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jin guangshan and lan qiren yaoi perhaps? since their shapes create a perfect balance?
Two old men perform worlds first successful 96.
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan qiren#jin guangshan#I do not know if these two have a ship tag or if anyone has ever entertained the idea of these two kissing before.#Lets call them 'old man 96' for now.#Where the nine represents LQR's honkers and the six represents JGS's hunkers.#with our efforts combines we can make this the new cursed ship.#I am now giving preliminary head space to these two engaging in a relationship and -#HOO BOY. It would be horribly toxic. But like a beautiful mushroom the toxins are part of it's beauty.#They are the most opposite in morals and behaviour one could possibly be.#Okay the thoughts are done cooking.#Lan Qiren is the 'one guy' JGS has been with and it's haunted them both ever since. They refuse to make eye contact in meetings.#What led them both to that situation is for another day. I think I burnt 80% of my braincells thinking about these two kissing.#Thank you again delightful mutual stackedbirds for setting a lovely ball for me to strike down into the earth with.#I hope you enjoy the old men big naturals top and bottom edition. Balanced...as all things should be.
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the difference between jeverus and snirius i think, is that once james and severus get together, james just becomes a romantic with stalkerish and obsessive tendencies but he stops being mean to severus.
but for snirius, they act more like an old married couple and neverr ever stop being at least a little bit mean to each other, but it's more affectionate obviously.
#like obviously jeverus would still be toxic because of james' highly problematic behaviour#but it's more likely to be swept under the carpet because james is always like omg nooo i don't want to argue#but when they do argue it's Really Bad#whereas if snirius argue it's less serious and they end up fucking like not even 10 minutes later lol#jeverus#snirius#starprince#princechaser
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why couldnt i have become obsessed with something useful like maths or something what the FUCK is toxic old man yaoi
#brought to you by my recent obsessions with#billford#inhun#if we r talking non old but still toxic men yaoi. i mean.#roceit#or like... whatever the fuck is ghiță & lică from the mill of lucks name. yeah the fucking. romanian novel#that one. yeah. im sorry guys i studied it for two months i think about it often#thinking about lică in that one scene telling ghiță about how he came to be a murderer and ghiță calls him the devil#and its js like the most homoerotic thing ever as lică whispers in his ear some fag shit like ‘why r u still here then ;)’#INSANE BEHAVIOUR FROM ME#anyways ermmm#my rambles#thats the only other tag youre getting
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I just saw the video of Seunghan walking past the rows and rows of funeral wreaths sent for him in front of the SM building. I hope every single person responsible for that is haunted by it for the rest of their lives and considers seeking therapy. Did they forget two SM idols committed suicide. This is so cruel and I hate that this is the state of KPOP in 2024. And over a fucking cigarette? And dating? I'll never get over this whole situation.
#riize#seunghan#i've been in kpop for more than ten years#it's always been awful#but i've never seen toxic fandom *win* this much before#this behaviour should never be rewarded#so fuck SM for this#i hate that company so much#can you imagine waking up and being like LOL GONNA SPEND MONEY TO MAKE A 21 YO GUY FEEL LIKE DYING LOLOLOLOL THIS IS HILARIOUS#seek therapy#my god
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strange behaviour from the arcane fandom when a woman that has relations with another woman goes down a darker path and people condemn her whereas if she was a man in love with another man this would be lapppped up as “toxic yaoi”. please get a grip
#i’m tired#i’m so tired#people will do anything to erase lesbians from media#not even just when i think about the treatment of mel from a vast majority of jayce / viktor shippers … weird fucking behaviour#if cait was a man and vi remained a woman nobody would bat an eye#if they were both men nobody would bat an eye#her whole arc is reference to how privileged people will fall to facism at the smallest drop of suffering#that the lower classes experience like. what are you not fucking getting#i’m trying to think of examples here but people looooove kylo ren and he takes on a sort of dictator’s role#though not in a similar fashion#it’s just tiring to read all of the time#nobody can stand nuanced female characters but everyone sits and laps up similarly or WORSE toxic male characters#get a fucking grip#tbd.#also the mel issue is separate it’s just on the brain#because apparently two men cannot have a close bond without wanting to fuck and devour each other :/#but women are always written as besties. ok#i’m#also not saying don’t ship jayvik. but you see the issue here right#a canonical lesbian relationship is thrown to be shredded#and jayvik takes favour yet again ??? MEL IS RIGHT THERE TOO ….. not that it’s any betterrrr#but you see. you get my point ???? THE CANON IS THERE. ACKNOWLEDGE ITTTTTTR
