#bedroom aids

[rotteneldritchhorror]

I will forever love Lydia barkrock as disabled rep in fantasy high

[anony-man]

NSFW Delphi medic headcanons:

Please be forewarned that these ALL revolve around sex. With that being said, enjoy 🤲

First Aid:

— Starting this one off strong! He strikes me as someone who’s pretty sex-positive, despite not having had many experiences with other bots.

— I do think he’d probably prefer to develop very close relationships before entering the “bedroom” stage. Like, you don’t have to be dating, but he’s gonna want to know about you and your personality and your kinks before you fuck.

— Probably knows what he likes, and while he isn’t PUSHY about indulging in those things, he doesn’t mind telling his partner what does and doesn’t feel good, what he wants to try, what role he wants to take on (top/bottom, dom/sub, sadist/masochist BUT EXCLUSIVELY MEDICAL PLAY)

— Very, very kinky. Like, damn… You should see his rope collection.

— Doesn’t really have a preference when it comes to spike over valve. Honestly, if his partner feels up to it, he likes to use both, but the bot version of a clitoris is extremely sensitive on him (think oh god I’m gonna orgasm from only a few seconds of light stroking), so he usually tries to keep it to the spike to begin with. When he’s close to climax, though? You KNOW he’s begging them to absolutely pound his valve.

— When he’s bottoming, he exclusively receives via valve. When he’s topping? Fuck, he uses both.

— By far the most romantic and sensual between the three. He loves kinky sex, sure, but he also loves the tender kisses and exploring his partner’s body and climaxing together and snuggling afterwards. Sex is more intimacy than a way to burn off energy for him, and he loves the bonding happens during it.

Ambulon:

— I don’t mean to project on poor Amby, but he strikes me as someone who’s had a very difficult past with sexual encounters.

— Sort of like First Aid, he prefers to make small connections before getting into bed with someone. He doesn’t necessarily need to do so, but he feels much more comfortable that way.

— Probably the least experienced between the three of them. Also super self-conscious about his sex skills… they’re practically non-existent

— Before First Aid (and Pharma, ngl) took him on as a sort of sex mentee, the majority of Ambulon’s understanding of sex was spike-in-valve, just very basic. With that being said, he’s never been able to really enjoy his sexual encounters so much as just grin and bear them, so he doesn’t immediately know what he likes or what “feels good” to him.

— Between the three of them, Ambulon probably has the lowest sex drive. He enjoys a good frag maybe once a week, and it usually doesn’t get super intense. He’s in and out in about 10-15 minutes, and to him, sex is more of a release of pent-up energy and charge than an enjoyable, pleasurable experience.

— He doesn’t mind kinky sex, but it really isn’t his thing. In fact, it sort of makes him uncomfortable, as he eventually discovers, so he’s encouraged by both First Aid and Pharma to just avoid it overall.

— While he doesn’t love sex, he loves the foreplay, and he really likes the aftercare. Being the big spoon to his partner and sloppy, passionate kisses are a guilty pleasure for him.

Pharma:

— Definitely has the highest body count of the three medics, but not because he’s promiscuous (also, we gotta drop terms like this, if someone wants to have multiple partners fucking LET THEM). It’s mostly because he enjoys sex with others over masturbation, and also because like… he’s just the most sexually active.

— Don’t get me wrong though. His toy collection is equivalent to First Aid’s BDSM collection. Dude has toys of all shapes, sizes, textures, tasks, etc.

— Unlike the other two, I’d say Pharma is almost exclusively a valve mech. He likes the way it feels to get filled up by a big, hefty spike, he loves to be fingered, and he looooves it when bots give him oral. Also, his spike just isn’t that sensitive.

— Between the three of them, I’d say Pharma has gotten lots of mods added to his equipment. He likes things nice and lubricated, so he’s gotten extra lubrication producing spores added to the very inside of his valve. He’s got a few other tricks up there, too, like a rhythmic system that causes his inner valve to heat up when touched (and boy does it get HOT), a sort of squeezing mechanism that caused many an unsuspecting partner to overload on impact, and others that he keeps secret until the deed occurs. He loves surprises, and he especially loves pleasure—and pleasing his partners.

— He likes foreplay, and he loves sex, but he’s not much for aftercare. He doesn’t mind giving, but he doesn’t want to receive it. After a good session, he’s ready to get cleaned up and back to his work.

— Fairly kinky, but he likes to be the top/dominant in the room. One of his favorite things is competing for dominance with his partner, however.

