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thepinkseashell · 8 days ago

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#have been coming to realize more and more over time that i am not a man and do not want to be a man #and that is kind of weird!#i dont knoa how to explain it like i feel like i have identified as an nb lesbian for a really long time #but also i feel like i very strongly identified as transmasc for a long time? and i dont think that ever went away necessarily #but i have just been thinking more recently like. i do not know if i ever want to fully pass as a man???#like ive always thought someday i will go on t and get top surgery and all that. and maybe i still will. but just like. idk #obv gender is not binary and neither am i but i think i always aligned myself with manhood more because masculinity is part of my identity #and its just interesting to be more aware of like. actually i do not want to be a man at all!!! i am glad i am not a man!!!#i am glad i get to be a lesbian!!!#and i dont think that has to lessen my experience of transness. yknow #like i am still trans and i am still masc and i am still nb and i am still a lesbian. but idk! i have been thinking about things differentl

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fossilizedhysterics · 9 months ago

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guess who finished tlok tonight and immediately had this come to him in a vision!!!!

#i. really like tlok. like a lot #i understand why people dont like it #and i can accept that OBJECTIVELY its not that great #but i had a fantastic time with it #anyways yeah. gay people #tbh. would not call zhu li and varrick normal. most queer straight couple on the planet.#hes a gay man. shes a lesbian. theyre in love. do you get it.#i dont have that many thoughts abt wuko. i really really like it though.#wu is like the webkinz milk cat to me. i need to throw him against a wall really hard.#and of course. korrasami. what is there to even say there #one thing i will say is before watching it i TOTALLY thought asami was a fire bender and also evil #like i kept thinking “yep this is when she turns evil and then theres enemies to lovers” but nope #not a bender or evil and honestly im glad #she totally wouldve been justified in becoming evil though. i sure wouldve #love her.so much #korra too ofc #i have SO MANY more thoughts but im gonna run out of space #last thing i will say is i am a guy who will just always prefer media i can criticize #love atla. but theres nothing there for me to really sink my teeth into or like bitch about #i love it when media is KIND OF BAD and i can RANT ANGRILLY about it #the legend of korra #tlok #legend of korra #korrasami #wuko #zhurrick #korra #asami sato #mako tlok #prince wu

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befuddledcinnamonroll · 9 months ago

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I am very happy we're gradually getting more GLs, and I know that every GL that comes out is pushing that door open just a little bit wider.

At the same time, I am really looking forward to the day where lesbians don't have to be portrayed as fashion icons or ethereal fairies, and their romance doesn't have to be entirely sweetness and light and perfect poses even when in the throes of passion.

When production executives accept that lesbians can have one night stands and fall in love after, or join an anarchist gang to figure out who hurt their sibling, or be part of a slightly incompetent crime family. That they can be gritty and sweaty and have tattoos, that some can like being ultra traditionally feminine while others say fuck that noise, that some are cis and some are trans, that we can have lesbians of all types and kinds and not restrict them to the patriarchal definitions of acceptable femininity.

#i am so glad we're getting more series #but the commonalities are getting a tad frustrating for me #i am really liking the neurodivergence in 23.5 #so there is definite progress #but i also would really like more diversity in my lesbians #please and thank you #gl series #ql series

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bunnyboy-juice · 3 months ago

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spent the first hour and change at work deleting some old files and am having a grand ol time laughing at myself for not realizing i was a lesbian sooner

