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I love diversity but seriously why is every asian character in books either. seriously. It's not like most of these mcs aren't pleasant to read but yk i'd like to read an asian character who's a little different yk?
korean/japanese
chinese
Can do like jijitsu karate kung fu panda shit black belt whatever
super sassy. sometimes unlikeable. manic pixie dream girl (?). either super super super dumpling cute golden retriever or sassy mf.
trauma relating to family
often a side character
#the inheritance games#the naturals#books#reading and books#asian#and it gets boring after a while#not to mention their culture is barely represented#i mean come on#i appreciate the diversity thing#but seriously#gimme sth else#writing prompt#writing community#and i'm not even shitting#i met an online friend#and he thought i was korean (ive never said anythign abt my culture before)#but he just assumed i was chinese/korean cuz i said i was asian#which is like#okay...#asian culture#books and reading
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homogenising something that has always been inherently diverse will kill us all one day.
#-> myra text#political critique#that is why hindutva should have not been popularised. hindutva is not decolonisation or reclamation.#it is homogenising and exclusionist. it takes away the diverse history of this country.#but this statement will reach deaf ears. rather than critiquing nobility they will go and bark casteist and islamphobic bs.#did invaders did what invaders do? yes. but this whole property destruction and lives being at risk has been going on for years.#biggest example who are quite popular: ajatshatru (son of bimbisara) & ashoka the great (the massacre at kaling)#i'm all in for criticising nobility i have no respect for any kings despite their religion and community and whatever.#they're all shits who benefited and left the common people to rot.#these people will say that tipu sultan is the devil reborn but will go on praising the marathas#as if the marathas did not cause a bloodshed in bengal karnataka and the punjab regions. not saying tipu is good but i rather#wanted to point out the hypocrisy of people in certain spaces. its a good thing to appreciate history and even better thing to learn from#the mistakes made in past but some of you guys did not understand the whole point.#absolute shit head cunts some of you guys are. come at me brand me whatever slurs you fuckers use i don't give a shit#calling people sex slaves just because they don't subscribe to your viewpoint is not the big own you think it is.#sanghi bs#india#hindutva
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I have Words to Say about disabled characters in Proseka but I'm especially kind of... Eeh about Saki, because of how perfect she is.
I've talked about this before but Saki is just not allowed, by the narrative, to be flawed. We have some very, very brief moments of anger or lashing out from her (NSNF, Doll Festival in particular), but aside from that Saki is just... So clichƩ and surface-level regarding her disability. That especially reflects in how the writers handled her relationship with Leo/need.
Yes, she is not angry at her friends for, let's call it what it was, abandoning her (besides Ichika). She is not upset with them or feels betrayed by them. She just forgives them for doing that because she's a good friend and that kind of person, to not dwell on the past and just look forward. She's only really upset at her illness, rate, and herself.
Do you know how shitty of a story that is to sell to disabled people? Oh look, this character suffered a lot and then their friends just stopped visiting them at some point! But no big deal though, they're all good! She doesn't hold a grudge against them so it's actually totally understandable and fine and you should look up to that attitude.
Sure, Saki isn't upset with Honami and Shiho. My point is that she fucking should be. I know their reasons and I don't care about them; what they did is shitty and I hate how the story just moved on from that and we never confront that again and probably won't. Why the hell not? It would make for an interesting conflict and story. It would make Saki an absolutely stunning character, and reflect many of our struggles with loving and caring for people that don't understand us and don't stand with us. Why do we have a story we do now, where Shiho and Honami's fuck up only bothers them but not the person they hurt?
Oh wait, I know the answer: because god forbid disabled characters be anything than inspiration porn.
