#ftm inclusion

[lgbtqtext]

[prettyspicyhoney]

hi can I suck your dick? can I sit on my knees and worship of you? show you how much I desire you? kiss every inch of you? care for you so gently and tenderly it could only be described as making love?

[themostdesperatehoney]

when I say cock I hope you know that means tcock and strap are absolutely included

[im-jesus]

ALL TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

BLACK TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

LATINO TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

INDIGENOUS TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

EAST ASIAN TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

SOUTH ASIAN TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

WHITE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

FAT TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

SKINNY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

FEMME TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

MASC TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

PRE T TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO WENT OFF TESTOSTERONE ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T WANT TESTOSTERONE ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T BIND, WHETHER FOR HEALTH REASONS OR SIMPLY NOT WANTING TO OR LITERALLY ANY OTHER REASON, ARE VALID.

TRANS BOYS ARE VALID.

TRANSMASC LESBIANS AND ENBIES ARE VALID.

ARO/ACE/AROACE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO HAVE NO SURGERIES YET ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DON'T WANT SURGERIES ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WITH TOP SURGERY BUT NOT BOTTOM SURGERY ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WITH BOTTOM SURGERY BUT NOT TOP SURGERY ARE VALID.

BROKE TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

RICH TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO FIGURED OUT AT A YOUNG AGE THAT THEY WERE TRANS AND WENT ON PUBERTY BLOCKERS ARE VALID.

TRANS MEN WHO DIDN'T REALIZE OR ADMIT THAT THEY WERE TRANS UNTIL THEY WERE TEENAGERS OR ADULTS ARE VALID.

DISABLED TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

THERIAN/FURRY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

KINKY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

GAY TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

BI/PAN/OMNI/ANYWHERE-ON-THE-MULTISEXUAL-SPECTRUM TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

STRAIGHT TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

TRANS DADS ARE VALID.

CLOSETED TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

ALL TRANS MEN ARE VALID.

No, there is no universal trans experience. Yes, there will always be trans dudes who have it easier than you, or were lucky enough to get their gender affirming care younger or cheaper or easier than you. They're still trans. The second we stop fighting with each other about which of us are valid is the second we can start fighting the real enemy; those motherfuckers teaching crabs how to read.

[uncanny-tranny]

Something I love seeing is non-English-speaking countries (especially in heavily gendered languages) inventing and using new gender-neutral pronouns or forms of address. It's so nice to see what people come up with and how they integrate those new words and pronouns into the existing culture. It's really heartwarming <<3

[unb1nding-t-b0y]

Transphobia/ micro aggression idk story cuz I see a lot of posts talking about transandrophobia but not as many stories about experiencing it. (Maybe it's just my Tumblr algorithm but regardless posting will hopefully help that too)

Anyways I'm 21 recently started transitioning and I've been performing at a drag place for a little bit. This elder queen (I don't even remember her name I think she was trans but with drag queens that have spent their lives In Drag it can be difficult to tell even when you hear them talk about themselves because many of these people kinda use male and female names pronouns etc interchangeably etc. I'll use she -her pronouns in the story because I'd rather not accidentally misgender a trans women and ik she doesn't care about being she/hered even if she is a cis gay) Anyways she asks bout me and I tell her my name, pronouns, and identity as one does in queer spaces. Upon hearing I was a trans masc she immediately feels the need to tell me the story of the time she *gasp* almost slept with a trans man. The story goes like this.

Shes at a drag night in some bar and a drag king approaches her and they hit it off. Shes into him and vice versa. They ditch the bar and make out in a car somewhere and when it's getting hot and heavy the dude pulls his strap out and tells her he wants to fuck her. All standard shit. But she goes on and on about how surprised and disgusted she was at both the fact that she's been fooling round with a "woman" and how off-putting it was to even suggest a BOTTOM get fucked with a dildo. She picks up. A. Drag. King. And gets surprised when he's trans. If a lesbian went to a drag night and picked up a trans woman and reacted in the same way people would call her an idiot for not bothering to have the critical thinking skills to consider that maybe that person performing gender up there is performing a different gender than they were assigned at birth. (Side note if you're gonna pick someone up without knowing anything about them you can't be mad about surprises. I swing both ways so a surprise is just fine for me but if you have a severe genital preference maybe fucking ask people before you're making out with them and wanting to fuck. Sorry you hate dildos but you should have checked, and honestly even if it's a cis dude you should at least try to verify that they get tested + use protection etc

Unfortunately the majority of drag kings I've run into have been CIS men. The place I'm in is very supportive and kind to cis men doing bare minimum performances (no choreography, no makeup, usually the dude just takes his shirt off at some point and that alone is enough to be praiseworthy. Or he wears a suit stands around and barely lip-syncs ) whereas drag kings that aren't cis or arent men are more often than not treated as outsiders.

The story also cemented what I was afraid of that ultimately I was viewed as an invader of the space. That for some reason cis queens and cis kings are more acceptable in a space that was pioneered by trans women and drag queens. The trans drag shows Ive gone to haven't had any trans men in them unless they are open call. It's hurtful it's alienating and it's frustrating. I AM STILL TRANS. IF YOUR TRANS INCLUSIVE SPACE ISNT INCLUSIVE OF ME ITS NOT INCLUSIVE. It's frustrating that as a trans man when I enter "trans friendly gay bars" I'm often treated like an annoying presence getting in the way of everyone else's dicks only zone. Sorry I don't have a cock but that shouldn't be a requirement to occupy these spaces and you can't call yourself trans inclusive when you really mean just cis gays and trans girls. At the time I couldn't really articulate how fucked up what she said was so I just kinda said some non offensive topic change and moved on but like most of the other queens ignored or avoided me and that moment I figured out why I always felt like the odd one out. Because I was.

