#get a fucking grip
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On Transmisogyny, Feminism, and the Myth of the 'Baeddel'
This will go well.
#transfeminism#materialist feminism#gender is a regime#sex is a social construct#social constructionism#feminism#lesbian feminism#baeddel#y'all know that you keep circulating blog posts about baeddels by others right#you are defining a strawman and then insisting that trans girls with any feminist subjectivity are defined by that strawman#and yes i used strawMAN deliberately because a lot of this is an exercise in calling us sexist to non-transfem trans people#buried under 70 layers of tumblrspeak#you have just invented “transfeminazi”#get a fucking grip
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i know this is the no reading comprehension purposefully obtuse website but seeing the hoops people will jump through to misread a post with a very clear thesis of “treat unhoused people with humanity and basic respect” is so fucking harrowing
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The way some of y’all act on this platform like you fucking run shit on here is actually ridiculous. Y’all criticize writers for what they write, how they write, what tropes they use, how frequently they write, what ideas they have, how they manage their pages, and everything else under the damn sun. But yet you still want people to continue writing and share their work FOR FREE may I add. Y’all can’t keep reading fic and picking it apart every which way, you can’t have it both ways. Pick a damn side.
Fanfic writers don’t get paid for doing this, for dealing with the stress of coming up with ideas and writing pages upon pages of something they want to share, formatting the posts, and then sharing it on this platform or an AO3 just to get berated, judged, critiqued, accused, plagiarized, exploited with AI, and ignored. Y’all literally give people everything but support on here and then bitch and cry about nobody wanting to write fanfic anymore. Maybe if you guys grew some fucking sense and supported the writers that are actually here instead of constantly policing their actions and pushing their buttons and jumping down their throats for little ass shit, we’d have more people willing to use their spare time to write fanfic.
Y’all get bold as hell using the anon button, saying whatever y’all want without caring of how it may come off, but god forbid people respond back with just as much vitriol, all of a sudden they’re the bad guy and you’re playing victim. We literally have bigger things to fucking worry about than bullshit anon hate that won’t amount to anything. When you all realize that we soon won’t have a platform to share fic and our writing to begin with because of mass censorship and your favorite fic writers are being targeted for being sex offenders for engaging and creating pornographic material as planned in Project 2025, then maybe we’ll fucking get somewhere.
Let people enjoy this app while we have it, cause trust me, it won’t be long before you all have no more fic to complain about. Maybe when that happens, you can finally use your free time and whatever energy that’s left in your brain to do something useful for once.
#ICE raids start tomorrow and this is what you wanna be mad at? Okay.#and if I’m being mean idgaf sorry not sorry#you all scream about inclusion and community but pick and choose when that’s applicable#from the racism to the ableism to the fatphobia to the general bs#you are all just making it easier for people to quit writing in general and to save their own asses#y’all be grown as hell with a 401k and fully developed frontal lobe bitching about what someone else does on their free time#we as writers don’t have to stick around to constantly deal with that stuff btw we can stop whenever we want#but then you guys won’t have something to complain about#womp womp#just a bunch of miserable fucking people do something else with your damn time guys#get a fucking grip
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i’ve seen so many people posting and commenting about jeff baena’s suicide, specifically about kathryn hahn, saying things like, “you can see the sadness in her eyes” in videos and photos from the golden eve. is this the time to finally have a discussion about the parasocial relationships some of you have with real-life people who don’t know you? yes, you can admire people, and yes, you can feel compassion and empathy for them, but you do not know how they feel or what’s going through their head. you do not know them. you don’t know aubrey, you don’t know her friends or family, and you aren’t a part of her life. honestly, you shouldn’t even be a spectator to this truly horrific and deeply personal tragedy. recognize that you’ve built a parasocial relationship with a complete stranger, and break out of it.
