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Do not buy things for show off, buy it for your own satisfaction.
Hello there!Today, I want to talk about something that many of us have probably experienced at some point in our lives: the urge to buy things simply to show off to others. It’s a common phenomenon, especially in a world where social media and constant comparison are the norm. However, I want to argue that this behavior is ultimately unfulfilling, and that we should instead focus on buying things…
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Estelle Vacker and Auberon Dizznee meet when they are going to foxfire, they start dating when they are about 15-16 keep their relationship secret because Etstelle’s family would have a fit.
Auberon’s twin sister Soreya (who went to Hinterland not Foxfire) didn’t like the idea of her brother dating a Vacker because she was worried that her family might get him banished to get away from Estelle, because that had happened to other people in the past. she ended up telling Oriana (the teacher at Hinterland) who tries to talk Auberon out of dating Estelle because he’s talentless and she’s a telepath and a Vacker.
Auberon wasn’t worried because Estelle knew that she would be disowned and didn’t care, she had insisted that her family would never get him banished and Auberon told Oriana this, but she wasn’t convinced.
he proposed to Estelle when she graduated the Elite levels, her family found out, but instead of threatening to disown her, they said they would get Auberon banished just like his sisters said they would. the treats would also include his family as time went on, but Estelle is convinced that it’s just a bluff and continued with the wedding planing. they thought maybe if Estelle got pregnant with his kid her family would have no choice but to let them get married (they where like 20 and very dumb)
that’s not what happened, when her family caught wind of her pregnancy, they conjured up a lie that not only involved Auburn but Soreya as well, to punish him for wasting her first child. about both of them being involved in questionable activities (idk what they are) and made up proof. getting them both banished and causing Auberon’s entire family to hate Estelle because they saw it as her fault.
Estelle was forced to marry her #1 match not even two months later and everyone around her pretend like it was perfectly normal and like Aubron never existed.
Estelle’s new husband was physically, verbally abusive and controlled every aspect of her life, making it so she couldn’t get out because she had no friends. it’s not like elves believe abuse anyways.
she ended up getting pregnant with his twins and when he found out he was furious and caused her to go into labor early, with the twins the boy Marcel ended up with cerebral palsy while the girl Odette,was fine. Marcel couldn’t walk well and was mute, their father called him it and kept in locked in the house not letting anyone know he had a son. while he acted like Odette was his pride and joy at least in public. if she made any sort of mistake he would berate her and tell her to stop acting like a twin unless she wanted to be locked in the house like her brother.
while Marcel was unable to speak he was just as intelligent as ever other child, and his mom knew this because she got in the habit of having Telepathic conversations with the twins to keep them quiet when their father was home.
when the twins where 11 she got pregnant again and had a little girl named Vivianne but they called her Vivi. when she was four she knocked over her fathers work and he smacked her, the screamed at her for crying before throwing her in her room. Marcel heard her crying and came to comfort her. when Odette came home from school Vivi had a bruise on her face so she didn’t have a hard time figuring out what happened to her baby sister.
the twins stayed with Vivi until she fell asleep and decided that instead of telling their mom who they thought was going through enough as is that they would take matters into their own hands.
they found their father in his office and Odette went inside while Marcel stayed outside. Odette knew she was the favorite and thought maybe he loved her enough to listen to her, and stop hurting them. so Odette asked their father why he hit Vivianne, he told them to leave and when they didn’t he started screaming, it escalated to the point that he threw s decoration off his desk at her and hit her in the head drawing blood and causing her to fall to the ground.