#jay rambles.txt#jay pjsk critical.txt#Souma actually suffers from the same issue#but less than Saki to an extent. he feels so much more realistic to me#and I want to say this: Shiho and Saki are my favourite Leo/need characters. I'm not being a hater for the sake of it#but they're still not real people. they are vessels to sell a story and tell a narrative and I'm fully within my rights#to criticise said narrative and story and how it portrays (or doesn't) some things#I appreciate all ooc Saki writers because honestly sometimes it makes more sense for her be ooc in the right direction#Saki is just not good disability representation. she is - at best - there for diversity points#in other words: I'm bitter because my joints hurt today and someone touched my sore spot with pjsk lol
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Before we call anon rude because letās see it from their perspective, imagine getting an entire feast to eat. That can be pretty hard to start with so much thatās going on, but if they start with one thing they know theyļæ½ļæ½ll like (aka one character they like) that can be the start for them leaping to other characters to finish the story and the bigger story. I struggle the same way to start book series if I donāt have at least one character that drives me to read it, itās all about what can be the hook to push them through. Sounds like the anon is neurodivergent (just a guess) so they might genuinely not see it as rude and see it as a solution to even play the game to start with.
Btw absolutely adore the game, the complex and rich characters making them all so unique is amazing. The art is so pleasing to the eyes I love it!! Iām waiting for it all to get out at once so I donāt get too impatient. Shae however interests me the most, which routes will have the most lore for them? Will there be routes that give more lore in general based on decisions you make or do they all share the same amount? (I mean general lore not just Shae lore)
Apologies; we are not trying to accuse any asker of being rude! We are simply explaining our perspective as the developers / are trying to broadly encourage folks to dip their toes into other areas of the story outside of the main route(s) they're interested in, especially considering some routes will be made available sooner than others, and these other routes will likely contain additional scenes/lore of everyone's fave(s) regardless! We want to give each main cast member an equal amount of love (and lore) regardless of their overall popularity, so our goal is not to tut-tut anyone for having strong preferences for one character over the others, but rather to explain that you may be surprised by how much *more* you learn about your preferred characters in the other routes. That's all!
For Shae... Well, they were a foot soldier for one of the worst periods of the War. Lore wise, any other story that touches on the War will likely have content relevant to them and their experiences. ^^
#ask#clotho answers#edit/final note: we got a *few* asks on this subject and will not likely answer all of them for the sake of our followers' dashboards#but we also want to note that part of our encouragements here come from the fact that Flan/Keagan are our most popular characters by a lot#and we want to do what we can to gently nudge folks who may not want to romance the fem / nb characters into checking out their stories#despite not being into them romantically. this is half of why we have platonic routes to begin with#we recognize veterans to the dating sim world may feel less inclined to romance characters that don't align with their irl orientations#this isn't a bad thing. some people steer clear of dating sims altogether because they're aro or just not interested in romance stories etc#but the unintentional side effect of this is it has a chilling effect on developers even in the indie sphere to make less diverse stories#if Flan and Keagan are our most popular characters then they will be our most *profitable* characters in the long run#and as much as we would love to not care about money and just produce the story we want to tell#we live in a society (tm) and need to eat#if at the end of ndm's development we see that 90% of our engagement went toward the boys it is hard to ignore the financial incentive#to redirect our energy toward leaning into the 'tried and true' formula that assures we can buy groceries and make rent#basically what i am candidly saying here is capitalism is pretty bad for creative liberty unless you're already rich / able to self finance#which we are not. and currently none of the core devs make *anything* from ndm#it would be nice if it does turn a profit but that isn't a guarantee - which the team has accepted as a normal risk in game development#anyway this is getting rambly but the Point is that this goes beyond us wanting to make sure all sides of our story are equally appreciated#it is *partly* that - we do want players to experience the entirety of our artwork#but it's not just for our egos - it's so we can keep making art like this#i considered including this in the body of the post but money talk suuucks man#and i don't want anyone to think we're glaring at them in a holier than thou 'ah-ha! you don't want to play maeve's route because she's a#woman!' sort of way because i think that's a reductive way to look at things#people like what they like and there's nothing intrinsically wrong with that#but if you like that we're making a diverse story#with masc routes fem routes and nb routes#even if you don't personally want to romance x or y#it would help us if y'all play the platonic routes#we are trying our very very best to make the fem/nb routes interesting for Everyone so those stories don't get sidelined#and if you don't like them for their own sake - fair enough! can't win em all and we'll deeply appreciate that you tried anyway!