#kathryn is a 50yo adult doing her job#and aubrey’s just become a widow at 40#get a fucking grip#stan communities need to die#i mean it#jeff baena#aubrey plaza#kathryn hahn#parasocial relationships#parasocial behavior#moira speaks#personal
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Maomao is so fucking stupid
If you said you had a rare medicine in a blind bag and then threw it into traffic, she'd probably run after it
#apothecary hour#the apothecary diaries#i hope this sounds rude because it is#i love you maomao but good god girl#get a fucking grip
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Do us all a favour and kill yourself, proshitter. You’re fucking disgusting for liking children. How can you think it is ok. The world is better off without you in it
How can you POSSIBLY think it is ok to say this to a person? How are people like you the ones who preach about morals and things being illegal, while telling people to off themselves? Excuse me?
Yes. I am a proshipper. It doesn’t and shouldn’t affect you in any way, so get the fuck over it.
Being a proshipper DOES NOT mean I am into children. Far from it. Just because I think pieces of fiction deserve to exist does not mean I consume those pieces of fiction.
There are many tropes, pairings, etc. within fiction/fan fiction that I do like not, but I don’t go around harassing people who do like it, and I don’t think that those things I dislike should be removed from existence.
Anti’s will never cease to amaze me.
Ship and let ship. Let fiction exist. Fandom is supposed to be fun!! Let it be fun! Like what you like, don’t like what you don’t like, and MOVE ON!
#ao3#fanfiction#proship#proshipping#proshipper#proshippers please interact#anti anti#this is fucking unhinged#I am proudly proship and I won’t shut up about it#if you dislike it#fucking. block. me.#I’m not afraid to get into shipping and fandom discourse#but fuck you anti’s#you do so much harm while claiming to be good#your REAL LIFE actions are far more immoral and illegal than things existing in FICTION#get a fucking grip
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strange behaviour from the arcane fandom when a woman that has relations with another woman goes down a darker path and people condemn her whereas if she was a man in love with another man this would be lapppped up as “toxic yaoi”. please get a grip
#i’m tired#i’m so tired#people will do anything to erase lesbians from media#not even just when i think about the treatment of mel from a vast majority of jayce / viktor shippers … weird fucking behaviour#if cait was a man and vi remained a woman nobody would bat an eye#if they were both men nobody would bat an eye#her whole arc is reference to how privileged people will fall to facism at the smallest drop of suffering#that the lower classes experience like. what are you not fucking getting#i’m trying to think of examples here but people looooove kylo ren and he takes on a sort of dictator’s role#though not in a similar fashion#it’s just tiring to read all of the time#nobody can stand nuanced female characters but everyone sits and laps up similarly or WORSE toxic male characters#get a fucking grip#tbd.#also the mel issue is separate it’s just on the brain#because apparently two men cannot have a close bond without wanting to fuck and devour each other :/#but women are always written as besties. ok#i’m#also not saying don’t ship jayvik. but you see the issue here right#a canonical lesbian relationship is thrown to be shredded#and jayvik takes favour yet again ??? MEL IS RIGHT THERE TOO ….. not that it’s any betterrrr#but you see. you get my point ???? THE CANON IS THERE. ACKNOWLEDGE ITTTTTTR
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Just saw someone say that femme lesbians can’t reclaim dyke. 😕 Are you kidding me?????
#lesbian#femme lesbian#femmephobia#femme#d slur cw#op#they even go so far as to say that dyke has only been used for gnc lesbians#ignoring the fact that femmes can also be gnc#do you really think that femmes in relationships with other femmes won’t be called dykes just because they are feminine????!!!!!#get a fucking grip
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Most people don't think about or care about Jason enough to hate him, but you know who everyone does actually hate? Luke.
