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turning anon off starting jan 1!
such negative vibes being spread rn w other writers & even in my inbox ,, PLEASE for the love of god if u want to read fics ,,, remember that this shit is free and done in our own time . coming back to demanding and entitled asks is crazy (it’s also the holidays and most of us are working students !!! personally ,, i work mon-fri 8-3pm as a preschool teacher, weekends as a lash tech, and am in school full time … i hate updating if my asks the way they are rn) also … be nice ? is it that hard to be nice ?
let’s do this together ,, ok? we’re gonna start 2025 with clean and pretty pussies 😘
#ask kimi#i literally hate anon#but i try so hard to give it a chance cos#i understand some of u want privacy / are too shy#completely understand that#but unfortunately this is one of those situations where#negativity impacts and ruins it for everyone#do better !!!#be better !!!#to rude anons#i hope u never get bts tickets
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so many bands write songs about “relatable issues” that don’t resonate while the mountain goats write songs about issues no one has ever experienced before that are universal
#sometimes i legitimately have no idea what he is talking about but i also understand completely#like. the rivers *WERE* dry cuz it *WAS* late August!!!! FUCK!!!!!!!!!!#and don’t even get me started on certain gardening secrets you don’t have yet (or certain gardening skills you’ll never learn)#the mountain goats#tmg
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something that drives me insane on a relatively regular basis as a body jewelry understander is talking to people who have sensitive skin who are like "oh well I just can't wear any earrings without my ears getting inflamed" and I say "well what have you tried" and they say "well I've tried sterling silver and I've tried gold..." and it's like. ok. I don't know how gold and sterling somehow got spun by the jewelry industry as being especially good for sensitive skin but whenever I'm like "well have you tried implant grade titanium" they're always like "no....... but I've tried sterling silver... and it didn't work ..." like. I don't know how this narrative about sterling silver somehow got so strong but when they put pins in your fucking legs when you snap your leg in half are those pins made of sterling silver or are they made of implant grade titanium or surgical steel????????? HELLO. HI. YOU MIGHT BENEFIT FROM TRYING IMPLANT GRADE TITANIUM I AM JUST SAYING
#if I have had this conversation with you. I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at whoever lied to you about various metals.#look I completely understand if your body happens to think that your piercing is an open wound for two decades#I have been there.#and I promise you the answer. is implant grade titanium.#there are many solutions to this problem one of them is implant grade titanium the other is surgical steel sometimes.#the other is sometimes if you can stretch the piercing to like... 10g#you can put a surgical grade silicone sleeve in there and then you can use cheaper metals for earrings#because they will not be touching your flesh they will be touching the silicone sleeve.#anyway the point is#someone should pay me to be some sort of piercing advisor.#there has been a lot of progress made in the area of body safe metals in the last 50 years is the thing#and we are fortunate enough to live now and not 50 years ago.#the mainstream jewelry industry has not exactly caught up with this.
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I think that “Anakin was a slave child who was groomed by Palpatine and raised by someone who wasn’t ready to take on a child, thereby leaving him in a social limbo state where he’s surrounded by people but only has a few close confidants, with the one he trusts the most actively trying to take advantage of him”
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“Anakin was taught right from wrong from a young age, first by his mother and then by Kenobi, but any time he was presented with a choice, actively CHOSE WRONG EVERY SINGLE TIME”
are two sentences that can, should, and MUST coexist to fully understand Anakin Skywalker as a character
Edit: PART 2 of this post here
#watching people debate him is so interesting to me#pro-Anakin people get it right in that upbringing shapes how a person is: he’s a slave child and had to leave his mom#so of COURSE he’s going to have an iron grip on people attachment-wise#but they tend to deny Anakin his own autonomy and resolve him of every bad thing he did#when it’s like: no. he DID all of that. not just did it…but did it once then did it again#meanwhile anti-Anakin people (usually) tend to understand that Anakin made terrible choices#but again…they either deny him autonomy by making him an always-evil character#or by just downplay the relationship he has with Obi-Wan or Padme. Completely dehumanizing him.#Like the truth is in the middle: he’s a deeply complex person#(arguably more so than fandom can completely understand)#it doesn’t help it that these people either tend to be pro Jedi (anti-Anakin) or pro Sith (pro Anakin)#Pro Jedi people tend to be…Xenophobic is the nicest term for how they treat Anakin#But pro Sith people tend to claim that the Jedi are a cult (they aren’t) and Anakin was groomed by it (he wasn’t)#So they use Anakin as the sort of doll to put all of their beliefs into. Which again we circle around to dehumanizing this character#star wars tcw#star wars#anakin skywalker#star wars meta#Anakin Skywalker meta
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People with autism or ADHD: I have this symptom
Me, a schizophrenic: oh me too!
