#mono-attractional

[obnebulant-mogai]

Monofamilial Flag!

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Monofamilial - a term for one who only experiences familial love and/or attraction!

[ID: Two images;

The first image is a flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are light storm grey, storm grey, black grey, silver grey, black grey, smoky grey, and dark smoky grey. The flag has an upside down chevron that is the height of the flag and has its own seven equal stripes. In descending order, the chevron's stripes are light blue, sky blue, navy blue, white, navy blue, light purple blue, and grape purple. End first ID;

The second image is a flag with seven equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are light storm grey, storm grey, black grey, white, navy blue, sky blue, and dark blue purple. End second ID.]

[ID: A divider that consists of a thin white line with three stars on each side. End ID.]

Flags by me. Requested by @clowncarfullofrats. Tagging @radiomogai.

The only other monoattractional flag I could find to use as a reference was the monoattractional spectrum flag on the LGBTQIA+ wiki, so I'm sorry if it looks a little weird or not what you were expecting! /gen

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

posting this on it's own

[apostate-in-an-alcove]

Mono people completely unprompted: "I've never seen an attractive polyamorous person, I hate them, they're so gross, they're just cheaters, why do they all look like that, poly relationships never last, they're ugly and gross, they just want an excuse to cheat, they're emotionally immature, have I mentioned how ugly I think they are?"

[esoteric-apparition]

Anti mspec mono people know that mspec doesn't always mean "attraction to men and women" right. I mean obviously other queer people understand that labels can be complex and have multiple definitions. RIGHT??

[itsoktocallmegay]

You know, I’ve seen more people learn about abrosexual and abroromantic lately, but even queer people do not seem to understand just what that can mean for an abro person, especially multigender and genderfluid abrospecs. Like, yes, sometimes I’m a lesbian, and sometimes I’m a gay man. Yes, sometimes I’m omni or pan. And, this is made worse by those who don’t know what the Split Attraction Model is or monos who don’t support it, because sometimes I feel no romantic or sexual attraction (I mostly identify as an angled aroace,) sometimes I’m panromantic and omnisexual, other times I’m panplantonic and switch to omniplatonic. And, sometimes I switch between aspec identities as well, like switching from cupioromantic to demiromantic, or from cupiosexual to apohtiosexual to orchidsexual, or demiplantonic to caedplatonic to orchidplantoic, and so on. Abro literally just means one’s orientation is fluid or changes, and people will say it’s a valid label and then turn around and call other labels abrospec people use invalid. I’m so tired of making my abro and genderfluid identity more palatable to others.

[redacted-coiner]

Kitty and Doggy Flags

[PT: Kitty and Doggy Flags]

Mspec-Neptunic and/or Mspec-Uranic folk who feel connected to dogs or cats in some way, are otherkin, therians, etc. if u like dog or cats aesthetics to!

Template Used made by @loveletterliom

[Mspec Neptunic: None yet / idk what to do ;v;]

[Mspec Uranic ID: None yet / idk what to do ;v;]

[Tag] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @imoga-pride, @orientation-archive

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[rabbitcruiser]

Forest (No. 87)

Earthquake Fault, Mammoth Lakes

[shk0lstun-flagz]

Reoriented / Adapt-oriented

A Term for folks who would be willing to re-adjust their orientation/attraction in way that would align and support their current partner(s) possible gender identity changes or transitioning

( example : a straight woman whose partner transitions to a woman would readjust her orientation to be lesbian/sapphic or multisexual out of support of her partners new gender identity.)

Mostly for any mono-oriented folks that feel like they would do this for their current partner(s) but mspecs could use it as well to show that they would be supportive/adapt to any gender change/transition their current partner(s) might go through

The opposite of this : Nonreoriented / Nonadapt-oriented

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory label culture is *laughs in split attraction model.*

💗

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Amative/Affinitive Pride Flags

Amative Orientation Pride Flag

Amative orientations: any orientation that dooes not describe the gender(s) one is or is not attracted to, but instead describe how one experiences attraction. Eg. conditional/circumstantial/situational asexuality (demisexuality, fraysexuality...), partial aromanticism (mesi/grey aromantic...), null platonicity (suptilic aplatonicism...), refero-, chameleo-, etc.

Affinitive Orientation Pride Flag

Affinitive or affectional orientations: any orientations that describe which gender(s) one is or is not attracted to. Eg. multi-, mono-, juvelic terms.

Not every orientation is inherently this or the other, but they are useful umbrella terms. Sometimes they are intertwined, other times some may emphasize one over another, questioning and undefined people may don't know which one they have, amplusic (fluid/flux/flex) people may navigate through both and other possibilities.

[needsukunainmymouth]

Even with the horrible "non men exclusive attraction to non men" definition for lesbians I would fit it romantically. So why are you mad? Becuase my sexual attraction differs from my romantic attraction???

[redacted-genders]

Straight bi lesbian combo flag for myself

Image ID: two versions of a pride flag. The first version has seven horizontal stripes with colors in this order: dark purple, pinkish purple, dusty pink, soft tangerine, pale gold, muted light blue, and dark-ish blue. The second version has five stripes, where the fourth and fifth stripes of the original are combined into a pale soft orange, and the bottom stripe removed. End ID.

This flag is for anyone who identifies with the straight, bi and lesbian labels for any reason. If someone is confused I’d be happy to elaborate.

! No discourse interaction - Im just vibing !

Flags used:

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

The first split attraction model (SAM) was made in 1879 by Karl Heinrich Ulrichs and described bisexuality as well as heteroromantic homosexuality. There’s literally a whole ass wikipedia article on this. Let’s use our brains here a bit, okay?

[aroace-poly-show]

all it takes is one pretty girl and i’m sent back into my “wait fuck am i actually aroace” crisis

[ruusattukoira]

Trying to dissect your attraction and why you choose to identify and use certain terms and labels that are inherently really complex (and often seen as completely contracting) is truly something else lmao

It's also a really beautiful work through imo. It's like learning things about yourself in a deeper way, especially when it comes to an identity that's always and sometimes rapidly even changing for someone and completely static and non-moving after finding a certain label to some. It's a lifelong thing after all.

[featherymainffins]

Kinda funny how everyone around me seriously at least kinda knows what they want in life and I'm just like "I don't know man. I don't even know who I am."