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watching someone else do the really annoying behavior you used to do when you were younger gives a whole different meaning to exposure therapy
#jesus fucking christ#literally#no one asked lol#especially because we already told you this situation isn’t healthy and you’re still talking to them anyway#:)#like i-#they don’t follow my tumblr so it’s fine#but like why did i used to feel the need to just share screenshots of me flirting with people and saying cute shit to people with my friends#like they aren’t dating people#don’t make them feel lonely#that’s shitty#hello#???#god#the lack of self awareness#in this chilis tonight#is astonishing#thisisme#lyss rambles#about me#mental health#exposure therapy#mental health humor#therapy humor
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you wouldn’t believe how happy it makes me to think of percy calling mrs. o’leary his and nico’s dog.
#isn’t it such a cute thing for people that aren’t even necessarily dating to do like? you’re skipping steps here! sharing a custody and all#but it’s so adorable. how they just share their love for their pet#(and the love they feel for each other as well. though they won’t admit.)#percico#nico di angelo#percy jackson#pjo#fanfiction
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I would trust like none of you with my story if I was a cc. People like you are the reason people like me don’t talk about being hurt.
#I’m so mad I’m sooo mad at a lot of people on this site right now but my friends are being nice to me so I’m not posting my full rant#tw abuse#this is a very very very very vauge post I know that and I’m sorry but fuck dude you guys treat ccs like they aren’t people#context for people reading at a later date:#god just look in the notes it’s way to much to explain but it was Bad people were really bad about Shelby coming out about the abuse
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Tomorrow on SMG4 in Schmicago: SMG4 is a dumbass…
But hey, Mario found out that 4 thinks he’s got a thing for Jenny… yay…….
Yes SMG3 regrets dating this man- /j
#smg4#smg4 au#my art#smg3#smg34#smg4 mario#marware#smg4 schmigadoon au#Mario is so confused and 4 thinks he’s smart#can you tell I like making SMG4 think people are dating when they aren’t and it always involves Mr. Puzzles in some way??#we got 4 thinking Mario likes Jenny here#and then in Apprenticeship he thought 5 and 6 were sleeping together because of the one bed that was actually Puzzles’#i love this dumbass so much I must torture him <3#<- tbh 3 probably lol
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isagi is so insanely sexy and so good at playing the long game. you are never outsmarting him
#aristotle.txt#isagi doesn’t hit on you for a few years#he orchestrate situations where you see him act like a perfect boyfriend and dates who aren’t compatible with him#dates people**#on purpose so the break up is natural#and he knows he can’t be too blatant about his interest so he listens to your relationship problems and just makes subtle faces and acts#apologetic to plant the seed of doubt like he’s Crazy. he’s Plotting.
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i was thinking about how i wished leverage had a birthday episode for some of the characters cause that would be sweet, but then i realised something and basically…. okay here’s my thoughts in quotes form, just for fun
hardison: so when’s your birthday? i could plan something for us and the team to do and-
parker: i dont know
hardison: you don’t know… your own birthday?
parker: no, how would i know? pshh, cmon, you’re telling me you remember EXACTLY when you were born? watch this - hey, eliot, do you know your exact birth date?
eliot, innocently passing by, who was canonically anonymously dropped off at a hospital as an infant: no, how would i know?
parker: that’s what i said!
hardison: excuse me?? what is going on right now
sophie, walking into the apartment: whats wrong?
hardison: parker and eliot- well, okay, when’s your birthday? i just have to prove something.
sophie: …….july 12th
hardison: why did you pause? wait, is that your birthday or sophie devereaux’s birthday?