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as much as i love the jjk anime and think it adapted most of the characters perfectly,, some of these characters should not have abs
#mainly about choso#saying this lightheartedly because i appreciate the fan service of lingering muscle shots of the guys#itās funny having a character whoās the embodiment of a cycle of decomposition and who was just born#have ridiculously defined abs#but also. pls more body diversity#have a similar thing but with csm where im. how does she not have any muscles#mainly towards quanxi
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Youāre the resident chilchuck expert, so I was wondering about it thereās any canon evidence that he did smoke or drink alcohol when the kids were younger. I always thought it was something he picked up due to the strain of long jobs, when the kids were already older, but you seem to think differently and I was wondering if there was anything in canon that made you think that way!
Now that you mention it I guess itās true thereās no evidence he did. Smoking we literally only know he does at all because of one post-canon panel where he has a pipe, so no, maybe this stick-looking thing in the panel below too though, Iām not familiar with medieval blunts eh. Weāve only gotten one panel of him and his daughters interacting when he was younger so thatās not too insightful on that end, and every time we see him young and freckled itās in a job context so again not really where weād expect him to be drinking. The earliest proof (/heavy implication since we donāt see inside his cup I guess) is 3 years before canon when Laios hired him, where heās at a bar, classily placed in front of all the bottles āØ
Yes alcohol is almost certainly a way through which he copes especially with stress, so if we go with the theory he started around when work got stressful, wellā¦ Chilchuck started working as a dungeon diver ~10 years ago so when he was ~19, making Mei, Fler and Puck ~6 and ~4 respectively, so from that draw the āstressful enough to start drinkingā line wherever. We donāt know what he did before that with any certainty, and it could be he did odd jobs, lived off mostly mutual aid and community work, or just focused on only raising the girls. Half-foots tend to be poor and I see a lot of that in Chilchuck specifically so I donāt think he could have afforded to not have some paying work though.
Alright, so then why do I think he did drink when the girls were younger?
I give a more complete rundown of the info we do have on his alcoholism & his family with panels and references + all the speculation I make from it here. But the most targeted and objective answer I can give is:
Of course thereās just very very little we know of Chilchuckās life with his family, and I think thatās by design too. I think the details being up in the air is to allow more nuance of the topic, like, will trying to reconcile go well, is their relationship salvageable? We donāt know, because we donāt know. So the message of giving hope a chance even if itās a long shot, that things could truly go either way, is more relevant, impactful and meta in that way. How long was he usually away for work travels into dungeons here and there? How did he act with them? All we can really do is "itās likely that", itās a game of which way we think itās more implied. Thereās no right and wrong answer, itās all Marcille-like larping the events out.
My main reason for thinking he did is that his father died from overdrinking and Chilchuck is very aware of that. He mentions his death casually in the extra about their stance in alcohol and in his Adventurerās Bible profile, etc. He acts towards the alcohol presumably the same way his father did: with abandon, uncaring for the health effects, probably happily too considering Chil says "dying doing something you love is a good way to go". Very nonchalant. So you see what Iām saying here right, wether he started early or late, his view of alcoholism is very influenced by what he saw of his father growing up, itās something heās always been aware of and saw in a mostly positive light, something that was inherited you could say. Itās something that was normalized to him from a young age. Regardless or where it goes from there I do think this part is pretty inarguable. If he views it positively and we know that in the present alcohol is his favorite food that he loveees, why would he have held out on it? Personally that all makes me think he started drinking very young, especially since I donāt think they limited alcohol to age as much as modern standards (and I mean, teen drinking is obviously still a thing). And here you could argue, maybe his father only started being more alcoholic later when Chilchuck moved out, or something! And to that thereās nothing I can say except I think thatās a strained theory, and that Chil might even have largely cut contact with his family after moving out (since he and siblings are listed as almost strangers and he doesnāt seem to have much emotional attachment to his parents, but also we know he rents out his place to "a relative"), but itās true we have no evidence. "Iāve picked up the same unhealthy substance abuse as my father haha! No big deal right haha" repeated several times to me just reeks of intergenerational trauma, & the alcoholism gene as they call it. Like effortless sliding into drinking as if itās second nature, itās natural after all, itās normal after all, it just makes sense, it makes you feel good and thatās what matters.
