#mspec lesbians dni

[princessefemmelesbian]

Lesbians: We are not attracted to men.

This fucking hellsite: Okay but what about trans men and demiboys and non-binary people who are male-aligned and multigender/genderfluid people who are partly men are you not attracted to them too????? You're an exclusionist transphobic radfem bitch for not thinking trans/nb men are attractive!!!! And what about trans women, they're technically men so do you hate them too? You lesbians are all terfs who think that trans women are men, that's why you say you don't like them, don't you know that not liking men is a moral failing? Ignore the fact that I'm the one who brought up trans women when you talked about not liking men, which technically means that I'm the one treating trans women as men and also as a gotcha to win arguments, not you, but oh well, you're a lesbian, and lesbians are ALWAAAAYS the bad guys!!! I just...I just can't believe that you would say that you're not attracted to men! There are some good men out there you know? You're making the nice men very sad by not giving them a chance. Can't you at least try to like men, even partially, even a little? Pweaaaaaaase? 👶🏾

Lesbians:

Lesbians: Anyway, we are not attracted to men. Die mad about it.

[rainyhowls]

𓃠RAINYHOWLS𓃠

hi there!

call me pup, hound, kit, kitty or really anything related to my kintypes (it/any prns). Im a therian and fictionkin (I'm still questioning my fictotypes) and this is my blog for all my nonhuman stuff (mainly therianthropy).

My theriotypes are:

⪼ feline cladotherian

⪼ wolf (maybe werewolf)

⪼ fox

⪼ irish setter

⪼ german shepherd (?)

My fictotypes are:

⪼ a lightfury

⪼ Blue (JW)

I mainly talk about my experiences here but i also enjoy making moodboards, positivity posts and i maybe even post art at some point.

antikin, mspec lesbians, lesboys, transid and antiship/fic will be blocked

[dishsoapdrinker]

made some lesbian + transfem ally flags since i know both demographics get a lot of shit despite being vitally important to our community, and i think it'd be nice for there to be visual signifier that there are those out there who will support lesbians and transfems

+ blank lesbian and transfem ally point if anyone wants to add it to a flag ive missed. no need to credit me, i just slapped some flags together.

this flag is to show your allyship to the lesbian, transfem, and transfem lesbian community whilst not being a lesbian or transfem yourself :]

TERFS, RADFEM, MSPEC LESBIANS, BI/PAN LESBIANS DNI

[jdevil331]

I love when people tell me what my sexuality is because I'm a lesbian who likes fem presenting non binary people/Neg/srs </3 I'm not a msepc lesbian and never will be msepc lesbians are not welcome on my account

[kingdykeshxt]

Demiboy Lesbian Flags!

I couldn't decide on which one to choose, so i'm posting all of them!

DNI: mspec "lesbians", radinclus, terfs/transmeds, radfems, men/male "lesbians", anti he/him lesbians and she/her gays

[koko-heads]

i'm actually convinced people on this app have no literacy skills

[rotshop]

hiiiiiii ....

[elysianmadness]

Happy lesbian visibility week/day to every lesbian around the world! I hope you're going to have a wonderful week, wherever you are. Your lesbianism is perfect and needed in the world. In this household, we love and appreciate the diversity of the lesbian experience <3

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Nah fr though, don't reblog my shit if you're hateful towards any queer identity!!

If you don't like pan, ply, or omni people, fuck off.

Hate MOGAI? Get bent.

If you don't like acespecs and/or arospecs, fuck off.

Hate mspec lesbians? Leave right tf now.

If you don't like enbies, fuck off.

Hate cultural identities? Turn tf around.

If you're hateful towards any of these identities and/or lesbians, bi people, gay people, trans people, or any other part of this community, get the literal and actual fuck out of here.

WE DON'T DO EXCLUSIONARY BULLSHIT IN THIS SPACE! WE NEVER HAVE! AND WE NEVER, EVER, EVERRRR WILL!!

This is a safe space for queer people, especially the ones who get spoken over and shit on all the time, NOT hateful and bigoted people. And when I say hateful and bigoted people, I'm including queer people who feel the need to hurt and harm and harass and shit-talk other queers. Go anywhere else if you wanna be a jerk!! Hope this helps 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[princessefemmelesbian]

There’s nothing funnier than seeing blogs marked green on shinigami eyes or that explicitly proclaim themselves to be “trans-friendly” or “anti-terf” support mspec lesbians and not even notice the sheer cognitive dissonance in that. 

Like in addition to being straight up lesbophobic and biphobic, it’s also transmisogynistic, the term was literally created by TERFs to sideline cis women who dated trans women and to exclude trans women from lesbianism. You don’t get to call yourself “anti-terf” while supporting such a label lolol. 

[cloudboundcritters]

what it feels like when you see "MEN DNI!11!!! LESBIAN MEANS NON MEN LOVING NON MEN!!!11!" in a post

[sylvoin]

Dog gender lesboy flag!!

[horrorcrew-diary]

I love you systems with lesboys

I love you systems with turigirls

I love you systems with mspec monos

I love you systems with straight gays

I love you afab transfem systems

I love you amab transmasc systems

I love you transfemmasc systems

I love you cistrans systems

I love any other system or alter with a "contradictory" queer label.

