#cw paraphilia mention

[burning-sol]

Btw, if anyone thought they were on my side or defending me specifically because you outed people in a gated server that I didn't even know about because I didn't purposefully go out looking for it (unlike you)? I actually feel more unsafe around you than the people in said server. I don't like you seeking out people's sexual fantasies and then publicly shaming them for their taboo fetishes they shared where they presumed it would be held in confidence.

I don't think you should be allowed to have your cake and eat it too. You don't get to violate people's boundaries and act like you are an advocate for victims. I just know you mfers are superficial and would drop victims and call them monsters because the very moment they show a sign of their abuse (for context one potential cause of paraphilias is CSA) they're suddenly "gross" and "give REAL victims a bad name". You don't get to state, "I really really care for victims and they should go to therapy to get treated 🥺" but also pick apart (potential) victims' messages and advocate for reporting them to the authorities.

Also yes, YES, it literally IS harmful for children to state that they are minors online because then predators KNOW who the minors are! Someone knowing you're a minor at ALL means that they know you are less developed and therefore more easily manipulated. They can message a minor and start phishing for more information, which a minor is more likely give up than an adult! Like, stating you're a "minor" IS more protection than outright stating your age, but y'all just have no clue what you're talking about.

In general, I feel like I'm going crazy. I'm surrounded by people who are all under the impression they're being moral but y'all are just ignorant and have no clue what you're going on about and you at worst you actively harm others. You guys SUCKKK...

[crowpunkcognitivedecline]

okay im gonna "vaguepost" because this bitch blocked me and this is fucking pathetic and a great example of why you check peoples' blogs before assuming they're engaging in good faith

someone replied to this post starting with "not to be an asshole but," which is honestly the first red flag, but basically asking why i didn't want people without SCIs to advocate for us [which isn't what i said but fine]. i replied with an explanation that's still there, if you want to look at it.

now this asshole replied with something that took 3 replies but they didn't realize they'd delete all their responses if they blocked me right after, so good going there genius. luckily i know absolutely nothing you said had any value to it so who cares.

and then it occurred to me to check their profile and.

they literally just lied in their initial "not to be an asshole" question about having an SCI--they list all their health conditions in their pinned post and absolutely nothing SCI related is there. so, congratulations for stooping even lower than the rest of the ableist hEDSers with victim complexes

i'm on their DNI like 5 separate times; their DNI includes detransitioners & supporters [and yes i fucking support people who decide to detransition you absolute cunt], catholics [i'm not practicing but im fucking latino], self diagnosed & pro endo folks [because doctors are always right and disabled/nd folks cant be trusted to know our own minds and bodies], and "MERDs" [fuck off straight to hell you ableist piece of shit]

DNI also includes people with pedophilic disorders and pOCD and says "I don't care if you think you won't offend, I have enough experience to know better," which for someone who so strongly believes doctors are right about everything sure fucking goes against all medical/psychiatric consensus--and is also so violently anti-survivor, anti-recovery, and sanist that i don't really know where to start

anyway if you're reading this, random guy, you're a fucking pussy, go fuck yourself, and you're exactly who the post was about. i don't know what you were trying to do, but all you proved is you believe your disability and trauma excuses violent ableism against people with more severe or more stigmatized disabilities and that i was right to not want to hear your opinion, so, yknow, eat shit and fuck off.

this is a cripple punk post about intracommunity issues; ableds DNI

using my power as a bitch with both hEDS and an SCI to tell people with hEDS to shut the fuck up about SCIs

"some people have dislocated spines from hEDS!" guess what, i'm some people! you're not! stop using me and people with more severe forms of EDS as debate points, we don't fucking like you!

[c0rpsel0v3r]

okay but hear me out... the dead body of a woman, sitting on her stomach and rubbing your dick in between her tits... they're cold and rotting but you dont care because it feels so good. cumming over her face when done, fucking her pussy right after as a gift <3

[meeb-motes]

i was the anon asking abt paraphilia emojis and so i was wondering if you could make one for (im going to leave them uncensored) autobiastophilia and bejerophilia (which is an attraction to ones abuser)? /nf

[ drafted post [ Autobiastophilia and Bejerophilia

( :0 woah !! Fellow autobiastophile ?!?!)

requests are open !