BUT from my interpretation then we have a whole other layer: Alcohol is of course not all bad always. I think heās always liked alcohol and drank it on occasion and it brought him joy etc etc, but I think here the implication in the question is, how much effect did his drinking have on the family relations and how early? And that isnāt so much about when him drinking started but when the alcoholism started. Addiction is defined by a habitual need, that has negative effects from filling that need (physical, psychological, social, etc) and negative effects from withdrawal. If Chilchuck drinks to cope and he canāt not cope without it, thatās addiction, if it affects his relationships, if itās a need he has, itās addiction. Addiction can be very insidious or look very casual, and how much people around the person are affected by it is case by case. Cheerful drunks can be sooo annoying and uncomfortable though let me tell you. Drunks are drunks. And this sounds harsh, but even if people around them donāt mind drunks itāll still have some effects here and there, living with one can be such a challenge, ily drunks good luck with everything much like Chilchuck you deserve good things š«”ć
Ok so with the dad thing and the "ok well maybe heās always drunk casually but it grew worse with time around when he started working as a dungeon diver" precision made, the other bit of info we have that can inform this is that Chilchuck is on a harsh diet and that alcohol is a hunger suppressant. We know Chilchuck "used to be fine not eating for two days", that literally on screen to quench his hunger so it doesnāt keep him awake he goes to drink water, drinking is his instinct to hunger. Again alcohol is a hunger suppressant and if you want info on that the internet has a lot of research and anecdotes about it. He diets to be light enough to not trigger traps, so itās something heād have started after dungeon diving most likely. Between the stress and the diet, yes itās extremely likely he started going harder on alcohol after he started working in dungeons. Thereās arguments on wether two days without eating is less bad for half-foots than humans, but apart from smaller portions thereās nothing that indicates half-foots should get less than 3 meals a day. They need less food but thatās because their bodies are smaller: the need is proportional to the body, not smaller than othersā races, the % of need is similar even if the kg amount of food isnāt. Thereās also a popular headcanon with support basis that half-foots run hot and have a faster heartrate and whatnot, and that points towards a faster metabolism rather than a slower one: a bigger need for eating rather than a smaller one. He has the same bmi, 18, as Mickbell, but perhaps because Chil is much taller heās less intensely visibly underweight with ribs showing than Mick during the bath extra, itās most apparent when he becomes tallman.
Alcohol is something so important and omnipresent in his character that I have trouble believing itās something that was part of only a small fraction of his life. Itās his immediate go-to, his no-brainer solution to a good time, Iāve sort of always assumed especially after looking at his family that itās something he discovered decently young. Like he just acts like someone whoās always had alcohol to fall back on and started young idk. Alcohol is one of his 5 keywords. Alcoholism is very ingrained into his world view and life, his "it doesnāt matter" stance his āwork hard play hardā mentality his idea that the world is harsh so you get relief where you can, so it just makes sense to me that itās always been in his life, if not actively then at least looming.
So yes, in summary, my take: Alcohol was always something he wholly enjoyed to an unwise level, but it could have been considered casual until he started working into dungeons and his need for it on a regular basis intensified. Alcohol has always had positive association to him as far as we see, so when it started being a problem he didnāt see it as such. To quote him, "I drink anytime I get the opportunity to". Why always? Approval of fatherās alcoholism. Why alcoholism at all? Diet + stress & coping mechanism & emotional stunting + relationship issues, and she decided she had enough after they went out for drinks.
