#having to walk on these eggshells
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it's so frustrating dealing with a friend that seems set on finding imaginary slights against their person and seethes in silence waiting for you to figure out what you did 'wrong' this time 🤦♀️
#this is the fifth time since october i've invited her somewhere to catch up and she said no#always with some excuse#which. sure. i can't verify#maybe the 8th time in the last year she refused for some reason or another#but there's only so many times you can give someone the benefit of the doubt#when she never initiates anything and just waits for us to ask her out#and if you don't happen to do that within the secret interval of time she is available and which she never discloses#she registers it as a slight#i'm so tired of these stupid mind games how old are you/??#also she is SO hard to get hold of. never answers anything on any messaging app for days on end including the weekends#even if the proposal is time sensitive#girl you are NOT that busy bffr#i remember we invited her to see barbieheimer and she did not freaking answer on time. as usual.#and we had to get tickets without her bc the time slots quickly sold out#and ofc she was pissed at us bc she's can't be bothered to reply 🤦♀️#she always is pissed even when it's clearly her fault#when she clearly sees the message bc she DOES check the apps whaddyaknow#and the one time we did manage to see each other she had the gall to propose that we go out more often!!!#and then never initiates anything and refuses everything#ik if i were to recount this to a third person they would tell me she already checked out of this friendship#it's so stupid#having to walk on these eggshells#bc we didn't even have a falling out she's just finding pretexts to become offended#that was been her modus operandi since the freaking pandemic#good lord the stories i have#lemonposting#anyway i'm bummed out now
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yeah so this was insane
#i feel like too many people reduce this interaction to jason being like ‘lol same’#but idk :/#this chapter is from jason’s pov#and leading up to it he’s like ‘people keep walking on eggshells around me bc of the the michael varus stab wound’#and he hates it so when he goes on deck to help out with the storm#everyone’s like wtf except for percy#and jason states how much he appreciated percy not treating him like a sick kid#and i feel like it’s echoed in this sentiment where jason could say so many things like#‘you should never feel that way’ ‘im here if you need anything’#but he doesn’t make percy feel alone in his desire to just…. end it all#which ik for some people that doesn’t work but you’re not a character in hoo and percy is dealing with so much guilt#and he can’t tell annabeth bc she’s a main aspect of that guilt#and he doesn’t wanna guilt her more and he feels ashamed and when he describes this he feels weird for feeling it#so having jason this tough guy be like ‘yo i understand it bc i felt the same way#that’s gotta mean a lot to percy#also insane how jason who also struggles to display vulnerability#allows it in one of few times in this moment just so percy this guy he’s supposed to be jealous about#feels comforted and not alone in his guilt and shame#and also it’s just insane how jason’s wanting to kay em ess does not get talked about AT ALL#and just seeing his mom and the pressure of new rome getting to him#like this scene is insane and i’ll never shut up about it#also ignore me i’m just finishing my reread of hoo that took all summer#jason grace#percy jackson#pjo#ashla.txt
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yeah to me it feels like the popular idea that John was homophobic/beat his kid(s)/taught them that having emotion makes you weak is just ppl choosing to interpret 'abusive father' in the shallowest most black-and-white movie villain way possible. when the ways he fucks them up in canon are so much more interesting and complicated.
#if anything it seems like his problem is being excessively emotional and fragile to the point where they had to walk on eggshells around him#he was like step 1 parentify 1st kid until he believes desire is inherently selfish and that it's his job 2 save the entire world.#step 2 make other kid a Symbol of Lost Innocence in a way that subtly Others and Infantilizes him.#step 3 isolate them so they only have each other step 4 tell one to 'save or kill' the other step 5 DIE.#supernatural#john winchester
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i think a lot of people in the fandom have a bad habit of acting as if aziraphale should know everything we, the audience, know about crowley, and that he should therefore be more sympathetic to feelings that aziraphale literally doesn't even know crowley has, because crowley hasn't told him.
