#my family is healthy

[because-its-eurovision]

This setlist I got at Tampere show in August? On Thursday in the meet & greet I got the Daltons & Häärijä to sign it, and today in Järvenpää we waited for Jesse after the show, and he came to the barricade and I asked if he could sign it too since he went out of his way to get it for me from backstage, and he said of course, I remember you and he hugged me 😭💚

[inspiredrawaw]

Post- Near Confetti Death Experience

just a dad helping his kiddo :,]

[hey-hey-j]

lore dropping

(★ my Kofi)

[abisalli]

the twins!!

[dukeofthomas]

I hate the insistence in pushing Jason into the batfamily.

If he doesn't wanna go to dinner, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't wanna hang out with them, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't want to see them, he doesn't have to. If he doesn't even want to contact them, he doesn't have to.

It's so annoying to read fic and always see it presented as his Family Knows Better. Jason is just being silly by not realizing how much they love him and he just needs to let them break into his home and comms and life because they want him there.

[bixels]

While I do think anon was rude, I do think it's pretty shitty to set up all this stuff you were going to add the au and then just drop it. It's disappointing. Definitely unfollowing.

Bye.

[n1ghteeea]

Peter is honestly only still alive cuz they love him too much

[trix-in-a-box]

i was drawing game egg family + stone bc i can. And i was thinking.

i’ve always felt bad for Orbot (cubot too i guess but i just really like orbot and find his want to be included more prevalent) bc he’s constantly ignored/pushed aside and… do you think if they met that Stone would sympathize and be close with Orbot.

[transmasc-rose]

I'm thinking about the horror of the Doctor from the perspective of non-companions again, especially as it relates to people those companions know.

Rose? "Ran away" (not wrong) for "a year" (a week) with a "man" (alien) "twice her age" (approximately 50 times her age but yeah, he is Time Lord middle aged), and then gives absolutely no explanation for how or why that happened, except that she was "travelling".

Then when her mum does get an explanation (which, frankly, is only comforting because of the unfamiliarity of the alternative given. The devil you know.), Rose barely checks back in.

She almost dies for him. When she thinks he's dead, she's changed in a way her family doesn't know how to handle. Then she's gone for who knows how long and comes back with the Doctor wearing a new face.

When her original tenure as a companion ends, and Rose lives in Pete's World, she works for Torchwood/UNIT (they become the same organization). She volunteers for the Dimension Cannon. She explains to the alternate earth how to rig up a time machine.

She's changed in ways that no one else can really understand.

Amy? There's everything with River Song of course (though I'm still not there in my viewing), him running away with Amy the night before her and Rory's wedding, and also the connection between the Doctor and the Time Crack being the reason all of Amy's family's dead. Obvious stuff.

However he's also the strange man who broke into this child's house and made a mess of her life that she never got over, that promised to take her away from here, that she wrote about and drew and carved and made her friends dress up as.

And they sent her to psychiatrist after psychiatrist without any help. In their perspective, to work through what she imagined. In her perspective, to tell her that her reality wasn't real.

And then he comes back.

And to some extent, later, when he shows himself to everyone, isn't that more frightening? That the story your child told you, of the strange man she met as a child, of time travel, of nearly being stolen away, hadn't been a lie, or a misinterpretation, or an imagining?

And so he shows up at her wedding. And steals her away again.

Donna I feel like has the least horror until her final episode. I think exploring the in between section of her meeting the Doctor and finding him again would be interesting, but not exactly horror. More an exploration of how obsessive the companions can get about him, how it eats their whole lives with even one encounter, even as it makes them better people.

And then, obviously, the horror of having your mind altered and erased against your will by someone you trusted. For your own good, of course. Because he knows best. How could you know better than him? He's ancient. He's practically all knowing.

Shouldn't you be grateful?

(And he's forgiven.)