-Two

[proship-puppy]

Rarity x Apple Jack

! This post talks about NSFW , SA , Pedo/Zoophilia , R*pe , etc. THIS POST IS DARKSHIP ! Don’t like -> DNI 🎀 🎱

Apple Jack loves Rarity with all his heart…

However he also has a crush on someone else; his cousin pinkie pie. Well it’s not just a crush it’s a affair. Apple Jack and pinkie pie meet every now and then to make out and fuck. Sometimes pinkie even brings along one of her girlfriends (twilight sparkle or sunset shimmer) to r*pe them together with Apple Jack. It’s a dirty secret rarity should never know about…

But rarity has a secret as well..!

Every now and then she needs some extra money for a dress or pair of shoes she saw. So she meets up with older men and let’s them gang r*pe her. They pay per hour and can do anything they want with rarity so she did make some wild experience as they forced her to fuck with dogs or children ! But it’s all worth it and honestly she even enjoyed a lot of it because the r*pe is what got her to start a relationship with her loyal dog spike ! And it also showed her how okay it is for her to groom her sister sweetie bell every now and then. After all her needs are important to and if she needs to fuck , why not fuck her sister if no one else is around ? But of course Apple Jack could never know about all this !

🍖🌈 = proship

🧩🥀 = ex anti

💀🌙 = dislikes but still ships

[thedigitalwave]

Seeing that bitchy crosstagger saying "hey antis 🥺 dont worry those filtht radqueers will never be accepted into society!!" Is just. Well. Telling, raw and gross.

You know, it's really really fucking strange to me that people genuinely say out loud that a group majorly composed by minorities trying to be themselves will never be accepted into normal society. What is normal society? Your everyone-stays-the-same, divide-all-into-distinct-groups, never-let-mental-illness-be-normal society? Cause that's not normal to me. That's fascist.

I know I'm saying a big word there. I don't mean it in the "all antis are secretly alt-right" way. I mean "all antis are explicitly conservative in some way", though.

How can you propose us the idea that everything needs to stay the same, never progress, that minorities need to stay minorities and privileged people need to stay privileged, that certain people should stay in the shadows, and not be conservative?

By saying transid-identifying people should never transition, you're saying that. By saying paraphiles should never be accepted, you're saying that.

I hope you realize what you're doing now. This isn't protecting anyone. This is maintaining the status quo.

[n3cromantiic]

goodnight freaks

[super-secret-account-yippee]

CAB (C-orpse Attracted Being)

A coining post for a more friendlier term for ⚰️s to use! A CAB stands for a C-orpse Attracted Being. Alternatively you can also use CAH (C-orpse Attracted Human) or CAP (C-orpse Attracted Person).

The "-" in the word c-orpse is really just to help censor the post since i honestly don't feel like getting my account banned for something like this </3

[disabled-sysboxes]

[TEXT ID: this system struggles with paraphilia based intrusive thoughts]

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[parasol-culture-is]

Being a CSA survivor with paraphilia themed OCDs with no genuine bad attractions irl but having intrusive thoughts and fears and at worst sometimes using fiction to cope is being afraid of being an anti contact (bad 4) paraphile in denial even though you’re almost only attracted to cute cartoon characters and barely find real people attractive, and you’re freaked out and disgusted by those actual paraphiles attracted to irl animals, children or corpses who want to be abusers especially. Yet still part of you wishing actual anti contact paraphiles weren’t getting abused, threatened and lumped in with predators, wishing more antis were pro recovery, and wishing antis weren’t treating survivors that aren’t “the pure and perfect survivor” like shit or parajacketing them, and wishing antis cared a lot more about CO/CSA and ASA prevention than just revenge and hate, and that antis actually didn’t make anti spaces unsafe for CSA survivors that aren’t even bad four paraphiles but aren’t “extreme enough” for other violent and genocidal antis. And eventually becoming an ex anti cause of other antis not caring about survivors or prevention, and finding out other antis have been outed as closet proCs/rapists and groomers themselves sometimes and being hypocrites.

para culture is

[c0rpsel0v3r]

The best thing about fucking a corpse is the control that you have. You can do whatever you want, they can't fight back anyway. I can abuse their holes in whatever way i want or create new ones. I can feel the cold touch on my skin, sending shivers across my body. I can clench my hands around their insides. No matter how dirty the fantasy is I'm trying out, they will never scream or cry or try to escape.

