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Man-Pref Bi
For any bi oriented person who have an attraction preference for men
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Woman-Pref Bi
For any bi oriented person who have an attraction preference for women
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Masc-Pref Bi
For any bi oriented person who have an attraction preference for anyone who is masculine or presentās masculine
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Fem-Pref Bi
For any bi oriented person who have an attraction preference for anyone who is feminine or presents feminine
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Edit : sorry for portraying the stereotypical blue equal masc, and fem equals pink thing on these. The original bi flags meanings arenāt defined like that (bi flag meaning) , I was already aware of the meanings as I made these but I had the intention of these flags having separate meanings, different from the original I didnāt really think too hard on the colors tbh I just really wanted to stick to the same aesthetic of the bi flag but with these versions having symbols on them too show an attraction preference.
#bi#bisexual flag#bi allo#bisexual#biromantic#bi oriented aroace#bi ace#bi aro#queer flag#lgbt flags#pride flag#bi women#bi men#bi enby
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the madness frustration loneliness of the dissonance of a mismatch of the rotten heart to the rest
allosexual aromantic swag happy pride *peaces out*
#my art#alloaro#aromantism#happy pride#my animation#if this isnt fucking obvious is a personal post about MY EXPERIENCES#i love being aro more than any other part of my identity tbh but bro#this shit is crazy wack when you dont got the asexuality to match it made me into a fucking specimen#and i love picking apart my own brain#also bi aro ppl are so crazy rare and for what. i dont get why allo aro ppl are so rare. WHY ARE WE SO RARE? WHY.#like the opposite many more alloro ace ppl exist than split attraction ppl of my flavor and thats Wack. its wack. i dont get it.#its not like its complicated (okay maybe it is but also it isnt its simple to Me) so whats the populations problem.#gif#anyways. i wanted to animate this personal piece bc im a fucking weirdo i guess
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So we are all aware that these two mfs share the cringefail gene of being simps:
But I do believe that these two would have similarly terrible romantic plots if given half the chance and am very grateful that these plots were NOT INCLUDED. Thank god. That might have actually been more traumatic than the movie.
#this also directly aligns with my personal headcannon of an aroace leo having āØļøtroubleāØļø with relationships#the rottmnt donnie one i can literally hear him saying in my head tho#and yes it is very realistic for isolated teenagers who have grown up on tv to idolise romantic situations and get in their own head#12!Donnie and MM!Leo im here for u#but please stip idolising april she is but a troubled teen who needs a friend - not aphrodite reincarnate#the being put on a pedestal for no reason but i was nice to u hits home for me tbh#they need more friends#i was gonna title this āthe crigefail gene of being alloā at first#tmnt#teenage mutant ninja turtles#tmnt 2012#rottmnt#tmnt mutant mayhem#tmnt leonardo#tmnt donatello#2012 donatello#mm leonardo#rottmnt leonardo#rottmnt donatello#disaster twins#being disaster bi's#thankfully not crushing on april tho#aromantic leonardo#cause i cant not
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i don't think willow realizing she's a lesbian is a rejection of her relationship with oz. you don't do a disservice to past partners if you realize your attraction lies elsewhere. willow's relationship with tara doesn't negate what she had with oz - it reframes some aspects of their dynamic, but not necessarily in a bad way.
