#bigender pan

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[arqueerus]

orchid ace (bigender ace: to represent respect) / fire lily aro (bigender aro: to represent courage)

hydrangea bi (bigender bi: to represent understanding) / petunia het (bigender straight: to represent peace) / flax pan (bigender pan: to represent creativity)

bluebell gay (bigender gay: to represent truth) / sunflower lesbian (bigender lesbian: to represent loyalty)

(the meanings are directly related to the flowers referenced!)

[silly-media-enjoyer]

Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"

[justdavina]

Oh MY! Such a darling gurl!

[gray-ace-space]

recently encountered a post where someone said "gender is fluid but sexuality isn't". (they were talking about bi lesbians.)

my first thought was: does that person, like. hear what they're saying? how can you explicitly hold two beliefs that are so logically inconsistent and not see it? how can you simultaneously think gender is this fluid and complex thing, but sexuality, much of which is defined around gender, is simple and stationary and its boundaries need policing?

but like, fuck, why even argue against it, right? there is no internal logic because there is no logical thought behind it. these are not genuine beliefs. this person is repeating what is currently acceptable in their (small) specific social circle. this is the same person who, a few years back, would be excluding nonbinary lesbians, but nonbinary lesbians are cool and normal on queer tumblr now, so they'll exclude bi lesbians instead, and not even pause to reflect on the difference.

oh, and if you read this and thought "these people don't even actually accept nb lesbians either", ding ding ding! because it's not a real, deep belief, that acceptance is extremely shallow and conditional. so as soon as someone is an nb lesbian in a way these people find odd (like being both a man and a lesbian) they will exclude them too and find a way to justify it.

why do we have to endlessly go through this cycle with queer identities. can we not? can we just not. i'm tired.

[noahizslay]

if you're queer in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're trans in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're a woman in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're bipoc in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're low/middle class in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're an immigrant in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

if you're disabled in the us, i'm so sorry, i love you and please stay strong.

[bilesproblems]

The queer community really normalized the words for fluidity and multigenderism but not the experiences at all.

I'm not the first to make this type of post, but I'm gonna go beyond just what the original said (and I'll edit this to include a link when I find the original again on my dash because it usually shows up once a week): we've normalize words like boygirl but most people haven't normalized actually being a boy and a girl, or a man and a woman, at the same time, and for fluidity they don't normalize actually being a boy or man and being a girl or woman at different times. Instead "boygirl" is just used like a label for androgyny or worse neutrality (nothing wrong with being neutral but being a boy and a girl is NOT that). We normalize the words bigender and genderfluid but never recognize them as actually having multiple genders. Bigender people are treated like half and half, and together androgynous or neutral instead of both of their genders at once, and genderfluid people are just seen like nonbinary people who use different pronouns and different times. We normalize the words but we don't normalize being sapphic and achillean, veldian and lesbian, a lesbian man or a veldian woman, straight and lesbian or straight and veldian. The things that are experienced by multigender people. We normalize the words but we don't allow bigender people to identify with anything other than "bigender" and we don't allow genderfluid people to identify with anything other than "genderfluid." If they want to label their orientations their options are mspec, trixic, toric, and enbian, and anything else is wrong. They're never allowed to say they're straight, and if they are allowed to be veldian/achillean or lesbian/sapphic (and they only get to pick one), they must degender themselves and pretend they don't experience womanhood or manhood.

Similarly, we normalize the word abrosexual but many don't allow abrosexuals to identify as anything but abro. They're not allowed to identify as any of the orientations they experience, even with some regularity. They might be allowed an mspec term - but they're never allowed to say they're veldians, or lesbians, and god forbid they identify as both. Even when they're experiencing being one of those things, it's not "allowed" for them to use the terms because the community deemed fluidity as not *really* the things they experienced because it's not permanent.