People with autism or ADHD: I have this symptom
Me, a schizophrenic: haha yeah I got that too
People with autism or ADHD: I have this symptom
Me, a schizophrenic: yeah I deal with that daily
People with autism or ADHD: have you been checked for autism/ADHD? It really seems like you have it
Me, a schizophrenic: you know those are all possible symptoms of schizophrenia too right? You know that we have more than just psychosis right? And we can experience almost every symptom of autism and ADHD combined right? You know that we are more alike than we are different, right? Right?
#this isnt meant as an attack on people with adhd or autism#more like a reminder that no symptom is exclusive to any disorder#and i have had people with adhd or autism say they think i have it too irl#and im not always in a safe enough position to out myself as schizophrenic irl#so im hoping this reaches people as a way to not try and diagnose others#but also to understand that other people can have the same symptoms as you but have a completely different disorder#schizophrenia#adhd#autism#mental illness#neurodivergent#nd#psychosis#schizophrenic#actuallyschizophrenic#mental health awareness#pseriouslypsychotic
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Don’t mind me I just like to see him go bananas about cartoonish Autobot rules
Maaan…..if Prowl was in tfp he would spontaneously combust at least once a day
#maccadam#transformers#prowl#tf prowl#there is no Prowl in Tfp so Optimus can pull all kinds of heroic cartoonish bullshit#and only Ratchet actually calls him out on it#but Ratchet also kinda has soft spot for Optimus#Op does sad eyes and Ratchet is like okay okay sorry I understand#Prowl would see the whole situation and lose his marbles immediately ahahahah#lol hey hey you. two people who read tags. imagine little au realquick#Autobots find the escape pod with Smokescreen right#but there’s two bots instead of one#back on the base humans look at the new guys and like#Smokey is fun and energetic and eager for heroism and adventure#and then there’s Prowl. The final boss. The ultimate MOM.#He makes one step into base and immediately starts scolding Optimus and everyone except for Ratchet#agent Fowler listens to him talking and decides that Prowl is his favorite autobot#damn. Prowl would SO not approve keeping humans around. Kids would hate him#but also he would be completely right. Because by keeping humans that close Autobots basically show that the humans can be used as leverage#against them you know.#He would immediately suggest getting rid of kids and hiring actual competent adults instead. So all hacking can be done by professionals#and all infiltrating can be done by people who are at least old enough to drink you know#yea kids would haaaate him so much#he would also build make all kinds of little annoying gadgets bc I have read Covenant of Primus and tfp Prowl is smart like that#he would be going around sticking trackers on every enemy he fights#and then triangulating Cons positions by the coordinates where their signals stop tracking#bc Nemesis blocks them#He would also keep sending Smokey to ghost through walls and steal all kinds of valuable shit from Megsy#they would be such a menace together#man this is getting kinda long I should probably stop
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It's real and it's coming soon 🏇🏜️
#gyro zeppeli#johnny joestar#gyjo#steel ball run#sbr#jjba#jojo's bizarre adventure#can't believe i woke up at 6 am on a weekend to watch the announcement live when i don't even understand japanese#completely worth it tho
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[Dick letting Tim into the cave for the first time]
Dick, leading Alfred away from Tim: Al could I talk to you over here for a sec?
Alfred: Of course, Master Dick. Is everything alright?
Dick, whispering: Yeah yeah, everything’s fine Al.
*Tim looking at the bat computer*
Dick, louder: I sure hope nobody try’s on my old suit while we’re looking away!
*Tim taking pictures of the bats in the rocks of the cave*
Dick: THERE WOULD BE NOTHING YOU OR I COULD DO TO STOP THEM IF THEY DID!