[meeb-motes]

what's autovigiliophilia? i saw it on grians profile on your prns.cc, tried to look it up, but nothing came up?

CW: might be paranoia inducing ? Autovigiliophilia : a paraphiliac attraction to yourself being watched without your knowledge and/or being stalked .

Hopefully that helped ?/gen

( for us autovigiliophilia is caused by our paranoia/paranoid delusions :3! )

-Vee

[thedigitalwave]

If you ever think the radqueer community is wrong by despising "survivors of the radqueer community", just think of Oli London.

He labeled himself as queer and was transrace. Now he hates queer people and trace people, says they're all the same mob of horribleness, and thrashes trans people because he's now christian and doesn't identify with those "beliefs".

Do you really think he was right? If yes, you're just a bigot, congratulations, but if not, where do you draw the line? At hating "actual queer people"? At hating "an actual minority"? Because I've never seen a non-queer radqueer. I've never seen a radqueer who's never been oppressed in any way. And with the amount of hate we've gotten, you can bet (and I know it's true) that a lot of antis are bigoted. I've seen antis be so straight up ableist while "fighting against ableism", I've seen them call radqueers the r slur and say horrible shit. And you can't say that's not a majority, I've never seen an anti who isn't conservative-coded and doesn't spew bigoted bullshit.

Because the nature of antis is segregation between binaries that don't exist as a binary. Disabled vs abled is not a binary, yet I've seen antis say that people can never become disabled, which is just stupid. As a white latino, POC vs white is not a binary I fall into, yet they really want to separate those and say people can never ever identify as something other than what they're born and perceived as.

They want to separate them because it's less confusing and less problematic. They want to maintain the status quo of never letting minorities become privileged as an identity (e.g. transwhiteness and nullabledness), and of never letting privileged people identify with minorities. Privilege or minority status will likely never leave us and we're not saying it will, but muddying the waters will never be something less than good. Because that only empowers.

In my humble opinion, saying disability and other minority status is desirable and inherently neutral or good, is not harmful. Because the other option is saying disability and other minority status is inherently undesirable regardless of how the disabled person or minority feels about it.

Anyway. I have said this multiple times, but having a distinct line between privilege status and minority status that no one can cross is not a good thing and will never be.

[wingwisher]

As a CSA victim I actually have my own opinions on this whole thing.

First off, treating it as a mental disorder is largely unhelpful, it is a sexual orientation, just one that happens to target a class of entity that cannot consent (not going to get too far into this point right now but to any minors who are reading and take issue with the "minors cannot consent" stance, I will remind you that under the current legal framework in the majority of the world minors are treated as property, and property cannot meaningfully say no, thus cannot consent.)

I agree they should be encouraged to go to therapy, and find community with others who deal with the same attractions, because that is actually shown to be helpful, so long as the goal of "treatment" is not to remove the attraction (can't do it. It's as much conversion torture when done to MAPs as when done to gay people, and a lot of people don't like hearing that, but it has identical effects on the psyche)

I do very much appreciate that you separate those who just experience an attraction to minors from those who actually perpetrate CSA (I'm not getting into prison abolition on this post) in part because, most MAPs DO NOT COMMIT CSA and most people who commit CSA are not actually sexually attracted to minors. The #1 predictor of rape is not sexual attraction experienced by the attacker, it's a power imbalance between the attacker and victim. It's the ability to exert authority to do awful things without repercussion, not any actual desire for the one being harmed.

Paraphilias of any sort cannot be medicated away of therapised away, but also tend not to be the ones raping anyone in the first place. If you want to stop children from being raped you need to make it so children can leave any situation they want no matter what.

In conclusion, it's not a mental disorder, and harming and stigmatizing those who carry such attractions certainly doesn't make things better, and in fact usually make things worse. Through both abusing those who have done nothing wrong, and creating blindspots for predators to exist in.

People really seem to want to believe that fundamentally bad person disorder is a real thing that exists and is worth being concerned about

[disabled-sysboxes]

are people with other paraphilias/paraphilic that aren't the big three (pedo, zoo, necro) or objectively harmful interact or are you uncomfortable with that as well? /genuine

we are comfortable with those with non illegal / harmful paraphilias to interact, as we may have a paraphilia ourselves (although we arent too sure).

[tyrianluda]

im really out here researching about a hypothetical paraphila from a transphobic researcher. this is so fucking annoying