#experience blog

[our-ftm-experience]

this blog is a home for all trans men/ftms/transmascs to come together and share experiences, get support, and more! we have two mods- comet and nico. we are irl brothers.

hello! my name's comet, he/him aroace trans guy. main blog over at @mauroar <- contact here to join the ftmblr tumblr community. i love the stanley parable, dirk gently's holistic detective agency, astrophysics, nightcrawler, conlanging and autism 👍👍👍 i use the tag #mod comet.

Hi, I'm Nico (he/him). I'm 19, and I am Comet's older brother. I am a white neurodivergent/disabled trans gay guy. My main blog is @autistic-twink. When I'm not doing things for this blog, I'm a college student studying transportation planning/public policy and disability studies! I'm autistic about a lot of things, but mostly notion, neurodivergency, sims 4, iasip, and dropout (please talk to me about these things). I use the tag #mod nico.

please be aware that one of the mods is a minor. nsfw blogs DNI + we delete nsfw asks

absolutely all are welcome here except bigots + exclus 👍🏳️‍⚧️ submissions + asks are open

free palestine. 🇵🇸 zionists/nazis fuck off

[our-aspec-experience]

hello aspecs, and welcome to our-aspec-experience!

this was inspired by very lovely blogs such as @our-queer-experience, @our-aro-experience, @our-asexual-experience, @our-aroace-experience, and many, many more!

our-aspec-experience is a home for legiterally everything related to the anattractional spectrum/the aspec :3

blog runner is comet, he/him

hope to see yall soon :3

lgbtqia wiki's page for aspec

[our-androgyne-experience]

Hello! I started a new blog to join the our-[blank]-experience blog group!!

My name is Teddy and my pronouns are they/xe/ze/he/it (in order of preference) and I’m an intersex transneutral androgyne.

I’m really excited for this blog so please submit your experiences and stories about living in this world as an androgyne!

Non-androgynes are welcome to follow and interact as well ♡

[cinnamongirlsdiary]

like it’s so awkward :|

[mamalovedme]

[simplyjustagirlsblog]

[inkskinned]

the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.

sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.

you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.

it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.

but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.

they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.

they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.

barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.

and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.

but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.

they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!

this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.

[pretty-when-i-girlblog]

[desultory-suggestions]

People who love you shouldn't make you feel ashamed of your interests and hobbies. What you enjoy is wonderful, even if it's uncommon, complicated, stereotypical, etc. Please keep sharing your lovely energy with the world.

[i-loved-silly]

yandere monster x darling who found them in the woods. Darling y/n who showed them a bit of kindness by not running away immediately and offering a bit of food from their bag. The creature looked thin but large in height and certainly not weak in any way.

You’ve heard legends about this monster. Legends that strictly stated that it killed anyone who crossed the woods and was the opposite of forgiving. But it didn’t try to hurt you so why not!

Oh and it would never hurt you. Not after you treated it so kindly. Surely it must mean you hold them so dearly in your heart, right? You’re not like the other village people

Yan!monster who didn’t realize it until hours after it last saw you. How stupid of them, you were gone already! They should have followed you back home, you would have welcomed them in right? You like them after all. And they like you.

They’ll spend the rest of their lives searching for that feeling again, for you specifically.

They know the woods like the back of their hand, they’ll search endlessly until they catch a bit of your scent. No matter how long it takes. It pays attention whenever it hears or smells another human, but it’s never you. And those humans never come out of the woods again. Come find them please, they yearn to hear your voice again and the softness of your expression. They don’t know what they’ll do if they don’t find you soon

[televisionenjoyer]

This site's tolerance and acquiescence to incest is so fucking insane like "I don't support it but my mutual is cool so I'll allow it" "richard siken's artistic contributions to society absolve him" "ethel cain can ship whatever, she's earned it" I'm not going to lie to you it's kinda looking like you do support it...

[prokopetz]

It's actually kind of impressive how ill-conceived this whole "Notes Preview" business is. At a single stroke, it's been rendered impossible to curate one's experience even on one's own dashboard – now it doesn't matter that you've carefully followed a group of blogs you can trust not to reblog noxious bullshit, because with every post that crosses your dash there's now a chance that Tumblr will automatically append some random asshole's opinion about that post, in a way that neither you nor the person you're following can predict. Bravo.

[our-androgyne-experience]

greetings, all, from the new admin of our-androgyne-experience :)

I first identified as androgyne when I came out as trans over a decade ago, and after trying on several other labels throughout the years, "androgyne" is still the one that fits me the most comfortably. As such I'm very pleased to have the opportunity to run a blog dedicated to androgyne experiences!

I use any pronouns, and I have several names - for the purposes of this blog, you can call me El.

Inbox is open, and asks and submissions in the backlog will start being responded to / posted in the next couple days, so keep an eye out!

[cinnamongirlsdiary]

my holy trinity

[sadg1rl777]

𝐒𝐫𝐬𝐥𝐲

[delusions-inpink]