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This legitimately fucking stupid advice in the face of fascism, people will get attacked and killed for that. Don't promote shit like that in such a dangerous time.
Adult Transgender Legislative Risk Map, November 2024
#seph talks#of course people should be free to express themselves but 'radical queer acceptance' will not undo what has happened.#get a fucking grip
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The way some of yâall act on this platform like you fucking run shit on here is actually ridiculous. Yâall criticize writers for what they write, how they write, what tropes they use, how frequently they write, what ideas they have, how they manage their pages, and everything else under the damn sun. But yet you still want people to continue writing and share their work FOR FREE may I add. Yâall canât keep reading fic and picking it apart every which way, you canât have it both ways. Pick a damn side.
Fanfic writers donât get paid for doing this, for dealing with the stress of coming up with ideas and writing pages upon pages of something they want to share, formatting the posts, and then sharing it on this platform or an AO3 just to get berated, judged, critiqued, accused, plagiarized, exploited with AI, and ignored. Yâall literally give people everything but support on here and then bitch and cry about nobody wanting to write fanfic anymore. Maybe if you guys grew some fucking sense and supported the writers that are actually here instead of constantly policing their actions and pushing their buttons and jumping down their throats for little ass shit, weâd have more people willing to use their spare time to write fanfic.
Yâall get bold as hell using the anon button, saying whatever yâall want without caring of how it may come off, but god forbid people respond back with just as much vitriol, all of a sudden theyâre the bad guy and youâre playing victim. We literally have bigger things to fucking worry about than bullshit anon hate that wonât amount to anything. When you all realize that we soon wonât have a platform to share fic and our writing to begin with because of mass censorship and your favorite fic writers are being targeted for being sex offenders for engaging and creating pornographic material as planned in Project 2025, then maybe weâll fucking get somewhere.
Let people enjoy this app while we have it, cause trust me, it wonât be long before you all have no more fic to complain about. Maybe when that happens, you can finally use your free time and whatever energy thatâs left in your brain to do something useful for once.
#ICE raids start tomorrow and this is what you wanna be mad at? Okay.#and if Iâm being mean idgaf sorry not sorry#you all scream about inclusion and community but pick and choose when thatâs applicable#from the racism to the ableism to the fatphobia to the general bs#you are all just making it easier for people to quit writing in general and to save their own asses#yâall be grown as hell with a 401k and fully developed frontal lobe bitching about what someone else does on their free time#we as writers donât have to stick around to constantly deal with that stuff btw we can stop whenever we want#but then you guys wonât have something to complain about#womp womp#just a bunch of miserable fucking people do something else with your damn time guys#get a fucking grip
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On Transmisogyny, Feminism, and the Myth of the 'Baeddel'
This will go well.
#transfeminism#materialist feminism#gender is a regime#sex is a social construct#social constructionism#feminism#lesbian feminism#baeddel#y'all know that you keep circulating blog posts about baeddels by others right#you are defining a strawman and then insisting that trans girls with any feminist subjectivity are defined by that strawman#and yes i used strawMAN deliberately because a lot of this is an exercise in calling us sexist to non-transfem trans people#buried under 70 layers of tumblrspeak#you have just invented âtransfeminaziâ#get a fucking grip
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iâve seen so many people posting and commenting about jeff baenaâs suicide, specifically about kathryn hahn, saying things like, âyou can see the sadness in her eyesâ in videos and photos from the golden eve. is this the time to finally have a discussion about the parasocial relationships some of you have with real-life people who donât know you? yes, you can admire people, and yes, you can feel compassion and empathy for them, but you do not know how they feel or whatâs going through their head. you do not know them. you donât know aubrey, you donât know her friends or family, and you arenât a part of her life. honestly, you shouldnât even be a spectator to this truly horrific and deeply personal tragedy. recognize that youâve built a parasocial relationship with a complete stranger, and break out of it.
#kathryn is a 50yo adult doing her job#and aubreyâs just become a widow at 40#get a fucking grip#stan communities need to die#i mean it#jeff baena#aubrey plaza#kathryn hahn#parasocial relationships#parasocial behavior#moira speaks#personal
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Maomao is so fucking stupid
If you said you had a rare medicine in a blind bag and then threw it into traffic, she'd probably run after it
#apothecary hour#the apothecary diaries#i hope this sounds rude because it is#i love you maomao but good god girl#get a fucking grip
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Do us all a favour and kill yourself, proshitter. Youâre fucking disgusting for liking children. How can you think it is ok. The world is better off without you in it
How can you POSSIBLY think it is ok to say this to a person? How are people like you the ones who preach about morals and things being illegal, while telling people to off themselves? Excuse me?
Yes. I am a proshipper. It doesnât and shouldnât affect you in any way, so get the fuck over it.
Being a proshipper DOES NOT mean I am into children. Far from it. Just because I think pieces of fiction deserve to exist does not mean I consume those pieces of fiction.
There are many tropes, pairings, etc. within fiction/fan fiction that I do like not, but I donât go around harassing people who do like it, and I donât think that those things I dislike should be removed from existence.
Antiâs will never cease to amaze me.
Ship and let ship. Let fiction exist. Fandom is supposed to be fun!! Let it be fun! Like what you like, donât like what you donât like, and MOVE ON!