#vulnerable tag rambles ahead please be kind abt them i didnt intent to ramble this much but i dont wanna delete it eitehr #me to every single man i have ever dated after 6mo-1y: yeah hey this really isnt working out i dont really know why but i really hate mysel #and i dont want to blame you because i dont think you did anything inherently wrong here; i think this is something about me but i need #space to figure out why im feeling this way [every single one reacted by telling me No i wasnt allowed to leave btw]#i hold very complex feelings about these relationships esp bc of them ending in very violent/chaotic ways most of the time #but its interesting to look back at it all and realize ive left every man for the same reason (which is that ive hated myself Every Single #Time ive dated a man) and its funny bc i recognized the self hate pretty early on w/ cishet men but when it came to queer men it was #much more confusing (esp w/ nto knowing Any lesbians at that point in my life). im so happy im a lesbian tbh #i have a lot of issues w/ the racism fatphobia and transmisogyny present in lesbian groups #and also coming out as a lesbian really truly saved my life. before i met my wife i was quite literally in a 3yr abusive relationship that #definitely would have died in if i hadnt realzied i was a lesbian and ran from him #its also weird seeing liek the hard evidence of the things that happened to me btween 2016-2020 tbh #cause that was such a bad time of my life. i truly dont know how i survived it but im so glad i did #like the three major relationships in my life b4 meeting my wife was: guy who was in college when i was in HS who stalked me when i left;#guy who was a year younger than me who cheated on me the entire time while telling me he was being victimized (he wasnt; this was very mess #guy who saw the very messy toxic ldr i was in and helped me dump my ex then decided that meant we were in a relationship [insert 3 yrs here #and admittedly all 3 years with him werent the same level of abusive but it was definitely unhealthy from the start considering I Didnt Kno #we were together until he wanted to celebrate vday and got mad i didnt know our anniversary - and like this isnt including the other stuff #that happened between those Relatonships[tm] (cause ive never been monogamous; these were just the Major Relationships)#like i genuinely think if i hadnt come out i'd be dead rn given just how dangerous my relationships were/continued getting #i am also so tired now that ive seen all this cause like. fuck i can barely believe it and i not only lived it but have PTSD about it #i should write about my life sometime. i feel like it'd be cathartic to try and make a tangible timeline and stories from the years ang stu #anyway yeah. be nice about the tag rambles. dont message me with pity or curiosity or anything about this. i dont usually talk abt this stu #publicly bc i hate the ways ppl start tryign to baby me when they realize my life has been extremely fucked up until only a few years ago #n im still working on accepting kindness from others bc of [insert life traumas here] but its a long process so pls respect my need for jus #being heard rn w/o too much pressure< 3 (but ig if u do read this can u like it cause i feel a little crazy seeing all the evidence of the #stuff i experienced now also cause fuck ik logically it was but also i cant believe it was all real still yk)

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morningmask27 · 3 months ago

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Tonight, right now, not even ten minutes ago, might have been the closest I got to an outright hatecrime

#morningtalks #Ask to tag #<- I have no clue what I'd have to tag this tbh #But for the story.#Me and my friend (crush) are walking at two am after quite the night. I am fully sober but she's got a few drinks and is just tired now #Like we're walking in silence she's just done type of tired #(part of me worries I was too in love with her tonight but I will do my best to rationalize it as Her Being Tired and not my fault somehow)#But yeah we're walking there and we see/hear a bunch of guys that are clearly not on their first drink #They plan to go to the bar we were so I'm glad we left but they are full on far right singing slogans about getting the leftists out #We cross each other on the street and they immediately begin asking us if we're lefties but then they see my pins #And the fact that we're two girls walking alone and assume we're both lesbians #Ify I obviously am. I have Pins lmao but my crush is not (?)#But yeah I had heard their slogans from afar and had already grabbed my scissors discretely in case something happened #I was genuinely just getting myself ready to fight them all just to leave my friend a chance to run if possible #But I was genuinely scared for her (and also for me but I have a bad habit of prioritizing others' wellbeing and especially here)#So they think we're lesbians and immediately start yelling they don't like lesbians and some other hurtful stuff #But it didn't fully enter my brain. I genuinely don't care #But I was still very afraid they DO something #Luckily they just walked away and we were left in peace but I was genuinely ready to do literally anything to not let my friend get hurt #By these men #I might see her a bit tomorrow. Probably not a lot but we'll see each other #And she doesn't seem to mind too much (she thought we'd see each other next week for class obviously and said “til next week”#(translated quite literally))#I thanked her for the evening still but I genuinely think she just needs to sleep and I don't have to overthink everything that happened #In the end #The first hours of the night were AMAZING though. Genuinely never been closer to her than there I adored every second of it #(and the other people were fun too but. She. Yano)#Anyways I have a thing at 11 I'll go sleep before being fully dead for that thing #But I might genuinely have a delayed reaction on those last events tomorrow #But now I gotta sleep too

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comradecowplant · 3 months ago

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I was on board for the season 1 nostalgia circle jerk (ily Seven ❤❤❤), I could even overlook the Interesting "put him in a scifimagic flesh & blood android body that will have zero further consequences to either Picard's personal journey or the greater scientific reality of such an invention" choice, but season 2 skywalker family legacy "Picard's ancestor is so important that she needs a secret time agency body guard thatfornoreasonlooksliketheladyhehasawilltheywonttheywith" baloney is not doing it for me. The entire season so far coulda been a TNG Q/time travel shenanigans 2-parter. Best part is the toxic yuri between Borg Queen and doc "we've got bad Marvel one-liners at home" jurati, otherwise I'm sadly getting pretty bored with Picard.