sophie: ………… (guilty silence)
parker: see, no one knows their real birthday! haha you’re so weird sometimes, hardison
hardison:
hardison: what the fuck guys
#leverageposting#wren speaks#leverage#parker leverage#alec hardison#nate knows his birthday i guess so i didn’t include him. if he was watching the whole time he would probably say ‘idk’ to mess w hardison#they’re having this convo in nate’s apartment but it’s like 3am & he’s asleep & they’ve all broken in to hang out#parker doesn’t know either bc of her ridiculously neglectful foster parents or bc she’s parker & her priorities are simply different to most#people. her birthday is irrelevant to thievery. and sadly probably not related to fun happy memories anyway.#sophie obviously is a good enough grifter to answer confidently but she feels a little bad abt lying to her family by now#meanwhile hardison had a normal foster nana who would have known his bday. most kids aren’t safe-surrendered like eliot so assumably#hardison would have a known bday. and he likes birthdays!#and he wants to throw parker a little party even if it’s a very unconventional parker bday that involves rappelling & jumping off buildings#but he is once again thwarted by the leverage team members having the strangest possible lives#he IS gonna give them each birthday parties tho. even if he has to make up some dates & stuff#sophie’s can be the fake date she gives if that’s what she rlly wants. nate’s real birthday is on file somewhere even if he’s being annoying#rn so hardison just has to do some basic hacking. eliot would have an approximate bday such as the day he was surrendered that his parents#would have celebrated throughout childhood. and parker’s would be april 1st bc that’s alice whites bday (and YOURE ALICE!!!)#as in it’s canonically in the online info abt alice white shown in the juror no.6 job & obvs that’s april fools so it’s funny :)#and hardison has a NORMAL bday unlike SOME ppl and yes he DOES expect presents you heathens!!
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#dragon has a gamer moment#splatoon 3#side order#side order spoilers#pearlina#waiter! waiter! more yuri please!#seriously though this is like. 100% lesbian. genuinely you cannot give a straight explanation for this#splatoon devs saw people try to defend the idea that pearl and marina aren’t dating and were like ‘are you sure’#the 1% of pearlina content that could be plausibly seen as platonic is meaningless now#these cephalods are gay!!!!!!!
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feeling very grateful for the cute barista today who clearly clocked a) my fontaines d.c. tote, and b) the fact i was stuck on a spectacularly bad date, and proceeded to play me an entire playlist of fontaines d.c. and sneak me extra vegan marshmallows with my hot chocolate
#an absolute GEM 💗#we need more people in the world like this#they restored my faith in humanity 🙏#unlike my date#who was… well. i’ve been on worse ones i guess#but he monologued at me for a two and a half hours#and on the rare times i actually managed to get a word in edge ways or voice an opinion#he just twisted it round to suit what he’d been saying#it REALLY annoyed me#the entire thing annoyed me actually#i am so sick and tired of going on dates with straight white men who feel the need to explain everything to you#as if you’re not a person with a mind and experiences of your own#also wtf is the point on going on a date with someone when you aren’t remotely interested in getting to know them???#the man asked me maybe two questions total the entire afternoon#i could write his entire fucking biography#also at the end he said how cool and mysterious i was#and i’m like ????#i’m only mysterious because you’d prefer me to be that than an actual person who you could have had a proper conversation with#*breathes out slowly*#phew okay i was angrier about this than i thought lol#the older i get the less tolerance i have for shit like this 🫠#anyway yeah sorry#vent over 😅#i’m just so annoyed because i have SUCH limited energy atm with my pain and fatigue etc and i just wasted it on him ffs#but then again#the cute barista and the fontaines d.c. and the marshmallows were most definitely not a waste of my energy#they totally saved my day honestly 🙏#fontaines d.c.#lulu posts
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Too many people want tsukasa to be viewed as socially cool. I think we need to accept that the only kind of cool wxs member is emu who befriends idols joined like 400 clubs and knows almost everyone. Emu has a million friends & most of the lines other characters have abt her are like “emu :)” meanwhile the lines abt tsukasa are all like “he is so weird.” & you want to pretend he’s cooler than her… be so serious…
Nene is also Lame & Rui is only cool to other nerds (gestures at pandemonium npcs). Crucially Tsukasa is an annoying theater kid. No annoying theater kid is popular or cool in highschool. It is central to his character and him being a weirdo who (canonically!) gets no bitches & yet somehow knows major celebrities is one of the funniest and most endearing things about him. Guy who in canon goes to school and people are like “it’s this weirdo again (sees he’s with rui) oh fuck oh no.”An (friends with everyone) & Akito (guy on sports teams) are the only cool characters at Kamiyama.
#i think the line where tsukasa got no valentines gifts (at least none that weren’t friend gifts)#but rui ‘widly known as a freak and basically just talks to tsukasa’ kamishiro apparently did needs more recognition#personal theory is rui is 1) genuinely very kind & acts very mature/responsible to ppl who aren’t tsukasa & sometimes akito/nene#2) 6 feet tall 3) aforementioned points made some people want to give him gifts#project sekai#if I feel charitable I will give tsukasa the excuse that every girl at his school assumes he is gay and/or dating rui so they don’t bother#also because it’s a very funny excuse.#mine#this sounds like I’m bullying tsukasa (I am) but I do love him. i just think making fun of him is the correct way to enjoy his character.