Conclusion
Chilchuck having drunk from a young age makes sense to me and itās the strongest narrative angle I see on the table, but thatās objectively a me opinion, yes! Thereās no evidence, moreso thereās canon basis and supporting info, but itās all very left up to interpretation. Iāve made my own interpretations of things from the scraps we see, like everyone else making Chilwife and daughters content. Wether you have a stance on the topic or prefer to leave it vague in your takes, itāll be a matter of what you think makes most sense, or what youād rather believe I suppose (which is literally fine)
Thereās a lot of subjectivity in even just setting up causal links like you probably noticed during this and I was careful with my word choices, because weāre just extrapolating from what we see and unless Kui states it explicitly from a reliable mouth all we can do is have informed opinions on most things. This particular interpretation is influenced by other details Iāve come to form about my interpretation of Chilchuck too, the more psychological and emotional sides of him and the timeline and how his marriage even happened, unplanned pregnancy imo. Like I hope you see what I mean, this wasnāt supposed to be a speculation post just a quick simple answer but thereās sort of just no other and concise but complete way with the subjectivity nuance to put "maybe it could be yes because of this but maybe it could be no because of this" haha
Edit: Wait the phrasing on thisā¦ Interesting. "In recent years"ā This does imply that if not just his alcohol consumption increasing then the diversity and quality of it did, so either he indeed did start drinking more (not necessarily meaning he didnāt drink before) assumedly because of his wife leaving, or he started drinking other/more different kinds of alcohol maybe due to the union he formed + his experience gave him greater salary than he had previously (and no wife and family to provide money for), a mix of both perhaps.
#Also heās a lot like my own dad so to me with how he is itās just an immediate āoh yeah he has always drunk duh of courseā#So i can admit to bias. Or to specialized knowledge and authority on analysis idk in which way that tips the balance in my favor or not lol#Dungeon meshi#chilchuck tims#meta#alcoholism#This post was meant to be short :|#-slaps chilchuckās family- this baby can fit in so much projection#I have like 3 chil alcoholism & chil family fic wips rn weeeeee#Iām the kind of alcoholicās kid who grew up to never touch alcohol btw so like. Ik Chil could not have drunk young i just think he did#Can we appreciate the alcohol opinion & resistance chart actually. So often in media itās either āalcoholās a source of fun yippeeā and#āalcohol is evilā. Thank you Dunmeshi for diversity of opinion thank you for nuance i rarely feel so seen#Izutsumi deserves to tell Chilchuck he stinks#AND BY THE WAY I hope you donāt feel talked down on anon. Ik you seem to have your own interpretation already & thatās good#sometimes i was adressing like. The General Public TM more than you which is why I spent time on some things like āthink what you wantā etc#Okok i hope that covers it. Help where does the time go#Itās the sort of thing that makes Kuiās masterful storytelling by implying things here and there until it forms a big picture frustrating#for meta. Like! You canāt prove Chilchuck has been poor/grew up in an empoverished family/environment. Thereās no evidence#but also you cannot tell me with a straight face that he isnāt and hasnāt like omg. But then it takes 30 pages to explain how heās coded#Stop showing and not telling Kui smh /j#Ask#I think a lot about the trolls comic and man he was already so tense and grumpy and yelling. I do think that guy was stress relief drinking
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My Original Character Heartsword: sentient sword given a body to control through magical means
T. Kingfisher's novel Swordheart: sword given sentience by having a man bound to it through magical means