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Local divorcee spending his 10 year wedding anniversary gnawing on the homewrecker's back
#oc art#original art#original charater art#original story#ocs#my art#fennec.art#fennec.origin#they are freaking abnormal!!!#there's only so many times i can reiterate the dynamics here BUT how can i not theyre fucking freaks!!#the marriage didnt impload specifically cus of andre they were severely toxic on their own. but also. seb TRIED TO KILL ANDRE#thats a pretty significant catalyst for juliette to get that divorce#only reason she doesnt get as much scrutiny is the fact that she lived with these 2 fucks for 8 years#none of them are good people but its hard to focus on like. infidelity and attatchement issues#when there's a fucking cannibal killer on the loose#anyway André is fully capable of escape he did it before he likes this. fucking freak#i use freak a lot i mean it lovingly theres nothing i love more than freak behaviour#alright whatever if you read this i love you xoxo
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bkdk fanfics are genuinely so unserious sometimes I can't breathe 💀💀💀💀💀
I'm reading one rn and I'm in like chap 3 or 4 and they hate each other but they've been forced to hangout so they're starting to hate each other less but atp they still hate each other
katsuki yells at izuku and tells him to stfu and smtn like don't pmo I don't want to fight and izuku was like omg he doesn't want to fight maybe our relationship is improving😭😭😭😭 Im literally crying lmaooooo
izuku said I'll take literal crumbs lmaoo
it reminded me of this one part from the game crimson snow where the guy sent this girl a letter to break up w her and he said smtn like I love you but I can't do this anymore or smtn and she underlined the I love you and she wrote in like red pen he loves me!!
this is a link to the gameplay time stamp 52 Mins 18 seconds
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#bnha#boku no hero academia#bakugou katsuki#midoriya izuku#bkdk#bakudeku#mha bkdk#im not going to say the name of the fic coz its an ok fic till now but im not trying to give into toxic fanfic behaviour#the fic is p old too so hopefully no one recognises it lol#its not like this is the only fic that does this anyways#Youtube
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Maple Leafs discourse on their team social medias makes me lose brain cells because wdym they're first in their division and coming off a 5 game win streak & people are commenting that the top players are only in it for the money and have no drive, that particular players are useless and need to be traded asap, that they're a garbage team, that they'll never make it past the first round just because they lost one game.
Apparently because they are being payed handsomely the players must be mindless automatons who perform perfectly every night. It drives me absolutely nuts how quickly alleged fans will completely turn on their own team.
#i cannot understand how some people can't seem to comprehend that the players are still human who will have off days and make mistakes#regardless of their work ethic or drive or passion#it's not actual critiquing either it's basically just grown men cyberbullying other grown men#over a GAME#& they have a ton of people in the organization to critique and help them improve! have you ever heard of a coach!#it's like people want to assume the worst so when the leafs perform badly in the playoffs they aren't upset about it bc they see it coming#but they clearly are upset about it because they're commenting on the leafs own social media pages#& these losers never seem to realize how their own behaviour does actively make it harder for the players to perform#maybe some players will not want to play in Toronto because the pressure is so insane & the fanbase can be so toxic!#it really just is bullying#& those people think it's completely fine & warranted because they don't know the players personally & they're famous & rich#maybe try basic human decency for a change? & not letting yourself get super angry about a game?#& just the bad faith element of it all...#it makes it not fun! this is supposed to be entertainment!#stop assuming the worst#some of these people even assume the worst when things are going well! wdym jt is only playing well bc he knows his contract is almost up#isn't it more interesting & inspiring that someone legitimately improved through hard work & the power of the amulet#to the benefit of your team#let's bring back being a fan of your own team ok?#we are basically already doing that with the lb#(affectionate)#thank god for us!#toronto maple leafs#tml#leafs lb#my thoughts
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"Timo and Mickey's complex friendship in Mickey 17 (2025) is just as important and vital to the plot as Nasha and Mickey's romantic relationship." I say into the mic.
The crowd boos. I begin to walk off in shame, when a voice speaks and commands silence from the room.
