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in the midst of all this terrible news ryan murphy saw fit to grace us with a tiny sliver of shimmering light

thank you ryan murphy for feeding us this week

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wait so sequence of events.

a user on twitter decides to ask him why he still has the nasty n*cki m*naj post up stating "we moved on too quickly from this." he responds with a weird ass screenshot of ...... a troll account ?? (what exactly was the purpose of the response!!!!!)

then! he follows said twitter user, unfollows / blocks them and goes on a blocking spree of every single user who interacted with said post/seemingly ships buddie. he also during this time went and deleted the nasty post from his insta THAT HAS BEEN UP THIS WHOLE TIME but still left some of the other nasty posts up. all of this while he is supposedly being "hacked" ?

okay. benefit of the doubt. always. you were hacked. why not. try to remove yourself from the situation by admitting to that? why not make every post possible to make sure people know this isn't you? and if he has been hacked... wouldn't a hacker want to create more chaos? why not post even more shit to your insta / twitter instead of........ deleting only some posts but leaving others up?

it. doesn't add up. hmmmmmmm.

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I have yet to see any proof of this Lou’s account following and unfollowing people business. Form what I know he only followed that Buddie account he replied to but someone please tell me which accounts Lou unfollowed

right?? like there was one tiktoker i’ve followed for a while that posted a couple screenshots (the one i posted was from his vid and he had another showing that lou blocked him) but other than that i’ve seen nothing other than TONS of people claiming very different things

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it was kinda given away as not a hacker when he started backtracking, blocking folks, and deleting shit

why would a hacker do that? wouldn’t a hacker double down and make him look worse?

we’ve seen his old instagram posts, this bs on twitter seems fitting

like he’s publicly made similar jokes that he made no effort to apologize for yet y’all are falling all over yourselves to defend him

why? because he wouldn’t say that? i think it’s been proven by his own instagram that those are exactly the type of jokes he’s amused by.

ALSO why is “he was hacked” what they’re going with? if he had been hacked, wouldn’t they say something worse? like if someone really hacked him because they really wanted him fired they could have done SO much worse.

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ALSO why is “he was hacked” what they’re going with? if he had been hacked, wouldn’t they say something worse? like if someone really hacked him because they really wanted him fired they could have done SO much worse.

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The best (worst) part about them claiming he would never do that is that the person who started the hacking rumour was originally finding the joke funny with others saying he was trolling fans until it was called out for being ableist...

Lou: starts random twitter beef for no reason

Bummys: yeah! get ‘em! tell those buddies who’s boss!

Lou: makes an ableist joke and gets called out

Bummys: no!!! he would never say that!! it’s so obvious he was hacked!!!

i actually even saw someone saying that ‘even if he did tweet that’ they don’t see how it makes him ableist????

first off, “if he tweeted that” ITS THERE we can all see it, he in fact did tweet it

secondly, WHAT the fuck do you mean?

they said “even if he posted that i don’t see how it makes him ableist” like??? did you read it? use your brain please (a difficult task for bummys i know)

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“he would never say that he was obviously hacked” you don’t know that man, he would not look your way on the street, you know nothing about his character or what he might say

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You think you’ve caught people being homophobic for not liking a gay character. Most of us are fucking queer. I’m a lesbian, and you're calling us homophobic. I have to laugh. Nah, bitch, I'm just a hater. gay people are not exempt from being shitty people and that should be called out and not labeled homophobia. You are allowed to not like a gay person (as long as it’s not simply because they’re gay) just like you're allowed to dislike anybody! You can like his character all you want good for you. I don’t give a fuck! So why the fuck is it bothering you that we don’t like him? I have personal reasons as to why I don’t like him and I know others do too. He makes us extremely uncomfortable, and we have a right to be uncomfortable with his character. I’m so done with you people get over yourselves. It’s pathetic.

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okay so then maybe you just hate when gay men express sexual desires </3

no actually i hate when people joke about someone else’s trauma <3

great guess though!

anyways imagine riding this hard for a man who basically said “you having daddy issues is good and fun for me actually” like?? do you hear yourself

third date and the man is joking about how he can personally gain from your trauma, i’d call the police

plus that’s just such a weird assumption to make, that daddy issues=daddy kink

your man is sexualizing Bucks trauma hours after his father figure nearly died and i’m the weird one for being uncomfortable?