If we are gonna normalize the labels of multigender, genderfluid, and abrosexual can we actually get it in our heads that some people are multiple full genders at once, and if they're a man, a woman, and nonbinary, they are AS MUCH of a man as any monogender man, AS MUCH of a woman as any monogender woman, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any monogender enby? Can we get it though our heads that some people experience multiple full genders at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a man as any statically gendered man when they experience manhood, AS MUCH of a woman as any statically gendered woman when they experience womanhood, and JUST AS NONBINARY as any statically gendered enby when they experience enbanhood? Can we get it through our heads that some people experience multiple orientations at different times, and they are AS MUCH of a lesbian when they experience lesbianism, AS MUCH of a veldian when they experience veldianism, JUST AS STRAIGHT as any other straight person when they feel themselves straight, and JUST AS MSPEC when they experience attraction to multiple genders?

(there's also people who experience multiple orientations at once, statically, but we haven't even been normalized yet so. Yeah.)

[mind-if-i-scream]

Queer Crows by Crossed Teacups

[chlebhead]

I remade that gay wallpaper

Introducing Gay Wallpaper Deluxe™️! Now with more genders, sexualities, and whatever else I shoved in there!

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Sleepy gay, sleepy lesbian, sleepy bi, sleepy pan, sleepy aro, sleepy ace. Zzzzz... 💙💚

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[sexwithsophie]

Look at Me. Look at Me. I'm Your Mom Now.

I'm sorry it took me so long to find you, but we both only just discovered this second as you're reading this that I am your Mom! My name is Sophie and I promise to cherish you forever from this second on.

I'm beaming at you. I love you. I'm SO proud of you. I am ecstatic that you exist. I've got your back. I am your cheerleader and champion.

You're attracted to people the same sex as you? Great! I'm your Mom.

You don't feel or can't be attracted to anyone? That's swell! I'm your Mom.

You don't want kids? I've got you! You are enough. I'm your Mom.

You started as my son, but now you're my daughter? I always wanted another girl. I'm your Mom.

You started as my daughter, but now you're my son? I always wanted a boy. I'm your Mom.

You don't conform to being my son or my daughter? I always wanted YOU! I'm your Mom.

You're old enough to be my mom? I don't give a fuck. I'm your Mom.

You're a cis het conservative xtian? Not sure how you'll tell your friends, but I'm your Black Mom.

You have accepting and loving parents? That's excellent! I'm one of your Moms.

If ever you feel that you are alone or that no one cares you are here, you can tell your brain to shut that shit down immediately because your Momma Sophie cares. This world needs your beautiful, colorful, vibrant stitch to complete this wonderful tapestry that is us.

Write to me anytime you need some words of encouragement or just a listening ear. If things are really bad, CLICK HERE to find Suicide Prevention Support near you.

Love you, kiddo.

Happy PRIDE!!!

[skarkkk]

Hum, at least four minorities, how fun

Pan? Yes

Demi-aro? Most likely yes

Gray-ace? Uhum

From the female sex? Yes

Gender? Hum... bi

[bi-lesbian]

shoutout to all my fellow lesbians who are told theyre not ""really"" a lesbian, i see you and stand alongside you and love you. youre wholly and completely a lesbian, your lesbianess is not dictated by anyone but you 💖

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

bigender lesbian man culture is making a joke about your identity in a server and getting a longwinded transphobic dm about how youre ruining the "lgb community"

Yeahh .. God it pisses me off like how are you gonna attack a woman who loves a woman, who identifies as a lesbian and be like "nah that's pretty straight to me" like my guy how in the hell.

[palatteflags]

I’m doing a little thing for Pride month! I’m using the flags on the corresponding days, and a random aesthetic (from random aesthetic generators/wheels) to make a third flag every day ^^ I tried to be the most most inclusive, but sadly I know it’s not possible to get everyone.

The flags are as follows: Gay, Lesbian, Bi Trans, Transmasc, Transfemme, Nonbinary, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Bigender Genderflux, Pan, Omni, Polysexual, Polyamory, Queer, Ace Aro, Demisexual, Demiromantic, Gray Ace, Gray Aro, Aroace, Cupio Fictosexual, Fictoromantic, Agender, Gilbert Baker Rainbow, Progress Rainbow, Classic Rainbow -mod Jay