— Rough sex. Sex that leaves his valve aching and his frame covered in paint transfers, sex that has him panting for breath several minutes after he’s finished, sex that has him overloading multiple times in a row.

— Speaking of overloads: Pharma likes to reach orgasm at least twice. He’s very energetic in the bedroom, and he’s always got lots of extra charge to burn off. The first orgasm is definitely the best, but sometimes it takes a few extras to get rid of the extra energy. He usually likes to give his partner a bit of service in between, and enjoys drawing out their orgasms until the very end, so they can climax with a great bit of built-up pressure.

[sleepicore]

Such a relaxing place 🌙⭐️

[bitegore]

this house has an actual ~30F/18C temperature gradient in it rn T-T

[disabilityhorizons]

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[sheltiechicago]

A Granite Replica of a Bedroom Closet Honors Personal and Collective Memories in New York City AIDS Memorial Park

“Craig’s closet” (2023), granite and bronze, 90 x 57 x 28 1/2 inches.

Photos by Daniel Greer, © Jim Hodges, courtesy of the artist and Gladstone Gallery

[helloparkerrose]

[jentlemahae]

tonight i dreamt that i was dating taeyong (lol) and that he had a tattoo of his natal chart on his neck in glitter and that i cheated on him with jaehyun (lol) but i didn’t really like him bcs i just wanted to scam him and take his money

[grimandghoulish]

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[jhsharman]

"Sound Off"

[nexus-nebulae]

shoutout to the really cool maintenance guy at our apartment who teaches me how to fix things sometimes

[bladeofthestars]

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[hellyeahsickaf]

I found an extremely dope disability survival guide for those who are homebound, bedbound, in need of disability accommodations, or would otherwise like resources for how to manage your life as a disabled person. (Link is safe)

It has some great articles and resources and while written by people with ME/CFS, it keeps all disabilities in mind. A lot of it is specific to the USA but even if you're from somewhere else, there are many guides that can still help you. Some really good ones are:

How to live a great disabled life- A guide full of resources to make your life easier and probably the best place to start (including links to some of the below resources). Everything from applying for good quality affordable housing to getting free transportation, affordable medication, how to get enough food stamps, how to get a free phone that doesn't suck, how to find housemates and caregivers, how to be homebound, support groups and Facebook pages (including for specific illnesses), how to help with social change from home, and so many more.

Turning a "no" into a "yes"- A guide on what to say when denied for disability aid/accommodations of many types, particularly over the phone. "Never take no for an answer over the phone. If you have not been turned down in writing, you have not been turned down. Period."

How to be poor in America- A very expansive and helpful guide including things from a directory to find your nearest food bank to resources for getting free home modifications, how to get cheap or free eye and dental care, extremely cheap internet, and financial assistance with vet bills

How to be homebound- This is pretty helpful even if you're not homebound. It includes guides on how to save spoons, getting free and low cost transportation, disability resources in your area, home meals, how to have fun/keep busy while in bed, and a severe bedbound activity master list which includes a link to an audio version of the list on Soundcloud

Master List of Disability Accommodation Letters For Housing- Guides on how to request accommodations and housing as well as your rights, laws, and prewritten sample letters to help you get whatever you need. Includes information on how to request additional bedrooms, stop evictions, request meetings via phone, mail, and email if you can't in person, what you can do if a request is denied, and many other helpful guides

Special Laws to Help Domestic Violence Survivors (Vouchers & Low Income Housing)- Protections, laws, and housing rights for survivors of DV (any gender), and how to get support and protection under the VAWA laws to help you and/or loved ones receive housing and assistance

Dealing With Debt & Disability- Information to assist with debt including student loans, medical debt, how to deal with debt collectors as well as an article with a step by step guide that helped the author cut her overwhelming medical bills by 80%!

There are so many more articles, guides, and tools here that have helped a lot of people. And there are a lot of rights, resources, and protections that people don't know they have and guides that can help you manage your life as a disabled person regardless of income, energy levels, and other factors.

Please boost!

[basicgrayson]

Found my very first check book today while tidying up, and the duplicates were still tucked in the plastic sleeve. Man, sometimes I forget that I was really out there at 19 in my own apartment paying for my own rent, bills, food and everything else. I wasn't even a year out of high school. Rent was $800 then, which seems ridiculously cheap by today's standards, but I was only making like $1100 month. Damn. Still don't know how I managed that.