*Tim inspecting a batarang*
Dick: sigh
#Tim: why are you yelling? are you okay?#Dick: I SURE HOPE NO ONE TAKES MY SUIT AND WEARS IT INTO THE GOTHAM STREETS STRAIGHT INTO BATMANS PATROL ROUTE#Tim: I wouldn’t do that!!#Dick: Nobody would be mad if you did! it would be completely understandable and expected of a normal child#Tim: are you calling me weird? :/#Dick: noooo… well#Tim >:|#batfamily#dick grayson#tim drake#alfred pennyworth#nightwing#robin#robin iii#dc#Batman#batfam
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BOONE: bitch scoot over… i love yall…
#twisters#twisters spoilers#twistersedit#brandon perea#daisy-edgar jones#glen powell#filmedit#filmgifs#moviegifs#usereri#*#boone#kate carter#tyler owens#and i understand him completely#blood tw
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you know, you know. no gods, no masters, no kings on pedestals. everyone is fallible. death of the author. you know! you are balanced about your intake of media - you allow the wiggle room, the grace, the gratitude, the skepticism. nobody above criticism.
but still. a weird gut-punch feeling, something akin to betrayal. you read the article. surprise! an author you love is actually: a serial fucking predator.
well, shit. what now. no, you knew he was a person (all people are), but now you're wondering - what have i overlooked by accident? what messages have i internalized that are strange and cruel? and also, like, what the fuck?
his actions lay a thick glaze on top of everything. like each place is now ruined, opaque in a new way. but okay, fine, you've done this before. you knew better, right? you've been betrayed by many a cherished childhood author.
still, this stickiness. fuck. can you pick up that book again. will you read it to your children. you've recommended it to others - will you ever do that again? and of course, of course, no parasocial relationships. you were theoretically above this kind of sentiment. but the artist informs the art, right.
so it's not something as clear-cut as feeling he owed you, specifically (a stranger) better behavior - just that you kind of, in a distant and odd way... sort of trusted him to do better. it's not like a real trust or something speakable, just the faint hope that the product (good books) was a thin representation of the soul. now it feels like the product (good? books?) was a mask. in some small or insignificant way, your previous support of this person lent them power. your money and your time and your laughter.
and the thing is - you have this terrible, echoing sensation. how many times will this happen? over and over. you find out that the singer you love is actually a predator. you learn over drinks that your favorite high school english teacher is in jail for what he did to her. you listen to the news idly and suddenly discover that a woman you used to idolize has been abusing her kids for an actual eon.
what can you touch without the static melting off. you can't even really complain about it too much (you were supposed to know better, and besides, you don't want the same re-split "it's not your fault, love what you love" basic advice), but now it's here. somehow, it feels like - you let him into your life.
it's not that things need to be pure or an artist has to be like, endlessly perfect, mindful. demure. it's more just this terrible truth that has been replayed through your veins so often it feels criminally vain. power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. did you want any one person to be worth that power?
it's just that he wrote books where he seemed to understand that. he seemed to know about hierarchies and unfair systems and bigotry and privilege. you thought they were books about what it means to struggle. you thought they were about having power and still using it for good rather than for control. he spooned you a narrative of being a good guy, a kind soul. you fucking bought what that fucking monster sold.
maybe that's why they were fantasies, after all.
#spilled ink#warm up#oh im .... sick to my stomach.#i talked to him. like ....... we talked. that man interacted with my poetry and writing.#that article.... gutwrenching. i am so sorry to everyone he's ever even been in the room with.#i feel.... like... unbearably. sick.#he acted like he was cool and friends with me!! we were cool internet writers together!!!!!#i feel sick for even having been polite to him.#i ...... am experiencing something so fucking complicated.#i wonder how many of u are feeling that too. like ''oh i sent him an ask and he was funny and sweet''#THATS HOW THEY GET U. ..... and YES I KNOW!!!#i am so fucking well-read about parasocial relationships. it would just be nice to like. trust that someone ISNT#hiding a huge fucking background of BEING A COMPLETE MONSTER. LIKE WHAT THE FUCK.#by the way i am not part of a fandom. this is “what the fuck i accidentally supported a rapist” not#“but my showww”. like i care far more about like. the human cost.#but also like... people are people. idk i saw a take on here about how nobody should mourn the books#and idk. people almost always reply to any scenario with their personal experience first -#''i knew him'' or ''wow i was just at that store'' or ''i grew up there'' or whatever. because that is how we establish connection &#emotional weight. that's just... a person thing. and there is a difference between 'oh this guy is a monster'' & the feeling of:#he's been a monster and i SUPPORTED THAT. i CELEBRATED him. i !!! a fucking victim myself!!!!!!!!! SUPPORTED . HIM.#i am sick. i feel so much pain for her and everyone he's ever hurt. saying ''the books are ruined'' is i think ... like how people say#they're shocked and disgusted by him. (obviously there's nuance here. im sure there's some creep doin it wrong. but u know. in general)#idk..... im an author. i understand my work is in your life in whatever small way. i understand that connection. it's real.