#good omens#not to mention how aziraphale is autistic coded and as an autistic person i have been made to feel bad for not reading others' feelings#and acting accordingly when i literally could not and did not read them.#people expect you to “read between the lines” when you literally CAN'T#and put the onus on you to do that because they don't want to make the effort to communicate effectively with an autistic person#so you teach yourself to walk on eggshells around everyone and take notice of every little emotion they may or may not be showing#just to minimize the chances of upsetting anyone#sound familiar? congrats you may be autistic ❤️
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I like to imagine AU's wherein Iruka is only a year younger than Kakashi solely because I think it's really funny to imagine what it woulda been like for them to be in school together. They exist in separate classes, obviously, but please imagine Child Genius Kakashi who is The Absolute Most Perfect Student having to deal with Local Menace Iruka who is The Exact Opposite Of A Perfect Student just down the hall and grinding his teeth about it. Iruka thinking Kakashi is the most stuck up person alive. Do you see my vision
#naruto#kakairu#and then sakumo dies and iruka's one of few people who doesn't walk on eggshells around him#iruka can take his anger and his yelling and the fights bc it's what they've always done#you can even have it as a double AU where they both join ANBU at the same time#Hound and Tanuki who work in perfect synergy#that sort of thing
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Deeply deeply attached to the idea of Potemkin and Dizzy being friends and an unreasonably large portion of that is the thought that she's basically one of the few things he would be able to hug and not immediately reduce to paste
#do you think he has ever been held before#do you think he's ever physically touched a human being in a non-combat setting since his mutations manifested#even with his containment suit he constantly has to be restraining himself to avoid accidents#his existence is walking on eggshells and being hypervigilant#how much does that have to fucking suck#I mean maybe someone could touch *him* if he sat very still and was incredibly careful#but not being able to touch or hold anything without decimating it has got to be a stressful way to live#I can imagine her throwing her arms around him since Dizzy is a naturally affectionate person#then expressing surprise at him not reciprocating the gesture#and after finally convincing him that she'll be fine and he has nothing to worry about he's still as hesitant as humanly possible#but as soon as he realizes she isn't exaggerating and he isn't going to kill her he fucking liquefies#please the man is so touch starved he's in desperate need of an indestructible cuddle buddy#potemkin#guilty gear#op back on her bullshit
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kinda a dumb prayer request, but you guys please pray that our old cat and our new cat stop trying to kill each other get comfortable with each other? and that the new cat gets more comfortable with our dog who just wants to her friend?
#prayer request#I have been walking on eggshells all for like 2 weeks and I want it to stop thank you very much
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the two skeletons may reveal the death of the Princes? 👀
I'm not super familiar with this topic, tbh. From what I can understand, it's possible, but it's equally possible that DNA testing may not actually prove or reveal anything regarding the Princes.
Context: In 1674, workmen found two skeletons in a wooden box in the Tower of London, where they had been buried 10 feet under the staircase leading to the chapel of the White Tower. Charles II ordered the bones to be reinterred in Westminster Abbey in 1678, and a Latin inscription written at that time translates to: "Here lie the relics of Edward V, King of England, and Richard, Duke of York".
In 1933, the bones were examined by Lawrence Tanner, William Wright and George Northcroft, who concluded that they belonged to two children around the correct ages for the Princes, and that one skull showed evidence of death by suffocation. No further scientific examination was conducted, although many believe that re-examination with improved techniques and DNA sampling could provide a more accurate analysis. However, to disinter a body from the Abbey, permission has to be granted from the reigning monarch (ew), which has not been granted as of yet.
Many members of the R3 Society hope that the bones will be proved not to be the Princes, because they feel like it will vindicate Richard due to the absence of explicit, tangible evidence of their deaths. Those who believe Richard III was guilty (he was) believe that if the bodies were the Princes, it would prove they were murdered. If examinations reveal that were the Princes, and reveal manner of death was violent, then yes, the latter seems reasonable. But we don’t know what will will show up in the results - if they are ever allowed - and it's entirely possible it won't matter to the current case.
To quote @seethemflying from this post:
“Most scholars agree it will not actually prove anything at all. If the bones are the princes, it just proves that they died in the Tower, not who murdered them. If the bones are not the princes, it just means these bones belong to someone else. The Tower of London is old, and was built on part of Londinium's Roman wall. Pre-medieval and even Roman human remains have been found on the site before, it wouldn't be a surprise if these bones dated to any point before the 17th century […] Whether the bones are or are not the princes can therefore do little to answer the central questions about who killed these little boys.”
For example, there are a few sources - both contemporary and post-contemporary - that suggest water may be involved in the Princes' "disappearance" (murder). We don't know the exact circumstances, but if the Princes were disposed off in such a manner, we cannot expect to ever find their bodies.
