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5 Core Principles for a Meaningful Life
Daily writing promptWhat principles define how you live?View all responses In today’s fast-paced world, it’s crucial to have a set of guiding principles that keep you grounded and aligned with your goals. These principles shape your actions, decisions, and ultimately, your life. Let me share the five core principles that define how I live and how they impact my journey toward personal growth and…
#appreciating the present#attracting happiness#continuous learning#core principles#dailyprompt#dailyprompt-2090#embracing true self#expand knowledge#giving back#growth through adversity#helping others#life#living authentically#living with intention#Meaningful Connections#meaningful life#mental health#mindfulness#overcoming challenges#passion and integrity#personal development#personal fulfillment#personal growth#positive attitude#positive impact#Positive Mindset#power of kindness#practicing gratitude#professional development#resilience
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Manifesting Miracles: Beyond "I Am God of My Reality'"
Manifesting Miracles: Beyond "I Am God of My Reality'"
Manifesting Miracles: Beyond “I Am God of My Reality'” Manifesting and the belief of being the “God of our reality” often stir discussions about the true nature of our connection with the divine. Some believe they are the sole creators of their reality, while others perceive themselves as sparks of the divine essence. The crux lies in experiencing the presence of God, or merely reading…
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#achieve your goals#affirmations#attract joy#attract love#attract positivity#attract what you want#Attracting Abundance#attracting happiness#attracting miracles#attracting success#Belief#belief in possibilities#belief in yourself#conscious awareness#conscious creation#Conscious Living#consciousness#create your reality#creation#Creative visualization#Deliberate Creation#Devotion#divine#divine guidance#divine love#Dream Manifestation#embracing faith#Emotional well-being#empowering beliefs#envisioning greatness
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the madness frustration loneliness of the dissonance of a mismatch of the rotten heart to the rest
allosexual aromantic swag happy pride *peaces out*
#my art#alloaro#aromantism#happy pride#my animation#if this isnt fucking obvious is a personal post about MY EXPERIENCES#i love being aro more than any other part of my identity tbh but bro#this shit is crazy wack when you dont got the asexuality to match it made me into a fucking specimen#and i love picking apart my own brain#also bi aro ppl are so crazy rare and for what. i dont get why allo aro ppl are so rare. WHY ARE WE SO RARE? WHY.#like the opposite many more alloro ace ppl exist than split attraction ppl of my flavor and thats Wack. its wack. i dont get it.#its not like its complicated (okay maybe it is but also it isnt its simple to Me) so whats the populations problem.#gif#anyways. i wanted to animate this personal piece bc im a fucking weirdo i guess
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The aromantic version of the “am I gay?” quiz is reading articles about how to tell if you have a crush.
#spoiler alert: you don’t#wikihow said shit like you think about them all the time#they make you happy#maybe they show up in your dreams#none of those things mean romantic attraction in case you’re as confused as I was#aromantic#aro#aromantic pride
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before you know about women, you hear that you do not need to love the man, just that you need to love him through his manhood. which is to say you have seen the future painted in lamb's blood over your eyes - how your mother shoots you a look about your father's inability to cook right. how your aunt holds her wineglass and says i'm gonna kill em. men, right! how your best friend bickers with her boyfriend, how she says i can't help it. i come back to him.
you learn: men are gonna cheat. men aren't going to listen when you're talking, because you're nagging. men think emotions are stupid. they think your life is vapid and your hobbies are embarrassing. men will slam things, but that's because men are allowed to be angry. if you get loud, you're hysterical. if a man gets loud - well, men are animals, men are dogs, men can't control their hands or their eyes or their bodies. they're going to make a snide comment about you in the locker room, about your body, about how you're so fucking annoying. you're going to give him kids, and he will give you the money for the kids, and you're going to be running the house 24/7 - but he gets to relax after a long day, because his job is stressful. the man is on stage, and is a comedian, and says "women!"
and you are supposed to love that. you are supposed to love men through how horrible they are to you - because that's what women do. that's what good women do. wife material. your father even told you once - it'll make sense when you're older. it was like staring down a very lonely tunnel.
it feels like something's caught in your throat, but it's all you know, so. it's okay that you see sex as a necessary tool, a sort of okay-enough ritual to keep him happy, even though he doesn't seem to care about happiness as-applied-to you. it is relationship upkeep. it is kissing him and smiling even though he didn't brush his teeth. it is getting on your knees and looking up and holding back a sigh because he barely holds you as you panic through the night. it's not like the sex is bad and you do like feeling wanted. and besides! he's a man! like... they're another species. you'll never be able to actually communicate, right. he isn't listening.
