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im a little over halfway through triangle of sadness rn and it’s filling me with this extremely familiar prickling secondhand discomfort and rage by which i mean i’m really enjoying it because that’s the intention
#at first i was like 'so the premise is a little bit like parasite europe edition' and now that still stands but it's a good thing#it's a positive comparison#hope it keeps this momentum up#the acting's really good so far and there's been a Lot of nuance woven into expressions and minute details of stratified human interaction#felt compelled to come talk about watching it when the old white english couple used deliberately evasive wording to describe#their occupation and source of wealth being weapon manufacture... it's the simultaneous awareness of how ppl feel about that#but utter apathy because they dont care they only know that other ppl care and so they should be tactful about it#just such a spot on portrayal#also when the rich russian woman Commanded all the staff to have fun and swim in the pool
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I think so many people are so deeply alienated from themselves that they have no clue how to exercise their free will and autonomy. For some, this alienation runs so deep that they are afraid of their own autonomy and humanity. It is completely understandable why one would have those feelings, but it can be worrisome.
I want to help others who feel this way, so here are small things I have done to exercise my free will:
Add "guilty pleasure" songs to playlists and actually listen to them (I have a ton of late 1990s-early 2000s music I listen to now proudly that I never listened to in the past out of shame)
Getting the décor item, bath set, bed spread, ect. in the patterns you like, even if it's "childish" (I got a dinosaur-themed wastebasket from the kids' décor section and I adore it)
Taking a new route to get to a place you go to often
Eat dessert first
Celebrate well, and often
Collect things that are "odd" or don't seem like an "acceptable" thing to collect (somebody on my "for you" page collects dandelion crayola crayons and it was so cool!!!!!!)
Incorporate one new piece in an outfit you wear frequently (e.g., a new chain, a necklace, ribbons, bracelets, ect.). Challenge yourself to add onto the outfits if you feel up for it.
Sing along to songs without worrying that you sound "good" or your intonation is completely accurate
Read a book from a genre you weren't allowed to read as a kid (comics, thrillers, mysteries, anything!)
Walk without having a specific destination or goal
Pick up a new craft without expecting yourself to master it or to ever be "good" enough. Get your hands messy.
I don't want to shame anybody for not feeling as though they have free will or that they are exempt from exercising it. However, I wanted to give ideas so that you might read this list and find your own ways to express your intrinsic autonomy and will. You deserve to be a person, to feel alive, not just living. That is what our lives are for.
#mental health#mental health support#positivity#if anybody has ideas of their own definitely include them!#i just think being stuck with this feeling that you don't have autonomy and that you ultimately aren't an equal person or a person at all..#...in comparison to other people can be a really troubling and dangerous place to be in...#...and that isn't the person's fault for feeling that way. they didn't pluck those thoughts out of thin air...#...like i have felt that exact way all my LIFE because i have been abused for. probably 2/3s of my life...#...only within these past few years have i even FELT alive. frankly it's going to take a while to repair what i have been left with...#...so i know the feeling and i want to help others feel even a LITTLE bit alive. you deserve it...#...you deserve to take in a deep breath before slowly realizing 'oh my gd this is what it feels like to be alive' and SMILE about it#i want that for you even if it is brief. even if it is small. even if it is a whisper. i want you to feel alive#unironically getting rid of the idea of 'guilty pleasures' has made my life SO much better
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how much greek mythology do you know?
(for ichiruki month 2023 day 8: fairest)
#ichiruki#kurosaki ichigo#kuchiki rukia#artist life#bleach art life#bleach fanart#irmonth2023#I've always thought The Judgement of Paris and the subsequent Trojan War was very. Bleach#Hera promised prestige and wealth (being a quincy means ichigo gets a prestigious heritage and position)#Athena promised victory and battle power (being an arrancar gives ichigo destructive battle prowess)#Aphrodite promised the love of the most beautiful woman in the world (being a shinigami means ichigo gets to be with Rukia)#(Ichigo)(Paris) Made A Choice (shinigami)(Aphrodite)#except (Rukia)(Helen) was already married to someone else! with a daughter!#So them falling in love caused Problems (the entire clusterfuck that is Bleach)(The Trojan War)#yeah this little comparison has been on my mind for years#there u have it
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I think it's fascinating how Meng Yao is one of the most cynical characters in mdzs and yet, at the same time, I'd argue, one of the most idealistic.