#i thought the nutrek hate was mostly typical disproportionate nerd rage but unfortunately the disdain seems largely deserved #even though it almost discouraged me from watching trek further bc of how cw show the writing is i am glad i watched discovery first lol #because i like cw slop sometimes and there was much i liked/had potential. and many moments i thought to myself 'that sounds #wrong or dumb but idk enough lore to know or be mad' that i with my new knowledge yeah id be mad about & it would have ruined the watch #i was mad enough about the Boring Gays Keep Getting Resurrected thing & other technical storytelling choices #and the aged-like-milk (despite already being apparent in 2018 that he was a hack) elon references lmao #speaking of skywalker bs this unnecessary heist insert is giving last jedi 😬 snoozing into my cereal rn!#seasons are too short for good fun filler episodes yet the entire season feels like one big bad annoying filler episode #ayeyaya..... anyway taking bets w myself if seven & raffi kiss onscreen or will s1 finale finger-entwinement be the only lesbian activity #dani talks about tv

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butmakeitgayblog · 1 year ago

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#anon #honestly I'm glad Alycia is finally getting some deserved tata appreciation she's been disrespected for far too long #i mean am I still a lesbian who looks at her neck back fingers and jawlike first????#yes #BUT when I do get around to the chesticle region? fantastic 10/10 no notes #also lips #and collarbones #and— ok I need to stop

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villalunae · 1 year ago

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stop 👏 telling 👏 lesbians 👏 to be 👏 attracted 👏 to 👏 MEN

#personal #SAW A POST. LOST MY MIND #''nothing changed u mistook a man for a butch and were attracted to them so really youre just small minded and should be okay with that #attraction bc clearly you hate yourself <3''#This Is The Lesbophobia We Are Talking About When You Guys Pretend We Cant Have Boundaries #like ohhh ishould just love a man instead <3 i should change my sexuality for you <3 i should just fuck guys huh <3 #how fucking dismissive of our experiences. how deeply sick and disgusting of you. i hope ur an adult so i wont feel bad ripping ur hair out #like how dare you! how dare you tell me NOTHING changed. how dare you look me in the eye and tell me that its the same #its not! its not. sorry some people are comfortable with labels that assert boundaries xoxo to you but im a lesbian bc i like women. not bc #i have an aesthetic attraction to a person. if i see a butch i think oh! a butch! a fellow lesbian! and am attracted #turns out to be a guy? oh! not a butch! not a fellow lesbian! nevermind :) and omg i am so normal for that <333 #like god. GOD. what a fucking piece of shit to tell lesbians we should just Let ourselves be attracted to men bc we secretly do anyway #top ten reasons i hate associating with ppl who flout no labels like it works for you im glad but you keep shoving that down my throat #and im going to commit vehicular manslaughter #i have boundaries for a reason! i am attracted to women! i dont like men! WHAT IS SO HARD TO GET THROUGH YOUR HEAD #stop TELLING every lesbian theyre secretly bi but theyre repressing and too attached to the label i will FUCKING kill you #ANYWAY. IGNORE ME LMFAO

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itsasooz · 2 years ago

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manchesterau · 9 months ago

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Jesus, i'm sorry that you were outed that's such a huge breach of trust, and could have been dangerous.

yeah it sucked when i found out, i told my aunt during a little family thing at a restaurant, she asked me if i liked girls and i said yes and unbeknownst to me she told my mom the same day. and that whole summer i was building up the courage to tell my mom and she confronted me one day on a car ride home and then told me my aunt told her so :////// but the second time when i came out as a lesbian i also told her in the car mkjnhgvfcdgvh

#yeah getting outed and then not knowing that you were outed for months is.....yeah #im just glad that she took it well bc even a few years ago it would have been unsafe for me to come out bc my family is......yup #this is when i was going as bi and then told me that she didnt believe that i really was and still to this day #being out as a lesbian she'll randomly say 'oh i dont really think you are #are you sure???' like she accepts me as a lesbian but it's weird #so.....yeah!#but idc i worked too damn hard to be proud of who i am to care about what anyone thinks at this point #i proudly say to their faces that im a lesbian and nonbinary

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aoifereal · 11 months ago

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Experience opening Reddit during work hours:

r/lrcast I thought my limited deck was good, but it went 0-3... Any thoughts? [Image of a pile of C- cards split over 3 colours]

r/actuallesbians what did I do wrong? [story about woman who's bisexual girlfriend cheated on her]

RECOMMENDED IN YOUR AREA r/casualuk I'm American, and I tried beans on toast for the first time - it's really good! [Photos of beans on toast without any cheese even]

r/butchlesbians is it weird that I like using a strap-on in bed? [person describing perfectly normal way to have sex and everyone is very sweet and nice to them]

r/discoelysium I said a racist thing and the game seemed to make fun of my opinions? [Guy getting clowned on in the comments]

RECOMMENDED IN YOUR AREA r/UKPF hi I'm considering moving to the middle east for a tax break. I don't earn much, just 350k. Is it worth it?