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understanding academic concepts got me blushing swinging my legs giggling
#dude I spent like 3h trying to understand one algorithm yesterday & wrote the messiest most confusing ever paragraph abt it to the thesis#only to have a WAIT A MINUTE-moment today and completely rewriting that in like 20minutes#dont wanna say yesterday was wasted bc I'm sure that was just the thinking process I had to go through to get it to my head#studyblr#uni studyblr#april 2024#2024
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My friend doesn’t watch 911 but she lets me tell her about what’s going on in the fandom anyway and lmaoooo
#911 abc#Buddie#couch theory#Eddie Diaz#evan buckley#lmao at her general understanding of couch theory#but complete ignorance of either of their names#god bless friends who listen to your special interest rambles no matter how uninvested they are#for context I was telling her about the leaked goodbye uhaul clip#and the general chaos it has caused
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rivals
#haikyuu#haikyuu!!#hinata shouyou#kozume kenma#fanart#ik tons of ppl have drawn a similar concept before but ive wanted to do one too for ages AKSJKA#was so overwhelmed by how amazing the nekoma movie was last yr and didnt end up drawing anything bc i wouldnt be able to live up to it kjhf#it looks so much better on my computer screen than my phone tho what da hell.... WHATEVER itll look completely different printed out anyway#ANYWAY !! FIRST PROPER ART OF THE YEAR HELLO#this year i would like to get better AT#COMPOSITION. SHAPE LANGUAGE. 3D FORMS AND SIMPLIFICATION#i like realism and its what im used to but last year i was thinking a lot abt art i admire and its always very Shapes#obv u need to understand realism to be able to do that which is why i go to life drawing#but yea. u have to practise BOTH at the same time theyre 2 diff skill sets which can feed into each other#anyways that was my big realisation last year#the last few pieces have not been turning out Exactly how i want them to but i have to remind myself its what i can achieve#at my current skill level and i have to keep studying and looking and learning if i wanna improve#anyways. ART!!!!#took several pics of myself with a kitchen knife to use as ref for this lmao
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Shadow Milk Cookie's reaction when Y/n Cookie spends more time with Pure Vanilla Cookie than with him
the supposed ask for this below!
#I think as much as he wants to burn all of it#he completely understands how much you paid for all of those and he makes dolls and prob more than that....so he wont burn them...#alli answers#crk x reader#crk x you#shadow milk cookie x reader#shadow milk x reader#HELP WRONG ASK BUT YOU GET THE POINT RIGHT????#alli is so stupid sorry chat
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#fruits basket#furuba#tohru honda#yuki sohma#my art#rats#hello! it has been a long time!! i am so sorry!!! \;O;;/#a lot of things happened including that i got a job so now i am considered slightly more of an adult (not that this determines adulthood)#and i never ended up watching season 2 and 3...#but now i have to bc there are spoilers everywhere when i try to look anything up about the series!!#i did a full reread of the manga recently and im sobbing bc i understood the later parts a lot more than i did when i was younger..#i feel like i understand more about it every time i reread it as i get older#when i was younger i definitely gravitated towards rereading parts with my favorite characters over and over#i also recently managed to find a tokyopop vol. 22 and 23 so i completed my collection!! \;;-;;/ (i should have done this earlier..)#i am so happy people liked the zine picture! thank you so much for the kind tags!! ;;w;; i see them and they make me so happy!!! \>////</#i hope everyone is doing well!!!
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"too many selfship prompts and imagines are revolved around healthy and happy dynamics and interactions and its boring".
no hate to any of you as i completely get where you're coming from. however. holds your hand. you do know that you're in a virtual community that is the equivalent of a shelter filled with traumatized pets right. surely you're aware of this.
#selfship#selfshipping#self ship#self shipping#safeship#safeshipping#the bun talks#this is not at all to diss people who like having more realistic and angst-y relationships with their f/os. you are completely allowed that#[unless you're pr0sh1t. die forever for a million years.]#but also you have to understand that this is coping mechanism central.#we are all sad pets that want treats and cuddles 24/7.#some of us wanna play tug of war and tear a plushie to shreds sure.#but ultimately we would like a hug and some sweet words of affirmation.#and not all of us want to treat our relationships with our f/os like a writing exercise. /lighthearted.#i am saying this with so much love i promise.#i'll see if i regret making this post later i'm just letting myself talk and talk.
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