Marcel heard her fall and came in the room as quickly as he could to find her bleeding, he was furious and was done with his father treating them the way he did. Marcel wished that he could make his father hurt in all the ways he had hurt his family, he imagined all the things he would do if he could fight if he was bigger, and how much pain he would put his father though. he would make sure he never hurt his mom or sisters again. the images he imagined almost felt real.
he was snapped out of his thoughts by his mom holding his face and transmitting the words “Marcy Stop” over and over into his mind
he snapped out of it to see he father bleeding and unconscious on the floor, and Odette crying on the floor trying next to him get him to wake up.
while he treated her badly her father still acted like he cared about her at times and unlike Marcel she loved him, and didn’t want him to die. as confusing and conflicted it made her feel
this is all i have written in one place atm but it keeps going (i wanna make this a fic)
HOLY SHIT that's so intense oml ;-; yeah this is exactly the type of 'Vacker Legacy' bullshit that family would try and keep covered up huh-
This is so good though, it really shows the issues with letting families and status have so much power and also provides a really interesting dimension to Dex's early books dislike of Fitz.
I love Estelle, Odette, Vivi, and Marcel ;-; lowkey I think Marcel deserves to kill his dad. As a treat.
How do they get along with Fitz Alvar and Biana? What about the rest of the family - like did they all know about Estelle's husband?
Lmao all my hcs for Vacker cousins were 'they're the most unbearable pieces of shit ever' so this is much better
#frizz whizz#thanks for the ask!#fitz vacker#the vacker legacy#tw abuse#tw violence#this is so good tho#i have a hc that the elves have basiaccly#no safetly nets for people in abusive situations#or people in bad situations financially etc#bc that would mean admitting it exists#like imo their poverty rates are lower than humans#but abuse rates are like. way higher#theres also this culture of 'dont let anyone notice keep it within the family'#so elves are discouraged from telling any 'family busniess' to outsiders#and its not like they can just run away either given registry pendants#oh also in abuse cases parents are almost always believed above kids#and the person w the most status even when the abuse is obvious
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#god i hate hate hate hate HATE having to go meet people about my whole financial/unemployment status#like yes i know it's not good right now and yes i know something has to be done sooner or later and yes i KNOW i probably need help/a push#but like. idk how to really express it they just… they always look at me in such a superficial way#like they never understand — or even seem to consider — that i am this way for a reason. i got a lot of issues and apprehensions and so on#and most of it roots back to ableism and trauma. but they never really seem to think there may be something beneath the surface#not to mention they keep assuming my family — and my parents in particular — are like cool chummy pals or whatever. or a helpful safety net#instead of people who've regularly & routinely mistreated me and severely hurt my mental health. and whom i wish i could cut out of my life#all that just makes it practically impossible to NOT be severely uncomfortable w/the workers — let alone trust them with my personal stuff#personal#negative#like if you read i guess
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Apparently I have watched The Birdcage, with my family no less! I'd seen it referred to here but never connected the dots that it was the same movie I'd watched many years ago on tv, probably when I was a teenager.
I don't remember my parents' reaction to it but since I'd seen some of it and no one changed the channel, they were at least engrossed enough to watch? They can be cool about stuff sometimes, they are just very unpredictable about it.
#Rant#Personal#My parents are weird#My dad is sexist as in he believes in gender roles and frowns upon any type of effeminate behaviour in men#but he also believes that all women should be hashtag girlbosses#My mom reads/watches things with queer people all the time (she doesn't actively seek it but she doesn't get scandalised or whatever by it)#And she and my sister once had a conversation in which she said people should accept their queer kids and when my sister raised the#'hypothetical' whether she would do the same....she said yes?#Which.....um. That lady gets antsy when women don't wax their leg hair. Even complete strangers.#She and dad get weird about bra straps showing. You're telling me they are a-okay with their kids being bi??#Also what about the gender stuff#They are cool about muslims and yesterday my dad even tried to rationalise with his colleague about how they face so many disadvantages#and mom keeps bragging about her multi-religious college friend group#But then they also say things like 'I once went to a muslim colleague's house and it was /clean/. You couldn't even /tell/'#They obviously also are against casteism but then they turn around and spew some brahmin-manufactured religious bullshit#While being kind of meh about religion in general#Like I don't understand this on-the-fence behaviour. They clearly understand oppression. Why still cling to the status quo then?#They understand that women deserve financial freedom. queer people (sexuality based at least) deserve basic rights.#muslims deserve not to be harassed.#Why not take the next step and examine your own biases about these communities then?#I know the answer ofc. It's because they think they are 'progressive' and so they don't have any biases ever#It's frustrating. I want to come out. I'm tired.#But I can't. I can't speak about politics.#I can't even say 'hey. you know my male friend from college who wore a saree to our graduation? I thought he looked rad#and every day I wish I had his bravery'#Ughhhh sorry for this
