#im gonna hate tagging this ugh

[designatedkilljoy]

yah, we listened 2 3OH!3 2gether, i think shes da 1 <3

[arcanegifs]

who want caitvi s2 gif mobile headers

[lover-of-mine]

Buck and Eddie talking about the woman they are dating and making each other go "are you for real right now?"

[mintypsii]

watched usopp's little arc with defeating sugar and wow it took A LOT for him to turn back after running away to fight them again. but then later he finds out that she's awake and thinks about how he'll lose his memories of Luffy if he doesn't take care of her again, and IMMEDIATELY makes up his mind to shoot her from SO FAR AWAY?

[wakeywakeyjakey]

I'm 35,000 words into writing a longfic about the Batman/Bruce/Matches DID system and I'm obsessed with it. It includes Bat/Joker, Bruce/Harvey, and Matches/Harv and the differences in each of those dynamics is 🤌

(Batman and Bruce know about each other but they don't know about Matches and Matches doesn't know about them--what could POSSIBLY go wrong?)

[moreclaypigeons]

No like seriously ARE we ready to talk about the misogyny in fandom spaces

[zymstarz]

yeah sure that's how i'll [re]come out

[buddyhollysbuddyholly]

Just some stupid whiteboard drawings I did this morning I'm so sleepy

[bloodanddiscoballs]

buying a couple shirts to put my own logo stuff on to see how it turns out is so stressfullllll I need them to be soft please please please

[cepheusgalaxy]

I think it may have been a mistake to join tumblr communities because now i cant get rid of the notifications and thats driving me mad

[possum-tooth]

chilly and want my second coat that i brought specifically for this reason but my bosses are in the back talking and i dont wanna disrupt

[bedforddanes75]

im gonna shit my pants and die idk here is cowboys 3 heartbreak emoji

[justobsessedwithvic]

time to watch må music videos and Kurtis Conner to cope

[ranger-kellyn]

it's like i keep telling myself i'm going to go to the single's event tomorrow at the lesbian bar but also................://////////

[coridallasmultipass]

Personal vent post, how I tag things, apologies for this probably showing up in search results because I'm not censoring words (do not have the spoons rn)

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So I'm getting really frustrated (at the situation, not at individual people! Sorry to vague right after getting a request, I was gonna make this post like a week ago) that multiple people have asked me not to tag Bro/Cal reblogs as Stridercest.

Stridercest does not mean incest, it means Strider/Strider relationship. I'm tagging it for followers who don't want to see Strider/Strider at all (or for those who do, too, I guess). On MY blog, it has NO bearing on whether or not something is incest. Lil Cal has been a Strider since Day 1 to me, way before any of the events after Act 6, as a pure vanilla puppet. A Strider by marriage, in my opinion. But I'm not opposed to calculating the amount of Strider that got put in Lil Cal, as I've done before. You also have Dirk/Hal which is also Stridercest, but not incest (at least in canon, sometimes it is incest in fan depictions). Or Guardiancest, which I don't think counts as incest in canon either (but usually always is in fan depictions). Even selfcest between one Strider (beta!Dave/beta!Dave in a time travel situation, for example) is still gonna be Stridercest to me.

The ONLY Stridercest I add the specific ship tag for is Bro/Cal, because that's otp5eva for me, separate from any other Strider stuff (Stridercest probably doesn't even make top 3 HS ships for me). Everything else only gets the blanket Stridercest in reblogs, because I already tag a lot, I don't have the energy to add nuanced tags for weird Strider situations, and whether or not that constitutes incest, or which version of a character it is, especially when the artist/authors don't usually make the difference explicitly stated in their own caption/tags, and sometimes it's vague on purpose! (I'm currently writing a fic where Bro and Dirk are the same person! I'm not gonna make the distinction a big deal.)

It's mostly frustrating because then I have to decide if untagging the relationship as Stridercest is going to make someone else following me uncomfortable who will then see it untagged.

Going forth, I am going to delete whatever reblog I made if I get this request from someone else again. I'm trying to remember names, so I don't reblog any future content that would conflict with their requests, but this has already happened with three people in like the past two weeks. Had to block one person for telling me to die because I tagged "Stridercest" on the post preventatively, as usual, because I care about tagging for my followers. (I literally checked their blog like 3 times to make sure they didn't have a DNI pinned, and I still got told to die for my efforts lmao.)

Literally, please just DM me privately (thank you to the other people who did, sorry for the trouble!), and I will either delete the reblog, or block you if you request that. I'm not TRYING to make people uncomfortable, which is the whole reason why I tag it to begin with.

So, I'm not un-tagging shit anymore, it's delete only from now on. I'm not going against my own blog rules I set both to try and accommodate my followers, and to make searching my blog easier for myself. (Used to not tag anything from like 2011-2016 or later, and I'm still in the process of back-tagging everything, since it's been so frustrating to find old fandom posts.)

[wehavecometoanend--maybe]

incomprehensible ramble

sometimes when I'm going [*loud crashing sound*] inside my brain I want to ask the people in my life questions that I really shouldn't ask them (and won't) because they are inappropriate and stupid and also. nobody would answer them truthfully anyways or well...I wouldn't/couldn't believe the answer either way because like.

who would, if asked by a friend who u know is going through it: "do u think I'm doomed by my inability to change? am I a bad person? am I a burden [to you]? do I offer you anything positive? do you think I'll always suffer?" answer with, yes, actually, I think you're gonna die suffering, after you suffered all your life and also ur really annoying. like even if that was the case. at least the people in my life wouldn't say that. I think

so whatever the answer(s) would be. I can't trust it. I'm awful 🥰