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Classic internet stupidity.
"This character is bad and-" No, you just don't like them because they get in the way of your ship.
I’m a little confused if this is targeted at me or at the people I was talking about in the last post I made, but either way I’ll answer.
You’re right, this happens so much where a character is hated on in a way that the person hating thinks there is a logical reason to hate them. As in, they don’t hate a character just because they didn’t sit right with them(that’s a valid reason for hating a character), they hate a character because they want to find something unlikeable about them and turn it into their main thing. A character doesn’t have to actually be bad for people to not like them but when someone wants them to be bad because that way they feel validated for hating them it’s annoying.
And the reason they want to feel validated for hating them is because they feel like that character gets in the way of their ship. Like it’s okay to want a ship to happen and it’s okay to dislike a character for no reason, but that doesn’t mean the character is actually bad and everyone should agree with you.
I hope this answered your ask, even though if wasn’t really a question but a good point
#pjo#percy jackson and the olympians#heroes of olympus#hoo#ships#pjo ships#hoo ships#percy jackson#annabeth chase#percabeth#rachel elizabeth dare#this one’s actually canon though#I’ve seen less Rachel hate lately though bc people switched up when Leah became annabeth#but that’s a different conversation#perachel#people do this the other way around too#ya’ll aren’t always the victims like you think you are#valgrace#I’ve seen few ppl hating piper to promote valgrace#which I think is stupid bc piper is dating a girl now and not a threat#the real threat to the ship is that jason is dead#sorry#I like valgrace though#pernico#lord save me from the pernico fans#from what I’ve seen#the least toxic fanon ship is ruegard#no one hates beckendorf or chris for being the canon pairings#asks#answered
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i will be totally honest with y’all i can’t see Hobie (ATSV) in a romantic relationship ever. like, i can’t see him seeing anybody ever as “the one” or even having multiple partners or anything. I can barely see him having friends outside of the ones he already has. I can somewhat see the “are we dating or are we not dating” thing being something he gets involved in, but not really. i think a lot of people either don’t know or just forget that he’s probably homeless and that his world is shit rn and that stuff he needs isn’t easy to come by 😭😭 and a lot of homeless people just don’t have time/energy for shit like romantic relationships and the stuff he’s doing canonically because they’re so focused on trying to survive. That’s why when I make posts about him casually flirting or whatever it’s never serious, it never goes anywhere, because honestly! Between music shows, trying to find your next meal, fighting the power, trying to find a shelter for the night, helping other homeless people and others in need as both a civilian and Spider-Man, dealing with dimensional threats, trying to find a place to get clean, i just don’t think Hobie has time to even consider it. Sure, maybe there are facilities in the HQ to make it easier, but after that stunt, i think he’d avoid using them as much as possible. do you see what i mean??
#like i know he isn’t confirmed homeless in the movie. but like#like. i know. i also don’t like to think about homelessness and how terrifying it is esp for black guys#but you gotta realize he does not have all these damn hair products. he probably doesn’t smell good either#and he probably doesn’t have good breath most days or good teeth at all#and his clothes are probably dirty more often than not#and he will not be fun. people are not fun when their basic human rights are stripped away and they’re treated like garbage for a majority+#of their life#like. i genuinely think people just don’t consider a lot of shit he doesn’t do or even get the chance to bc he’s homeless#and how you’re treated like a pest and as if you aren’t human and don’t deserve human decency/necessities#now don’t get me wrong. i love to imagine hobie having a reliable space at the commune! with karl and kamala and all them. but +#that doesn’t mean he has reliable food sources and it’s basically a middle class well stocked and cared for house#of course i can’t/won’t police you because i don’t give a shit about what others do regarding him but yknow. keep it in mind at least#don’t even get me started on the knowledge of fixing pipes and other broken shit. god i could go on forever lol#this post was about Hobie not dating anybody and it turned into this 10/10 to myself actually#hobie brown#spiderpunk#spider punk#m&m posts
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other pettier thing but if you set your gender as “tired & gay” on lex im gonna avoid you like the plague
#cis people r so fucking annoying and they aren’t even entertaining when they do it#like that’s so great you get to not disclose your gender to people you wanna fuck that must be super nice for you#whenever I’m like ok yeah I’m gonna really start dating put myself out there it’s a goddamn nightmare!!!!!
