#Mspec Mono

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

[noahizslay]

unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.

[errrr-vent-blog]

"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.

[clownshrooms]

happy pride to everyone who uses "contradictory" labels. mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesbigays, gaybians, velaurians, lesboys, turigirls, boygirls and girlboys, oriented aro/aces, cistrans ppl, and everyone else i didn't mention <3

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

[idwl]

i keep seing anti subtliden folk in the tags ; it seems like there's been an uptick , recently

so here's a reminder that the term nonman has racist history

here's a reminder that anti mspec lesbian and anti mspec veldian rhetoric often aligns with radfem rhetoric and gold star lesbian rheotric

here's a reminder that being anti lesboy and anti turigirl is anti multigender people and exorsexist

here's a reminder that being anti BAF (born as female) transfem and BAM (born as male) transmasc is often bioessentialist and anti baf transfem + bam transmasc rhetoric is intersexist and aligns with exorsexism and transmed rhetoric

here's a reminder that all identities that do not impose hate or perpetuate discrimination are inherently neutral and identities do not inherently cause harm

here's a reminder that queerphobes hate all of us, from the most white allopericis he/him conformist bisexual man, to the "weirdo" bi lesboy alt emo xenogender girlboy who uses he/she and arson/arsons pronouns

here's a reminder that other queer people are not responsible for our systemic oppression, or any kind of discrimination against us; other people are responsible for their own hatred

here's a reminder that queer people have been using "unconventional" and "contradictory" terminology since before most of us were born

here's a reminder that you don't have to understand an identity to accept it

here's a reminder that exclusionism harms the queer community

here's a reminder that it's all of us or none of us

here's a reminder that it's all of us or none of us

here's a reminder that it's all of us or none of us

[pupiipawzz]

i love you homoflexibles, i love you heteroflexibles, i love you mspec lesbians and gays, i love you lesboys and turigirls, i love you transcis people, i love you pansexuals, i love you gaybians, i love you aroallos, i love you afab transfems and amab transmascs, i love you if your identity is contradictory or confusing or mistaken for another identity

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[your-rutherfurr]

Gaybianz 🔛🔝💯‼️🔥🙏

(Also ignore me spelling 'faggotry' in different wayz...😛)

[horrorcrew-diary]

I love you systems with lesboys

I love you systems with turigirls

I love you systems with mspec monos

I love you systems with straight gays

I love you afab transfem systems

I love you amab transmasc systems

I love you transfemmasc systems

I love you cistrans systems

I love any other system or alter with a "contradictory" queer label.

Having a CDD fragments your sense of self in a unique way, and if "contradictory" labels make you feel more comfortable in your sense of an already flaky self, I support you.

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

has anyone done this yet

[redacted-coiner]

NOTE: I quite literally don’t care about discourse don’t bring it up or I’m just blocking you.

Mspec Lesbian, Mspec Straight, Mspec Gay/Veldian

Straightcian, Gaybian, Straightbian

Lesboy, Contrapan(link), Turigirl

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[luzxii]

If you start your debate with "bigender people who identify as both male and female aren't men they're bigender" you do not in fact support multigender people's identities

[needsukunainmymouth]

I sometimes love my human sexuality class.

[1tz-4ll-m3]

If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.

Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.

If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.

[luckytheburger]

"Homoromantic bisexuals are valid but bi lesbians aren't" so close! You are actually just Fucking Stupid

[doomgendr]

lesbigay / bigayles flag

for people who use the labels bi, gay, and lesbian to pin down their complex attraction/identity!!

higher quality + more versions on my twitter