There are goals jgy has not just for himself but for the world at large and he is very determined to accomplish them. I guess in that way idealism isn't all that far from ambition, and he certainly has ambition in spades. We often view "idealist" characters as those unwilling to compromise morally, and jgy will compromise a lot. But if you look closer, it becomes clear that that is because that underlying goal is so important he is willing to compromise anything but that.
Which makes him a very very interesting character, especially as a major foil to much more classically idealist characters like Nie Mingjue and Wei Wuxian.
#mdzs#mdzs meta#meng yao#jin guangyao#i mean what is the stairs scene but nieyao arguing on what can be compromised for The Greater Good.#many people I think see jgy as someone who doesn't care. and i disagree. he cares a lot. so much that everything else pales in comparison#the ppl who have him beat on idealism are... xxc and sl for sure. nmj. wwx. lwj. That's not a lot of people!!#(the reason I don't say lxc is that i'd argue a lot of xichen's positivity is interpersonal)#(he wants to do good but he's not walking around with lofty ideas on how to change the world. he wants to help the people he loves do that.
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HOW TO STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS
Honestly, most of the comparing that we do stems from social media, so it’s important that the time that we spend on social media is mindful.
However, in order to stop, I need you to do some things for me <3
Declutter and cleanse your social media accounts. This means unfollowing anyone and everyone who doesn’t make you feel or want to act like your best self and curating your feeds(use the not interested button!)
You have two options, either go social media free for how long you deem necessary or limit your time on social media to less than 2 hours~ the second option is more for people who have to work on social networks.
Remind yourself that social media is not a reliable outlook of people’s lives, and that many companies advertise their products to make you want to compare yourself to someone in order for you to make a purchase.
Catch yourself when you start to compare, because most of the time we do it subconsciously but it affects us on a conscious level.
Instead of comparing yourself to someone, compliment forwarded or in your mind, e.g. she’s prettier than me -> she’s so pretty. Not only do you stop comparing yourself, but if you’re internally kind to others, your mind will soon have that same energy towards you.
Be realistic. Stop comparing yourself to people who’ve had years of experience, have genetics that help them, or have worked really hard to get to their level e.g celebrities, pro athletes, models etc. This also can apply to your peers, you never know how hard they’ve worked.
Know which areas you tend to compare yourself to others. Work, academics, appearance, lifestyle etc. Usually, this is a call for us to grow.
Start comparing yourself to the better version of yourself. They are the only person you should compare yourself to.
#glow up#glow up era#dream girl#wellness#green juice girl#clean girl#pink pilates princess#becoming that girl#it girl#that girl#high value mindset#positive mindset#mindset#comparison#comparing#self love#self worth#self care#self confidence#self help#self growth#self improvement#self development#self healing#personal development#girl blogger#girlblogger#girl blog#just girly things#just girlboss things
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idgaf wars champion
#ask any of his loved ones#all like. two of them#and they will say yeah hes my cutie patootie#who does murder#but hes unserious 💔#on a serious note i do like that they both take note of his nonchalance#and are justifiably frustrated#bc like it does speak of his position of privilege in comparison to the two of them#but tbh for jaime its mostly going joker mode to escape his existential dread#laugh at the horrors tommen 🤣#the only ppl trying to win the idgaf wars this hard r the ones that r actually losing it#getting kicked out of idgafganistan
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This is such a little detail but I LOVE that melinoe and zag's heterochromic eyes are opposites!
#hades#hades game#hades game 2#zagreus hades#melinoe hades#supergiant games#someone better than me is already doing comparisons of them#but also i just noticed that meli got persephone's blonde hair too!!#EDIT: because it doesn't appear i was clear enough: i'm talking about the irises. melinoe's red and green eyes are in opposite positions#when you compare them to zag's#the sclera has nothing to do with it it's just easier to compare the two animated trailers#if you're gonna 'well actually' me in the notes i'm gonna block you
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Y'all wanna see a comparison between photos I took with my phone camera vs. photos I took with a medium format twin lens film camera from the 70s or 80s? Well probably if you are reading this paragraph you have already seen them. What do you think? I think they're cool.