#aoiferealposting #i think it's a bit odd the bisexual woman cheats post always get the most upvotes and end up in my recommended but whatever i guess #presumably there are lesbians cheating on their partners too #also to be clear i am glad that people get support re sex lives and using strap ons and such. its very sweet and nice #its good! i remember when i realised that what i wanted sexually deviated from what i had been told i should want it was a lot im glad #people are nice to them.

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ninas-gf · 2 years ago

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i am officially apologizing in advance for the person i will inevitably become when arlecchino is added to the game.

#words cannot describe how glad i am that they made her a woman… and not just a woman but a PRINCELY WOMAN????#the way she presents herself + those red x-shaped pupils + her commanding voice = one pathetic lesbian in shambles (me)#i’m so excited to learn her lore��#and how she interacts with the other harbingers #i’m sorry but there is just a certain flavor of female villain that says gets me and i think she fits the mold perfectly

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cobaltfluff · 2 years ago

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my gundam experience has been "I don't know what the fuck is going on but I am very emotional and maybe crying"

#dust bunny #this has been witch from mercury as well as 00 #g witch was so good im so happy for the lesbians #i kept getting really emotional even though i forgot most of the plot details from week to week ksjfjdka #there's so much plot and so much political stuff I can't keep track of #and i guess a lot of the world building im not used to yet #BUT LET'S GO LESBIANS THEY GOT MARRIEDDDD #me with tears in my eyes as elan shows up #i was like i dont know what the fuck is going on or what youre talking about but i sure am crying #im glad it was basically a happy ending #WITH A WIN FOR THE GAYS WOOHOOO

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angeltannis · 1 year ago

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the bi Moze thing is so funny bc the whole drama around it was so stupid. One of the lead writers of BL3 was liking tweets stating that Moze was bi. Moze has a fucking pinup of a naked dude on Iron Bear. And yet when you stated the obvious, that Moze is clearly meant to be bi, a small group of fringe nutsos went INSANE over it. I got stalked, had these weirdos send my friends anons making up false claims about me, even had people draw “spite art” about it (which had to be the funniest part of all this tbh. Glad I could inspire you). All this for the lore book to come out and be like “Moze has a secret thing for Axton”. You love to fucking see it. 🙏

#the funniest part of all is that I AM A LESBIAN IRL #my sexuality has gotten real weird in recent years but I live my life as an out lesbian to everyone around me #so like. what would I have to gain here by ‘’’’’erasing lesbians’’’’’ lmao #the whole thing was WHACK. so glad I get to walk away with this W

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uranium · 1 year ago

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it is me and the older butch custodian at work against the world <3 i like her so much shes always talking about stuff shes done with her wife in the area when i say im bored and shes always trying to make sure im eating enough and staying safe i would fucking lay down my life for her

#clinging onto this woman like you promise you can grow old and still be a lesbian and have a wife? you prommy?#this is a very specific me problem but everyone in my life that once identified as lesbian is now bi and its left me feeling very alone #and like individually i am genuinely so glad these people are getting a grasp of their identities and becoming true to themselves :D #however. i am in a dyke wasteland. everyone has a jakey. im about to start going after all men with a baseball bat

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heirloommtomatoes · 2 years ago

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me when i was a cis lesbian saying that people who are bisexual and nonbinary are probably the pinnacle of human existence 🤝 me now being bisexual and nonbinary

#it's so weird changing your labels tho. why is that #like i'm bi! and i think i always...KNEW that to a degree?#me identifying as lesbian was wrapped up in a lot of things. the situationship i was in at the time lmao. me not being in a relationship #w a man or anything really for the first time in a long time and getting to think myself in a diff way.#and i don't love talking about it bc optically it just sounds like. okay so boohoo. LOL #but it's interesting on a personal level to like...#now i'm a person who looks v cis woman right.#and is in a relationship w a cis man #so it's like. i'm straight? optically.#and it's? idk it's odd but it's not? like *I* know how i feel about my sexuality and gender #but i'm like. am i still 'queer enough'?#OR ANYTHING* LOOOL I MEAN ANYONE**** i just noticed that oops #think about* myself #but the thing for me is this.#being treated like a straight woman? yuck sucks hate it #and i love my partner's family i really do! and i love my family! but it's so odd sort of being treated like i'm straight now #by ppl who aren't queer and aren't my partner lol he gets it #but i'm glad i typed this out bc i was paranoid i was like oh gdddd am i having another crisis #but this feels right. i just hate being treated like a straight woman when i'm neither of those things #and my PARTNER knows that #and it's not like i even want ppl to do anything differently really tbh! but all this talk of like. oh like so now you get married #and have kids. and i'm like. yeah i see that for myself w this person. but the way ppl talk about it i'm like.....#yuck! like yes that sounds lovely sure i would love to spend my life with a raise a family with this person!#but not as a straight woman! lol! and idk how to articulate it i really truly don't! hmm.#ellie yodels

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