and can i remind you how dismissive he was being leading up to that joke? Buck called Bobby the father he never had and the ONLY thing he can say is “but your father is alive” dude read the fucking room

the man he considers to be a father almost dies and as he’s expressing how scared he was the best Tommy can come up with is reminding him that, actually, his shitty dad is still alive. and on top of that then he goes on to make it about himself (can’t remember the wording but that ‘i’m jealous because my dad sucked and so did my captain’) like dude can Buck talk about anything serious for ten seconds without Tommy being dismissive, downplaying, making it about himself, or making a joke out of it? (hint:the answer is no)

this conversation was less than a minute long and Tommy managed to downplay his feelings, distract from the point, make it about himself, AND make a distasteful joke sexualizing his trauma

it astounds me that this is the man y’all defend so hard

anyways thanks for the message anon <3 it turns out i had a lot more to say about this

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“but if Eddie made that joke y’all would eat it up”

babe Eddie wouldn’t have made that joke

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If your defense of someone not liking something is immediately 'you're homophobic', it makes me wonder if you only like it because it's queer.

Because I don't dislike bucktommy because it's a m/m ship. I'm queer. I want representation on my screen. I fight for more representation. I prioritize reading and watching media with representation because that's important to me.

I don't like BuckTommy because they don't have chemistry and I don't like Tommy as a character. And I think Buck deserves a better love interests who shows more interest in him and is a shoulder to lean on instead of having someone dismiss his feelings over and over again.

I didn't dislike the daddy issues comment because it's said by a gay man. Shocker: men having sex doesn't freak me out or surprise me.

I didn't like it because the timing was not good. Buck’s father figure literally died for 14 minutes and could've died again. And a few moments later there's a sex joke about daddy's. While Buck’s dad just died. And he's being open about having been scared. And that's what he gets.

We're not 'homophobic straight women' for not liking that. And also, why are you erasing queer people's identities to frame it that way? Is that all you have to defend it?

I really feel like a lot of people only like bucktommy because it's a queer ship. And sure, you do do. That's allowed. It's nobody's business. But to say thay someone not liking them is homophobic when there are multiple valid reasons not having anything to do with the ship being queer... it just feels very off to me.

Do I have to like every queer ship because I'm queer? Am I not allowed to want better relationships for my favorite character? Do I just have to take the crumbs they give me?

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just wondering

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the only thing keeping me going from last nights episode is Maddie answering the phone as “Maddie Han”

i love how much it shows her personal growth, it took her a while to give up the last name Kendall and return to her maiden name so to me it feels very symbolic how immediately she took to using Han

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If I had a nickel for every time 911 had Buck open up about his trauma, only for someone to sexualise him for it, I’d have two nickels - which is not a lot but it’s really fucking disappointing that it’s happened twice

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just woke up and i’m still so fucking mad that the diaz parents just swooped in and interfered with the situation the way they did because it’s so clear they do not give a fuck about eddie’s emotional and mental state and only about getting chris because why would you not even facilitate a conversation between this hurt child and his heartbroken father? why would you just agree to a 13 year old’s request to move states without even consulting his parent? yes chris needs space and he gets to dictate how that looks but the fact that not one attempt was made to help eddie—their actual child—deal with the situation the way grandparents should says so much about their actual intentions here. and why on god would chris call his grandparents instead of pepa or isabel when he’s been closer to them for years? fuck ass storyline really

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It’s insane how people are calling those who are criticizing the date scene homophobic because we’re upset that Buck queerness has only been fetishized on this show??? Especially considering the tone and context of that scene, I don’t really think it was an appropriate joke to make. And Tommy’s constant dismissal of Buck and his feelings is starting to be upsetting. Like Buck opened up and was vulnerable about how Bobby was the father he never had, mind you right after Bobby technically died and was resuscitated and in a coma, and Tommy says “you’re biological father is still alive” which is incredibly rude and inappropriate to bring up?? Like if I tried to open up to my partner like that and then they went and said some shit like that you best believe I would be having multiple conversations with them about boundaries and being respectful, and if they pulled that shit a second time I would be done. And to top it all off Tommy immediately makes it into a sexual joke afterwards?? Like the problem isn’t that they’re making sexual jokes or being sexual with each other, it’s the context and the way that they’re doing it which is super disturbing. The only scenes where they have any real “chemistry” or seem to vibe as a couple are when they’re kissing or doing something similar. They have no emotional chemistry together and it’s clear. Tommy’s behavior is constantly bordering disrespectful and just plain resentful, and his admission of jealousy doesn’t make it any better.

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I don’t love the idea of Chris staying with his grandparents but I will say

I think your parents grounding you from your son seems like a fair price to pay for cheating on your girlfriend (and husband) with your dead ex wife