#sorry it's just#there's a weird minor ship war that seems to go on in the buffy fandom where it's either oz or tara#like call me poly and demi and bi and sick of allo bullshit#but no relationship is the same regardless of gender anyway#willow rosenberg#tara maclay#daniel osbourne#tillow#willoz#btvs#i actually like the concept of bi willow a lot#but it's weird how i've seen certain people get so up in arms about the tillow dynamic because willow experiences what a lot of people#in comphet relationships have experienced in real life lol
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reminder to everyone that trauma IS a valid reason to use aspec labels. "i don't know if i'm aspec or just traumatizedā" protip!!! you can be both!!!! the thing about labels is that they're not immutable states of being that you're born as. they're literally just words that we use to describe our lived experiences, and if asexual or aromantic or any related label feel relevant to the way that you experience attraction, whether it's a result of trauma or not, they're there for you to use. having trauma as a cause does not invalidate the fact that someone is experiencing lesser or no attraction. that's still the aspec experience babey. use the label if you want it's there for you <3
#kissing every traumatized aspec person on the forehead. with permission of course#obviously the labels aren't gonna be right for everyone but like...#i see a lot of discussion around this topic and it's actually SO important to me to bring up every time#that labels are just little signs you put up to tell people something about yourself.#it's not an immutable unchangeable fact. it's a little sign. it's a label just like you make with a label maker.#its purpose is to be there and communicate something about your experience to the people around you.#so if you want to communicate that you don't experience attraction in an allo way! that's literally what it's there for!#really i feel like denying people access to those labels cause they weren't born that way is like.#first. an asshole move. why don't you shut the fuck up and let other people decide what they experience#second. perpetuating the idea that if you don't experience attraction you're broken? but just in a different way?#'you can experience limited/no attraction IF you're ace and born that way. otherwise you're ACTUALLY fucked up.'#'you're straight/gay/bi you're just broken right now.' actually maybe they're experiencing something that aligns with asexuality.#ever thought about that...#intent here is NOT to speak for anyone with that experience. however i meet like seven people a year who say that they're unsure#if they're aspec or just traumatized#and it's SO important to me to say that you can be both. you can use the label. your experiences are valid#whether they're internally or environmentally caused.#kiss kiss ily everybody (/aro)#<ā tone indicator that indicates that i meant it aromantically#aspec#aromantic#aromanticism#aroace#arospec#aro positivity#asexual#ace pride#acespec#ace positivity#ace inclusion. turn the tables
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being bi doesn't take away from my aro-ness and being aro doesn't take away from my bi-ness
I am a wholly bi and wholly aro and wholly awesome :)
#bi#aro#bi aro#aro bi#aro allo#allo aro#bisexual#aromantic#bi pride#bi positivity#aro pride#aro positivity#aromanticism#aromantic pride#bisexuality#bisexual pride#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbt+#lgbt pride#lgbt positivity#pride
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the dead boy detective agency main four are a polycule on various points of the aromantic/asexual spectrum (in addition to their various sexualities), with the various side characters playing the roles of parental figures or talking stages. thank you for coming to my ted talk
#itās like scooby doo but they donāt have a dog#this is of course just my opinion#but: gay ace demiaro edwin / bi demiaro charles / pan greyaroace crystal / lesbian aroace niko are v real to me#the older characters work as parental figures ofc#then thereās characters like Monty and Thomas who are chatting up edwin but arenāt officially in the polycule#that being said: achillean greyace monty / pan aroflexible thomas are also real to me#this isnāt even getting into the gender fuckery I am putting these characters in#but I felt like sharing#esp since I keep seeing ppl fight over catwin and palaland or whatever that ship name is#I donāt think catwin works not bc of some perceived age thing but bc the cat king is v sex forward and edwin is Not Into That#doesnāt mean tck is ruled out from a place on the chart itās just not how he wanted#same for monty who came on v romantically and edwin was not having it#all valid and fair !!!#plus the main four needed to get their shit together but this is my fantasy world so shhh#oh and for crystal x charles I think theyāre the most allo of th main four so it tracks they had the closest to a traditional relationship#but then everyone gets their shit together and that doesnāt happen as frequently lol#esp as time goes on#like the polycule is more of a series of qprs with some sugar/spice on occasion#there isnāt really a point to this post but this blog is me talking to myself most of the time anyway#dead boy detectives#dbda#edwin payne#charles rowland#crystal palace#niko sasaki#monty the crow#the cat king
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#putting the all in allo#lgbtqtext#lgbtq text#animated text#word art#bi colors#bisexual colors#pride colors#multicolor#bisexual#bisexual text#bisexual pride#bisexual positivity#bisexual humor#bisexual meme#bi#bi pride#bi positivity#bi humor#bi meme#mspec#mspec pride#mspec positivity#mspec humor#mspec meme#queer#queer pride#queer positivity#queer humor#queer meme
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crack whump idea , whumpee is completely paralyzed until their whumper says so because their whumper did the āEnglish or Spanish whoever moves is gayā
nonny I am trying so hard to find someone this would work on but everyone is already gay š
#*using the umbrella term#i was like 'maybe uriah?' bi. 'james?' aroace and would think whumper meant gay as in 'happy' anyway. 'wes?' pan af#i ... would have to dig up a list of token cis/straight/allo people hfdkfbdjdjkd#MAYBE thunderwave (whumper) but he's definitely in the closet and currently bullying a trans man#anon#(all /lh)
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having a conversation with my friends about dating just reminds me how i desperately need demi/aroace/lesbian friends bc wtf is this shitš
looking at me like im the crazy one bc i don't want to approach an aesthetically pleasing girl to ask her out and instead want to form a devastatingly co-dependant and ambiguous relationship with her under the guise of being best friends like no you're the weird ones
#they're both bi but damn their dating is so painfully allo#a crush what the fuck is that??#i want unhealthy attachment i want to yearn dag nabbit#this doesn't sound like poetry this sounds like 4D chess#no thank you#idk if this is the demi experience the lesbian experience or if this is just me#you read too much friends to lovers and watch too much dan and phil and this is what happens#my standards are too high#do i just want rachel amber is that what this is#yes yes it is#amberprice is the blueprint im afraid#i guess ill tag this#demiaroace#aroace lesbian#demi lesbian#starting pride month with my gay failure
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He/him aroace tgirl MMZ-era Zero. You agree.