Camera: Pixel 6 | Yashica Mat 124-G Film: N/A | Lomography CN400
#photography#my photography#analog photography#i could pretty the phone photos up a bit in lightroom but the comparison is kinda cool with them relatively unedited#relatively bc the pixel does its weird auto contrast thing whenever you take a picture#the yashica cannot do that bc it is a film camera#i consider this a positive
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YO WTF NOBLE SIX DIES????? THAT WAS MY HELMET AT THE BEGINNING????? (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ I AM UNWELL!!!!!!!
#downloaded halo mcc and have been positively GLUED#halo reach#had no idea halo was this good dudes#slept on this for years#like star trek meets cod#(don't come at me im sorry if that comparison offends halo veterans)#can't wait to replay now that i know what i'm doing#poor noble six#smol boy#just a little guy#halo reach spoilers#lmao it's old but hey spoilers#i went in blind#and it was awesome#and earth shattering#gonna go weep#noble six#halo#baby boy baby
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Please don't let your mind take you to places that are not yours: don't let it compare your life with anyone else's life. You're special and unique as your life is special and unique, and will be filled with your own special and unique experiences. Focus back on you and how to find your own happiness.
#words#healing#important#positivity#thoughts#self healing#self love#positive thinking#healingjourney#self care#life#life lessons#life quotes#recovery#reminders#self help#self support#self compassion#self worth#anxiety#comparison
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The Acolyte showrunner just gave an interview talking about how the show will be "jedi critical" because "that's the story george lucas was trying to tell" and I'm about to commit a crime
#like I'm very upset because#the production looks extremely cool!#but i don't think I'll be able to put upwith the amount of bs I'm sensing from this#like what are they gonna do?#have jedi refusing to help people? be mean?#and then imply is was exactly how GL invisioned them?#(honestly the comparison with tlj was almost worse than this)#the point of that movie was that Luke was WRONG#how tf is a media producer saying this#just admit you're doing your on interpretation I'd be less mad#star wars#the acolyte#negative#pro-jedi#jeid positive
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“if she doesn't want to be called dude i won't call her that” - you are assuming you and your friends read as people trans women feel safe enough to speak up to, while already demonstrating you don't take other people seriously enough.
Your habit and lack of self restraint/awareness matter more than common sense i guess. Like i would never call a transmasc “girl” because that would seem like obvious misgendering, but it's different for trans women apparently.
#see now#as a black person dealing w white people bullshit i understand the hesitation to Speak Up when u are the minority in the room#it's a roll of the dice and you never know how it's gonna go. will they listen? will they double down? will everyone turn against you?#every person you need to confront has the potential to blow up on you and for the situation to get blown out of proportion#but in a way that goes back to it being your fault for speaking up and ruining everything to begin with.#and when i see y'all say shit like “well im gonna keep calling trans women dudes unless they specifically ask me to stop”#i always think about that in comparison. y'all are putting trans women in this position over and over again and acting like#there isn't a glaring power dynamic that would reasonably make a lot of trans women choose to bite their tongues and#take it especially IRL. the thing too is i don't even mind it Myself but the way that y'all insist on doing it despite so many#trans women asking you not to repeatedly is so 😐 the power dynamic thing seemed obvious to me but maybe most of#y'all in the “dude is gender neutral camp” are white lol. y'all REALLY need to do better#lol now I'm thinking more about my irl experience and maybe it's been significantly less annoying bc i surround myself w poc
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chainsaw man (2022) madonna della pietà (1499)
#this is probably an insane comparison to be making#but my brain always associates that position with the sculpture of mary and jesus#i'm sure i could come up with an actual analysis if i tried a bit#csm#chainsaw man#denji#makima#michelangelo buonarroti#michelangelo#Madonna della Pietà#leo.txt
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I think part of what people struggle with when hearing a term like Queerplatonic Relationship is that it doesn’t fit into one of the boxes they already have set up for how the world works and so rather than make room for it, they try to shove it where it doesn’t belong or argue that it actually shouldn’t exist.
