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Ways that we tell each other apart that may or may not work for some of you:
One thing we noticed about ourselves is that our voices are very different from each other. Mine (Barbed Wire) is a lot deeper than Kandi's (who is very high pitched because they are a child). While it may come naturally to us, admitedly it is hard to seperate my voice from Sargent's or Lupus (other alters we have). So Think of what your voice is supposed to sound like and emulate it with the body's voice.
Name tests. Self explanatory. Go through he lost of names of alters you suspect you might be. Often times if you refer to "yourself" in third person (Example: I just don't know if I'm Vezzel or not) then you probably aren't them or you're co-con
If you have another relationship (, familial, platonic, or romantic) with another alter, then see if you are willing to be affectionate with them like "you" usually are. Vezzel is dating X, I am not. Vezzel would shower X in love and affection and would say they love love love them so much, but I wouldn't. Thinking of saying the things Vezzel would usually say evokes hesitation and discomfort. You'll want to look out for that.
If you're a system who has at least a few items you keep seperate for their members, then it's important to see which one you're more comfortable using. I'd rather not use the system blog unless I'm making system advice posts like these. This also works with our playlist's because of our different music tastes. NOTE: it is important to not use your alter's seperate spaces while they aren't fronting.
Writing down or remembering your opinions on things. Vezzel and I have differing opinions on things like Syscourse (We're both pro Endo, but it's the minute things) and how we should respond to people. Even if all of your system has similar opinions, there should be at least one that is slightly different from your own. (If there isn't that's okay.)
We are still a fairly new system, but this is what works for us. Might be easier for some, might be more difficult for others. Feel free to add on more things. Dividers and borders were used to make blocks of text easier to read.
Written by: Barbed Wire (Pronouns: @pluricfag )
#endo safe#pro endo#actually plural#actually system#plurality#syspunk#plural#pluralpunk#system things#plural system#plural things#sysblr#plural punk#pluralgang#systemgang#future is plural#plural help#alter help#headmate help#system advice#plural arvice#system help#vessel.log
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People need to start posting abt tips 4 headmates who are a different race from the body. We have 3 headmates who are not the same race as the body (Ephani → 🇺🇸, Price → 🇬🇧, & Kiwi → 🇯🇵) & they don’t care but Kiwi feels dysphoric & I don’t know what 2 do.
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Shoutout to in-system relationships that aren’t romantic in nature. To your headmates who are your parents, your children, your siblings, your best friends. To your headmates that love you so dearly, as a friend or as family or any other label. <3
#Maximino things#our host (Toni) helps me thru so much. I love her lots /p#system stuff#did system#traumagenic system#endo safe#dissociative identity disorder#pro endo traumagenic#headmates#alters
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It’s never okay to lock a headmate away, never. They could be the worst person in the world, you still shouldn’t lock them away. There’s a difference between keeping headmates away from eachother and taking away someone’s privacy, free will and connections. You are abandoning that headmate, you are telling them that they are not worth helping, that they don’t deserve to get better. If talking it out doesn’t work for them there are other options, I’d recommend giving them their own space to speak their mind without threat of mistreatment for it, for starters. If someone really doesn’t want help don’t force it on them, just let them know it’s always an option and leave it at that. -Ange
#I don’t want to speak on behalf of persecutors or anything I just feel like this needs to be said#since I’ve seen some plurals try to recommend imprisonment as a solution to persecutors who refuse help#tldr don’t do that#(I didn’t mention this in the post cuz frankly I think it’s more important to focus on the persecutors here)#(but imprisoning your headmates will likely make them more violent and more aggressive)#(so again)#(don’t do that)#endo safe#pluralgang#plural gang#endo friendly#inclusive plurality#pro endo#plural stuff#actually plural#plural system#plural community#pluralpunk#pro persecutor#persecutor#system persecutor#endogenic safe#endogenic friendly#pro endogenic
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Feel free to join us!