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maybe how she stalks your fan accounts follows rihanna after you mention it. Stalks this tumblr to see the information and how she doesn’t have a life
https://x.com/houriyhoroscope/status/1876215131551748131?s=46
link!
to be fair she followed the rihanna update account before i mentioned it but she def stalks my tumblr 😭 she’s been known to stalk accounts and feed into the hate. like damn at least tell drew i say hi 🙄
#kinda makes me uncomfy she stalks me…..#like you’re besties/dating drew…. aren’t you supposed to be#‘above’ what people say about you online?#₊˚⊹ ᰔ chatting ‧₊#anon#☕︎ drew and o#drew.chatting
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The Real Ghostbusters’ future analysis
Do you guys ever think about how tragic the real ghostbusters’ lives went on to be after they dismantled the group. Cuz I do, maybe even more than necessary, and I’ll go over EACH of them in this post.
Ray
At first he worked in uni, which is okay, but ended up being fired and had to settle for selling old cars while grasping every opportunity to pay off his debt. Ray, the guy who is the most ‘in love with his job’ as stated countless times in the show, is SELLING CARS.
In the “Look Homeward, Ray” episode we see a similar situation with him quitting ghostbusting to work in retail and he was MISERABLE because he is obsessed with his work, I’d even went on to say it’s his hyperfixation with how he forgets about everything at times, including time and other tasks he has (from one ADHD guy to another). And that man is selling old cars. Jesus.
Peter
He went on to Hollywood to sell the idea for the second Ghostbusters movie and has been doing that for SIX YEARS. Six years he was out in LA trying to push it through. To do that you need connections, and I’d imagine that making them is not easy, not even talking about how you need money to survive, and since he never said anything about his job, it is probably like super lame. Again, he LOVED ghostbusting and didn’t want to trade it even for a life of stage and fame (“Banshee Bake a Cherry Pie?”).
In “Take Two” episode we saw that he does not get along with Hollywood people, he has too strong of a moral compass and principles, so I can only imagine how those six years where he NEEDED to interact with them constantly went.
And finally, his father. He has a difficult relationship with him, but it’s easy to see that while he still cares for him, he hates how Jim makes money and would rather die then help him in his ‘projects’. Well guess what. His dad also went on to Hollywood to sell a movie about Ghostbusters. A movie no one clearly wanted, similarly to Peter’s (cuz I believe if his idea was a banger he wouldn’t have spent 6 years pushing it through), so at the end of the day he became like his dad, which is absolutely the worst nightmare of every person with bad parents.
Winston
I would say that Winston is relatively better off than others. He got his pilot’s license and went on to travel, which is cool as hell. However, Winston was the glue of the group. He was always the one saying “we’re a team, we need to stick together no matter what”, which can be seen in maaany eps, the most prominent one is probably “Ghostbuster of The Year”.
And he needed to watch them all drift apart, unable to do anything, and going non-contact because in “Back in The Saddle” they were catching up as if they never talked since they parted ways. That’s wild.
Egon
Last but not least 💪 technically you could say that he doesn’t have it that bad. He still lives in the firehouse, he works as a prof of his own course, right? WRONG ‼️
In the comics that are arguably canon, but logically still make sense, Egon get transported into an empty dimension where everything is normal, except he’s all alone. And this is what he thinks of that.
Bro hates being alone. He needs his friends around even if he doesn’t usually show it. This was his nightmare situation and he lived to experience it in real life. For six years.
When it comes to teaching, cool, but he’s a scientist, not a professor. He was excited and interested in experimenting and discovering, not teaching. Additionally, no one takes his course seriously, he has an average of 3 student per semester, and even they are only there for an easy A. That is depressing.
His life does get better after he creates Extreme Ghostbusters: he’s no longer alone, he’s (kinda) doing what he used to, but even then he still struggles with his self-image and midlife crisis, poor guy :(
Overall
These guys are the epitome of ‘frequently bought together, do not separate’, they cannot be without each other.
In “Look Homeward, Ray” Ray leaves the group thinking he’s not good enough and they do EVERYTHING in their power to bring him back.
In “Cry Uncle” Egon’s uncle Cyrus (god I hate that guy) takes Egon away to help him in his lab and the whole team is at first miserable (sitting around the phone waiting for him to call) and then makes 1500 miles one way to ask him to come back.