It is a term trying to convey information. It is not a trick or delusion or oversight on my part.
If I introduce you to someone and say ‘we are in a relationship’ most people (in the US at least) will default to thinking that means a romantic relationship which involved dating and now being a monogamous couple with sex, seeking marriage. Maybe not with that much detail, but that one word CAN carry a lot of implications that some would like to avoid from the start.
So i’d rather say ‘we are in a queer platonic relationship’ because that immediately tells you more information. It is a queer relationship and it is based on more platonic feelings (which doesn’t mean it is entirely platonic, but that’s an important part of it). It also tells you that these people have talked about their relationship and agree on this label, which should just NEVER be up for debate. If someone asks your opinion on a label that’s different, but same way you don’t get to decide who is queer or tell others what their feelings are, we are calling ourselves this for a reason.
But here’s the thing, saying that we are a QPR does not tell you the whole story! Same way saying you are dating, together with, married to, etc. someone, does not give you the full context of a relationship! Someone can say they are married, but later specify it is an asexual romantic relationship. Someone can say they dating and that can mean they are exclusive or seeking other partners. There are similar things qprs “typically” exhibit (but don’t have to), like closeness, living together, and no expectations of having to woo or romance the other person. But it is a broad term meant to encapsulate many types of relationships that fall outside the norm of building a nuclear family and amatonormative (romantic love is the most important kind of love) societal standards (which is not a universal standard for human relations, if there is a word in a different language/culture that fits better then that is of course okay!)
And I hope this can be a lesson about interacting with queer people/ people different from you in general, but rather than saying ‘that sounds like this thing/ that sounds fake/ I don’t want to call it that cause I’m used to this other thing/ i’m used to these boxes and just going to put you in one based on what you said’ just say:
‘cool! I’m not familiar with that, can you explain more?’ or even just ‘okay!’
#Writing the last bit also reminded me of#People saying the African dish Fufu is ‘like mochi’#like it comes from a good place#of trying to give quick information#but if you call it African mochi#you are just ignoring what people are saying about their own food#even specifying what you are comparing is better#fufu has a chewy light texture similar to mochi#sorry for the very specific comparison amxmsmmxm#qpp#qpr#platonic yearning#qpp yearning#qpp positivity#queerplatonic#queerplatonic relationship#queerplatonic partner#queerplatonic positivity
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Can you talk about trans!Curly a little bit more? I'm curios if you have any headcanons and the like
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It's just such a thing in my mind because it adds a truthful sadness and differing aspect to mouthwashing.
If Curly was trans it adds the horror of the horribly selfish thought he could have easily been in Anya's situation. It could've been him but it wasn't and he so conflicted on the pit it put in his stomach that brings and the shameful relief it wasn't. In this scenario he is friends with Jimmy for a long time still. Jimmy likely knew him pretransition. Maybe he gave Curly weird looks then, maybe they never stopped after, maybe they seemed meaner. They are guys now, bros, both of them are. He doesn't really have to worry what those looks mean anymore, Jimmy just has that face with him sometimes. It's recontextualizing a lot of things for him that he was in denial about or too ashamed to admit. How naive he was being and how he let that get another person hurt.
Specifically with Anya, it's he knows the dread and fear she's feeling. He can understand it because he had to live with it for a good portion of his life, he knows it cause he still does, just in a slightly different way. It makes him think of all the times he's been alone with Jimmy, all the times he's been way more drunk off his ass and not remember the night, Jimmy was always with him the next day. Makes him think of the comments he would laugh off both because that's what guys do but because that part of being a girl says to laugh so Jimmy doesn't do something. It's the selfish realization that he was never safe and he's uncertain now too. Mad at himself for forgeting that feeling, espcially since for a long time he would've been considered the only woman on a crew (with all that implies) for a long time.
He should've taken those blinders off, step back into that position for just a moment and it's so much more painful that Anya likely came to him because he should've gotten it. Those thoughts don't leave his mind after the crash when he's in an even more vulnerable position than she was...
