#i dont mean to be!!!!
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(grabs you by the shoulders) you have to make room for new experiences in your life. you have to go through the unpleasant work of leaving your comfort zone, even if just for a few minutes at a time. because if you don't, your brain will trick you into stagnation. you will start to believe that the world can barely fit you in it. but that's not true. it's the opposite way around. you can fit the whole word inside of you. your task is only this: to welcome it with open arms
#i know we are all neurodivergent and executive disfunction and routine disruption is kicking our ass and it's hard. but you have to.#and i dont even mean like. travel to another country i mean#take the other bus home#or buy a different tea brand#YOUR BRAIN IS A MUSCLE EXERCISE IT.
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Sooner or later leftists will have to deal with the issue that capitalism has made many people used to wanton excess and sooner or later we'll have to legit tell everyone we can't have plastic treats and luxury produce or cruises instantly available year round and it's gonna make so many people mad and call you a big meanie worse than stalin over it. It will not be popular at all but someone's gotta hold a firm no or the planet will never stop collapsing. We can't save the planet by living exactly how we do now just with a communist banner over it we have to take a loss sorry, shein product cycles shouldn't have been normalized to begin with.
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very funny (irritating) to me that everyone whined and yelled about stupid rainbow capitalism and how performative wokeness/allyship is a net bad we should all refuse to support and now like.
tumblr is doing nothing for pride and target isn't selling much (if any) of their pride collection offline except at certain stores (in democratic areas, basically) and build a bear has a much tinier collection than normal and all the actual pride stuff is on their "adult" website (not sure if it's in stores, but pride = adult is a hell of a message)
there are genuinely good criticisms for performative allyship in all its applications. it shouldn't be the only thing we expect from people and companies. but if all the shit I see being called performative stopped tomorrow then in terms of the LGBTQ+ community especially we just. wouldn't talk about queerness or queer issues or celebrate pride or do anything.
open your fucking eyes. we are very close politically to having gay marriage rolled back. now companies are basically being let off the hook to even make a miniscule effort (which matters to the people who don't have access to any other kind of support in their communities! which normalizes the community in public spaces!) because the only reaction they have gotten over the last few years are negative ones from BOTH sides.
we are so entrenched in discourse at all times for the sake of our OWN performance of who is the wokest and who is REALLY an ally or a good community member that we have basically handed over all the work of activists of the last several decades to the other side because we'd rather scream at each other over fucking chicken restaurants and shit than the real life backsliding that's happening.
and this goes for other shit too. feminism, poc rights, all of it.
also. trans rights aren't discourse and aren't just culture war arguments. in case any terfs think they can spin this to be antitrans.
#pride#pride month#gay#lgtbqia+#lgbtqia#rainbow capitalism#i just#why can you not understand how just bc you dont like it from the standpoint of anticapitalism#does not mean its not important in a society controlled solely BY capitalism#its like watching feminism circle around from women can just exist even if not conventionally attractive to its woke to get plastic surgery#what are we DOING
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Ok so what is jaywalking then
#thats what get for not learning english#👍#i heard it a few times but i just. dont know what that means?
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diversity win! this spider is forcefemming its prey!
(full article)
#science#fireflies#i dont even know which joke to do here#this brings a whole new meaning to traps#scientists are hard at work uncovering if all male Abscondita terminalis are chasers#fucking. hypno spider venom. are you kidding me!
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#meme#if you dont understand this you probably have really boring shitty sex#not sorry#oml one of my stupid vanilla friends is arguing with me about this#he says because top and dom usually coexist means theyre basicslly synonymous#no#hes dumb and if he didnt live in canada id punch him#thank god i never fucked this guy it would be so boring
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calling my lover "mine" but not in the way that my toothbrush or notebook are mine, mine in the way my neighborhood is mine, and also everybody else's, "mine" like mine to tend to, mine to care for, mine to love. "mine" not like possession but devotion.
#nonbinary love#nblnb yearning#nb4nb#nblnb#wholesomeposting#yearning hours#ive been thinking about how some languages dont have a possessive tense#so you dont say “i have a thing” but rather “a thing is by me”#and like im not usually one for psycho linguistics and like critical thoughts etc etc etc#but i really like the framework of responsibility/commitment rather than ownership#i think about this mostly in terms of ecology#and relation to land#but i also love it as it applies to language shared between lovers#like i LOVE calling them mine or for them to call me theirs#but i'm also nonmonog and that was kinda weird to square for a while#and it clicked one time when i was talking about my neighborhood and i was like well#when i say my neighborhood or my city it's understood i'm not taking it away from anybody else#its understood i just mean the city where i live#so why cant we apply the same to lovers?#mine in the way i want to show up for you again and again#ok#done now
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genuinely what is the reason for the internet becoming so prudish?? who can i fight about this
#clarification since this is getting notes#when i say prudish i dont mean people who dont want to have sex or talk about it or any of that#you guys deserve to have your boundaries respected always#i mean the corporations who force their adult users to be Family Friendly at all times
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*deep breaths* people can be cringe on main. I don't need to say anything..I can keep my mouth shut.