In “Egon’s Ghost” even though it’s not the only instance, when Egon gets sucked into limbo they go in for him with a condition of ‘either we get him back in an hour or we all stay here’ like THESE GUYS ARE A FAMILY. I did not see this kind of relationship in the live action movie, but in the show? They aren’t just colleague or buddies, that’s a FAMILY.
Even the fact of separating itself is heartbreaking, and accounting for the fact that neither of them went on to do something exciting (except maybe Winston) it is absolutely devastating. Man.
Even in “Back In The Saddle” they get one (1) successful bust and go ‘hell yeah guys, let’s go back to being Ghostbusters, I think we dropped it off way too early’ like yeah, I’m sure that’s what people with their lives together would say.
TLDR: the old men yaoi angst in the real ghostbusters is real 🎉
#the real ghostbusters#ghostbusters#ray stantz#peter venkman#winston zeddemore#egon spengler#I know that in extreme ghostbusters they aren’t actively depressed but like come on#it’s a kids show about busting ghosts ofc they won’t focus on the topic of grief and drifting apart#realistically though there’s no way these guys were just FINE with separating#again every time in the show it happened they were MISERABLE#I just cannot stop thinking about it all#imagine meeting the people you considered family after 6 years of no contact and realising you don’t know them anymore#new habits#new looks#new routines#bro egon is stronger than me if someone invited my old friends to my birthday id kms#also 6 years comes from trg ending in 1991 and eg coming out in 1997#and mostly air date is the same as date in canon
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opinions on Tommy
sorry i just like posting polls
#sorry i just like knowing peoples opinions#tumblr shouldn’t have given me a poll option#also my vote is for neutral#mostly#don’t love his character in the flashbacks and wish we got a bit more redemption#he’s a fine character i just personally think he’s a plot device and probs won’t be around for long#idc if he does stay around but i def don’t think he should be endgame for buck#buddie#911#911 on abc#eddie diaz#evan buckley#911 abc#911 poll#tommy kinard#most of my issue with BT is the shippers honestly#not even all of them#mostly just the super intense ones that think we should stop shipping/hoping for buddie#as if all hope for buddie is gone because tommy’s been here for what? 1 1/2 dates and two kisses?#and the ones who want eddie dead so buck and tommy can have christopher#y’all are crazy#probs the majority of BT shippers are nothing like that but i’ve seen way too much to ignore it#nothing against the rest of y’all that act normal#certainly not getting endgame vibes from the way their relationship is being written and framed#it always makes me happy when i can predict the results of the polls#like i try and tag them as neutrally as possible and then guess how the results will go#and it’s fun but sometimes it scares me#like i get anxious when they aren’t going. the ‘right’ way#i have to start taking my ocd meds again this is becoming a problem#bucktommy
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did not expect kissing and realizing i’m lowkey dating a guy to send me down an existential spiral of reminding me that i have only one life to live and then i am going to die without living any other different lives
#but i’ve been wasting time not exploring at all!!#doesn’t have to be a forever person it’s just an experience#but still#it’s really weird and idk!!!!#and if i date this guy fr i would have to like go on birth control probably and holy shit i do NOT want more medication#and what if i meet someone else?#i don’t exactly want to commit y’know???#but i’m halfway through my twenties and i don’t know how much time i actually have and if i think about it too long i hyperventilate#which WOULDN’T HAPPEN if i was just continuing on with being safe and alone!!#and what about women?? i love women!#but when i really love something or someone i go crazy about it#i lose myself#so maybe realistic and neutral is better?#am i neutral?#i don’t fucking know and my friends for the most part aren’t quite grasping what i’m trying to say#like yes i overthink and yes it might not be that deep to anyone else including the guy#but it NEEDS to be that deep. to me.#because that’s how my brain fucking works.#i don’t take shit lightly and i never have#that’s why i’m better off alone#or with people who are also deeply unchill#but this guy is so chill! and it does make me feel comfortable!#but it’s also like bro is this conversion therapy am i conversion therapying myself?#my entire identity for more than a decade has been based off being single and independent#and the lapses in that are times in my life that i see myself as unambiguously pathetic and embarassing#with men and women#i feel like a fucking unsocialized semiferal cat that wants affection but also doesn’t know how to accept it#and do i even want it? or is it want i know i should want or what would be good for me so im just slowly forcing myself into it?#it’s so much easier. so much simpler. to not have to freak out about this stuff.#sorry for venting i know it’s annoying it’s just fuck man…
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