HEARTBREAK HIGH S2 COUNTDOWN
NUMBER 12: SASHA SO
I've talked to a total of two people about Heartbreak High, and both have shared an immense hatred towards Sasha. Which is 100% warranted.
I mean, her treatment of Quinni was GOD AWFUL IT BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES. Plus this scene of Missy...
Yeah, i can definitely understand it. HOWEVER, there are THREE reasons as to why her placement isn't lower on my list.
She called Harper out for SA'ing Malakai after he was assaulted by the police
The fact that she's an asian, queer icon
She genuinely liked Quinni
It wasn't hard to see that Sasha and Quinni were feeling each other. Just like it wasn't hard to see that once Sasha found out Quinni is autistic, a switch in her flipped. She realized how much "social justice warrior" points she could gain just from the phrase "my gf's on the spectrum."
WHICH OBVIOUSLY SUCKS
But once again, I love a good redemption story. If someone actually encouraged her to do some more research, i guarantee she'll realize the error in her ways. For clarification, IM NOT SUGGESTING THEY'LL GET BACK TOGETHER. But her and Missy are always the first people to check others on their actions. If someone checks her on her privilege, she'll listen.
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not me worried about if there’s gonna be a habs player not wearing the pride jersey tomorrow
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In addition to the whole mom thing I’m suspecting that the pharmacy is lying to me about their computers not working and they just are refusing to give me my estradiol
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
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Take the road on higher ground and tell me
"Don't look down! You'll fall and break your back!"
But that just reminds me how
There's more to be found beneath the black
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LITTLE COMIC based on how I made a friend at 1 am while crawling on the ground, picking up Maybugs to save them from getting squished by cars.
PRETTY SURE I must've looked like a strange little gremlin to any onlookers passing by.
Also yes he held a bug like a CHAMP.
He passed my test. We still hang out 😂
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What do you mean I’m a bit late for Janus’ big day? Of course not, how could you say such a thing! I definitely didn’t forget all about it in my absence and only get reminded in the incorrect quotes video live chat; that’s not like me at all ;]
Anyways I decided to dress our sassy snake in some different outfits I think he’d like. He seems like the type to get all dolled up on his birthday and it goes with Thomas posting pics in outfits inspired by the sides on their appreciation days!
@thatsthat24
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First off this absolutely cursed AU was inspired by Lemonomelette and a post they made -X
Secondly I imagine it all being about bots and cons trying to one up each others factions and not actually helping in any serious way because their too busy with their own faction bs.
Think of two rival car dealerships across the street one upping each other to get business and instead of business with cars its interstellar robot fairys trying to woo sm children to let them grant their inconsequential wishes (which may or may not be worth it) instead of the other guy next door.
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