#demiromantic??

[borealing]

i want to make my stand for aro/arospec ted. i truly believe the creators and writers did not intend for this (possibly because they didnt know its a thing lol) but:

doesnt date for three years in richmond, is completely happy and satisfied with his platonic friendships and his fatherhood

sleeps with sassy multiple times before asking her out (needs some kind of connection to someone before he can think about a romantic entanglement)

wasnt actually offended or upset about sassy saying no, was more upset about her calling him a mess

canonically is not good at romance and michelle felt overwhelmed by him (doesnt know what people actually like in romance just goes overboard with romantic gestures. this isnt common to all aros but i know i get this lol)

i think we should think a little deeper about arospec ted who mistakes intense platonic feelings for romantic feelings

[quartz-the-cosmic-manta]

me and the guy I was dating are now just friends. and ngl I'm ok with that. hopefully we won't become less close

[axel-ambassador]

Bruh did I just get clocked wtf

[sminny-wew]

It's so funny being a shipper when you're aroace it's like you're an anthropologist, like hey fictional blorbos who live in my head let me study your bonds under a microscope and take notes on what happens when I throw Valentines Day into your enclosure

[angelellipsis-devilofdots]

interact with this post if you believe aspec identities are queer

trying to prove a point (not forced!!)

[buddieinmybeddie]

LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?

[fagbearentertainment]

I wanna see how much of the tumbr user base is queer so I made this 😋

Reblog for larger sample size! ☺️

[artsymeeshee]

Aro Pines!! 💚

[captainjackscoat]

I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Hypoallergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

[tonitheloftwing]

Meme inspired by me, an aroallo, being absolutely gobsmacked by the concept of Too Hot to Handle

[cepheusafterdusk]

Yes, Aros can date.

Yes, Aces can fuck

Yes, some aro/aces want to do these things

SOME DONT

Respect ace peoples identities because they’re identities worth respecting not because they can fuck/date or ‘write the best smut’

The whole point is that we also don’t want to be defined by these things we usually don’t do

-your local fully ace and demiro

[here-and-queer312]

SAY IT WITH ME GUYS, GALS, AND ENBY PALS OF TUMBLR

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

ASPEC PEOPLE ARE REAL AND VALID HUMAN BEINGS

[matcha-milo]

I want a relationship that is completely undefinable by any existing labels or words. Like, we're so close and we hug and kiss each other's foreheads and cuddle and travel and explore together, and we get along so well and have so much in common. But at the same time, our relationship isn't fully romantic or fully platonic; it's a completely separate, open-to-interpretation thing that we tweaked as needed, and we have our own boundaries and things we are and aren't comfortable with, and we respect each other in every way, shape, and form.

[it-couldbe-worse]

Appreciation post for this lineup of flags that is fuckin rad and now lives rent free in my head

[imiggytheartist]

LGBT in fighting is fucking dumb and I’m super tired of yall’s stupidity. The fascists who run the government do not care that you are “Not like the other queers”. The fascists do not care that you hates it when bisexual women are taking their straight boyfriends to pride. The fascists do not care that you are a gay person who hates trans people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a trans person who hates non-binary people with a passion. The fascists do not care that you are a queer person who bullies 12 year old kids on tik tok who use fox/foxself pronouns and identify as fox gender. Hating each other will not make the homophobes go away. I don’t care how many times you say “But these people in the community make everyone else in the community look bad.” Fascists think we are all the same they will not single any of us out just because some of us have the same opinions as the fascists/Alt right. They are not passing anti trans laws because some trans people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate all trans people. They are not passing anti gay laws because some gay people are too loud and cringey they are doing it because they hate gay people. FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINIONS THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! FASCISTS DO NOT CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION THEY WILL KILL YOU REGARDLESS! Do you understand me?

[m-to-z-andbackto-m]

Very important question for my fellow rainbow people!!!

Why do queer people exist?

Wrong answers only, go!