#but i HATE being harsh on people
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ughhhh being the bad cop sucks
#tw vent#i have a friend who is playing the victim#and i care too much about them to let them keep living like that#but i HATE being harsh on people#bc i know what it feels like to have done smth wrong and be upset abt the way you’re treated afterwards#but like…..#sometimes u RLY need a reality check!!!#and apparently i’m the only bitch who was gonna do it 😞#i wanna throw my phone in the ocean#i don’t wanna see their response 😭😭#wish me luck yall#venus talks
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AU where Loki doesn’t interfere with Thor’s banishment at all and it takes Thor years to prove himself worthy and when he returns to Asgard everything is just. The same. Nothing seems to have changed at all and everyone greets him like his absence was a minor obstacle that didn’t fundamentally change Thor and the worst part is Loki stepped down from the place as regent without any delay and Thor can’t help but feel there’s something underlaying the way his brother looks at him now and won’t let him touch him and Thor doesn’t know what he could have missed because he doesn’t think he would have found anything wrong with the things around him and how everyone behaves if he hadn’t spent time on Earth reflecting.
#the warriors 4 not being interested in anything Thor ‘learnt’ at all#and making it clear that Thor was punished unfairly and the AllFather’s decision had been harsh#Loki saying he’s happy for Thor and Thor sees the way the smiles are forced and he sees the way Loki avoids any touch#Thor hating the way Frigga talks about Loki’s short regency and Thor’s absence like it wasn’t two whole decades or something#like she’s so grateful to have her other son back without ever addressing why he was gone#Thor just. growing during his time on earth and being much more aware of the behaviour around him#he learns to be critical and assess why people around him may act a certain way#once he realises that it’s possible for him or anyone else to be fallible and make mistakes it’s over for Asgard for him I think#Thor returns and Loki gives him the throne and everyone expects him to obviously have the throne#and Odin is sleeping and Thor isn’t comfortable with the way everyone accepts him as king regent after the banishment#Loki who either never lashed out against Jotunheim or did and it was brushed away and no one thinks about it as anything#but Loki is still deeply affected and acts the way he always would have but Thor can feel it’s not the same#he knows something is wrong and Loki won’t say anything about it and Thor doesn’t know how to bring it up#Thor sees Loki metaphorically receding into the shadows to become a nonpresence so loud Thor hears it even after returning from decades away#Thor goes to Earth and gets his priorities in order gets a new worldview learns not to take what he has for granted#and finds out he actually despised Asgard#he’s been back a week and he can’t stand it
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Never seen it really discussed but despite his complaints about Pony Express, Jimmy is the only crew member to somewhat like being on the Tulpar.
Of course, the reason is sort of shallow, he likes being there due to the control he has in the cock pit as co-pilot. The fact that he’s actually in charge for once, even on such a minor scale. Everyone else has this open or held in contempt for physically being there but he likes it on a fundamental level, freaks out and lashes out on such a personal level when he realizes he’s losing the first job he’s probably enjoyed and that stability/control.
It’s not anything specific or I think polarizing about Jimmy but I feel like it adds to how he tells Curly this is home to him. Earth is objectively not a place of ease or comfort for Jimmy, but the Tulpar is. It’s a fucked up perversion of home and that’s so interesting for his character who also hates the corporate culture the most out of all of them.
#again the whole him adjusting well to the Tulpar from Curly’s words#talking about liking control in the cock pit the fond memories of karaoke#his debatable lack of care in actually getting them rescued like he doesn’t hate#being on the Tulpar he just hates that they aren’t solely in charge of it and by they I mean him and curly#and by him and curly I just mean him like idk I think he likes the micro biome it creates for them#too many social rules and standards on earth but here it’s so personal it’s by what the people set and he’s one of the most important people#position wise so he very much likes being there cause he’s a nobody on earth but not here#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#jimmy mouthwashing#his reasoning for liking being there is just as shallow as not liking being there#having to put in effort for work but less to be respected and socially responsible#cause at the party he still doesn’t know Anya is pregnant so that was all anger at curly and losing his job#which is harsh if we assume he hated the job he’d be like so what else can you get me to curly vs the lashing out#he both was mad at curly for gaining an opportunity to leave him but mad he’d lost the one place he’s not at the bottom
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I HATE DREAM i gotta do this preface every single time i come to his defense smh
i understand dream not being able to remember if he called someone a whore who didn't want to be and asking for information to figure this out instead of refuting it. if he does casually and jokingly call his friends whores and he accidentally did it to someone he didn't know would be upset by that and didn't get a negative reaction to it in that moment ESPECIALLY while drunk, wouldn't remember either in that situation. adhd makes you forgetful like that. it is still bad, but it makes perfect sense that he might forget something like that!
