They looked at me and after a moment they quietly said, “Like you.”
It surprised me. Yes; I’ve had a chronic infection that has limited my mobility for several years but- oh. It is me. I have mobility issues.
After that the topic of wheelchairs has come up a few times. It’s hard. I can walk. I just can’t walk very much before I’m exhausted. But getting a wheelchair felt like giving in and admitting my disability is long term. But it’s been about three years of not doing activities because I just wouldn’t have the energy to walk around or do things.
I just recently got a new diagnosis. On top of my viral infection, I have an autoimmune disorder which- surprise! Is generating fatigue.
It’s been a hard couple days. But even knowing that I could get back to a functional level I have to admit that right now I’m disabled. So today I picked up my wheelchair.
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whentheynameyoujoy · 1 year ago
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Gotta admit, that scene of Marcela confidently parading her near total lack of self worth by giving a free lecture on how Betty's sudden presence of a spine indicates absence of love for Armando hits a bit different now that I'm a fellow I Got It All Figured Out who's currently getting feasted on by a therapist.
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sourkitsch · 2 years ago
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Do you ever think you’re not meant for this world and would fit so much more easily into the depraved sex horror mutilation novels you’re so fond of
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falloutboyfan18 · 2 years ago
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I need this shirt asap. Even though I was told I have too much merch I don’t care I need this
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pharaohcarterkane · 9 months ago
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