#complex contact

[medikalmalpraktice]

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for m4ps n 4ams who are transl0li/cisl0li

[parasupport]

Hello! Sorry for the question, I tried to seek the answer myself but I couldn't find any explanation unfortunately. What is 'complex contact', exactly? I understand no contact and all that, but how does complex contact work? What does it mean? Thank you

It's basically just having varying opinions depending on the situation

I find that anti-contact lacks too much nuance. I think if you're going to call a type of relationship unethical, there's got to be an actual reason why the individual can't consent effectively, and anti-contact discussions often just end at 'they're x years old' rather than continuing to say 'and this is why they're not cut out to consent in this situation'

I also think that because the world has different legal ages of consent and different ideas of ethical age gaps, it's arbitrary to just pick an age and call it the universal age of consent and apply it to every situation. Especially when people take the American AoC and apply it to everywhere

[still-a-bastard]

Some articles on contact discourse, explaining what it is and what each label means.

[radicalqueerness]

I love you trans depressed peeps lol <333

[mynameis-a]

Sorry If you've explained this before but what does contact complex mean? I've seen it before but I don't really know exactly what it means :0)

it basically means that my stance of whether contact is appropriate or not when it comes to paraphilias is a bit more complicated than can be summed up with pro, neutral, or anti!

to be a bit more specific what it means for me:

if a para is involving something where gaining consent is not nessicary, (like inanimate objects or something centered around oneself), than contact is something i fully support!

if a para involves an actual person seperate from yourself, than i also support contact for that! but only with explicit consent from the involved parties. (ex: contact for somnophilia would be completely fine as long as the sleeping person has provided explicit aware consent beforehand)

if a para involves something where informed consent is impossible to obtain, than i am very strictly anti-contact. (think animals, children, corpses, and anything similar)

[schemelin]

Palmer and Altairus

[queerautism]

Okay fuck calling it no contact I'm gonna say I had a parentdectomy from now on

[medikalmalpraktice]

NECROMAP AND NECROAAM

NecroM4P

necro4AM

for m4ps/4ams who are also necrophiles

[fazgoo-connoiseur-1987]

but i'm obsolete

[moonsun2010]

our uni held an art jam, so i got to try my hand at painting! quite fun even if half the time was spent panicking over the values

[deadrobinsclub-est1988]

Damian Cray: *progressively going more off the rails*

Yassen and Alex:

[shmorp-mcdurgen]

Two sides of the same coin

Wanted to draw all my aus' G-men and Gordons in the same image so here they are

[snapnarcissisticabuserecovery]

[nothing0fnothing]

When you went no contact, did your parents lose their shit?

Yep mine did. It was a heavy 6 months of threats, gaslighting and smear campaigns. It was horrible to go through as an 18 year old who just wanted to build a normal life out of the nothing I'd been handed.

I went no contact at 17 and a year later my entire family had fallen apart. My siblings went no contact, my parents had divorced and sold the houses and the vibe was absolutely rancid.

It's because the scapegoat is the most important person in the dynamic. When you go no contact they either need to find someone else to blame for their own actions or the whole thing goes to shit.

[vibatu]

“Hope. A strange concept, after so long seeing myself as the agent of ruin.

Oh. Oh.

So that's some piece of a crumb over why Kuras is so "curious" about the MC.

"-Few would cling to life so resolutely"

Hope has become such a foreign concept to him after so long, especially looking at the current state of Eridia, oh I'm gonna be sick.

[vocalux]

Complex-c para radq?

— complex - c radqueer

flag for individuals who are radqueer and complex - contact !