#dream situation#please no one get angry at me cuz i hate dream#i fucking hate him but people are genuinely being too harsh on this particular thing#hyffae.txt
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I was tagged by @threecheers-forsweetrevenge (thanks!) and so
Propaganda for each one:
Empty cans/bottles/glasses: I currently have 30 on display, including a plastic cup from a MCR concert and a can of RedBull Birne-Zimt which cannot be found in my country and I store like it was a bottle of Don Perignon
The Virginity Corner (aka RedBull merch): includes a 2d statuette of Max Verstappen, a small RB18 toycar and a hilarious mug gifted to me by my tifoso friend that is the "I love my boyfriend" template with Max Verstappen in the middle of the heart. I cannot overstate how much I did NOT ask for this (also has a pretty funny story behind it).
Vintage Star Wars statuette: THEY EVEN ROTATE WHAT MORE CAN YOU ASK FOR. C3P0 holds one of his legs in his hand and it swings.
Buzz Lightyear: I had dreamed of this toy since I was 8 years old. I never got it because of my speech impediment (long story). I bought it for myself when I was 16 in Ireland, I hid it in my backpack and during the last day of class I accidentally hit one of the buttons and jumpscared my classmates with "TO INFINITY AND BEYOND" coming from under my desk.
Rock stuck under my boot: It's not just a rock, it's a boulder the most physical reminder of my happiest days, during which, forr a while, I was the person I aspired to be.
Tobacco pipes: I like pipes in general and you must know I have a very small one that it's foldable. A foldable pipe. With it you'd be the most ethereal and fuckable person at the club. "Oh, we going out for a smoke? Let me just unfold my pipe and I'll be right with you".
French soft porn spy novel: gifted to me on my birthday from my tifoso friend together with the "I love my boyfriend" Max mug. However tacky you think its cover may look like, it's worse, trust me. I genuinely hold this dear to my heart.
I am not sure if some of these people have done it before but anyway, here I tag: @montalbanosbaldhead @queer-frenchmermaid @raikkonenvettels @regina-del-cielo
#harsh night tonight so you here comes the infodump about random important objects of my life#also not only coming out way more than before as a certified Max fan (I will follow him in every team)#but also to all those hate wars I see on here between people who like one driver/team over the other I tell you#my tin-can team ass and diehard tifoso friend watched the Monza GP together drinking pear juice and#filling out a bingo card I had especially made for the occasion#I love being a hater I'm a hater first and foremost but sometimes it's also nice to chill with the enemy ya know
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i’m gonna take my nap and then just not wake up
#— yap central#This just feels like they’re shitting on his entire character#im not saying the ending to a story HAS to be happy or satisfying#but Gojo deserved so much better let’s bffr#so much symbolism and teasing and edging#all for us to get a heartbreaking flashback where he’s like ‘yeeeh people are gonna forget me’#no one has mentioned him#no one has mourned him#no one has cried over him#like wth kind of ending is that for a character regardless?#we get it Gege you hate Gojo#lowkey feels like it is done out of spite…#I do not see the reasoning behind it#like it could have been executed so much better but this just seems to be purely to take a piss?#am I being too harsh or unreasonable here? please tell me if I am the crazy one here#jjk leaks#jjk spoilers#jjk 271
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why does every percabeth fanfic make piper into annabeth's hot girl friend who helps her with fashion and makeup............ piper does not give a fuck about fashion or makeup and she dresses like a rustic grandpa on purpose. like what
#not to be too harsh but I think a lot of people don't pay attention to anything piper says or does#and the only thing they retain about her character is “daughter of aphrodite” so that automatically makes her the Hot Fashion Girlie#thus making her the perfect accessory to clueless annabeth who needs the romcom makeover#currently reading a fic where piper is annabeth's fashion model bff#piper???? the girl who hates drawing attention to herself and being judged for her looks? a fashion model???????#she's not the focus of the story but it's like Wow. can u explain that choice because I don't understand#heavily considering whether or not to exclude works from the dgp collection over side character writing#I don't really want to but like man. it's so jarring#probably won't. but it really takes me out of the story#baye.txt#pjo
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#swear every time I see a video about gentle parenting and go to the comments#and see people bashing on or hating on gentle parenting#and they’re#saying things like ‘what kind of parent damages their kid by this horrible gentle parenting trend’#it makes me feel sad for this person#because my friend the basis of this parenting style and tactic is to be more understanding and empathetic with your child and allow them to#have a space for their feelings#while still maintaining boundaries#its as if they see the word ‘gentle’#and think wow you’re being to easy on your kids the world will be so much harsher to them#and yes the world will be harsh but you don’t need to be
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Hey so do you know where I could find this acting manifesto of yours?
