#get a fucking grip
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i know this is the no reading comprehension purposefully obtuse website but seeing the hoops people will jump through to misread a post with a very clear thesis of “treat unhoused people with humanity and basic respect” is so fucking harrowing
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Maomao is so fucking stupid
If you said you had a rare medicine in a blind bag and then threw it into traffic, she'd probably run after it
#apothecary hour#the apothecary diaries#i hope this sounds rude because it is#i love you maomao but good god girl#get a fucking grip
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i’ve seen so many people posting and commenting about jeff baena’s suicide, specifically about kathryn hahn, saying things like, “you can see the sadness in her eyes” in videos and photos from the golden eve. is this the time to finally have a discussion about the parasocial relationships some of you have with real-life people who don’t know you? yes, you can admire people, and yes, you can feel compassion and empathy for them, but you do not know how they feel or what’s going through their head. you do not know them. you don’t know aubrey, you don’t know her friends or family, and you aren’t a part of her life. honestly, you shouldn’t even be a spectator to this truly horrific and deeply personal tragedy. recognize that you’ve built a parasocial relationship with a complete stranger, and break out of it.
#kathryn is a 50yo adult doing her job#and aubrey’s just become a widow at 40#get a fucking grip#stan communities need to die#i mean it#jeff baena#aubrey plaza#kathryn hahn#parasocial relationships#parasocial behavior#moira speaks#personal
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Do us all a favour and kill yourself, proshitter. You’re fucking disgusting for liking children. How can you think it is ok. The world is better off without you in it
How can you POSSIBLY think it is ok to say this to a person? How are people like you the ones who preach about morals and things being illegal, while telling people to off themselves? Excuse me?
Yes. I am a proshipper. It doesn’t and shouldn’t affect you in any way, so get the fuck over it.
Being a proshipper DOES NOT mean I am into children. Far from it. Just because I think pieces of fiction deserve to exist does not mean I consume those pieces of fiction.
There are many tropes, pairings, etc. within fiction/fan fiction that I do like not, but I don’t go around harassing people who do like it, and I don’t think that those things I dislike should be removed from existence.
Anti’s will never cease to amaze me.
Ship and let ship. Let fiction exist. Fandom is supposed to be fun!! Let it be fun! Like what you like, don’t like what you don’t like, and MOVE ON!
#ao3#fanfiction#proship#proshipping#proshipper#proshippers please interact#anti anti#this is fucking unhinged#I am proudly proship and I won’t shut up about it#if you dislike it#fucking. block. me.#I’m not afraid to get into shipping and fandom discourse#but fuck you anti’s#you do so much harm while claiming to be good#your REAL LIFE actions are far more immoral and illegal than things existing in FICTION#get a fucking grip
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strange behaviour from the arcane fandom when a woman that has relations with another woman goes down a darker path and people condemn her whereas if she was a man in love with another man this would be lapppped up as “toxic yaoi”. please get a grip
#i’m tired#i’m so tired#people will do anything to erase lesbians from media#not even just when i think about the treatment of mel from a vast majority of jayce / viktor shippers … weird fucking behaviour#if cait was a man and vi remained a woman nobody would bat an eye#if they were both men nobody would bat an eye#her whole arc is reference to how privileged people will fall to facism at the smallest drop of suffering#that the lower classes experience like. what are you not fucking getting#i’m trying to think of examples here but people looooove kylo ren and he takes on a sort of dictator’s role#though not in a similar fashion#it’s just tiring to read all of the time#nobody can stand nuanced female characters but everyone sits and laps up similarly or WORSE toxic male characters#get a fucking grip#tbd.#also the mel issue is separate it’s just on the brain#because apparently two men cannot have a close bond without wanting to fuck and devour each other :/#but women are always written as besties. ok#i’m#also not saying don’t ship jayvik. but you see the issue here right#a canonical lesbian relationship is thrown to be shredded#and jayvik takes favour yet again ??? MEL IS RIGHT THERE TOO ….. not that it’s any betterrrr#but you see. you get my point ???? THE CANON IS THERE. ACKNOWLEDGE ITTTTTTR
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Just saw someone say that femme lesbians can’t reclaim dyke. 😕 Are you kidding me?????
#lesbian#femme lesbian#femmephobia#femme#d slur cw#op#they even go so far as to say that dyke has only been used for gnc lesbians#ignoring the fact that femmes can also be gnc#do you really think that femmes in relationships with other femmes won’t be called dykes just because they are feminine????!!!!!#get a fucking grip
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Most people don't think about or care about Jason enough to hate him, but you know who everyone does actually hate? Luke.
