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“empaths” are THE stupidest fucks on the planet. not to mention the ableism lol
#actually npd#cluster b safe#cluster b#npd safe#npd#npd vent#npd stigma#aspd#bpd#low empathy#actually mentally ill#narcissistic abuse#narc abuse isn't real#empaths DNI
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A really dumb vent but tbh you don't have to feel empathy, guilt, sympathy, compassion, remorse, etc. to be a good person. You can feel none of these and still decide to do the right thing. In fact people who DO feel those things and STILL continue to do horrible things are worse imo.
#low empathy#no empathy#actually aspd#aspd thoughts#neurodivergent#actually autistic#inclusiveness#no compassion#low compassion#no remorse#low remorse#no sympathy#low sympathy#apathy#antisocial#light vent#hazardqueer#coralqueer
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when someone treats me slightly wrong so now i have to make them feel bad by literally committing suicide, but also why would i kill myself for them when they're obviously worth much less than me? but still they need to regret what they did? guilt-tripping isn't enough i want them to spend their whole life eaten up by intrusive thoughts wondering if they deserve anything after depriving the world of its most interesting creature
#tw: sui mention#aspd#actually aspd#antisocial personality disorder#antisocialpersonalitydisorder#antisocial#antisocials#aspd tag#cluster b#actuallyaspd#low empathy#npd#npd vent#npd tag#actually npd#npd culture is#npd problems#npd things#npd thoughts#manipulation#guilt tripping
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Fun fact: People with high amounts of empathy can abuse people with low/no empathy! Having empathy (even very high amounts of it) does not make it so someone can't be abusive. Having low/no empathy does not make it so you can't be abused.
#actually npd#npd#low empathy#no empathy#actuallynpd#me when i#this is about my ex#god i feel like such an idiot#im probably gonna make a vent about it later because I need to process a couple things#ugh
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you ever love so quickly and so deeply that you're deeply insecure about scaring people off, even/especially when it comes to platonic relationships because your gauge of how others' feelings develop is completely broken?
how do you turn that off
relatedly, how would one go about separating the thrill of positive human interaction and genuine friendship. asking for a friend
#vent#adhd#autism#neurodivergent#neurospicy#social anxiety#social awkwardness#rejection sensitive dysphoria#adhd rsd#rsd#low empathy#alexithymia
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Did anyone else with low empathy experience confusion as a kid over why you had to clean up the entire house with your family? The way young me saw it, if everyone in the house were to clean up all of their own messes, the house would stay clean as a result. I still think it is the truth on paper, however now I comprehend "helping out" as a concept and have taught myself that it's expected of me. But as a kid, I got screamed at and called disrespectful over this multiple times, even if it is technically the truth. I still struggle to understand just why they were made so mad by it.
#vent#actuallyaspd#actuallyautistic#low empathy#actually aspd#autism#actually autistic#actuallyabused
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i’m just an empty shell looking for people to latch onto and drain their energy and make their mental health shit until i get bored of them
#actually bpd#bpd safe#bpd vent#actually borderline#actually mentally ill#bpd problems#bpd thoughts#bpd#mental illness#suspected aspd#aspd stigma#aspd culture is#aspd safe#aspd thoughts#cluster b safe#no empathy#low empathy
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People need to stop acting like it's wrong to only be sorry when you get hurt. Why the fuck else would anyone be sorry? It's okay to only care when you face consequences.
I'm never really sorry, I just regret making people hate me. There shouldn't be anything wrong with that. We shouldn't need guilt in order to be a good person.
Just because you play the victim doesn't mean I should apologize.
#Npd#Narcissistic personality disorder#Npd safe#Cluster b#low empathy#No empathy#unpopular opinion#Hot take#Npd hot take#Morals#Vent
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i feel like everyone deserves financial compensation for having to meet me
#/silly#even if i have not wronged you yet#i most likely will /hj#actually bpd#bpd blog#bpd vent#bpd thoughts#bpd#fp bpd#bpd fp#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#narcissistic personality disorder#cluster b#actually cluster b#low empathy#borderline personality disorder#npd safe#bpd safe#cluster b safe
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merely a rant on empathy and love
what is it to love?
i know that i need to see you as an extension of myself to be able to feel any sort of affective empathy (feels like it's happening to me). but that isn't sustainable because when my partner does something I wouldn't and can't convince them it's wrong and to do it my way, they cease being an extension of me and I feel like I can't understand a single thing they do or say anymore.
some of the most important times to feel empathy for someone is when it's your behaviour causing them pain. but if you, my love, are part of me and I am not feeling any pain I don't understand your pain. I'm not hurting you in a way that would hurt me? but then when I try to understand the pain the delusion ends and they are no longer part of me.
so then you seem so foreign to me and terrifying. you've changed so much in half a second and I feel fooled and abandoned. it was Us vs. Them. But you've left the Us side so now it's Me vs. You. I guess there really is no Us in this delusion, just me and an extension of me in the shape of you, the idea of a person rather than the person themselves. That extension/delusion is gone and so is my partner in crime, the only person who could understand me. Myself. And now it's just you, standing here, looking at me with tears in your eyes.
which I guess is the point where cognitive empathy needs to take over, but mine is so fucking weak.
cognitive empathy feels so shallow and pointless to me. it feels like an act like a trick. and then I feel ashamed. and then i feel like maybe I just don't want to be around people at all. i just want to be alone (no i don't)
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Everyone in this house thinks I’m a fucking sociopath when in reality I’m just low empathy autistic :/
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Having no empathy really just makes me feel like I can’t ever connect with anyone truly
#cluster b#aspd culture is#aspd awareness#aspd safe#aspd mood#aspd thoughts#aspd feels#actually aspd#aspd things#aspd tag#aspd vent#bpd tag#actually bpd#bpd thoughts#npd safe#low empathy
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Realizing you have low empathy is a bit scary.