Anybody know we have an endo-safe discord server? It's specifically an adult-bodied space. It's open to systems of ALL types. No hate allowed, explicity. Featuring:
channels for nsfw, substance and other mature subjects
support areas
various general chats
plurality-specific channels
voice chat
several tailored roles
bots (including tupperbox, pluralkit, pokétwo, probot, autorole and more)
We're also coming out with a bodily 16+ server for those that may feel excluded. :3
DM us, interact with this post, or friend us on discord (bly_guy) for more details! Keep in mind: we're currently transitioning from manual to auto roles, so patience will be necessary! 😅
Links:
Plenty Plural Positive Server (18+)
Pluraltopia Server (16+)
#plural discord#system discord server#endo positive#endogenic positivity#headmate help#system help#plural help#system advice#discord server#pluralgang#pluralpunk#power to the plurals#endo friendly#endogenic safe space#endo pride#didosdd#mixed origin#endogenic#neurodivergent#neurodivergent pride#system pride#anti endos dni#sysmeds dni#system discord#system support#plural support#did#osdd#endogenic safe#endogenic friendly
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thinking about rewriting moonpaw (as someone who doesn’t rewrite wc) bc i am plural. bc i can make it my headmates’ problems too. for some reason my first thought was “she split a firestar fictive after growing up with stories about him. he’s a caretaker”
You can and you should!
I could go off about how one of the best things anyone can do as a portrayal of anything is to humanize the subject, especially of experiences as complex and misunderstood as plurality. That art is the way we connect with each other, exercise our imagination and our empathy, get others to understand our radically different lived experiences.
But do it because you want to.
Do it because you can see yourself.
Do it because it's cathartic to watch a character encounter with the same thoughts, emotions, and situations as you.
Sometimes, it even becomes answers to questions you'd been grappling with for a long time, and you learn something about yourself. If it feels good, pursue it. That's all the justification you need.
#bone babble#bones gives advice#I had a person reach out to me in DMs once to tell me that my portrayal of Bramble actually helped them work through some issues--#--with a headmate. And allowed them to start working on him to help him get better.#That was very flattering. I'm glad I could help#I can't imagine how hard it must be to work on helping out someone you can't get physical distance with#It sounds like having siblings but Harder#HASHTAG ONLYCHILDLIFE
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Plural tip for systems that track fronts; be lenient on tracking who may be active. Like, this is your brain, not the tax office. You don't have to perform a bunch of extremely specific checks just to make sure a headmate is truly active; you can just acknowledge their presence in whatever form that may take. Trust that they'll talk to you if they want something, and just let yourselves be. Even if they don't do anything, it still gives them history. Your headmates will appreciate having a place in your system's history, even if they don't remember exactly what they did or said in every single instance.
And even your front history isn't entirely accurate? They'll likely still appreciate that you think about them.
#plurality#plural help#simply plural#endo safe#plural positivity#positivity#this may not apply to every system of course#and it may not apply to every situation#but if you ever find yourself stressing on whether or not a headmate is “really” there or not#ask yourself what's the worst that could happen if you acknowledge them?
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"All" the Kindergarten 2 kids as ponies :D!
*All except the experimented kids lol sorry Madison fans…
Tiny bit of unnecessary exposition of my mlp au rules;
-The earliest a pony can get their cutie mark is around age 5, AKA kindergarten years, but it’s not abnormal to be a blank flank until age 18/puberty stops. The “prime” time for a pony to get their cutie marks is when puberty starts around age 10-15, cause this is when people start finding out who they are and all that stuff.
-In my au, ponies are the only sentient species. There is pony racism, though just like irl, it’s based off of the coat color and hair texture instead of species like in mlp. Though unlike in the show, people are much more accepting and have moved past those discriminatory views.
-Ponies start learning to use their magic/how to fly around age 5, and are usually mastered it around age 8.
Um I think that’s it for worldbuilding OK PONY TIME!
Lily is an earth pony! She got her cutie mark when she found Billy and ‘bloomed’ again after she ‘wilted’. It basically represents her resilience and determination after going through such a bad time in her life. “Waterlily” came from her actual name, and I thought it fit her nicely :-)
Billy is also an earth pony; he got his cutie mark in the second game when he successfully rescued the trapped kids with Lily. It represents his inquisitive personality and also matches his sister’s! :3 he’s slightly duller because of spending so much time in the lab. I came up with his name by just finding another kind of Lily that matches with Waterlily ^_^
Kid is an earth pony— he got his cutie mark on Monday after completing his first mission. The apple represents how he compartmentalizes his time in his head; how he has a certain amount of apples to complete a task. The compass shows how he’s able to help people with what they need. I made his name by just translating Kid into pony language :P
Nugget!! He’s a pegasus who’s alright at best when it comes to flying. He got his cutie mark before Monday, when he made his first Nugget Cave. It basically represents his love for digging and nuggets. He flies people up and down his Nugget Cave when they want to see, but since he’s still not the best at flying, he needs the nuggets to cushion their landing. I wanted to keep “Nugget” in his name, and Gold Nugget was right there, so that’s how he got his name lol!
