#guess the joke is on goddamn me.

[feltcaverns]

[danandfuckingjonlmao]

thinking about how psychologically torturous everything dnp did was when dapg came back. like every upload had something that would cause irreparable psychic damage. like BOOM the phousepad!! BOOM framed final fantasy characters!! BOOM dan can’t shut the fuck up about phil having a phat ass!! they woke up every fucking day and chose extreme violence!! now i feel like i’ve built up a tolerance and i can take anything because of the absolute exposure therapy of a year it’s been since they came back. like sister daniel baking?? react to all pinofs?? the phan roblox videos?? that red carpet review video where they said the gayest sappiest nastiest shit that has ever been uttered by human lips?? and that was oct-dec 2023?? HOW ARE WE ALIVE

[gods-perfect-idiots]

something something blood-soaked hands cradling your face something something

anyway here's the post btw

[a-scary-lack-of-common-sense]

I am exhausted, good heavens.

[pardonmydelays]

also i need to stop being mentally insane in the tags cause my friends think i only listen to twenty one pilots because tyler joseph is hot

[blujayonthewing]

[guy who lives in lowkey constant fear of being flanderized and infantalized and flattened and misunderstood and not taken seriously as an entire human person with complex thoughts and feelings in real life] yeah I dunno why I feel so strongly and get so defensive about Fantasy Racism and fantasy-race stereotyping it's just a really big sticking point for me for some mysterious reason

[acebytaemin]

we literally need to start shaming people for ignorance again

[rotisseries]

i think the most tragic thing in the byler fandom is that I have not seen any celebrity secret relationship aus 😔

[queen-boudicca]

Me when doing my environmental science homework, at every available opportunity:

[felix-lupin]

I think if anyone said to me literally any of the stuff Mind says to/about Heart in his main songs I would simply walk into the ocean

[toss-a-coin-to-your-stan-account]

no bc how do you think about the fact that the US vetoed a call for a ceasefire without wanting to bash your goddamn head into your desk

[rozecrest]

i think my best fic has come from the need to exorcise a lesbian demon from my spirit. and whoo boy if i get this hacks fic together

[enigma-the-anomaly]

I hate when there is anger inside my body. I am very small and my feelings are very big :(

[stabbyfoxandrew]

killing myself

[livvyofthelake]

feel free to call me out if i'm missing something here but why did i just see a poll for "childhood books" that included cinder and six of crows? i've not read them so like i said correct me if i'm wrong but are those not ya... like anne of green gables was on this poll. THAT'S a childhood book... a series of unfortunate events is a childhood book series. bridge to terabithia is a children's book. uglies is ya tho. the maze runner is ya... you can't but ya books on a childhood book vote that's not the same thing at all. you can't pit winnie the pooh against the hunger games that's not remotely the same hello...

[giantkillerjack]

My sister-in-law frustrates me to no end even though we barely ever interact because she keeps inviting my partner to parties with her Christian Republican friends, even though my partner told her not to send an invite to us if those friends will be there. And even though my sister-in-law is bisexual!!

And then she turns around and complains about not knowing how to deal with her friends saying, like, horrible sexist stuff as though that is just some natural unavoidable quirk of having friends!

Like, these Christian Republicans she has befriended don't seem to be kind - they're not even nice a lot of the time! They don't make for good friends, and she doesn't seem happy or supported in relation to them. In fact, she basically only ever talks about how her friends and/or current boyfriend are making her unhappy!

Because here's the thing: The effect of prioritizing 'including your Trump-supporter friends at your parties' over 'being invested in creating a safe space for marginalized people in your home', is that people who DO care about creating those safe spaces... won't wanna hang out with you! Because if you invite both cats and mice to your table equally, only the cats will show!

She's so afraid of losing the shitty friends she has now that she allows them to act as barriers to accessing friends who are invested in her wellbeing in a capitalistic hellscape!

It makes me sad because she's basically trapped herself, and there's nothing I can do to offer help without either compromising my morals or making my partner's life way harder by starting shit with her family.

Like, I consider myself a good friend, yeah? I try really really hard to be one, and it matters to me immensely. I am ride-or-die for the folks I love, and I am invested in being open and vulnerable and radically safe to be around when it comes to building strong friendships that are mutually fulfilling. I have a unique talent for validating people that I have honed for years because I genuinely want to make sure people feel safe and loved and seen.

And if my sister-in-law and I were friends, I could give all of that to her. I would strive to be an example of what it looks like when someone decides to care about you and treat you right on purpose, without expecting anything in return but your mutual respect. She would be family. She would be [Queer] Family. I would see to it that she knew she could call on me when she needed a friend.

But like.

This asshole has invited me to hang out with Trump supporters on multiple occasions.

We ain't gonna be friends.