#this is less headcanons and more my thoughts of the intersectional horror this brings to mouthwashing which is also a thing it#already has but more directly in the mix vs just the class gender and positional struggle. like the idea he waited to confront Jimmy becaus#he could conceptualize the crime better because of experience with womanhood and also how it would've destroyed him in terms of being trans#like its weird to word as a comparison but thats kinda how empathy works as in an understanding and ability to project through aspects#like you found out your friend who has always had weird feelings about and relating to you is a rapist and got one of your other friend#pregnant and is now being openly hostile and aggressive towards you. You have only a few days to really think on all of this all the years#with him and how many oppurtunites he had that you blame yourself for giving him both in life and to do to you. You are starting to#realize that he may have done what he did to Anya because it was no longer viable with him or because of weird transphobia/homophobia#from Jimmy and god its so much and he should've know better and what did Jimmy do then - c r a s h#he is at such a small amount of mercy to Jimmy now and he can't protect Anya and it's terrifying because i know and you know that Jimmy is#giving him those weird looks again...#like it adds another layer of horror to things and while I don't think Jimmy would do anything to Curly it's heavily implied he targeted he#because of relatively more important position and getting Curly to have doubts about him as a power play and Curly knows Jimmy well enough#that him immediately exerting his authority and power would set him off after already having been mad about it and even when doing#damage control it still set him off. like its the horror of accidenlty siding with your oppresser and hurting other like you only to then b#stabbed in the back again by the person who took advantage of your nature like its so complext but my actual trans curly headcanons#are just a little bit happier like i imagine he was the first on the boys soccer team and a star player. maybe he and jimmy even picked ou#his first offical “boy” clothes and Jimmy picked most so he looked like the grungiest white boy but she was a boy so it didn't matter cause#it was with his friend who accepted him and I bet on the bed he looks back at all those moments and notices the little details that his#friend wasnt actually so happy but he can't be certain when he started looking so bitter or hes just imagining out of paranoia cause he jus#cant know and even if he could he wouldn't want to ask like god thinking about Anya and probably being a little glad if not heartbroken#that she did get out of it in the end like trans curly and anya destroy me even more its so upsetting like he didn't realize how much he go#you girl and waited to act like it was cowardice but then would she not realize what hes realizing? should that be a grace or more of a#condemnation in her mind like what are her thoughts? espically during the scene Jimmy hits Curly like she had to hear and what did she thin#they are tormented in a similar hells with the same demon and its fascinating#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#anya mouthwashing#curly mouthwashing#jimmy mouthwashing
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It continues to amaze me that people think the Jedi Order is somehow a stagnant organization, set in its dogmatic ways and refusing to change. My friends, the Jedi Order existed for twenty five thousand years before it finally fell to the Sith. You really think an organization that has lasted that long is unwilling to change with the times? Even the Catholic church, one of the most dogmatic religions in the real world, which has only existed for not even 1/10th of the time the Jedi Order did, has changed and adapted with the times.
The problem was never that the Jedi refused to change to accommodate Anakin Skywalker. The problem was that Anakin Skywalker was never willing to accept the way of life of the Jedi*.
Which, let me say, is fine! Not everyone has to be a Jedi! Not even every Force sensitive has to be a Jedi! Just like not every Catholic has to make the decision to become clergy and follow rules that go above and beyond what others have to follow. And even within the clergy there are levels of vocation! Monks don't have to follow all the rules that a priest might.
So no. The Jedi Order did not need to change because Anakin Skywalker was selfish. The Jedi Order did nothing wrong, and never once forced Anakin to live by their values. The Jedi choose to follow their path, just like the countless number of clergy throughout the world for all of our various religions.
*Caveat: Yes, Anakin was manipulated by Palpatine from a young age. This definitely influenced him, but it was ultimately his own choice not to follow the path of the Jedi, just like it was eventually his own choice to give up on the Dark Side eventually. George Lucas says it himself that it is about a person's choices.
#star wars#jedi#jedi order#anakin skywalker#comparisons to the catholic church#pro jedi order#jedi positive
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