Ultimately, regardless of the identity of the two skeletons, the Princes were almost definitely were murdered, and Richard III was almost definitely the one who murdered them. We do not know it "for sure", the same way we do not know "for sure" if Arthur of Brittany, Edward II, Richard II and Henry VI were murdered (and how), but all of them almost definitely were and it’s simply disingenuous to pretend otherwise. It’s equally disingenuous to act as though all the above-mentioned cases were clear-cut examples of murder while the case of the Princes is somehow a more Complex and Confusing one which you have to choose your words more carefully over when it's....really, really not (see: the matter-of-fact way they talk about John and Arthur VS Richard and the Princes). Either you should analyze all these cases with the same level of assertion/uncertainty, or don't analyze them at all.
Also, contrary to the claims of Ricardians, who believe that nobody accused Richard III until the Tudors, there are a range of independent contemporary sources who firmly believed he killed his nephews. It also makes zero sense for Elizabeth Woodville, Elizabeth of York and Edward IV's supporters, who were the ones to raise Henry Tudor as an active claimant to challenge Richard III in the first place, to endorse Henry in any way if they thought that Edward V or Richwrd of Shrewsbury might still be alive. The fact that they did can only mean that they knew/believed that the Princes were dead (though I think there was considerable ambiguity on the exact circumstances behind those deaths). It's simply illogical to pretend otherwise.
#ask#sorry but I'm really fed up with how much people have to walk on eggshells when discussing the Princes#(and Edward II as well tho I don't think it's comparatively as widespread in popular history as that of the Princes)#(also the way a few blogs/historians are now trying to argue Henry VI actually died of grief...please Stop)#it's really zero steps forward 10 steps back 🤡#we don't explicitly tangibly know if they were murdered. we don't explicitly tangibly know 90% of things in history#but you can still use your brains and come to the only logical conclusion possible which is the fact that they undoubtedly were#princes in the tower#english history#edward v#richard of Shrewsbury
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"infantilise adora" guys, is it infantilization to actually treat a person with respect and not turn them into their partner's punching bag?
also adora isn't terrified of catra? hold on..
ohhh right, my bad! that's not the expression of fear, adora is just so in love with catra, she forgot to smile or put on a pleasant expression. how stupid of me!
#/s#obviously#spop critical#spop salt#spop criticism#spop discourse#spop#she ra#anti spop#anti catra#anti catradora#anti c//a#antic//a#anticatra#anticatradora#anti stans#also love the way they had to mention “at the start and after catra joins the rebellion” lmaooo#as if thats not only 15% of the show#not to mention adora was also scared of catra or at least having to walk on eggshells around her then
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I like the idea that Reiner and Annie both knew if anyone in the cadets accidentally pissed Bertholdt off enough he could actually blow them sky high.
#he sleeps poorly one night and Reiner and Annie walk on eggshells the whole day worried he’s going to quite literally blow#someone says the colossal was ugly compared to other titans and Bertholdt is just standing in the corner like >:(#Reiner: haha nooo don’t transform right now ur too sexyyy hahaaa#idk what this post is I’m sorry#props to Bertholdt I would have blown at least one idiot up per day#attack on titan#shingeki no kyojin#aot#aot memes#bertholdt hoover#reiner braun#annie leonhart#or if you wanna be funky:#berthold hoover#spoilers#aot spoilers
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“all these INSUFFERABLE TRANNIES words are so poorly defined, i, the clever nonbinary intersex person, know so much better and i say the words are defined like this and that definition is bad” hey i wanna bash my head against a wall, our language accounts for nonbinary people, you just ignored that fact. our language includes intersex people, you are ignorant to how it does. you are confused about wether or not you’re tma or tme? here’s two simple questions, did society assign you male, either at birth or later in life? and are you not in fact male and perhaps closer to being a woman or even nonbinary? if you answered no to either congratulations you’re fucking tme, it’s literally so fucking simple. and your “exempt” status only means “transmisogyny never hurts me ever” if you willfully ignore our words. the exempt is meaning you are exempt as a TARGET of transmisogyny, not it’s effects. as an intersection of systems of oppressions it will hurt people, fucking duh, but we know the target and it’s not ill defined, attempting to claim as such is attempting to redefine transfeminine people out of existence and i have to patience for you
#some people i trusted cuz they pushed back against transandrobros started to pull this shit#and i just can’t believe it’s real#like guys and i do mean guys it’s a lot of trans men#with a smattering of nonbinary transmascs and their cis friends who impersonate us#i’m so sick of this shit#i don’t trust any of you anymore#and then they complain abt transfem separatism like#you made up a boogeyman to explain that your shitty behavior makes people not trust you#because you demonstrate no understanding that you won’t perpetuate your power over us#if you want marginalized friends you need an understanding of how they’re marginalized and to be able to demonstrate to them that you will#not wield the power you have over them#and none of y’all are demonstrating that#you think we’re isolating when we are pulling out the weeds and helping each other flourish#since we finally can stop walking on eggshells cuz we Got Better Friends#be kind to the tranny or she will leave
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I spread eggshells all over my room, so anyone who tries to get close when I sleep will know what they're walking on
Josh Stern, And That's Why I'm Single: What Good Is Having A Lucky Horseshoe Up Your Butt When The Horse Is Still Attached?