[foxless]

i really wish there was more positive representation of short men, like actually short men. like 5’3 and under. 5’0 and under.

i wish we had more representation of us as masculine, as attractive, as desirable; representation that doesnt force us into a submissive, infantilized, or hotheaded role.

it is so hard for me to ever imagine that i will be taken seriously or seen as manly because of my height. it is so fucking frustrating. i know i deserve to be happy with myself, but without representation its hard to even know what that might look like. if its even possible.

[everyponie]

FREE YCH

this is a mini pride parade ych for anyone with a queer identity that is often hated on. Welcoming of any good faith identities. Unfortunately I could only fit 4 on the canvas. The first one is taken by me. It's going to have MCR lyrics on the top :3

To enter please reblog with your fursonas ref sheet and flag, please also include a definition of the identity! These are not FCFS.

[2pen2wildfire]

Y'know I identified as asexual for like, a WHILE before eventually realizing I wasn't, and honestly I regret nothing. I mean I was like 15/16 and Mormon (repressed exmo gang eyy✌️) so it's not like I'd be having sex anyway, I wasn't missing out on anything (and aces aren't "missing out" in general, they're doin their own thing and I love that). But in my case identifying the way I did allowed me to step back and just. Get in tune with my emotions and attractions and everything. I'd realized I liked girls at 13 and instantly I thought that meant I had to sexualize them, objectify them even. And that led to a lot of awkward interractions and feeling like shit about myself for being creepy (didn't help that I'm autistic and had trouble figuring out what was too much). So I really think I needed to be ace for a while. I needed that time to let myself desexualize love and attraction in my brain until I was in a place where I could express sexuality in a healthier way. In a similar way I think it was good that I went through so many gender and sexual/romantic orientation labels before settling on what I am now, because it allowed me to analyze why I identify this way and what it means to me. My identity is stronger and more solid because of the way I grappled with it throughout highschool, and I learned a whole lot about other communities along the way!

[spec-squared]

me: *talking about something weird and gross that's been going on with my body lately but that I haven't been able to find any scholarly/scientific articles on*

my gynecologist: don't worry that's perfectly normal

me:

((OP is a trans man, terfs will be blocked on sight))

[lookatlavender]

i need a cock down my throat so bad, to have my nose tucked against their stomach while i struggle to hold my breath for them, to feel their thighs under my hands, grasping and pulling them closer still. need to see the blackness start to creep into the edges of my vision as i finally run out of air, forced to pull back and breathe before i shove them down my throat again

[ryboo]

Happy lesbian visibility day I’m a fellow lesbian myself. I have been in the closet for a very long time they have finally came down to the closet.

I’m coming out as a Abrolesbian/lesboy/omnilesbian As a fellow, lesbian, happy, lesbian visibility to all my lesbians

[vemberposting]

fat people ily and u are sexy and desirable

love grabbing hips and feeling them dimple beneath my hands

love kissing soft double chins and running my thumb across cheeks turned bright red

love wide wrists and soft hands on my body, warm and loving

love thighs that droop down from gravity as they’re propped up while i’m giving head

love seeing you propped up on a pillow so you can see me beneath your legs over your sweet tummy

love stretch marks that i can trace my tongue up and down… don’t even get me started on the raised ones

love u fat people mwah

[uncanny-tranny]

Sometimes, when people try to invoke "trans-inclusive" bioessentialism in their arguments, I want to ask exactly what about our assigned sex says about our place in society, and ask how they've worked that into their worldview in a way that somehow simultaneously doesn't deny who we are and includes the fact that a trans experience will mean that we navigate the world in often very different ways than our cis peers, and often bucks the trends of what is commonly experienced by cis people

[n3on-graveston3s-calling]

Here's that Crocodile playlist I've been curating. More to be added as I find appropriate.

A Man Whose Heart Is Hollow [ Sir Crocodile ]

Tracklist below the cut.

-Feeling Good, Michael Bublé

-Desperado, Rihanna

-Everybody Wants To Rule The World, Tears For Fears

-Wicked Games, The Weeknd

-Tuyo, Rodrigo Amarante

-Don’t Sit Down ‘Cause I’ve Moved Your Chair, Arctic Monkeys

-El Mañana, Gorillaz

-Gold on the Ceiling, The Black Keys

-Sway, Michael Bublé

-After Hours, The Weeknd

-Symphony No. 9 in E Minor, Op. 95 B. 178 ( New World Symphony ), Antonín Dvořák

-The Baddest Man Alive, The Black Keys

-Enter Sandman, Ghost

-Lithium, Nirvana

-Solomon Grundy, Chuxx Morris

-Red Right Hand, Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds

-Woke Up This Morning - Chosen One Mix, A3

-Bitch Better Have My Money, Rihanna

-Gangsta’s Paradise, 2WEI

-Skyfall, Adele

-Love Is Blindness, Jack White

-Brutus, The Buttress

-Handel / Orch. Hale: Keyboard Suite No. 4 in D Minor, George Frideric Handel