#pjo#riordanverse#percy jackson series#luke castellan#jason grace#this is to all the girlies who think their blorbo is the hated one in the fandom#neutrality and indifference aren't even close to hatred#jason is also in the top ten characters people write about most#get a fucking grip#oh and shout out to the octavian fans because he's another Actually Hated character#people are going to unironically reblog this with “yeah i hate luke”
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being perceived, whether it be blocked/tweeted etc., by Louis_Tomlinson is always really interesting to me. people on twitter are reminded that he/his team see things the fandom(s) are talking about/posting and are reminded to be on better behaviour. and then that lasts for about an hour (for most of the fandom). and then people act even worse. it’s the strangest cycle
#like clearly Louis sees shit#get a fucking grip#and stop being assholes#why is it so hard#it’s like dealing with 12 yr olds 90% of the time#god damn#this fandom is so fucking bored#grow up#and Louis_tomlinson has always been intense too#so just…. idk go outside or something
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people on tumblr: if you don't like what i say, block me >:3c
people on tumblr when they realize i did in fact, block them:

#grem rambles#hey guys can we not go to someone's art#and reblog it with complaining about how i blocked you on main#can we please not do that#like bro i dont even know who you are#get a fucking grip
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oh the HYPOCRISY-
#house of the dragon#hotd season 2#hotd spoilers#criston cole#ser arryk cargyll#GET A FUCKING GRIP#ALWAYS TAKING IT OUT ON OTHERS
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no fucking way I got an anon just now like “ahem ☝️🤓 queer is a hideous homophobic slur” bffr. every word for us is either a) a slur or b) heavily medicalized and exclusionary. suck my queer dick
#repeat after me: it’s only a slur if it’s said in a derogatory way#a guy at a bus stop calling you a queer vs someone talking abt queer studies or calling themselves queer is NOT the same thing#this was in context of film analysis btw. genuinely anon. my good bitch. what do you think a 'queer lens' IS#queer is the only umbrella term that covers ALL of us at least in English#and I’m going to KEEP USING IT#BECAUSE I AM QUEER#the Q in LGBTQ stands for QUEER#get a fucking grip#get your terf bullshit out of my inbox
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it's the fact that Dan had to do with a piece of clothing that makes phil feel comfortable, cool, and cute and is now a dedicated comfortable piece of clothing on rotation and it's just a hat but it's not- 🔫
#dan and phil#dnp#wad#i need be#amazingphil#daniel howell#get a fucking grip#what the hell#is wrong with me
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if you are one of those people who comment things like "karma", "this is god punishing you", or some shit about palestine under videos of the devastating fires going on in LA right now, please just know that you're a terrible person and you've lost the plot on what it is to be human. if you follow my blog and this is your way of thinking, block me immediately. i want absolutely nothing to do with you. you're fucking sick and devoid of any empathy and i hope someday you experience what these people are going through right now just so you know how it feels. i'm so fucking pissed that people are this insensitive.
#risky post but idc i'm so fucking angry#because please tell me why i just came across a video of a woman crying cause her house burned down-#and all the comments were making it about gaza??#like shut the fuck up#this isn't about them#get a fucking grip
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I dislike the "fiction doesn't affect reality" people and the moral purists equally because both of them are great examples of how both extremes of an issue can be harmful.
Like if you don't think fiction affects reality you need to take a good hard look at stuff like how/why propaganda is effective and what movies like Jaws has done to public consciousness but also on that note if you see the writing/exploration of concepts as endorsing them you need to read up on what the Hays Code was and why it was harmful.
Both of these stances are reductive
Anyways happy 2025 send post
#finis analyzes#media literacy#writing#Idk what to tag this#It's just been pissing me off#Like actually fiction CAN impact reality#Just because YOU can seperate fiction from reality doesn't mean others can/are willing to#And thats not gonna stop just because you have a little critical thinking#But also can we fucking stop trying to reinvent the Hays Code#PLEASE#STOP MORALIZING EVERYTHING STOP TRYING TO PUSH CENSORSHIP AND PURITISM#WRITING IT IS NOT AUTOMATICALLY ENDORSEMENT#GET A FUCKING GRIP#Haha anyways happy new year<3
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