[candyskiez]

Hhnnghf when a character has a complicated relationship with the concept of agency. When a character can't tell which actions are their own, or doesn't want to know, when characters have been shoved into so many of their choices yet were never technically *forced.* When characters are terrified that they have no one to blame for their life but themselves. When characters are terrified it's always been them and they've always been the one ruining their life. They've always been the one hurting everyone. It wasn't some Thing inside them, it wasn't some outside force pushing them. It was all them. They made their choices. Over and over again. And they don't know how to stop. Maybe they don't want to. Maybe they want someone to force them to get better but they can't.

When a character feels trapped in a perception of themself playing out a character and they can't stop. They can't get out. They're trapped and keep playing out these lines over and over even as they're screaming at themself to stop talking, they don't mean that, why are they saying that, stop it stop it stop it. When they feel like they're on a train about to go off the tracks and they can't do anything. Just watching it happen. When they act out in a desperate attempt for agency and try to burn the whole train down around them.

When a character is so sure of their own helplessness it causes them to refuse to make choices. When they're so sure their choices don't matter they stop thinking about them and cause massive amounts of damage. When they expect everyone else to make all the decisions, not realizing they are massively effecting everything and still making a choice by doing exactly that. When they're so sure of their own pointlessness it causes so much damage because they cannot wrap their head around the idea it has consequences. That they matter, in some way.

When a character hasn't had agency in so long they wouldn't know what to do with it. When they're just a puppet watching everyone else dance, wondering if they're actually doing anything of their own free will. When they don't know what they want, or who they are, or if they ever made any of their own choices. When they try to believe it doesn't matter because nothing they chose mattered. Because they don't have a choice now. When they still wish they did.

Anyways I'm really normal how about you

[martisno]

Listen, they could be family *gets kicked*

[femininedating]

My Dream:

[optigami]

ALSO ANOTHER THOUGHT. if there is evil marinette and good guy gabriel...then that means that there's a nice chloe out there...right??

[toringo]

HELLO oh my gosh your art is incredible!! Munching on it every day,,,it’s amazing how you draw so much?? Also i am so obsessed with your composition skills the way you arrange comic panels is so creative but conveys the idea so well🫣

(And idk if you do requests but perhaps could I request some more anti tulpar jimcurly? They’re so horrible I love them)

THANK YOU SO MUCH! Ngl I only draw this much because I have A LOT of free time last few months. And I'm so happy you like my comics <3 Always wanted to make some, but I was very self-conscious about them looking boring and only started experimenting lately, so happy it paid off!

I'm not doing requests that often nowadays, but I love drawing for this au A LOT... Have some fluff <3 (they don't deserve it) Let's be honest, they'd be shitty parents and probably would just kill the child but whatever

[thefallenangel2008]

I'm sorry, but the fact that Stan could have become just like his father but he still ended up being supporting and encouraging towards Mabel, Dipper, Soos and Wendy despite everything... I'm- I'm sorry but I love that man so much YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.

[varpusvaras]

Just wanted to say for the record that I am 100% here for every iteration of Oliver parenting/parent-in-lawing Jason that you can come up with. Seriously. I will read and love literally every single thing that you write in which Jason and Ollie have any kind of positive interaction and/or in which Ollie is an objectively better dad than Bruce, especially to Bruce’s own kids.

My biggest disappointment since getting into Jayroy as a ship has been the lack of good Oliver & Jason content. There’s so much potential there, both of the hilarious and angsty variety. (Second biggest disappointment is the lack of good Dinah & Jason content. Partly because I think they’d get along and partly because I feel like it would somehow translate to Jason in fishnets which is my ultimate dream.)

They're so important to me, I'm happy that you like it too! I was also missing having them interact in most of Jayroy content, so, you know, gotta do it yourself lmao. How Oliver has a worse reputation as a parent than many others (*cough Bruce cough*) is beyond me. Oliver and Jason are both interesting and enjoyable characters for me to write, and examining them and their potential dynamic is so so fun. It's also just very healing for me, to have someone come from such a dysfunctional life and dynamics in their home and see that you can truly get better and have other people in your life without having to constantly watch yourself and your every move so you don't get judged and condemned.

Also you had such a good timing, I just thought today that I need to ramp up with Dinah & Jason interactions. Dinah is such an important person to Roy, so it would make sense that she would be interacting with Jason a lot, too. So, gotta get with that too!