I usually try and avoid publicly expressing my opinion on things like this but I recently saw some people commenting negatively on his acting again and I’m starting to doubt my own judgement.
I’ve truly never had a huge problem with his acting but I keep seeing people using really harsh words to describe his prior and current work. I genuinely think he’s doing a good job in THK but these comments sometimes make me think I’m missing something.
That conflicts with the fact I know at least three people he worked with on THK specifically had positive things to say about his acting too and I trust people who do this for a living to know what they’re talking about for the most part.
I guess I’m just looking for your post to have a more detailed perspective of the opposite viewpoint to “he’s a terrible actor” to help affirm some of my thinking so I’m more confident in my positive opinion of his acting.
Overall though I’m enjoying everyone in this show but for me I’m specifically enjoying the four mains the most. Kudos to them honestly.
(Disclaimer: Obviously everyone is entitled to their opinion but the harshness of some of the opinions took me off guard a little.)
fuck these people. they don't know shit.
(mind you. this manifesto was written based on his performance in just star in my mind and hidden agenda. his 2024 shows weren't even out at that point. in fact, thk hadn't even been publicly announced yet. you can see from the start there is talent in this boy if you actually know what to look out for)
bonus: i rant some more in the last reblog
#''i trust people who do this for a living to know what they're talking about'' <- yeah. exactly#i'm only semi-qualified bc i don't actually do this for a living#(yet. not yet‚ hopefully)#but i do have a diploma in acting#and i had two fantastic teachers who made a point of teaching us students how to analyze acting performances#on my last class with one of these teachers he actually told me i'd make a good director based on the feedback i'd give my peers in class#i'm not saying you need to trust my acting opinions and that they are the only correct™ ones (god no)#but my opinions likely have more legitimacy than those of the majority of fans (and haters)#anon you mind collecting some of the harsh things that are being said? i wanna know if they even come with receipts#asks#anon#airenyah no. 1 dunk defender#dunk natachai#adrm#yeah istg. if i keep hearing (about) people talking shit about dunk's acting#i may write a part two of this manifesto once thk is over and i'm done with my weekly style meta project#also!! sometimes he DOES mess up!! sometimes things don't go that smoothly!!#BUT SO WHAT#it's mostly individual instances#like his monologue in the thk ep8 crying scene#that was the first time in the entire series so far where i was like ''kid this is not your finest moment you can do better than this''#(the build up was wrong‚ he stayed on the same level and acted out mostly the obvious)#(it would have been more interesting if he hadn't gone into the monologue with a whiny voice from the first second on)#(the emotional arc would have been more interesting and the drop down to the crying would have been bigger and more effective)#anyway. he's ACING this role and my style metas are basically a love letter to his acting too#because i wouldn't be able to write 10k(+) words on style every week if the things weren't there in his performance#anyway fuck these people i think most of them have decided to hate dunk from the start or are parroting their friends' words#they'll just hate whatever he does on principle bc they don't actually care#and they don't care to look at his improvement either bc they just hate him on principle#anon don't let their words drag down your enjoyment of dunk's performance!! because i'm telling you there is SO MUCH JOY to be found!!!!!!