you just don't get it. you don't feel that sense of i'm gonna climb him like a tree. mostly it just feels fucking exhausting. you play the part perfectly. you smile and nod and are "effortlessly" charming. and it's fine! it's alright! you even love him, if you're looking. you could have good life, and a good family, and perfectly happy.
in the late night you google: am i broken. you google i'm not attracted to my husband. you google i get turned on by books but not by him. you google how to get better in bed.
the first time he yells at you, it almost feels like blankness. like - of course this is happening. this is always how it was going to end up. men get angry, and they yell, and you sit there in silence.
you mention it to your friend - just the once - while you're drunk. she shrugs and says it's like that with me too, i just try to forget and move on. men are always gonna hear what they want to. pick your battles and say sorry even though he's in the wrong. you play solitaire online for a month. you go to your therapist appointment and preach about how you're both so in love.
after all, you have a future to want. nobody lied about it - how many instagram posts say marriage is hard. say real love takes work. say we fight like cats and dogs but the best part is that we always make up. how many of your friends say happy anniversary to the best and worst thing to ever happen to me. if you really loved him - loved yourself too - you'd accept that men are just different from you.
the first time she kisses you, it's on a dare at a party. something large and terrifying whips through your body. you wake up sweating from dreams where her mouth is encrusted with pearls and you pick them off one by one with your teeth. fuck. you sit at the computer and your almost-finished game of sim city. you think about your potential perfect life and your potential future family. you google am i gay quiz with your little hands shaking.
you delete each letter slowly. you don't need to love him. you just need to keep going.
#warm up#writeblr#this is also about being ace btw#my identity has slowly shifted over time and maybe if everyone is REAL cool i'll talk bout it#bc it's complicated and nuanced. but this is like#trying to warn u that if you find it “relationship upkeep” to have sex with ur partner#and don't actually enjoy it or seek it for urself. u might just not be attracted to them.#which is fine ! ace ppl can be perfectly happy in any relationship they feel good in!#but also i wasn't as straight as i had expected!#> the first time i saw dick i was like. huh. oh okay that's fine i guess#> the first time i saw pussy i was like. WAIT ACTUALLY HANG ON I GET IT#i just assumed sex wasn't all it was cracked up to be ya know#but also like. btw? this IS NOT saying ''u might be gay not ace''#bc tbh i'm grey ace/demisexual#it's saying u might not be into ur partner. explore urself & ur feelings. turn inward.#TAKE THIS IN THE MANNER IT WAS MEANT> GENTLE AND KIND#AND NOT IN A WEIRD INTERNET WAY PLEASE#bc the truth is that there ARE ppl who are gay who assume that they just ''don't like'' sex#and ace ppl who might need a different partner w/different needs#and i would have REALLY needed to hear ''check in w/urself about if u actually like sex''#WAY EARILIER in my life. but nobody said anything bc they assume if ur having sex. u like it.#not just the actual act of sex. not once ur turned on. do you ACTUALLY like it. or is it a burden?#even if ur gay. check w/urself. maybe ur more ace than u realized. in which case. ADDITIONAL FLAG BB#i love collecting my flags. i'm at like 354 at this point#but also btw this is about how toxic relationships are SO normalized that u can be in one#and have everyone around u being like ''THATS JUST MEN LOL''
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i also drew this out of pure bliss of the new sf episode ..... cant wai t for moore ... 🎉
#smiling friends#smiling friends pim#pim#pim pimling#smiling friends charlie#charlie dompler#smiling friends alan#smiling friends glep#smiling friends mr boss#smiling friends james#smiling friends mip#doodle#hey uhh .... haiii ..#id say ill post mroe but i like lying .. happy april fool 🥧#SMILING FRIENDS SPOILER WARNING#what is it with charlie and attracting toxic men. first mip now james. dude.
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"They have a sort of angry sexual tension between the two of them, you're not really sure if they hate it each other or if they want to be with each other. And that continues for quite a few centuries."
"I think they seduce each other."
"He's like a twisted, angelic, psychotic demon, who survived so long."
"Armand needs control and a part of that control is structure. Lestat is not a creature of structure. Once he's found himself in a situation that kind of is working it's not working anymore."