"It is right," he says. I look for the owner of the voice. There in the 3rd row stands: Director of Mickey 17, Bong Joon Ho.
#mickey 17#sash talks#''why tf did timo not die'' because mickey barnes lived.#I saw someone ask why Nasha didn't just kill Timo. Bffr#She had every right to. Yes. I agree#But Mickey 17 BEGGED. BEGGED HER NOT TO. that is His Best Friend bruh.#do yall rlly think its a good look for Timo to die?? he wasnt even the main villain#He just wanted to *survive*. He was willing to be killed#he didnt beg. didnt plead. didnt even cry when that Chainsaw was so close to his head#He's not scared of dying. He's scared of dying painfully. Alone. With no one by his side.#Hes scared of being hated until the very end. He was ready to die. as ''punishment'' for being ''willing'' to kill Mickey#Like bffr... Steven Yeun did not do all that to be called the evil character cmon#by all that I mean his avoidant body language and genuine discomfort / panic when he was abt to ''film'' Mickeys death#Like. LOOK AT HOW HE KEEPS LAUGHING. THATS NOT HIM BEING SADISTIC. thats Literally what someone does when they're fucking uncomfortable and#aand trying to rationalize their behaviour. Bffr...#sorry guys. I do not play abt Timo. hes my fav character.#Bro if ur autistic and u have a bestie who lowkey sucked for a bit but is still ur bestie you would get it alright.#I'm literally Both Mickey 17 and Timo . Like They're So Me Man. AUTISM + NPD REALNESS ‼️💖#mickey and timo were neurodivergent solidarity dont even playyyy bro dont even playyyy#''their friendship was toxic'' and incredibly realistic . its peak fiction yall just dont wanna analyze a character and dismantle them#and just take them at face value#like holy shittt#Yes Timo is a Prick yes hes a bad friend No he did not deserve to fucking DIE are u srs
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Are some of the Buddie fans aware that they're creating their own feedback loop?
(Some) Fans are really excited about Buddie. So the journalists, some of them Buddie shippers themselves and keen to feed their avid readers (and get their clicks), keep asking questions about it. The actors have to answer those questions in some sort of way, even if only to say that they have a strong platonic bond and amazing friendship. That leads to headlines like "Buck & Eddie closer than ever" and stuff like that. Which gets even more fans even more excited about potential Buddie canon. Which leads journalists to ask more questions about it and write about 911 through the Buddie lense which draws more attention to the Buddie circles online which leads journalists to write more about- You get what I'm saying.
Meanwhile the actors keep talking about the FRIENDSHIP and PLATONIC bond, about Ryan Guzman and Eddie Diaz both having to figure out how not being the tough guy all the time and having a sensitive side DOESN'T mean they're gay or unmanly, about how important and beautiful it is to have that coming out scene between a bisexual man and his HETEROSEXUAL male friend.
But journalists keep phrasing headlines in ways that suggest Buddie canon is almost upon us, even though the words the actor actually said were him doubling down on Eddie being straight and struggling with his (conservative) upbringing for other reasons.
#like i get it#you want your ship to sail#believe me i get that#but also a little reading comprehension maybe?#just because the journalists phrase their headlines a certain way doesn't mean buddie is going canon#they want you to _think_ that buddie is going canon because the topic keeps you engaged and their writing gets more clicks#the journalists are not your friends they need your engagement and are not above manipulation and clickbaits#i hate to break it to you#but this is like the 4th interview since april in which Ryan Guzman talks about toxic masculinity and how it affects straight men#-> like himself or his character#he talks about how much him and Eddie have in common and how important it is to him to tell this story#i think he almost word for word said how “having a sensitive/vulnerable side” is seen as “weakness” in his culture#and that men who display certain behaviour are immediately suspected of secretly being gay and not “real men”#and you think the storyline they're gonna go for is “Eddie has secretly been gay all along”?#anyway#911 abc#911 spoilers#sort of spoiler-ish i guess#911 discourse#not trying to be mean#just being realistic
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why r u writing incest??? u should not be romanticizing that shit 😭
you think my fics are romantic? ❤️🔥🙏🥸 you’re so sweet
#who said anything about romanticising#I just write what I like and what people like to read#if just reading about a toxic behaviour makes you wanna do it too then yea you probably shouldn’t be consuming fiction#but that counts for any media#don’t be watching serial killer docus bc who knows what’ll do to your morals#tw.incest
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occasionally i watch a bunch of movie reactions but just skip to one particular scene each time just to see it shift people's wigs and i've been doing it for the hereditary dinner scene and i swear so many people have BetterHelp brain now that they can't even watch a movie they're like oh wow she shouldn't be yelling at him like that this is so toxic this is not the way to handle this why is she handling it like this she's being a hypocrite!