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the urge to just say fuck it and book myself a trip to gothenburg BY MYSELF NO ONE ELSE ALLOWED so i can just go there and be there and see what it would be like to start a new life somewhere completely different where i can. i almost want to say pretend to be someone else but that’s not charitable it’s more like actually finally be who i want without any of my previous social inhibitions that i’ve built up from living in the same city i went to high school in and the same city i got my first job in being constantly surrounded by people who’ve known me since i was 16 if not even younger. being completely by myself in a brand new country maybe i can figure out how to talk to strangers at a bar or how to drop in on a social event and actually be social and not clam up for half an hour and leave “but you can do that at home without going to sweden” NOT THE SAME i need that spirit of knowing i’m somewhere where no one absolutely no one knows who i am so i don’t have to worry about seeming out of character. do you feel me
#status update#i am a very throw myself in the deep end kind of person yknow#financially this is bad news of course. but i do feel like that extreme change of environment would help#i need to be in a situation where i can’t chicken out bc i am prone to doing that#i can’t squander a whole $1000 (i’ve already looked) and a week in a new country by doing nothing going nowhere#and leaving with no new friends made. it cannot happen and it will not happen if i can just pony up#i am alive i am a human being which means i am CAPABLE! of socializing like other human beings#i might just need to do something drastic to prove that to myself.#i probably will not do this. i am ignoring the part of my brain that’s saying this is the exact chickening out i was just talking about#this is where my head has been at for the last week or so. i needed to just thought dump. bloodletting but for my brain#i am going to make coffee and go for a walk now
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Unlocking Artistic Success: Sculpture Commission Opportunities with Statues
Unlocking Artistic Success: Sculpture Commission Opportunities with Statues
In the charming international of artwork, sculptors locate their muse not simply in personal projects but through accomplishing sculpture commissions. This guide is your key to understanding and seizing sculpture commission opportunities, emphasizing how they act as a gateway to unparalleled artistic success. Let’s delve into the intricacies of the commission system, the blessings it gives, and the transformative effect it may have on an artist’s career, with a special focus on the expertise provided through Statues, your ultimate associate on this artistic journey.
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Frugal Living: How Cutting Costs Can Lead to Millionaire Status
Unlock the path to millionaire status with the art of frugal living! 🌿✨ Discover practical tips to cut costs, save money, and build wealth. 💰💡 Read the full blog - Link-In-Bio #FrugalLiving #MillionaireStatus #SmartSpending #WealthBuilding #Millionaire
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Things that I feel like would happen when you’re in a relationship with Simon Riley.
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1. First off he hates the word ‘boyfriend’.
Maybe it’s because he’s in his mid thirties or something but he can’t stand being called your boyfriend. He’s more than that but also not at the same time. You live together, have access to each other’s bank accounts (which is only because he hates it when you try to fight him about him giving you money), and you’re each others emergency contact. He thinks of himself as your husband. The man wears a silicone ring when he’s home and a necklace with the ring that’s totally not a wedding band when he’s working. Price has seen the chain once or twice and smirks, shooting him a knowing look but never says a word.
Simon cannot stand it when people get nosy and want to know what your relationship status is. You’re together and that’s all that matters. No one needs to know that you’re the beneficiary of his will and life insurance policy or that he’s put you on all of his accounts. No one needs to know that he buys you anything you want but has only ever bought you two rings; a thin gold band with a flower engraved on it and its twin a matching emerald ring. No one needs to know that when he gifted them to you, there were tears and promises of safety, love, and happiness whispered against feverish skin. No one needs to know that he has your name woven into his chest tattoo.
No one needs to know any of that because your relationship is between him and you only.