Felix Huxley :0 he’s a unicorn with pretty good magic, he can lift most small objects and can pull around Ted if he feels like it. He got his cutie mark after Cain’s Not Able, it represents his loyalty to AppleSoft and his dedication to his reputation/image. His name slightly matches wirh Ted, though it’s supposed to be more “serious” and “business-y”.
Ted Huxley ^_^ also a unicorn, his magic strength is comparable to Felix’s. He got his cutie mark after the alt ending of Cain’s Not Able— because of the loops, both of them just woke up “randomly” on Tuesday with their marks. It shows his dedication to the company, but through his personal values instead of image. I came up with his name by trying to think of one that could be “nicknamed” two times, like how Theodore can become Ted and Teddy. So, only Felix calls him Stormy, while everyone else calls him Storm. Also, the suffix ‘Bright’ seemed nicer than ‘Flare’, even though they’re comparable in definition. So I thought it fit!
Monty is a unicorn, his magic is really only good for moving around small objects and not much more. It’s really helpful for making gadgets, which is also how he got his cutie mark! It represents his ability to make gizmos as well as being a darn good business man. He got it after he sold a bunch of stuff his first week of kindergarten. I thought the phrase “circular logic” fit Monty and that’s really it on his name lol
Ozzy! I’ve drawn him before but I changed his cutie mark slightly :P he’s a pegasus, pretty alright at flying but he doesn’t really care to get better at the moment. He flaps his wings when he gets overwhelmed :’) He got his cutie mark in science class after looking at a plant under the microscope. I came up with his name because he comes across as kinda soft and timid, like the word ‘weeping’, but can pack a mean punch, like the stinging nettle plant.
Buggs is an earth pony that got cutie mark by just… overall being a delinquent. But! He can be smart, which is where the magnifying glass comes in; it represents his ability to make and go through with plans if he wants to. His name doesn’t represent much, I just thought it fit really well :3
Jerome was a TOUGH one to work with cause there is NOT a much to work with with him :( but!! I tried!! So firstly he tried SO hard to make his cutie mark a yo-yo. But he ended up getting it on Tuesday, representing his resilience for getting thru his emotional turbulence. He’s a unicorn with moderately strong magic. I came up with his name just by looking up pony name ideas because again I had no idea how to do him and I thought it fit!
Carla my beloved ❤️ she’s a pegasus and by far the best at flying out of everyone, despite having kinda small wings. She got her cutie mark by sneaking into Dr. Danner’s room for the first time and changing the lesson plan— it represents her being sneaky and skillfully getting into places she shouldn’t. “Stormchaser” came from how Carla loves doing things she knows is dangerous/will get her in trouble for the thrill of it, just like storm chasing. Since Ted already goes by Storm, she goes by Chase.
Cindy’s a pegasus, but she’s the least skilled at flying despite having the biggest wings. She got her cutie mark by bullying Lily in front of the whole class 😭 it represents her being feisty and explosive while having such a sweet appearance. Her name is ironic, considering she’s the least gentle kid at school, probably.
Penny’s our last one so far! She’s a unicorn with the strongest magic, as it was mechanically enhanced. Her cutie mark is a walkie-talkie going off with a heart in the display, showing her tattletale-y nature despite having good intentions. She got it the first time she “sent someone to the principal’s office”. She is honest at heart, which is where her name came from.