#pjo#riordanverse#percy jackson series#luke castellan#jason grace#this is to all the girlies who think their blorbo is the hated one in the fandom#neutrality and indifference aren't even close to hatred#jason is also in the top ten characters people write about most#get a fucking grip#oh and shout out to the octavian fans because he's another Actually Hated character#people are going to unironically reblog this with “yeah i hate luke”
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being perceived, whether it be blocked/tweeted etc., by Louis_Tomlinson is always really interesting to me. people on twitter are reminded that he/his team see things the fandom(s) are talking about/posting and are reminded to be on better behaviour. and then that lasts for about an hour (for most of the fandom). and then people act even worse. it’s the strangest cycle
#like clearly Louis sees shit#get a fucking grip#and stop being assholes#why is it so hard#it’s like dealing with 12 yr olds 90% of the time#god damn#this fandom is so fucking bored#grow up#and Louis_tomlinson has always been intense too#so just…. idk go outside or something
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people on tumblr: if you don't like what i say, block me >:3c
people on tumblr when they realize i did in fact, block them:

#grem rambles#hey guys can we not go to someone's art#and reblog it with complaining about how i blocked you on main#can we please not do that#like bro i dont even know who you are#get a fucking grip
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oh the HYPOCRISY-
#house of the dragon#hotd season 2#hotd spoilers#criston cole#ser arryk cargyll#GET A FUCKING GRIP#ALWAYS TAKING IT OUT ON OTHERS
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I dislike the "fiction doesn't affect reality" people and the moral purists equally because both of them are great examples of how both extremes of an issue can be harmful.
Like if you don't think fiction affects reality you need to take a good hard look at stuff like how/why propaganda is effective and what movies like Jaws has done to public consciousness but also on that note if you see the writing/exploration of concepts as endorsing them you need to read up on what the Hays Code was and why it was harmful.
Both of these stances are reductive
Anyways happy 2025 send post
#finis analyzes#media literacy#writing#Idk what to tag this#It's just been pissing me off#Like actually fiction CAN impact reality#Just because YOU can seperate fiction from reality doesn't mean others can/are willing to#And thats not gonna stop just because you have a little critical thinking#But also can we fucking stop trying to reinvent the Hays Code#PLEASE#STOP MORALIZING EVERYTHING STOP TRYING TO PUSH CENSORSHIP AND PURITISM#WRITING IT IS NOT AUTOMATICALLY ENDORSEMENT#GET A FUCKING GRIP#Haha anyways happy new year<3
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it's the fact that Dan had to do with a piece of clothing that makes phil feel comfortable, cool, and cute and is now a dedicated comfortable piece of clothing on rotation and it's just a hat but it's not- 🔫
#dan and phil#dnp#wad#i need be#amazingphil#daniel howell#get a fucking grip#what the hell#is wrong with me
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if you are one of those people who comment things like "karma", "this is god punishing you", or some shit about palestine under videos of the devastating fires going on in LA right now, please just know that you're a terrible person and you've lost the plot on what it is to be human. if you follow my blog and this is your way of thinking, block me immediately. i want absolutely nothing to do with you. you're fucking sick and devoid of any empathy and i hope someday you experience what these people are going through right now just so you know how it feels. i'm so fucking pissed that people are this insensitive.
#risky post but idc i'm so fucking angry#because please tell me why i just came across a video of a woman crying cause her house burned down-#and all the comments were making it about gaza??#like shut the fuck up#this isn't about them#get a fucking grip
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Children really are the biggest plot twist, because sometimes you hear a bloodcurdling scream and it's just a child that doesn't want to wear, like, a shoe or something.
#get a fucking grip#can you imagine if i'm complaining and a child is actually being kidnapped#let's hope not#but lemme study please#stop yelling#temis rambles
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I've been on tumblr for an entire decade and I think this may actually be the most obnoxious post I've ever seen.
#no one wants to see your shitty virtue signaling post when they're looking for smut fics#learn how to filter tags you don't want on tumblr and AO3#or drag your stupid ass back to wattpad#'if you engage with xyz in media you're a bad person'#I enjoy watching slasher movies but I'm not out here murdering people on my days off#get a fucking grip#alisha babbles
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I just know Briana’s family are not going to stop posting his face 🙃 they have never and likely will never respect Louis’ wishes - and it’s simply because posting Freddie is the only way they can gain some attention it’s so sad
This whole situation has been fucked from the very start. I don’t excuse Louis or Briana either. They didn’t have infant Freddie’s best interests in mind when they showed him to paparazzi without protecting him. They used him during public outings to get publicity. Fighting with fans online only emboldened fans to speculate and harass. Trying to use Freddie as a path to becoming an influencer was selfish and stupid (for all involved).
Freddie will soon celebrate his 9th birthday, and I don’t think there’s any way in the world that he won’t see the incredibly toxic, vile, painful speculation about his parentage and about the people he loves and who (as I see it) love him. No one can protect him from what he’s about to encounter. No amount of talking to his family will undo this damage. None of this is Freddie’s fault. He didn’t choose to be born under these circumstances. Yet soon, every single one of his public actions will be scrutinized and analyzed; he will be trailed and filmed; he may need public security. And thousands of women will feel entitled to air “theories” about a young person with their invasive, microscopic lens that they wouldn’t tolerate on their own children for ten seconds.
The chilling fact is that many of these people are mothers, yet they’ve chosen to torment someone else’s son.
I have all the sympathy for Freddie but that also doesn’t benefit him. Nothing will make any difference now.
#as for solo Louies who are disappointed that#Louis’ being a father ruins their gay fantasies#get a fucking grip#Louis is actually such a nice and good person#and his fans treat him like shit
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