#im such a hateful person 😭#i dont mean to be!!!!#this isnt about anyone that i follow or anything btw!!#so if youre paranoid like me and just assumed it was you: im here to dispell your fears#it was about a random Swiftie tumblr decided to throw on my dash 💀💀💀#they were defending the new album and calling Taylor Swift music like 'super niche' and 'nerdy'#AND IM NOT MENTIONING WHO THEY ARE#swifties just- oh my god.#its really funny#IRLs might be forced to see it tomorrow tho 💀#goofy jelly thoughts#RANT POST OVER#im trying to be less of a hater. (i am failing)#I WANT TO BE A LOVER NOT A FIGHTER 😞😤#to be clear: its not even the fact that they like the new album#thats just personal preference#but Taylor Swift is BY NO MEANS a niche nerdy artist 😭#AND THATS FINE!!!!#theres nothing wrong with liking one of the most mainstream artists!#you dont have to try and be niche!#theres a lot of that; everyone wants to be like different and niche and quirky#but like#you dont have to be#its fine to have objectively normal/popular tastes!!!!!!!!
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flying the original character artist flag with pride
#not actually complaining. if i cared about notes i would do more fandom stuff but I dont so I dont#and it's perfectly fine#but big shoutout to the people who like my ocs it means a lot#TPC's Not Art
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~don't forget to drink water~
❤ or suffer the consequences ❤
#making sure you dont dehydrate#by any means necessary#description in alt text#artists on tumblr#i love mermaids
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yknow i dont go here but sometimes i gotta go: seriously respect clowns. they have the worst pop culture representation in the world and also the best most thorough honor code. they're just here to be silly little guys who bring joy and are very conscientious about doing so responsibly. let them to their merriment in peace you dont hafta take potshots. i dont go here but like maybe i should, you all seem super chill
#my posts#im mad bc i saw a clown knight adoptable which fascinated me as a concept and then someone bought him and made him evil :(#thats so. boring. its SO BORING IM SORRY THERES A COOL CONCEPT IN THERE BUT THATS THE BORING WAY#maybe ill make my OWN oath of clowning paladin someday#...wait that's actually GOTTA be a dnd subclass somebody's made at some point#anyway also the occasional YouTuber taking potshots and being mean like you dont need to do that theyre just minding their own business :(#we should all strive to be sillier and weirder and more kind forever
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literally so fucking embarrassing to have a favorite character bc it will have you sitting there thinking things such as "omg he experiences the 5 senses" and "omg he wears clothes and feels the texture of them on his skin" and "omg he eats food and tastes it" and "omg he sleeps with his eyes closed in a bed with sheets" Like be honest should i just kill myself at this point
#Yes this is abotu will graham dont talk to me .#wasp speaks#suicide joke#suicide tw#also i know theres more than 5 senses i just mean like the kindergarten ones
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#I saw this on twitter and oh my god it’s canon#I need a scene of vi sleeping with maddie#Unpopular opinion but I dont hate Maddie at all#I mean it’s Caitlyn#if I had a shot I’d shot it to#twitter meme#league of legends vi#arcane league of legends#league of lesbians#arcane#vi arcane#arcane vi#league of legends arcane#vi league of legends#maddie arcane#maddie nolan#maddie and vi#arcane 2#arcane season 2#arcane caitvi#caitvi#maddie x Caitlyn#vi x caitlyn#caitlyn x vi#season 2 arcane
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finally watching house md in order instead of whatever random episodes my friends force me to watch and. wow. the mouse bites meme is. so accurate? why is wilson just Always There. "I too am in this episode!" YES DIVA WE KNOW WHY DO YOU KEEP SHOWING UP DONT YOU HAVE THINGS TO DO????
#wilson you messy gay bitch you love the drama dont you.#ugh hes so awesome#house md#james wilson#gregory house#hilson#i mean if i worked in the damn hospital i would also probably use house as entertainment i cant lie#i just wouldnt be like. a fucjing faggot about it LMAAOOOOO
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