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so anyway france news nobody cares about
SO remember in summer when our president suddenly decided ''ehhh fuck our current government line-up let's start over let's have a vote" for no reason and leftist parties united to have better odds of beating the right and they won so the president was supposed to pick a prime minister from the left
and then he didn't and he picked Some Rightie that nobody had heard about in decades Anyway yeah that new government might get voted out again With potentially our president having to resign too
#tldr president didn't give a fuck about democracy did things his own way despite the people's choice and it's backfiring severely#so now we might end up without a government Again even tho our current one is like. 4 months old.#his whole excuse for picking a rightie as PM was “if i pick a leftie the other parties will never agree with him & nothing will get done :(”#and Lo And Behold nothing's getting done anyway in fact the entire government is on hold and Might collapse at any moment#so shit's going great hey#all because like. new PM's proposal for the country's budgeting was Shit Everyone Hated like#the right hated it for being too harsh on rich people and companies the left hated it for Not being harsh enough on rich people & companies#somehow both sides came to the agreement ''fuck the PM and his stupid budget'' but he was like. you activated my trap card#so in france there's this thing governments can do called 49.3 where. whatever they want to sign into law Will be signed into law#even if nobody agrees with it like usually all the government members are supposed to have a vote for these things#but with 49.3 it's like. nah no vote Fuck all of y'all i'm the PM i do what i want#so PM did that and then both the left and right went. Fine! we're voting to kick you out lmao#and the president might get caught in his fall for nominating him in the first place when he wasn't supposed to
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Something I love about art is, often, you won't be able to tell who made the piece of art - no matter what, no matter one's background, gender, or anything - people want to surround themselves with beauty, creation, something which stirs ones emotions, warmth, fear, care, and love. There's something special about that.
#art#this was something that helped me move on from being a Male Crocheter (derogatory) btw#how can surrounding myself with creation and beauty be unmanly. have you SEEN a king before. that man would be DRIPPED TF OUT#death to the idea that you must create 'in accordance' to what is expected of you <3#sometimes i hate that i can have a piece of knitwear for example and know nothing of the person who made it though#i want to know them like i know the sky and the trees in my yard and the feeling of winter's harsh winds while you are inside and warm#i wonder if that's how archeologists and anthropologists feel#of course there is art which will never be able to be separated from the person who made it and I LOVE ART LIKE THAT AND I LIVE FOR IT#please tell me who you are through the things you make. force me to understand your beared soul#honestly i think Creation in any form is what makes people unique
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Hi, I just wondered what your favourite part of the Fenhawke romance was? Like, a scene/moment that really made you fall more in love with him? I love your writing so much!!
Oh, that is very kind of you to say! 💗I'm glad you enjoy the things I've written. I've really been enjoying writing for this ship, especially the past few months c:
As for your question...
Man, that's tough. I have a hard time picking one thing---I mean, *gestures to all the fic* you know? But I can narrow it down to a couple of scenes/elements:
The fact that a romanced Fenris still calls you "my friend" even after the act 2 romance scene. This is just...the bedrock of their relationship to me. Yes, that night went very poorly (understatement, I know), but at the core they are friends and he trusts Hawke in a way he's likely never had the cause or opportunity to trust someone before. I believe he never stopped loving Hawke, and it was a matter of laying those feelings out and understanding them one at a time. Romantic love not replacing platonic love or eclipsing it, but building or twining together is just... *chef's kiss* that's the good stuff.
The moment during the romance conversation in Act 3 when you can see Fenris go from hoping (painfully hoping!) that there is still some way he and Hawke can be together to actually believing it will happen. There is a shift in his body language that I could watch (and...have) over and over.
The element of choice? This is not going to be coherent, but the fact that he is learning for the first time what it means to have options and preferences, and he spends a lot of time exploring and understanding himself...and after all of that, the thing he keeps coming back to is Hawke. I think it's gorgeous. A song with refrains of pain or fear and choruses of decision and hope. He's loyal to a fault, in many ways, but understanding how much of himself exists to share and then still choosing to share it is just...man. I said this wasn't going to be coherent lol, so there you are. "If there is a future to be had..." like he doubts its existence but he's willing to chance it for Hawke. Man.
But, honestly? I've played DA2 a lot of times and never romanced another character, even though I've played through multiple romance storylines in each of the other games. I can't shake the Fenris romance. Every time I open a new playthrough, I tell myself that this is the time I'm going to romance Isabela, and every time Fenris rips that dude's heart out and I just......alright, yeah. Okay. Here we go again.