Skill of magic from strongest to weakest:
-Penny
-Felix
-Ted
-Jerome
-Monty
Skill of flight from strongest to weakest:
-Carla
-Nugget
-Ozzy
-Cindy
THAT’S ALL for this batch!! I’m working on the adults AS WE SPEAK and will actually include the hall monitors this time lol. Anywyas PLS LIKE PLS REBLOG TYYY
#kindergarten#kindergarten game#kg fandom#kindergarten 2#kindergarten kid#kindergarten protagonist#ted huxley#felix huxley#kindergarten felix#felix and ted#kindergarten lily#kindergarten fanart#kindergarten ted#kindergarten billy#kindergarten nugget#Billy and lily#Kindergarten penny#kindergarten ozzy#kindergarten monty#kindergarten au#kindergarten buggs#kindergarten Jerome#kindergarten cindy#kindergarten carla#Fun fact my headmate helped color Buggs she made that little pattern on his back and I loved it so I kept it#my little pony#mlp design#mlp au#fanart#ponygarten
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who is shardasol who is eriware i am interested in hearing about this :0 no pressure of course
to give a simple answer; it's not a "proper" plurality if you're worried about categorizing that sort of thing, but they're pretty much eridan and sollux's respective introjects of each other! it's all erisolsprites fault <3
for context, the premise of the au is that eridan has decided to self isolate on earth c, and erisolsprite has managed to end up with him due to sprite bullshit to make sure he doesnt do any Extremely stupid shit-- which blows up in his face when hes the reason eridan (and later sollux) end up getting an extra person in their brains
so then THERE is where we get shardasol and eriware :) their entire gimmick is that they're formed from extra memories of eridan and sollux that erisolsprite put in their opposite heads, and they borrowed bits of their host's personality traits, interests, and perspectives of their other to grow into the people they are. they are their own people at the end of the day! even if they like to say they're like a manifestation of eridan and sollux's heart for the other-- which is. yknow. how i've ended up with four different versions of erisol in this damn au LOL.
#tmos opens mail#elderflowerprince#eridan ampora#sollux captor#erisol#erisolsprite#they DO get proper bodies to use outside of being headmates later! but ive already drawn so much today LOL#anyways god. erisol. sharderi. solware. shardware. sharderi is my favorite im ngl its so fucking funny. shardasols so whipped#'yeah hey if sollux doesnt want you hes stupid beyond help. will literally kick his ass if he cant see how perfect you are' YOU ARE GAY!!!#and you know erisolsprite is forever suffering from all this shit#his personality donors are already dancing around each other and now theres twice as many of them being stupid#uugh desperately trying not to spoil plot beats i have mapped out vs wanting to be like LOOK AT THEMMM lmfaoo#anyways. shout out to that one user who was like 'aw they introjected each other <3' on my fanart ages ago it snowballed this into motion
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I’ve toiled with the idea of being transfem numerous times. By that, I mean I there have been a couple phases in my life where I thought I was transfem. I always snapped out of it though. every time though, I’m just aching to be pretty, have long flowing hair, wear pretty clothes, but I can’t have that. I’ve accepted that. No one in my life would be happy if I went down that route so I just tough it out.
No one in my life would be happy if I went down that route
Wouldn't you be?
And isn't that enough?
#Do whatever works for you cutie#but it breaks my heart that you'd stop your happiness for someone else#(this feels kinda dumb to say now... but have you seen “I saw the TV glow” it might help you figure this out)#but regardless of what you do... Do still take care of yourself will you cutie?#(Oh and an even sillier suggestion that I'm still giving genuinely since I think it would seriously help:#Consider manifesting a headmate who will forcefem the both of you (come to my DMs if you'd need help starting))#Goodluck cutie
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willogenic systems are 100% valid and not faking! Most of us don’t even claim to have DID/OSDD,so yh
-💗🌸/🩵🎀
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#anti-endos aren't smart enough to understand this#they would rather swear up and down that everyone whos system didnt form from trauma is fake#when we see willogenic and endogenic systems we're actually happy their plurality didn't form from bullshit/suffering/trauma#we have DID and don't hate them for existing and things discovered by them have helped traumagenic systems flourish#like how tulpa forcing practices help polyfrag systems form their fragments into full headmates/alters#anti-endos don't like the above statement at all#plural community#pluralgang#pluralpunk#endo friendly#plurality#pro endo#mixed origin system#traumaendo#endogenic safe
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uhhh… I think we have a new creature in our brain :0
he is the embodiment of being tired/sleepy all the time, he’s an absurdist, gives off stoner brother/cousin vibes (even though he doesn’t do drugs at all), loves lofi jazz music, is probably an objectkin of light emanating objects (like streetlights, lamps, twinkle lights, christmas lights, etc.), and tyler has a massive crush on him LMAO
also also, if anyone knows of any xenogenders related to being sleepy, lights, chill/cozy vibes, lofi music, and dawn/dusk (the time), it would be super cool if you commented/reblogged with them :33
#plural#plural system#pluralgang#new headmate#headmates#pro endo#pro willogenic#xenogender#xenogender help#plural advice
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FUCKKKKKKKK
I GOT A HYPERFIXATION ON THE CLAIM ADJUSTER AND NOW A FACTIVE IS FORMING
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
WHAT DO WE DO???????