2. You are not some submissive little house wife. You are a strong independent woman and he prefers it that way.
I know this one goes against what most people say but hear me out on this. Simon has been independent since birth practically. He’s only had himself to count on for years. Even in the military, he’s only been able to rely himself. Sure the others watch out for him but if it came down to it, he’s the only one who’s going to get himself out alive.
The thought of someone else relying on him in that way is terrifying. He can’t even fathom what it would be like to look at another person and fully trust them in that way. Half the time he feels like he can’t even be trusted to take care of himself let alone another human. In theory a sweet docile housewife is great with the meals and clean house but not for him. He needs to know that you can hold your own. He needs to know that you can be independent and carry on without him if something happened while he was working. He needs to know that you will be okay if he doesn’t come back.
You have to be okay without him no matter how much it pains him to think about it.
Like I said before, he’s made you the beneficiary of everything so he knows you’ll be set financially but that’s not enough. He’s made Price promise to keep an eye out for you. He’s made you promise to let Price do that and you agreed because it’s Simon who’s asking but you’d tell anyone else to fuck off.
In addition to all of that, he’s installed the best security system the government has to offer in your house. You have a very expensive and large safe in your shared closet that he’s instructed you to only open if you feel unsafe. While you might not like it, you agree to go shooting with him so he can sleep at night knowing that you could protect yourself if he’s not home. He’s gone as far as to make sure you have all of the licenses and certificates that are needed to legally own firearms in the UK.
He’s not leaving any opportunity for you to be vulnerable or have your ‘safety checks’, as he calls them, taken away.
3. Simon Riley is a godless man…until he meets you.
Now this is entirely my own headcannon with no evidence to support it so bear with me.
Simon had a shitty childhood where his mom would pray to a god who never listened and his dad would shout verses at him when he was drunk. God was a mythical figure that he was told stories off with nothing to show for it. He did believe at one point but then his dad never got better, his mom wore bruises of every shade, and his brother found comfort in drugs.
He found himself praying when he was being tortured by the Mexican cartel. Between the flashbacks of his abusive past, he prayed to a god who had failed him so many times before to help him. He prayed again as he dug himself out of that Texas grave with the major’s jaw bone. He wailed his prayers when he found his family executed after Sparks tried to kill him.
After that he deemed himself a Godless man. Years of praying had passed with nothing. This god had decided that Simon was not worthy of a miracle so why would he continue to worship him?
That was until he met you. He finds himself praying before every mission, every time he has to leave you, every time he’s on his way home, and just about any other time he thinks of you. He doesn’t know what exactly he’s praying for other than for you to be there when he gets back.
He whispers his prayers to an absent god against your skin as he worships your body, soul, and heart. He promises to be devoted to you until his last breath and vows to find you again in whatever afterlife awaits you. He pledges to find solace in you and only you when his haunting nightmares return. He makes an oath to your heart that it will never weather another storm alone again for his will take whatever beating that comes your way. He shows you that he will love you in the same manner as a Hozier song; putting you above all else because you have become his religion, his faith, his beliefs, his life.
You have become all that he is and he thanks the god he once believed in for you. He prays again but to you, his heart, his love, and his beacon through the enteral storm of life.