#quotes#Josh Stern#And That's Why I'm Single: What Good Is Having A Lucky Horseshoe Up Your Butt When The Horse Is Still Attached?#thepersonalwords#literature#life quotes#prose#lit#spilled ink#eggshells#humor#humor-walking#humorous-quotes#sleep
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insane reaction. claiming someone else’s survivor’s guilt before you even accept yourself as the casualty. we’re just gonna breeze right past this huh
#i get paranoid abt doing comic live reactions esp for ones that are still coming out#but i think i have to be in the know for once. i’m not gonna be over this#guilt… walking on eggshells…#talk abt projection#dc#danbles#the flash#barry allen#wally west#panels#ALSO THE WAY HE CAN PICK UP ON WALLY USING THE SPEEDFORCE TO HELP HIM BUT ONLY AS AN AFTER EFFECT#HE CAN’T SEE IT ANYMORE HE CAN ONLY GUESS AUUGHHH HELL ON EARTH
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It’s missing blitzfizz hours….. I miss them so much 😭😭
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#hc that they’re literally always touching cuz they can’t bear to be apart again after so long#they’re tails are always intertwined or they’re holding hands or laying against each other#just so casually affectionate always#and it’s so nice to have that level of trust and love back after so long cuz they’re bond was so close and they’re so thankful to have#each other back#at first they walk on eggshells a bit but they go back to pre fire almost immediately bc they were so close nothing could truly break them#apart forever ahhhhhhhh#I miss them so much :(((((#they’re literally soulmates.#also the angst of even after everything not getting together and staying apart literally made me cry#it’s why they’re canon in my head I can’t except that after everything they’ve been through they don’t end up together they deserve their#happy ending fuck u tag character count lemme ramble#talk to me about blitzfizz I wanna draw them and my blitzfizz Fankid again#also married blitzfizzarozzie … <3
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insane to me that the trend on tumblr now is not only to not say anything in the tags on art but to genuinely not interact w it because some assholes ruined it for everyone and made ppl too scared
heres the thing: you cant possibly know if every single piece of art u come across that the op has dni and that u cross that. Frankly? i think dnis in general are terrible (not to mention completely ineffective) but dont be hard on YOURSELF because YOU didnt know and just wanted to share and gush over someones art
if someone genuinely has a problem with you sharing that art and interacting, thats on THEM. they can live their sad little life of always assuming the worst of people and never wanting to interact with anyone, but dont let the people that get offended you liked their art (or worse: screenshot your tags to be an asshole) make YOU stop interacting with people. Those people are miserable and want to make everyone miserable too
ive been on tumblr for ages. i miss when ppl talked and gushed in tags. Whenever i do get someone talking abt my art in the tags i love it! I screenshot my favourite ones and save it in a little folder for when im feeling really down about my art to remind myself someone out there loved it enough to type something out in the tags
dont let weirdos online that have their brains terminally rot by social media stop you from interacting and connecting with others and just getting to share a little kindness. The world needs more of that
#cosmic chats#get behind me tumblr users that are too scared of being made fun of!!#also btw if u see someone that does this kind of assholish behaviour man just block them theyre a miserable person anyway#and if u have a dni in ur bio hey listen i get it but do u rly think 1 itll prevent ppl from interacting and 2 everyone sees it?#the internet has had this weird shift into everyone needing to walk on eggshells and dnis are v much both a cause and a result of that#everyone be a little nicer and everyone ENGAGE WITH PEOPLE IN GOOD FAITH and nuance
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Raf would have been just as upset for totally different reasons if he had won the poll. There's just no pleasing that man.
#it's a delicate operation#it's walking on eggshells#there was a goldilocks zone where margie and tess were the top votes and he was neck and neck with Lawrence.#that'd have been the only thing he'd feel okay with lmfao#Margie on the other hand would have found reason to celebrate and feel joy no matter who won.#Cortes literally does not care so long as Lawrence didn't get more votes than her.#Lawrence knows in his heart if hearts that he is the fan favorite. the poll means nothing to him.
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