THIS IS OUR FIRST FACTIVE-
HELP :(
#DDD#the claims adjuster#claims adjuster#the adjuster#adjuster#system#system help#headmate#new headmate#endo#endogenic#endogenic system#endo system#mixed origin#multigenic#multigenic system#mixed origin system#willo#willogenic#willo system#willogenic system#stressgenic#stressgenic system#factive#factkin#fact kin#introject#plural#plurality
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questioning schizospec + known plural culture is are these voices in my head in a schizophrenic way because the other alters can’t hear them and they don’t really act like alters or voices in my head in the theyre just weird alters way
help
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#schizospec culture is#schizospec#schizo spectrum#psychosis#psychotic#actually psychotic#neurodivergent#plural#actually plural#plural system#plurality#osddid#cdd inclus#im not sure anon. maybe someone in the notes can help#we're a psychotic system but our headmates have always been distinct from voices
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hello ! we wanted to create a blog just like @/is-this-plural, but the main difference is we are anti-endo !
about us:
collectively we use he/him pronouns, for the most part, but if you're unsure, feel free to ask !
we are only one system running this blog, so if submissions are slow, give us some time ! we will get to you, we promise <3
those active here will sign off using their respective emotes, which is as follows;
mod 🦉- he/it
mod 💜 -he/him
mod 🎀 -they/she
DNI;
-> honestly, we dont have much of a dni, but if you are a (pro-)endo, then we do ask that you stay in your lanes ! endo-neutral or whatever its called are fine to interact 💖
how to submit / rules !
-> through asks ! (anon or not, up to you!)
-> tagging us in reblogs or posts ! -> you DON'T have to be a system to submit something !! singlets can submit and interact freely <3
-> simply messaging us, if messages are on, and we'll post it for you !
-> or the good ol fashioned way; using tumblr's submit button !!
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some additional context to the rules/what our purpose here is: x
the rules are that ! there are no rules, if we, as a medically recognized system, see that something could be plural, even if you have to squint, then we (and you, by proxy!) deem it so !!
not everything is going to be plural !
that's all there is to it !! this blog is 100% for fun, and not trying to diagnose anyone or anything
#mod 🦉#mod 🎀#mod 💜#in all of our tags so we can find this easily <3#did system#actually did#dissociative identity disorder#complex dissociative disorder#ptsd#didosdd#mental illness#did community#did osdd#osdd#osddid#osdd system#actually osdd#did#did alter#did headmate#did fictive#fictive heavy system#fictive help#did support#anti endo#endo dni#dni endos#endos not for you#pro endos dni#endos do not interact
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Hi! Can i have a headmate based on these pictures? Like a dumb bimbo who likes making blogs and rentries and playing video games! Could you give them a typing quirk if you do that?
✮ ⋆ ˚。𖦹 ⋆。°✩. ✮ ⋆ ˚。𖦹 ⋆。°✩
જ⁀➴NAMES- Cy, Cyn, Uzi, Amani, Audacity, Zero or Kandi
જ⁀➴PRNS- ANY!!
જ⁀➴AGE- 16
જ⁀➴GENDER- EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. I Imagine he likes to collect identities like Pokémon cards XD
જ⁀➴SPECIES- Human
જ⁀➴ SEXUALITY- Pansexual
જ⁀➴ROLES- no specific role!! Just fronts to do one of her Intrests and goes back when she gets bored :D
possibly a mood booster though!!
જ⁀➴LIKES- HUGEE MySpace user. Absolutely adores making cardds, reintres,, Playing video games and making goofy little side blogs that she probably spend all of her time decorating it instead of actually using it XD
definitely wants to start a ghost hunting channel or something of the sort!
જ⁀➴ TYPING QUIRK- R£pl@c£$ l£tt£r$ lik£ this!! (Translation: Replaces letters like this!!)
✮ ⋆ ˚。𖦹 ⋆。°✩. ✮ ⋆ ˚。𖦹 ⋆。°✩
[Requests are open!!] 🌙
#build a alter#build a headmate#did system#did community#alter help#alter packs#build an alter#endo safe
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