Sam and Assad the great lesmand understanders! [x]
#happy that they're invested in this relationship and sam acknowledges that lestat is attracted to armand#it got annoying when people were talking like he's just disgusted by him#iwtv#sam reid#assad zaman#iwtvposting#.vid
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I love jihoon's cackling ijbol face because you can literally hear his squeaky laugh I'm gonna cry
#svt#woozi#lee jihoon#jihoon#jihoon please never change#let them smile wrinkles come and show the qorld the happy laugh you had#that was accidentally poetic#but i mean it#smile wrinkles are goddamn attractive idc#all of svt is gonna have it#and thanks to them most of are fandom will too#I AM NOT CRYING YOU ARE#hes so precious
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Stranger
#Was happy w the sketch for the first one but I'm worried the colours ruined it!!!!! Ah well#Anyway that scene w the deer on the table and the line 'it fell' captivate me every time idk why#Cooper is a strange little haunted creature to me and he attracts oddness and omens#Catch him loitering outside at night listening to the trees blowing in the night air#Twin peaks#Special agent Dale cooper#Dale cooper#Agent Dale cooper#Agent cooper#David lynch#kyle maclachlan#Horror#fan art#art#sketch#character art
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Side A
#an awful lot of checking each other out going on in this show. that’s all I’m saying.#crystal thinking 'hmm. hit that??' @ every attractive person she sees never stops being funny#yeah girl go getem. let that guy have his situationship back there#kassius does the Niko-specific heart eyes SO well though#and Niko getting appreciated in this outfit makes me unreasonably happy. a field mouse!#also for some reason. this scene reminds me very strongly of laiqualaurelote's band au#was making the set when I realised. woah. same vibes.#dead boy detectives#dbda#crystal palace#niko sasaki#charles rowland#edwin payne#kassius nelson#yuyu kitamura#fuck tagging j&g this ain’t about them#my gifs#think I’m getting the hang of gifmaking?? only my second set and I’ve figured out a full workflow :D#bit addictive once you get started
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vivisection
#homestuck#aradia megido#aradia#aradiabot#cartoon blood#cartoon gore#oddities&curiosities#sorry for her chiseled jawline and such i just know equius would make her extremely conventionally attractive#not too happy w how this turned out but its fiiiiine
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#law of attraction#law of assumption#manifesting#affirmations#daily affirmations#self concept#manifestation#lucky girl#lucky girl syndrome#happy quotes#rare beauty#hopecore#self love#reminder#take care#self conscious#self care#self h@rm#self h@te
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#abraham#happiness#manifestation#manifesting#abraham hicks#law of assumption#quotes#spiritual#inspiration#life#soul#inspirational#spirituality#universe#love#spirit#law of attraction#law of manifestation#law of the universe#spiritual growth#spiritual awakening#spiritual awareness#spiritual community#spiritual development#spiritual journey#spiritualgrowth#spiritual healing#spiritualguidance
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its rana <3
ive found the old pixel art node i bought a long time ago:
Cort3D — My 3D Pixel Art Setup is back up for sale on Ko-fi... (tumblr.com)
and its really cute so i wanted to play around with it, i wanna learn more about nodes and shaders, theyre so versatile (-w-)
get the model from patreon
#my art#3d#got in a bit of an art block after my last video blew up#its scary to draw for a big audience that doesnt know you well#i just have to focus my mind on what would make me happy instead of what i think others would expect#but also so many comments really felt the vibe that i tried to convey#i think i managed to attract like-minded crowd lol#minecraft
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you're grabbing lunch with a nice man and he gives you that strange grimace-smile that's popular right now; an almost sardonic "twist" of his mouth while he looks literally down on you. it looks like he practiced the move as he leans back, arms folded. he just finished reciting the details of NFTs to you and explaining Oppenheimer even though he only watched a youtube about it and hasn't actually seen it. you are at the bottom of your wine glass.
you ask the man across from you if he has siblings, desperately looking for a topic. literally anything else.
he says i don't like small talk. and then he smiles again, watching you.
a few years ago, you probably would have said you're above celebrity gossip, but honestly, you've been kind of enjoying the dumb shit of it these days. with the rest of the earth burning, there's something familiar and banal about dragging ariana grande through the mud. you think about jeanette mccurdy, who has often times gently warned the world she's not as nice as she appears. you liked i'm glad my mom died but it made you cry a lot.
he doesn't like small talk, figure out something to say.
you want to talk about responsibility, and how ariana grande is only like 6 days older than you are - which means she just turned 30 and still dresses and acts like a 13 year old, but like sexy. there's something in there about the whole thing - about insecurity, and never growing up, and being sexualized from a young age.