#ao3#fanfiction#proship#proshipping#proshipper#proshippers please interact#anti anti#this is fucking unhinged#I am proudly proship and I wonât shut up about it#if you dislike it#fucking. block. me.#Iâm not afraid to get into shipping and fandom discourse#but fuck you antiâs#you do so much harm while claiming to be good#your REAL LIFE actions are far more immoral and illegal than things existing in FICTION#get a fucking grip
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strange behaviour from the arcane fandom when a woman that has relations with another woman goes down a darker path and people condemn her whereas if she was a man in love with another man this would be lapppped up as âtoxic yaoiâ. please get a grip
#iâm tired#iâm so tired#people will do anything to erase lesbians from media#not even just when i think about the treatment of mel from a vast majority of jayce / viktor shippers �� weird fucking behaviour#if cait was a man and vi remained a woman nobody would bat an eye#if they were both men nobody would bat an eye#her whole arc is reference to how privileged people will fall to facism at the smallest drop of suffering#that the lower classes experience like. what are you not fucking getting#iâm trying to think of examples here but people looooove kylo ren and he takes on a sort of dictatorâs role#though not in a similar fashion#itâs just tiring to read all of the time#nobody can stand nuanced female characters but everyone sits and laps up similarly or WORSE toxic male characters#get a fucking grip#tbd.#also the mel issue is separate itâs just on the brain#because apparently two men cannot have a close bond without wanting to fuck and devour each other :/#but women are always written as besties. ok#iâm#also not saying donât ship jayvik. but you see the issue here right#a canonical lesbian relationship is thrown to be shredded#and jayvik takes favour yet again ??? MEL IS RIGHT THERE TOO âŚ.. not that itâs any betterrrr#but you see. you get my point ???? THE CANON IS THERE. ACKNOWLEDGE ITTTTTTR
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Just saw someone say that femme lesbians canât reclaim dyke. đ Are you kidding me?????
#lesbian#femme lesbian#femmephobia#femme#d slur cw#op#they even go so far as to say that dyke has only been used for gnc lesbians#ignoring the fact that femmes can also be gnc#do you really think that femmes in relationships with other femmes wonât be called dykes just because they are feminine????!!!!!#get a fucking grip
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Most people don't think about or care about Jason enough to hate him, but you know who everyone does actually hate? Luke.
#pjo#riordanverse#percy jackson series#luke castellan#jason grace#this is to all the girlies who think their blorbo is the hated one in the fandom#neutrality and indifference aren't even close to hatred#jason is also in the top ten characters people write about most#get a fucking grip#oh and shout out to the octavian fans because he's another Actually Hated character#people are going to unironically reblog this with âyeah i hate lukeâ
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being perceived, whether it be blocked/tweeted etc., by Louis_Tomlinson is always really interesting to me. people on twitter are reminded that he/his team see things the fandom(s) are talking about/posting and are reminded to be on better behaviour. and then that lasts for about an hour (for most of the fandom). and then people act even worse. itâs the strangest cycle
#like clearly Louis sees shit#get a fucking grip#and stop being assholes#why is it so hard#itâs like dealing with 12 yr olds 90% of the time#god damn#this fandom is so fucking bored#grow up#and Louis_tomlinson has always been intense too#so justâŚ. idk go outside or something
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oh the HYPOCRISY-
#house of the dragon#hotd season 2#hotd spoilers#criston cole#ser arryk cargyll#GET A FUCKING GRIP#ALWAYS TAKING IT OUT ON OTHERS
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it's the fact that Dan had to do with a piece of clothing that makes phil feel comfortable, cool, and cute and is now a dedicated comfortable piece of clothing on rotation and it's just a hat but it's not- đŤ
#dan and phil#dnp#wad#i need be#amazingphil#daniel howell#get a fucking grip#what the hell#is wrong with me
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Children really are the biggest plot twist, because sometimes you hear a bloodcurdling scream and it's just a child that doesn't want to wear, like, a shoe or something.
#get a fucking grip#can you imagine if i'm complaining and a child is actually being kidnapped#let's hope not#but lemme study please#stop yelling#temis rambles
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I've been on tumblr for an entire decade and I think this may actually be the most obnoxious post I've ever seen.
#no one wants to see your shitty virtue signaling post when they're looking for smut fics#learn how to filter tags you don't want on tumblr and AO3#or drag your stupid ass back to wattpad#'if you engage with xyz in media you're a bad person'#I enjoy watching slasher movies but I'm not out here murdering people on my days off#get a fucking grip#alisha babbles
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I just know Brianaâs family are not going to stop posting his face đ they have never and likely will never respect Louisâ wishes - and itâs simply because posting Freddie is the only way they can gain some attention itâs so sad
This whole situation has been fucked from the very start. I donât excuse Louis or Briana either. They didnât have infant Freddieâs best interests in mind when they showed him to paparazzi without protecting him. They used him during public outings to get publicity. Fighting with fans online only emboldened fans to speculate and harass. Trying to use Freddie as a path to becoming an influencer was selfish and stupid (for all involved).
Freddie will soon celebrate his 9th birthday, and I donât think thereâs any way in the world that he wonât see the incredibly toxic, vile, painful speculation about his parentage and about the people he loves and who (as I see it) love him. No one can protect him from what heâs about to encounter. No amount of talking to his family will undo this damage. None of this is Freddieâs fault. He didnât choose to be born under these circumstances. Yet soon, every single one of his public actions will be scrutinized and analyzed; he will be trailed and filmed; he may need public security. And thousands of women will feel entitled to air âtheoriesâ about a young person with their invasive, microscopic lens that they wouldnât tolerate on their own children for ten seconds.
The chilling fact is that many of these people are mothers, yet theyâve chosen to torment someone elseâs son.
I have all the sympathy for Freddie but that also doesnât benefit him. Nothing will make any difference now.
#as for solo Louies who are disappointed that#Louisâ being a father ruins their gay fantasies#get a fucking grip#Louis is actually such a nice and good person#and his fans treat him like shit
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time and time again rhea haters prove to be the stupidest people in this fandom
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