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#vent#(for blacklist)#i didn't know my mother wanted me to lie to the doctor so now everyone's mad at me#she gave me a sheet for the doctor to fill out#he asked me when I dropped out and I said last year december which is true#my mother wanted me to say summer this year#I didn't know that. Now she's stormed into my room and yelled at me that because I said december last year they owe thousands to some#big official state thing I don't even know what it is#I didn't know that and I didn't want them to lose money either... all I did was answer a question and that was enough to financially destroy#my entire family. It's all my fault and I didn't even know that would happen#I didn't know they've been lying about my status all this time#maybe that's why they wanted me to sign a paper giving them the right to speak on my behalf#I didnt want that because I was afraid it'd make me not a person anymore in their eyes but I think I never was to begin with#now I don't know what to do anymore... I screwed up everything. none of this would've happened if I just wasn't there#they didn't want me from the start but they could've dealt if I didn't also turn out to be disabled and fucking stupid#I hate this I hate that I understand nothing and I hate that I keep messing up because I'm so damn clumsy and stupid#I'm 21 I should know how these things work but when they start using big words it's like I don't understand german anymore#I answered one question a creepy doctor asked me and with that I basically killed my family#now we might not be able to afford groceries anymore and my mother will hate me even more#I should just do them all a favor and try again maybe this time I won't be such a coward
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#Many people with nothing are the most wealthy.#The inverse can apply to those with much.#There's a good reason that it's said that the rich cannot get into heaven. And it is superiority/pride.#The poor can more easily make it into the pearly gates because they understand their fellow man's struggle.#The rich while capable of empathy have to practice it instead of simply having it.#Wealth is not money or personal gain / not what you have while others have not.#Wealth is not enviable or even visible. Wealth is what one has to offer a society.#And this is not to say that the rich are not wealthy.#Even Jeffery Bezos had good moments / even Musk has his times.#Hybrid vehicles / easy grocery shopping / modern infrastructure / even things like Tylenol were made by the rich.#But there's a certain type of goodness in a person that can only be found when they're at their lowest.#Pain is not always bad / believe it or not.#It's a chore to get through#and I never found it fun or exciting or helpful in the moment.#But when you go through the worst pain of your life#that's when you start to see the best of yourself and others around you.#The rich does not receive empathy#For the rich do not appear to deliver empathy.#Ensure that no matter someone's financial status you treat them with decency and dignity.#I don't know a lot of things. I just had a thought and it spiralled. Take what you will of this#but in context.
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Unmarried Partner Visa: Eligibility and Requirements
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Please read the last two paragraphs of Justice Sonia Sotomayor's dissent to the recent 6-3 decision granting presidents absolute immunity:
Looking beyond the fate of this particular prosecution, the long-term consequences of today’s decision are stark. The Court effectively creates a law-free zone around the President, upsetting the status quo that has existed since the Founding. This new official-acts immunity now “lies about like a loaded weapon” for any President that wishes to place his own interests, his own political survival, or his own financial gain, above the interests of the Nation. The President of the United States is the most powerful person in the country, and possibly the world. When he uses his official powers in any way, under the majority’s reasoning, he now will be insulated from criminal prosecution. Orders the Navy’s Seal Team 6 to assassinate a political rival? Immune. Organizes a military coup to hold onto power? Immune. Takes a bribe in exchange for a pardon Immune. Immune, immune, immune. Let the President violate the law, let him exploit the trappings of his office for personal gain, let him use his official power for evil ends. Because if he knew that he may one day face liability for breaking the law, he might not be as bold and fearless as we would like him to be. That is the majority’s message today. Even if these nightmare scenarios never play out, and I pray they never do, the damage has been done. The relationship between the President and the people he serves has shifted irrevocably. In every use of official power, the President is now a king above the law. The majority’s single-minded fixation on the President’s need for boldness and dispatch ignores the countervailing need for accountability and restraint. The Framers were not so single-minded. In the Federalist Papers, after “endeavor[ing] to show” that the Executive designed by the Constitution “combines . . . all the requisites to energy," Alexander Hamilton asked a separate, equally important question: “Does it also combine the requisites to safety, in a republican sense, a due dependence on the people, a due responsibility?”. The answer then was yes, based in part upon the President’s vulnerability to “prosecution in the common course of law.” The answer after today is no. Never in the history of our Republic has a President had reason to believe that he would be immune from criminal prosecution if he used the trappings of his office to violate the criminal law. Moving forward, however, all former Presidents will be cloaked in such immunity. If the occupant of that office misuses official power for personal gain, the criminal law that the rest of us must abide will not provide a backstop. With fear for our democracy, I dissent.
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#classics tumblr makes a senatorial oc. his cognomen will be determined by how fucked up and shitty you guys make him#tagamemnon#queueusque tandem abutere catilina patientia nostra
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It's also just incredibly stupid on its face because we are not pokemon--we do not evolve into a completely different species just because we hit some arbitrary age milestone. I still have many of the same interests and passions now, at thirty-three, as I had when I was nineteen. And when I was twenty, and in a community choir where I was twenty years younger than the next youngest member, I had a great time and found I had a lot in common with many of my fellow choir members--including the fifty-year-old man who looked like Kevin Kline and on whom I had an enormous crush.