#and okay yeah one more thing actually#when he is like 🥺 at hawke after he kills danarius and hawke says he isn't alone#i know people joke about it but it's about the capacity for immense violence and aching tenderness#the parallel of meeting him when he rips some guy's heart out and him being finally free to make a life for himself after the same#it's about the cycles. the repeating story#and now he is truly not hunted anymore and he can make some kind of home#could i pull this into a more coherent analysis? probably yes#but here it is nonetheless#i *do* love him actually. he is just so very himself. unbending and harsh as it is sometimes he is always himself#long post#da2#fenris#ask response#goodness this wound up longer than i'd expected#thank you for giving me an excuse to ramble anon 💗#i hate that the tl;dr of it all is just 'fenris being fenris' but. i am a simple woman
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cant even remember wht subgenre of acute mental illness i was living with at 18 which gave me the ability to write ashara the way i did but im so glad i went thru that shit bc a solasmancer who acts essentially as a microcosm of the present day world and reflects the exact problems solas hates so much about it but still somehow comes to love is. objectively insane. and here she is 7.5 years later and about 3x worse
#oc: ashara#her being cold and bitter and harsh and unyielding and short tempered and dismissive and vicious. on the SURFACE#until you try. until u keep trying and actually make an effort to meet her w empathy and patience#and then u get love. and warmth and dedication and curiousity thoughtfulness and light and comfort and TRUST !!!!#even if its not perfect. even if shes still impatient and stubborn and unmoving on certain things#and seeing that those things u had dismissed as cold and harsh are rly just mistranslated attempts at kindness from someone who is#trying her absolute best. and has peoples best interest at heart at the end of the day. even if she cant always convey it well#and like thats THE WORLD. thats the PRESENT babe ! thats LIFE and PEOPLE for u !!!!#obsessed w him being like i can no longer hate this world because YOU are the world . but even then it doesnt change anything lol#and its like he was already going to potentially kill her by doing what he's doing but now its like#the world and ashara are a 1:1 comparison in his head atp. man#someone COOKED here#and that someone was me on the train to claremont in 2017 every day for like 11 weeks having recently discovered pinterest lol
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What a good day to remember that Rachel did nothing wrong actually 😌💛
#tower of god#you're allowed to hate her but ppl who say “she's evil!!” and shit need to rethink things#that being said even i thought some things she did were fucked up on my first readthrough#so idk i shouldn't be too harsh on people who are not enlightened yet
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I'm relistening to I am in Eskew at the same time as the Silt Verses come out and it's so fun seeing ideas introduced in Eskew resurface in TSV, like I just finished ep. 24 and the way the History Society works is so much like our new scary war saint!!! Obsessed
#i love you authors with frightening ideas coming at them from multiple angles#eskew productions you have my whole heart#both shows are obviously very different from each other but i absolutely love the wet gross meatiness of the horror in both#they're also both quite lonely shows imo#different types of lonely- David (saddest wettest little meow meow ever) is alone in a way Carpenter isn't#but Carpenter is so phenomenally lonely in a way that only seems to ho away when she is by herself#Falkner and Riyo are also pretty lonely people but to me it doesn't run as harsh as David and Carpenter#all this to say I adore these strange worlds and their stranger people and the gorgeous prose they're written in#another David/Carpenter parallel- being so deeply loved by a thing that loves wrongly#I'm trying to remember something i heard in a Jacob Geller video about the way houses love their people but they were not designed to love#and so they are haunted instead#anyway that's Eskew and the Trawllerman#also obsessed with the way Faulkner is fratricidally desperate for the Trawllerman to love him as well#and the way Riyo dismisses Eskew out of hand like she simply does not care for the City bc even though David hates Eskew#he cannot help it- he needs to be a part of Eskew he cannot let it go until the end#I'm insane. anyway#i am in eskew#the silt verses#tsv#i don't think there's an acronym for eskew
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I have a philosophy of never hating of female character in a game,,and I know shes unpopular too so thats even more reason not to hate her,,,,so ill hold my opinion until after this,,,
#///#she needs to back off my daughter though#like she has a goal and a plan#and I get it#but god I hate the idol industry already so im being a bit more harsh#like bc I understand her on a level nobody else does I know shes prolly lying to get a flame in haruka going#but I also know how people write female characters like this so im already losing hope
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