people have been saying that gay people are groomers. like, that's something that's come back into the public. you have even said yourself that it's just ... easier to date men sometimes. you would identify as whatever the opposite of "heteroflexible" is, but here you are again, across from a man. you like every woman, and 3 people on tv. and not this guy. but you're trying. your mother is worried about you. she thinks it's not okay you're single. and honestly this guy was better before you met, back when you were just texting.
wait, shit. are you doing the same thing as ariana grande? are you looking for male validation in order to appease some internalized promise of heteronormativity? do you conform to the idea that your happiness must result in heterosexuality? do you believe that you can resolve your internal loneliness by being accepted into the patriarchy? is there a reason dating men is easier? why are you so scared of fucking it up with women? why don't you reach out to more of them? you have a good sense of humor and a big ol' brain, you could have done a better job at online dating.
also. jesus christ. why can't you just get a drink with somebody without your internal feminism meter pinging. although - in your favor (and judgement aside) in the case of your ariana grande deposition: you have been in enough therapy you probably wouldn't date anyone who had just broken up with their wife of many years (and who has a young child). you'd be like - maybe take some personal time before you begin this journey. like, grande has been on broadway, you'd think she would have heard of the plot of hamlet.
he leans forward and taps two fingers to the table. "i'm not, like an andrew tate guy," he's saying, "but i do think partnership is about two people knowing their place. i like order."
you knew it was going to be hard. being non-straight in any particular way is like, always hard. these days you kind of like answering the question what's your sexuality? with a shrug and a smile - it's fine - is your most common response. like they asked you how your life is going and not to reveal your identity. you like not being straight. you like kissing girls. some days you know you're into men, and sometimes you're sitting across from a man, and you're thinking about the power of compulsory heterosexuality. are you into men, or are you just into the safety that comes from being seen with them? after all, everyone knows you're failing in life unless you have a husband. it almost feels like a gradebook - people see "straight married" as being "all A's", and anything else even vaguely noncompliant as being ... like you dropped out of the school system. you cannot just ignore years of that kind of conditioning, of course you like attention from men.
"so let's talk boundaries." he orders more wine for you, gesturing with one hand like he's rousing an orchestra. sir, this is a fucking chain restaurant. "I am not gonna date someone who still has male friends. also, i don't care about your little friends, i care about me. whatever stupid girls night things - those are lower priority. if i want you there, you're there."
he wasn't like this over text, right? you wouldn't have been even in the building if he was like this. you squint at him. in another version of yourself, you'd be running. you'd just get up and go. that's what happens on the internet - people get annoyed, and they just leave. you are locked in place, almost frozen. you need to go to the bathroom and text someone to call you so you have an excuse, like it's rude to just-leave. like he already kind of owns you. rudeness implies a power paradigm, though. see, even your social anxiety allows the patriarchy to get to you.
you take a sip of the new glass of wine. maybe this will be a funny story. maybe you can write about it on your blog. maybe you can meet ariana grande and ask her if she just maybe needs to take some time to sit and think about her happiness and how she measures her own success.
is this settling down? is this all that's left in your dating pool? just accepting that someone will eventually love you, and you have to stop being picky about who "makes" you a wife?
you look down to your hand, clutching the knife.
#writeblr#this is a mashup of like 3 dates i accidentally went on lol#by that i mean that i was out with a woman on a date in 2 of these situations#and a man just. joined us. and we were too awkward to say anything while he tried to ''date'' me#& one was a longterm friend that i was like. you what????#like he's nice he's a doctor and my mom was SO happy she was like raquel think about it#''it's a perfect love story you grew up together and reconnected as adults and like the same things and he's friends with ur brother#and his sister is one of ur close friends!!!''#yes but alas. he is a boy . she only likes girls. can i make it any more obvious#anyway im tryna write about like the force of male attention being actually incredibly ingrained to women like we are SUPPOSED to like it#it's seen as the only important thing#even if ur gay#and it's a nuanced thing idk#and while rn i i.d. as lesbian#like .... it wouldn't be UNTRUE to say i am probably like ''cusp bisexual'' bc i CAN experience attraction to men bc like .#sexuality is fluid...#don't tell straight ppl tho bc they do not understand the concept that ppl don't necessarily need a solid everlasting label#they're like GET in the BOX#if ur gay & in boston i'm 30 and pretty please come kiss me.#(i usually only date older ppl sorry in advance tho)
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