#endos DNI

[traumagenic-positivity]

i love you aromantic systems!

i love you asexual systems!

i love you aro-ace systems!

i love you systems who prefer qprs!

i love you demisexual systems!

i love you cupioromantic systems!

i love you demiromantic systems!!

i love you systems who are on the aromantic spectrum!

i love you aegosexual systems!

i love you aegoromantic systems!

i love you apothisexual systems!

I love you apothiromantic systems!

i love you aroflux systems!

i love you autoromantic systems!

i love you aceflux systems!

i love you autosexual systems!

i love you desinoromantic systems!

i love you fraysexual systems!

i love you frayromantic systems!

i love you greyromantic systems!

i love you graysexual systems!

i love you lithromantic systems!

i love you lithsexual systems!

i love you quoiromantic systems!

i love you quoisexual systems!

i love you recipromantic systems!

i love you systems!!! <3

[moonlitmeadowsys]

just because your abuser has “changed” and everything is “in the past” does not mean you need to forgive them. i’m sick of abusers and the people around them expecting forgiveness when it isn’t deserved. this especially applies when the abuser has done nothing to acknowledge or rectify their actions.

the axe forgets; the tree remembers. perhaps they have moved on and forgotten about it, but their victim will carry the scars for the rest of their life. you’re allowed to feel angry, upset, betrayed or any other emotion towards them.

so, if anyone ever tries to make you feel guilty for not forgiving your abuser, remember that you don’t owe them your forgiveness. you’re allowed to feel however you want about them.

[plurapony]

sysmed is a harmful term!!!

sysmed, the term created to mimic transmed but for the system community. it's meant to be dedicated for those who are exclusionary in a marginalized group.

sure in theory it's fine, but that's just not the way it's used in the community. it is exclusively used as insult towards those with CDDs - no one ever introduces themselves as a sysmed. it's an inherently negative term and honestly? it's dehumanizing.

many systems may express boundaries with endogenics, or they make posts filled with emotion and driven by their own personal trauma that are against endogenics. many systems in the community have been subject to harassment by endogenics. there are many plausible reasons for a system with a CDD to be anti-endo that AREN'T just simply "i don't think endogenics should exist"

and by calling that system out and using the term sysmed to describe them, you are tearing apart all the context and reducing them to "they are a bad person" and telling all your followers "hey look this system is a BAD person" and not only that but you are also eliminating ANY chance for a coherent discussion.

in conclusion, sysmed is a shitty fucking term that is solely used for bullying and demonizing others and removes any possibility of having a proper discussion. if you disagree with someone's opinions jumping straight to insults is a one way trip to guarantee that you've got a super weak argument against them.

[IMAGE ID: ponyville is a (pro) endo free zone break dni and get blocked loser! END ID]

[sisterlucifergraphics]

Would you be okay with some Gangle from The Amazing Digital Circus dividers? With her ribbons and theatrical mask theme! I think it'd be cute

🎭Gangle Dividers🎭

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[reliquiaesystem]

Self-Portraits and Crism.

@ailuridaess @grianhypfix -☀️

[jabberwock-islanders]

system culture is realizing that the way you attach to characters in media is almost entirely related to trauma.

it's not an "oh i like this character" attachment. it's not "this character is so me" in a silly way attachment. it's "this character makes me feel so much comfort that i never got growing up, and i don't know what i'd do without it". it's "this character is the only person who truly knows my struggles and knows what i'm going through" (even though, realistically, there are irl people who have been through similar, if not the same struggles). it's "i wish i had someone like this character to care for me when i was younger".

how did it take so long to connect the dots

[frosty-angels]

HELPPPEJSIIWJE

DECIDED TO UPLOAD ON ITS OWN

[slasherology]

[littlesy]

Baby regression 🍼

- sleepy Whining and eye rubs

- sleeping on your tummy or curled up in a ball

- drinking from a bottle!!

{especially if your not holding it}

- being held!!

- being cradled and bounced!!!

- nonsense coos and babbling

- fussing and clinging to your caregiver <33

- Always wanting a little nap

i love babyspace, it’s where i usually regress too

[sinister-system6]

our brain when something stressful happens

[frosty-angels]

BUT WHAT IF THOSE PEOPLE IN MY BRAIN ARE FAKE AND IM JUST MAKING THEM UP????

sys culture is "oh im faking, there's no way"

abd then "sir?? i am literally right here? you have people in your brain trust"

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[the-forestry-system]

Remember that it is officially disability pride month now. it is just as important as lgbtq+ pride month. we exist. we are being hurt by the system as it is now. we will not be silenced or placated. disabled is not a bad word.

[syscultureis]

Plural culture is every so often something happens and you just think "yeah. Yeah this is why we have a horror movie trope."

*disclaimer we hate the trope and hate what it's done for stigmatizing this disorder and do not support it

[traumagenic-positivity]

i love systems so much!!

allo systems? love them!

aro-ace systems? love them!

straight systems? love them!

queer systems? love them!

poly systems? love them!

monogamous systems? love them!

systems who love their headmates? love them!

systems who hate their headmates? still love them!!

nonhuman systems? love them!

bpd systems? love them!

npd systems? love them!

aspd systems? love them!

ocd systems? love them!

hpd systems? love them!

all physically disabled systems? love them!!!!

all [otherwise] mentally disabled systems? love them!!

able bodied? love them

uses an uncommon term? so cool love it

i just love systems <3

[zack-agere]

You're still doing okay as a regressor if you... 🐥 🧡

💫 · are usually upset or in a negative situation when you regress

🧃 · don't know what age you regress to

🥞 · act mainly as a caregiver but still regress

💫 · have done things you regret when regressed

🧃 · cannot control your regression

🥞 · are mainly a regressor but are also a caregiver

💫 · feel like a burden for being disabled and needing extra or specific care

🧃 · are worried to tell people about your regression

🥞 · can't really tell the difference between when you regress and when you don't

🧃 · are afraid of getting or don't want a caregiver due to trauma

💫 · do things considered "big" or "adult" when regressed

🥞 · are an alter who can't tell if you're a regressor or a syskid / ageslider

🧃 · deal with intrusive and un-childlike thoughts

you are always deserving of comfort, safety, and a happy regression 𓂃⊹