#I THINK. im only like 4 chapters in or so#haiz reads things#i was going to read this book because i heard it had zale the non-binary lawyer from paladin's grace#but i am obviously drawn in by the title and thrilled about sentient swords#all caught up on the saint of steel series; im really enjoying it#BUT idk if i can recommend binging all the books at once - the romance structure is very similar and has p much the same beats#the fourth deviates a little bit#and it's a good structure#the romances are very enjoyable!! i just hoped for more structure diversity. they're also really really allosexual#which isn't bad but one does get a little bit tired of hearing about the same body part mentioned over and over#but i very much appreciate these books for prominently featuring big and fat women
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Taylor's happy pride comments this year just feel very Big Corporation Pretending to Be An Ally During Pride Month So They Can Make More Money to me given everything going on lately
#i do appreciate that (since she was called out for it like 1989 era ish) she's hired more diverse actors for her mv + diverse dance team#and i know she's donated and during lover era spoke *a little* in support of pro-lgbtq+ legislation#but dang now that things are tough for like everyone and she's at her most popular influential and rich she's doing the least#personal#negativity tw#discourse tw#taylor swift for ts
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anime haters are in the same category as rap and country and musical theater haters and they are all annoying and also inevitably the worst people to talk to
#I love dismissing entire histories and diverse arts based on stereotypes!#no I will not examine the shallow experiences and potential xenophobia racism classism and queerphobia playing into my instant dismissal!#to be clear: itās fine to not want to try new things. itās fine to be like: I have enough things#no person is capable of gaining a deep appreciation of every style of every art. sometimes you take a pass and that is OK!#what is not okay: summarily generalizing and dismissing it as justification or a point of pride! thatās ignorant bullshit every time!
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#after a whole year my girls delivered (as expected) šÆ#another great album (miniā¦ I want a full one so badly but I know how busy theyāve been)#they truly have such an amazing diverse discography already#their music has been incredibly well produced since debut and really highlights their vocals well#I love how they are 10 years into their careers but still constantly trying new things and showing artistic growth#you can tell how much they love what they do#SinBās rap in ClichĆ© I was gagged thatās a whole new tone for her I love it#I NEED to see ClichĆ©ās choreo itās so powerful and cuntyā¦ hopefully they pull an Untie with this one!#but Shhh! was the right choice for title track itās so catchy and danceable#Full Moon could be my number 1 and one of my favorite VIVIZ songs ever & songs this year but itās criminally short and missing a bridge :(#still LOVE it!! Cosmic girls VIVIZ šš¼ again something theyāve never tried before#I really like Hypnotize! I love their jazzy rnb tracks so much (like Overflow) suits their voice so much#this one also has a cosmic/ spacey vibe š fits with the Voyage (so many French titles Iām proud) concept š#Love & Tears is so special & emotional (written AND composed by our Umji š„¹) tho itās not something I would listen to often I still#appreciate it a lot (the production and their vocals are so good once again)#very very very proud of these girls š„°š„°š„°#viviz#voyage#kpop#girl groups#ggs#EP#album#mini#2024#music#eunha#SinB#Umji
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Fellas, can we stop qualifying raging bigots as "they're a great person, they just have different views I don't agree with"????
I get needing to maintain professional respect for the good of your organization but newsflash, this dude is not a good person. You could sidestep it with just the second part of that sentence -- "he has views I don't agree with (but we're both committed to our team)" or some noncommittal bullshit and move on. But defending the man as a salve to disagreeing with his bigotry is negating your point.
This wasn't just some offhand ignorant comment; the guy was unhinged and insulted just about every equity group out there other than hetero white men. Including trying to drag Travis' own partner into it and knowing exactly what he was doing when he did it.
This shit is infuriating and white men defending and excusing unacceptable behaviour of white men is just so fucking tiring.