like are you stupid
#me when the toxic family movie has familial toxicity in it 😨#they watch everything like it's a test and they're going to be graded at the end for pointing out unhealthy behaviour like no shit bitch!#p
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Today my friend didn't even want to hug me or give me a kiss, I wasn't asking for anything sexual but our usual small kiss for goodbye but ofc she said no because she has a boyfriend now and blah blah blah I don't care, I want everything to be the same as before, I don't give a damn about your boyfriend, I don't like him and I'd love to tear his hair out of jealousy
#my post#new account#new blog#vent post#actually mentally ill#attention seeking#$h tumblr#mental illness#hell is a teenage girl#this is a girlblog#this is what makes us girls#emocje#relationship#why am i like this#tw#bpd thoughts#tw shblr#stay toxic#girl problems#personal vent#$h addict#i want attention#attachment issues#stupid whores#notatki samobójcy#tw sh destructive behaviour#mentally drained#friends#feeling alone#mentally fucked
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I guess I have to preface this by saying when I read the messages and interviews that came straight from the band about the lore I've come to a very different conclusion than what I think the most accepted version in the fandom of the lore is.
And I am not here to tell anyone how to interpret anything. That's the beauty of art is that we can all interpret it however we want. And our own experiences will cloud those interpretations.
But the car crash and miscarriage theories are so fascinating to me because I couldn't agree any less. To me when I look at the lines that are usually used to support those theories in the context of the whole verse or song I come to such different conclusions. Specifically when it comes to high water.
But I guess that's similar to how my interpretation of Atlantic is informed by my own life experiences and I have a hard time understanding how people can view it as anything else because it feels so incredibly obvious to me. But then again it's probably good for those people that it isn't obvious to them.
#sleep token#i could rant about this all day#its just fascinating to see what people choose to view as a metaphor and that they take to be literal#its a bit like when people are uncomfy with others saying some sleep token songs are sexy when there is so much physical intimacy mentioned#especially in the earlier songs#sure with a current of unhealthy behaviours and toxicity but still#like fields of elation for example doesnt even try to hide it at all#anyway i could write full essays about this
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phannie tumblr and phannie twitter hating each other is so funny bc it’s all the same people and we act like we’re completely separate societies. i really get and agree with the criticisms of phannie twt, all i wanted when i was on there was to be back here, AND at the end of the day, we’re all phannies—none of us are valid <3
(i’m down if anyone has thoughts on this that they want to share! i want to write essays upon essays about this phenomenon it’s SO interesting /gen)
#/hj#this is so fascinating to me as a psychology bitch#like phannie twt is a nightmare i HATED being on it#AND everyone individually was soooo nice#and also all of them are on here too!!#and dnp twitter is MUCH worse with the boundaries and toxicity and privacy and respect and shit#but dnp tumblr is NOT innocent#so much discourse and people started shit for fun and all kinds of the same shipping behaviour#the reason the shipping behaviour is different on tumblr is because it is no longer shoved in their faces#everyone tries to keep it contained and lowkey and#and not public like it feels like a private little community that dnp respect and mostly stay away from#but we need to also recognise that the shipping behaviour is the same#dnp#yeet my deet#dan and phil#phan#phandom#yeet my deenp#phstudy
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Found out one of my friends is a gwuncan truther today, spent 10 minutes debating gwuncan v duncney only for us to both decide that 1. they're both too good for dunc and 2. there's no way courtney isn't a lesbian
#im sorry but the list she gave dunc? gay behaviour#girl writes a whole essay on things she finds unnattractive about him. toxic yes but also very yk#and every time she likes a man its pretty unwilling or like “UGHhHhHh”#someone tell her girls (gwen) are an option#your honour shes me#i am still a duncney girlie tho#total drama#total drama island#tdi
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