#She/her and allo bi lesbian Zero are also acceptable but feel less accurate to me.#āHe's like a woman to meā but like actually serious about it#The chost is gone because the poster deleted their account but#someone on Cohost made a post about the Zero vs. Omega fight being incredibly trans and that has lived rent-free in my head ever since#Clara does things that are not drawing#Zero#Mega Man Zero#MMZ#Mega Man#I was going to tag this with āClara what the fuck are you talking aboutā but I'm like 99.9% serious with this one#so my shitpost tag feels inappropriate here
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āJust because youāre a lesbian, it doesnāt make you less of a beingā
āØCringe ally MargeāØ
#the only straight cis allo person in springfield#(sheās actually bi she just hasnāt thought about it enough)#sheās the best ally ever#the simpsons#the simpsons fanart#simpsons fanart#simpsons#marge#marge simpson#lgbtq#pride#my own art
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I also have a real fear that Iām not going to be able to feel attraction to anyone on the apps because my only experience of crushes is seeing someone in person, quickly feeling attracted, and then never ever speaking to the person. But I donāt feel an immediate crush on most/any of these people, so does that mean Iām not into them at all? Or could I start to feel that in-person, and itās just because theyāre photos?
#what if I turn out to be ace or gay? I donāt want to use people to figure that out#Iām fairly sure Iām bisexual and allo with a low libido#but im TERRIFIED that I might be wrong#and have to hurt someone in the process of figuring that out#I know I feel attraction to men and women but I donāt know if that means Iāll like sex with them#and the concept of getting dumped by someone who realizes they prefer the other gender is WHY people are biphobic#(AN other gender im sorry there are more than 2 I was having a panic)#I will then BE the reason for more biphobes being created#being Schrodingerās bisexual is safe and fun and easy#the minute I have a body count with one gender is the minute people can use that to invalidate me#regardless of if Iām bi or not#how am I even worrying about this#I know my experiences#and those are attraction across gender#but those are also not starting to have a sex drive at all until my 20s and being on ssris that suppress it as a side effect for years#and I have a big fear of dating someone I donāt really like because I wasnāt sure if I was into them until it was too late#which is stupid all id have to do is break up with them#being perceived is UNCOMFY#panic attack over
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Okay, if this isnāt good, tell me what to fix and Iāll redo it.
#multigender#orientation poll#lgbtqia+#trans#enby#nonbinary#bigender#polygender#pangender#trigender#agender#lgbtqia poll#multi gender poll#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#bi gay#pan gay#m spec#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#mspec safe#straight lesbian#straight gay#gayhet#aroace#aro allo#allo ace#aceallo#multi label attraction#gaybian
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do i want to be her or be with her? wtf???
#š#lesbian#bisexual#wlw post#wlw love#wlw#wlw community#wlw yearning#allo ace#alloromantic asexual#asexual#bi ace#biromantic#biromantic asexual
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Just saw someone on Tik Tok saying aces and aros, and bisexual women in particular are scary cause weāre all ready to fight at the drop of a hat, and I was like āGEE I WONDER WHY!?ā
#aromantic#asexual#bisexual#lgbtq+#I lived through the years or the ace and bi discourse tags#I recall the tears allo and monosexual people were calling for heads
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