#sorry travis but this is a giant fucking miss for me and i'm incredibly disappointed#(same with jason)#(not that any of these people would know or care about my opinions lmao)#this is not an all sides type of thing#i appreciate that travis pivoted to saying his parents both shared domestic labour and work equally#and that that was an excellent example for him and he couldn't imagine it any other way#and that he was so grateful for his upbringing for growing up in a diverse area where he interacted with people of all walks of life#and that he found that beautiful and enriching and formative#but... the cognitive dissonance that all these men are displaying is so fucking frustrating#like ffs the guy didn't say this bullshit because he was speaking at a catholic university#he said it because he's a raging homophobic racist misogynist#miss me with the 'the beauty of being on a team is that everyone has different opinions but we all work together for a common goal'
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stealing post because i NEED to post it otherwise id go insane
if you want me to take it down i can @ghostypeppers
#art#character artist#artist#artists on tumblr#freelance#on god if you can only draw the same kind of bodytype you are boring and uncreative#THERE ARE SO MANY DIFFERENT STINTONES BODY TYPES BODY MODIFICATIONS HAIRS CULTURES AND BACKGROUNDS#THAT COULD MAKE YOUR STORIES COME TO LIFE WITH FLAVOR AND CONFLICTS AND LOVE AND STRUGGLES#every single time someone sees decent representation of themselves it makes them happy#and why cant you put in the work and effort to make something/someone new?#even old ocs of mine ive changed from being white and skinny and blonde and indistinguishable facial features to not that#and it has made her so much more interesting and adds more culture that is not mine that i can look and learn and appreciate#take inspiration from in part and make her truely unique from any other character of mine#diversity is a beautiful gorgeous thing and it should not be SHIED AWAY FROM#if you avoid creating different body types and colors and cultures you are doing everyone a disservice. including yourself#no one is going to make you. but if you make yourself then you're going to appreciate it in the long run
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back to my other url <3
#abby doesnt shut up#Iām feeling extremely torn and conflicted at the moment!#i know for a fact that taylor has a good heart & I really appreciate all of the silent ways in which she embraces diversity#BUTā¦to do that and date Heelys boy and not speak out and then have pr spewing condescending things isnāt right#and Iām only saying this bc I love her deeply and I know for a fact that she is capable of being better#and it hurts but this is my only safe space. Taylor is the one constant in my life. this fandom is the only place in which I can be myself-#-without judgement and scrutiny of my Disability#like me calling her out 100% comes from a place of love and a genuine wish for her to use her platform positively#rn sheās getting so much support and $ from marginalized fans and fans in general#so the condescending pr coming out is hurtful and idk which of it sheās responsible for but nonetheless#I think itās okay to feel conflicted.#especially if you are marginalized in any way.#I think if we respectfully call for change itās okay and ppl who think itās over dramatic need to shut their mouths!!#also I thought the pride speech was sweet but the part where she said sheās posting and speaking out a lot ??????#I was in the audience like ???????
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something that really grinds my gears as I venture into other writing/bookish spaces is the fact that people have to apologize when stating their opinions/personal preferences when it comes to what they read or consume for fear of offending The Majority. Like there's this sudden hyper-defensive stance that fans or certain groups of people take about what they love and if someone else god forbid states (on their OWN account or a comment thread mind you, with others who agree with them) that they prefer not to consume those things or they don't love it as much as those people do then these people suddenly feel attacked??
Like. Imagine me obsessing over a show that I've binged a million times and then someone across the globe whispers the words "eh I don't really like that show, it feels overhyped and I don't get why people like it. I prefer this other show to that' and I DIVE ACROSS THE OCEAN to be like 'You're entitled to like that other show, but I don't get why you have to put down my show that I love so much in order to say that. Like that's just very rude of you to even verbalize that opinion in your own space of living and existing that's nowhere near my space of living and existing.'
Like??? People?? Do we not see how mad that is?? THAT'S what's happening in the book community rn and we're treating that like it's normal, I don't know. I get that people can cross a line when stating an opinion or make generalizations about people who consume certain things, but...I don't need someone else's validation to love what I love? If they don't like it or think I'm weird or whatever for liking it that's their problem (and their opinion)??? It doesn't say anything about me or change how I feel about the things I like? And if I'm around people who are bashing what I enjoy and I don't want to see that then maybe just...click away? delete their comment? click unfollow? follow more people who like what you love to drown it out? idk. People are entitled to not like what you love, that's what makes us all beautifully diverse. idk.