Like, if you tell the wrong people, they’re gonna think you’re this horrible person.
But you’re not.
You’re just disabled.
And you can’t help it.
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Having NPD and Low Empathy makes it so hard to have friends
in one hand, I don't want friends. I just dont feel any inclination to having them
in the other hand, I feel lonely somehow
I see people as objects, literally just as functions, and it's like
I want certain things from them... but I don't really care about them as a whole, and I don't want to have them
it's a loss loss
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#just needed to vent for a sec but oh god am i tired of people#'friends' both irl and online got me fucked up lately#mental healths been in the shitter almost nonstop this year#familys always got me up the wall#i just feel like I'm constantly treading water and i am *tired*. like so fucking TIRED#it's never enough; it's too much; no not like that; but not that either; it's all wrong wRoNg WrOnG#ik im sleep deprived and possibly pms-y and that is most certainly not helping things rn but...#gods i see less and less of a reason to get out of bed and bother with anything ever again#wtf is the purpose#i can't keep friends to save my life bc im apparently a fuckin doormat and interesting as unflavored rice or smth#how hard is it to feel like you maybe sorta kinda matter and aren't an unlovable worthless piece of shit#years of therapy; trying meds; everything under the sun.... and nothing. lows and highs and dips of every kind and yet ..nothing#and maybe im just very much in my feelings rn and just yelling into the void.. but it hurts and im tired of pretending it doesn't.#i hate how hard it is to make friends as an adult especially irl. and how gossipy and cliquey and gross and mean ppl can be#of getting called childish and naive and boring for wanting to be a decent person and having interests outside of partying#(not attacking those traits but tired of getting attacked for *not* being 'fun' enough or 'social' enuf or 'sensitive' for having feelings)#enough*#i just want to go eat drywall and stand in the rain and let it help me pretend im not crying blood rn.#like every cell in my body isn't trying to spontaneously combust.#'it gets better' ..yeah? when. when i was 14? when i was 23? when im 37? when im 55? 82? WHEN.. bc im so sick and tired#and no this isn't me writing a final note or whatever it sounds like; i just wanted to word vomit bc ive never been good w sadness#and ive got such an overwhelming amount of it rn i can't even turn it into anger & spite & use that for productivity... i just want to rot#to lie down and be covered by plants as i sleep and just slowly fade into a cloud or smth like it's a ghibli movie or wtv.#im like shaking from how stupidly emotional i feel rn. the lack of empathy these days is fuckin astounding#common sense & empathy are lacking in absolutely droves these days. some days i hate the internet & tech for its irreparable damages sm#but here we are and here it shall remain. long after us; and *long* after us ..... *sigh*#anyway ima go try to take a nap or smth. I'll see ya when i see ya. take care my lovelies#if u read all this i prob owe you a cookie lol
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Here is my problem with posts like these- the concept is sound. Autistic people *can* have all of these traits pictured. Autistic people can make eye contact, not be good at science, and understand emotions.
But all of these posts come off with the undertone that NOT having these pictured traits is the default, the standard, that autistics who don’t have these traits are talked about too much and that NOT having these traits is just stereotypical and bad. Those sentiments have been repeated far too often in the community for me to fully trust people who make posts like this one shown above. How can I know that they don’t REALLY mean to leave autistics who don’t have these traits, these “cute, good, more socially acceptable traits”, out of the conversation. How can I know they don’t think autistics who don’t fit this cutesy list are bad and stereotypical and should just shut up already so the cutesy autistics can look better to neurotypicals. Because it really does come off this way.
I didn’t read fiction at all until I was nine (I was forced to start reading it then) and didn’t enjoy it until I was twelve. I still only enjoy the few fandoms I know well and it is very hard to get into anything I’m not familiar with. My lifelong special interest is geology and has been since I was five. I have always been good at science, and although I have a vivid imagination and love art, I hate English class and can only make art for Big Hero 6 and the SCP Foundation because I know those fandoms well. I don’t make eye contact, and I have low empathy and struggle to read and understand the emotions of people I don’t know well. I have noise sensitivity so bad that I have almost given myself tinnitus playing music to cope. I couldn’t do dishes until I got myself rubber gloves, I can’t eat many “quick foods” such as instant and microwaveable foods because of texture issues.
I don’t fit most of those cutesy traits on the list. But, I barely ever see any positivity for MY traits, because the community sees me as the default, thinks I’m talked about enough and visible enough. There’s this undertone in all of these posts that us non-socially acceptable autistics are visible enough and we should just let high masking high empathy LSNs have the spotlight. And that would be fine if they didn’t also make the community completely inhospitable to us by shitting on people with low empathy, misusing the term nonverbal (which ABSOLUTELY pisses off actually nonverbal people and you’d know that if you actually listened to them), and refusing to talk about anyone who isn’t a cutesy high empathy high masking LSN. Apparently everyone else is accepted enough. Apparently people are aware of me already. If so, then where did my diagnosis run off to, huh?
#this is like half venting half discourse#of course it’s not all high empathy high masking lsns#but I am allowed to be fucking angry when all I see is stuff about them and how lovely and cool their traits are#where’s that energy for nonverbal autistics or autistics with intellectual disabilities or autistics with low empathy#where’s that energy for autistics with comorbidities other than ADHD like autistics with schizophrenia or cluster b disorders or OCD or DID#we won’t get anywhere if every other autistic is thrown under the bus to make high empathy high masking LSNs look better to neurotypicals#autism#autism spectrum disorder#actually autistic#autism discourse#asd#low empathy autism#actually low empathy
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