Having a CDD fragments your sense of self in a unique way, and if "contradictory" labels make you feel more comfortable in your sense of an already flaky self, I support you.

[historyinclusionist]

History Inclusionist

An "Inclusionist" who believes that identities which are 1) shown to be supported in the community's history 2) are harmless personal identities that don't pose harm to others are valid and should be included in their communities.

Overall:

"History Inclusionism" refers to being inclusive of personal identities based on the identity being:

A self affirmed personal identity (locatable only within a person's interaction with and relations to the world around you)

Historically shown to be included in an identity subculture (Such as in a notable number of personal accounts, poems, zines, books, or other media from a subculture)

Shown to be non harmful to other identities or persons (Such as in more than one professional study)

Examples: - Different studies over human history have concluded that being raised by gay parents doesn't cause inherent harm to children. Therefore, gay relationships are provably shown to be non harmful. They are included here. - Different self-reports, comics, zines, and other writings from the past 60 years mention male lesbians, bi lesbians, and lesbians in relationships with men. Therefore, it is historically shown to be included in lesbian culture, and is included here. - Studies, reports, and other examinations by professionals over the course of human history have come to the conclusion that minors in relationships with adults cannot properly consent and are harmed by those "relationships." Therefore, personal identities that try to justify these "relationships" are not included here.

"Personal Identity"?

"Personal Identity" is a purposefully broad term meant to apply to most self-affirmed forms of identification (plurality status, orientation, gender, etc).

Being a History Inclusionist means that you are in complete support of the following personal identities:

Plurality which does not attribute its origins to trauma

Lesbians who are also male / Gay men who are also female

Lesbians who are also mspec (bi, pan, poly, etc) / Gay men who are also mspec

Transgender / nonbinary people who don't experience dysphoria or only feel euphoria

Nonbinary genders, including xenogenders / nonbinary genders that are "atypical" (based on fictional characters, highly specific, based on animals, etc)

"Atypical" relationship formats such as polyamorous relationships, relationship anarchy, kink-focused relationships, etc (Or generally any other form of relationship between two or more consenting people that would not fall under anything on the list below this)

Gender presentations which conflict with and/or defy the expected norm (Women who use he/him pronouns, men who present feminine, etc)

Being a History Inclusionist means that you absolutely do not tolerate or support the following:

Acting on or encouraging attraction to children as an adult (Ped*philia)

Acting on, encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to one's family members (Inc*st)

Acting on or encouraging attraction to, or associating positive feelings with the attraction to animals (Z*ophilia)

TransID/TransX communities, the idea that someone can transition into or identify as an age, disorder, or condition they physically are not or do not have (transrace/diarace/trace, transabled/transdisorder/'transplural'/transautistic, and so on)

Arguing with other members of the LGBT community over who is allowed to use derogatory words (Q-eer, f-ggot, d-ke, and so on)

Tagging: @mogai-sunflowers @neopronouns @radiomogai

If you're interested in reading more about why I consider XYZ a good faith thing and why I don't consider XYZ the same, I made a Carrd! 📖🏳️‍🌈

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

OMG I have those nightmares too! Glad I’m not alone! It’s so uncomfortable because I literally have intrusive thoughts about being attracted to men on the daily and it’s legit triggering to me when the prospect of being attracted to men comes up, or somebody tries to tell me that I am or should be attracted to men. So that’s another reason to hate the mspec lesbian label. They don’t care if telling lesbians that we could/should be or are attracted to men is hurtful or not, or if it even triggers our comphet. Some of them don’t even believe in comphet which means they believe that we’re all bi anyway. Ew. They’re actively endorsing corrective rape rhetoric and they don’t even care, or if they do, they revel in it. 

// mspec lesbian discourse, suicide ment

I'm a lesbian with SO-OCD (aka sexual orientation ocd) and my main theme is somehow turning bi or straight.

A few days ago, a friend of mine asked why I don't support mspec lesbians and tried to argue with me about it; they said I'm using a "too restrictive" description of what a lesbian is and it's hurting me. I was extremely uncomfortable through the whole thing, but they didn't stop. Didn't matter I was triggered and borderline suicidal, "destroying me in the arguments LOL XDD" seemed more important.

Like, imagine you're afraid of being attracted to men due to a crippling mental illness and someone says "yeah, indeed, I think you ARE actually attracted to men!!!"

I still feel so sick. I literally have nightmares about being married to a man or kissing one, but they didn't even care.

Sorry for the vent, I really needed to say it somewhere.

I’m so sorry. That person is not your friend. Friends listen to you and respect you, and more importantly, if friends know about how you’re struggling with your mental health and still think winning an argument is more important, 🚩.

You should prioritize your mental health, everyone should always do that. If I were you I’d have stopped talking with that person immediately, they’re not worth your friendship and they’re not worth arguing because they probably won’t change their mind.

Please don’t apologize, this is always a safe space and I’m happy you decided to vent. Know that there are a lot of people out there who’d actually listen to you and be sympathetic, and not treat you the way your “friend” did.