#inkoverted thoughts#maybe my first mistake was leaving Tumblr to look at other bookish/writing communities#and this wasn't even TikTok which I refuse to touch with a ten foot pole#but I just watched a YT video of a girl talking about things she hates in Web comics and it was obviously said with goodnatured humor#but she still apologized or had to clarify that like these are just her opinions and she's not bashing people who enjoy these things#and someone in the comments was like I hate that she had to do that bc people can't take a joke or respect others' opinions#and I didn't even clock it when I watched the video but I was like yeah you're right...#and then I go on Insta and I see an author being like#'in a time when spicy romantasy books are being obsessed over...I'm writing ācleanā sci-fi slow burn romance#and most people in the comments were like 'yes thank you I appreciate you adding some variety to the bookish community'#or 'there are diverse readers who like all types of genres its only that the romance readers are the loudest and dominating social media'#which is a separate thing that I do think is a valid point#but then a reader from the genre that's being pushed as The Majority came into the chat like#'good for you for writing a sci-fi slow burn - that sounds interesting but you don't have to put down other books when you say that'#and I'm just blinking at the comment like š#whooooo? where did OP put down other books???#all they did was say they're going against the grain and writing something less popular amongst the online book community#please learn reading comprehension#and fifth of all - if this upsets you why did you feel the need to click on it and comment like???#go back to your spicy romantasy community and talk to them I don't???? what do you gain from being in this comment thread??#I'm getting frustrated for no reason but it's just so mad to me that people have to walk on eggshells now to share what they like and don't#ON THIER OWN ACCOUNTS#mad#absolutely MAD#there was a separate debate that came up about the fact that people using ācleanā to describe non-smut stories implies smut is dirty#which I didn't even think that and I don't even think that's what people meant to imply when using that term#it's the same way you would use the word ācleanā to describe something PG vs something rated R or M in my opinion#but that's a whole other thing I'm not gonna get into#if you want a reason to be mad 24/7 then how about getting offline and looking at what's going on in the world? š#better use of your anger I can *promise* you
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i swear, every time i go into satine's tag, looking for neat things to reblog, i'm disappointed and lose faith in fanon a little bit more.
#Ā· ooc Ā» entranced by navy burnout silk velvet#'satine committed cultural genocide' is just a really bad take that isn't even supported by the evidence#she definitely makes mistakes but it isn't THAT#all she did was ban armor and most weapons on the planet of mandalore itself... which i don't totally agree with as the best way#but it wasn't like she was blanket banning the sector... and it was after an incredibly bloody civil war AND she was 18#that take was bad enough in the tags#now it's turning into 'satine was an ethnocentrist and committed cultural genocide'#and i'm just that ben affleck meme#they're taking one line from a guy who is more likely to be death watch or unaffiliated and smushing it with the lack of diversity#in the mandalore eps... when it has been stated multiple times by the animators that they were constrained by budget/time#i mean you can call that a copout and them lazy if you want but don't go out there and then slander that woman#does any of this matter? absolutely not. it is fiction#but boy is it tiring especially when i come occasionally across people who want to write with her who believe the same things#i'm not going to shift her to fit fanon and she's canon divergent now anyway so ĀÆ\_(ć)_/ĀÆ#also someone's muse is welcome to believe that and make her the villain in their story... she clearly is to some in canon but#ooc i do not appreciate
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multiple good covers of one of my favorite less-popular songs have just recently made themselves known to me 1000 healed 5 revived
#hey yt why didn't you show me these sooner though#whatever i'm just happy to have them now at all#it's just about introducing some auditory diversity#when i have a song stuck in my head and cannot fathom listening to anything else#but it would be more fun to change it up at least slightly instead of literally listening to the same thing#so many times that i stop truly hearing and appreciating it#hence. bouncing back and forth between like 3 to 5 different versions of the same song is ideal#peach rambles
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