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[i-like-forcefem]

You ever hear that old chestnut about how most people neglect the part of the story of Icarus where he also had to avoid flying too low, lest the spray of the sea soak his feathers and cause him to fall and drown? You ever think about how different the world would be if Icarus died that way instead? If the idiom was to Fly To Close To The Sea? A warning against playing it far too safe, about not stretching your wings and soaring properly? You ever think about how Icarus died because he was happy?

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familiar deal

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Saw your post about finding people irl.

I'm also very bad at meeting people but what I did is check if there are like local queer groups in my area, have you tried anything like that?

Good Luck!

Thanks!!! Amazing advice I think does go for any lonely girls who read this!

But sadly have tried that and have we only have youth groups around here ^^'

That said a lil update for those interested: I've started using Grindr and actually it's Exactly what I wanted for a networking method

Do be warned that 97% of attention will be from unwanted men! The culture on that app is terrible, -But! The remaining 3% has some incredibly nice local queer girls you'll ever meet- and the app makes it really easy to talk to a lot of people (and if you're looking for non-queer guys you'll be swimming in them- but do stay safe!!!)

Even found myself multiple incredibly sweet interested doms! ^^ (also lovely cuties!)

(and like dozens if you count the cis guys- like I never really got the "trans girls get seen as sexual objects" thing before- but yeah now I do)

But if you go into it expecting to block most people you interact with you can find absolutely lovely people that live nearby!

Subs- Doms and everything in between! And a very casual "start talking and see where it goes" mood behind everything, it's lovely!

Though do be warned it gets you in touch with people, you still need to keep yourself safe and it doesn't stop people from being mean!

Girl blocked me without a word the as soon as showed my face when she approached me and mentioned multiple times I'm prehrt and incredibly insecure- least you could do is appolgize -w-

But it doesn't really bother me as much- and I've had a lot more nice interactions that have stuck with me! Just know that if you're going to use it- there's lots of folks that forget they're talking to a person and not a kink despenser

Anyway! Consider it if you're also lonely, make sure you're doing everything safely, and have some fun <3

[i-like-forcefem]

*points at nyu* cat

*points at self* cat

(hai mrow :3)

Mreww!!!

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Don't get me wrong I love being fully passing but it can be weird sometimes.

Somebody said that they loved the name my parents choose. I'm like uhh yeah it's really nice. The urge to say I choose it myself was high.

But it can be hilarious. At the start of my apprenticeship when I hadn't gotten my name. Pretty much everybody knew because when they did attendance my name came up and then I'd say but call me Lucy please.

As my deadname was neutral this one guy didn't get it. On a random as we were joking I made a dick joke and he was SO shocked I think I broke him for the day. He literally didn't believe me, absolutely convinced I was lying. My NB friend and I just lost it.

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*points at you* catgirl

*points at You* girlgirl!

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to anyone in these online spaces who feels like they're under pressure to be transgender i'd like to assure you that you are. buy those hormones online, permanently alter yourself with surgeries, change your name, end your father's bloodline, join a polycule, bark like a fucking dog for me DO IT DO IT NOW NOW NOW!!!!!!

[i-like-forcefem]

“No silly, I’m not gonna misgender you. I’m going to miss-gender you. Your gender is miss now, put on the maid outfit.”

Today on asks that made howl

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So like once everyone is forcefemmed what happens then? What happens on day 1 after the forcefemolution? Do we start forcefemming those who aren't as femme so that they can be even more femme? Will we reach femme singularity? These are the questions I want answers to.

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Gentle reminder you're allowed to transition, if you'd feel you'd be happier as girl- Be one!

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i wish we had textpost editing back so i could change boyfriend to girlfriend and pronouns on funny posts. that's all id use it for

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HIII I just wanna say that your posts have actually helped me a lot for my journey and that I tried on so many new clothes because of your posts! I just wanted to say that you’ve helped me out a ton!!!!!!

Thanks a lot for going out of your way to say this cutie <3

It really helps a ton, and I want this post to get you to try out an even cuter outfit for yourself, you deserve it, you made someone else smile due to how cute you're being, so you should dress adorably!

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I hope you have an excellent day and your smiles are limitless 😈

I hope your gender is never incorrectly judged or treated as a metric of your mental health hehehe I’m so evil

I hope you find yourself among others you feel comfortable with expressing your full identity and they respond well >:3

Thought crimes like this will be punished with 50 forcefem sessions and 3 years in the plushy pile-

I hope you'll learn your lesson you villain >:3

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we’re the same

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Awwww, now look at you all ready for bed <3 So snug in your pink pajamjams So adorable with your hair tied up in little bows So happy as your feminine self~ Ready to depart to dreamland~ I wonder what you'll dream of, skirts, bows, puppies, cuties, or perhaps,

memories of your dreary past. And how it led to your euphoric present. the happiness you feel, knowing you get to dress up again tomorrow~ Each day filled with more skirts and makeup, more people calling you cute, more ways to plunge further into feminine bliss My little cutiepie~

Sweet dreams love <3 Can't wait to doll you up again tomorrow~

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Maybe try getting some irl friends to "play dress up on you"? In my experience girls love picking out outfits for people

I'd love that a lot, but sadly don't have irl friends I'm close enough to to ask this ^^' Not to mention it'd be incredibly embarrassing!

I have been trying to make more queer irl friends lately though! I really wish I can find a girl to dress eachother up with soon, but sadly have not made much progress ^^'

Not sure if anyone would have advice for how to find such girls? Im trying to stop being such a shut in- but I don't know where I should even go to meet people?

Still thanks for the wonderful advice anon, and I'll be sure to do what I can to make it real <3

[i-like-forcefem]

The first time going in public as a girl is special, finally showing your true self to the world.

The first time going out is scary, you're not confident in yourself, you don't know how anyone will react.

The first time going out is invigorating, they're kinder then you'd dare dream, you look better then you'd have imagined, and you feel more you- than you thought possible.

The second time going out will be just as lovely, and the third, and the fourth...

It'll be a bit quieter by the hundered time- but, it's stil nice... it's you.

All prettied up, going about your day as normal. Such a wonderful normal to have.

Let's have your first time soon, alright?

It'll be normal before you know it~

But won't ever stop being special <3