Like, no, it's not necessary to have common ground in order to find someone hot and want to and be willing to have sex with them--but also it's quite possible to have more in common with someone twenty years your senior who is in the same community programs as you than you do with someone in your peer group who has wildly different interests that don't intersect with your life at any point.
And it's even sillier when people say stuff like 'what does that 27-year-old even have to say to that 19-year-old' because, like.... that's not even a full decade? That's potentially two people in the same generation, and depending on how they meet that could already be a point of commonality on which attraction or even a relationship could build. As an example, when I was 27 I was still heavily involved in my community college's theater program, and I developed a crush on one of the other actors in the production we did that spring. I liked him because he was cute and funny and we both could talk for ages about video games we both enjoyed and also damn could he sing. It was a couple of months before the topic of ages even came up, and it was because it was my birthday, and he heard me tell someone else how old I was and he was like you're 28????? Cause apparently he'd thought I was 22, tops, and I'd assumed he was in his early twenties at least. It turned out he was 19, but that didn't bother me because I already knew he was off the table since he had a girlfriend and I was content to just crush from afar. But we had tons in common! If he'd been single and interested in me, I wouldn't have felt bad about pursuing a relationship. (He had a leg up on me in the life experience department anyway--I was still living with and dependent on my parents and he had an apartment of his own and a really good job.)
It's just really funny to think about how if I was a celebrity and he'd been an actor peer of mine and we dated, people would be screaming about grooming because of the huge age difference of -checks notes- eight years between peers with a similar social circle.
Like, I promise you, two rich people in the same profession working on the same projects have far more in common with each other, despite any age difference they may have, than either of them would have with some random non-famous person off the street who is the exact same age.
And that's the thing: once you reach adulthood, maturity is at least as much about life experience as it is about numerical age. Someone who is twenty-five and still living at home who's never had to pay bills has less relevant life experience than someone who is nineteen and been living independently for two years because they got emancipated and had to learn to support themselves. The whole 'brain isn't fully developed until 25' thing is complete nonsense, because the fact is that brain development is just as unique to the individual as their overall lives are. (Also, the brain never stops developing!) Part of becoming an adult is learning to make adult choices and having to live with the consequences of those choices.
You can't get that life experience until you are an adult and society treats you like one! Sometimes, that life experience includes sexual or romantic decisions you probably shouldn't have made. These are learning experiences that can help you figure out what you're actually looking for later on when you are ready for more mature, longer-lasting relationships. And abuse can happen to anyone at any age! You can maybe make the claim that a huge age difference has the potential to be a red flag, but the existence of a power imbalance is not actually evidence of that power imbalance being abused. And sometimes, relationships are bad for one or both parties without abuse being involved. Sometimes, it's just part of growing the fuck up.
Anyway, my worst relationship experience was with a former friend of mine who was five years younger than me and turned out to be a manipulative asshole who used me for sex until I grew enough of a spine to put my foot down lol
God one of my least favorite arguments about age gap relationships being ‘bad’ I see over and over again is, “what would they have in COMMON anyway??” Wtf does that even mean are people really asking this seriously is it so fucking shocking that people want to have sex with someone they have nothing in common with? I want to shake these people that isn’t saying literally anything.
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#age differences#also it's frustrating how people act like a difference in age is the only possible power imbalance that might exist in a relationship#there are sooooo many different ways the balance of power (personal or social!) can be tilted heavily in one direction#age is one yes!#so is financial status/socioeconomic class. so is race. so is gender/identity. so is level of education.#any number of factors can build up on either or both sides#and i'd argue that a relationship with a perfect balance of power is incredibly rare!#you need to have a lot more information than just the age difference to determine if manipulation/abuse is occurring#and again: relationships can be toxic/unhealthy without abuse occurring! sometimes people are just BAD for each other!#long post
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