#and then your progress will become more aligned with other people's progress

[rigelmejo]

some basic language learning thoughts (based on some common questions i see on reddit forums). as usual, if you don't like the suggestion, feel free to ignore and throw it out! what works best for you will be what works best for you - everyone is different. at the end of the day, if you continue studying (hours add up), study some new stuff (expand your knowledge), and practice/review some stuff you've studied (improve comprehension of what you know), then you'll improve. You can achieve that in a ton of different ways, and any way which motivates you to keep doing it is great.

What's the easiest language to learn? My thought on this question is... it doesn't matter as much as it might feel like it does. If any language is going to take hundreds or thousands of hours of study, you will probably want to have goals that motivate you to study for THAT long, for years. If Danish 'takes less hours to learn' than Thai, but you watch Thai shows everyday and follow thai webnovel writers and twitter, and don't have much interest in anything Danish (and no friends that speak the language), then Thai is going to be 'easier' because you have more reasons to USE it. If Spanish and French seem to take a similar amount of hours to learn, but you're planning to go to school in a French speaking country and get a job there? Well you have a more pressing Need to learn French, that will hopefully help motivate you. The 'easiest' language to learn is the language you have REASONS to learn. The language you will use, and keep using. If you have no pressing reason to learn any language, but want to learn a language? Find reasons. Make goals that require the language.

(Here's one from me - I wanted to learn Japanese, in theory I can mostly do anything I want by just reading/watching/playing translations, however I am the kind of person that really enjoys reading originals in their original form... so that's motivating. My recent kick to study more? A show I want to watch is untranslated, so I better get to studying so I can still watch it.) Your goal can be anything from: I want to visit X, I want to talk to X friend/family better, I want to blog in multiple languages, I want to watch untranslated media, I want to sing my favorite musicians songs easier, I want to work in a country that speaks it, I want access to more recipes in X language, I am into history and want to read a history book from X time period in X language, I want to play a video game before localization, really the sky is the limit on goals you can set. Your goals, and how much you want them, and how often you do the sub-goals (so if reading untranslated cnovels by an author you love is your goal, maybe along the way you read easier webnovels to motivate you and find more writers you like), is going to push you to keep studying. Even if your goal is 'pass language B2 test' if it has a deadline, and it's a goal connected to other goals (like going to work in a country with the language, translating work, writing better), that will keep you motivated. Motivation is what will make a language 'easier.' If you can't find the motivation, even the languages which should take the 'least amount of time' will feel hard.

All that said, I am now about to contradict myself. While I really think motivation is the biggest factor in if you'll keep studying and keep learning... there are languages which due to their similarity to languages you already know, will take less Total Study Hours to make progress. As an English speaker, it only took me 6 months of very lazy unorganized studying (half hour most days) to be able to start reading non-fiction French with only a handful of word lookups per page. A lot of that was because French (especially science words and proper nouns like places) has so many cognates with English. I basically 'had' thousands of words of French I already knew, just because I knew English. It took about a year to read fiction books in French only looking up a handful of words per page, for 'general main idea' comprehension. When studying Chinese, it took me also about 12 months to read fiction, look up a handful of words, and understand the 'general main idea.' But I was studying 2 hours a day. So I studied around 182.5 hours to read French fiction with word lookups, and 730 hours to read Chinese fiction with word lookups. And the Chinese also took longer to learn to read with NO word lookups, since there was no english-cognate carryover to sound-out and over rely on like with French. (Although at a wonderful certain point, you know enough Chinese hanzi that new words are built of mostly hanzi you know, and you can use that to guess the gist of a LOT of new words when extensively reading with no word lookups - that happened for me at about 2 years). My point is: Chinese DOES take more hours of study to reach language skill milestones as an english speaker, compared to French! It took me the same amount of months, because I studied Chinese more hours per day (to make up the difference - and I had a better study plan with Chinese). But if you are a total beginner, and unmotivated and KNOW you will study maybe 1 hour per day and probably not more, then learning a language that is more similar to one you already know WILL take less study hours total to reach skill milestones. And that will hopefully be motivating.

(Another example: I spent 3 months of 1-2 hours a day studying Spanish, and can read Spanish nonfiction - thanks to the similarities to French and English. I can read fiction too but it requires word lookups. Japanese, due to kanji, also got 'easier' to read once I had learned more Chinese hanzi. So if your goals include learning languages with some similarities, then once you learn some of those similarities it will make future learning 'faster.')

I spent a month once studying Esperanto (a constructed language). Do I ever use Esperanto? No. Did I find the experience helpful? Yes. Because Esperanto is designed to be fairly easy for european language native speakers, has no exceptions, it had 1. a lot of similar-words to english so I could practice 'guessing similar words' (a skill I'd use a lot with French and Spanish later), 2. practice guessing what word endings mean grammatically (since Esperanto has no exceptions the grammar patterns are much more obvious than say grammar patterns in French). 3. Practice recognizing spelling to sound connections. Those 3 skills are useful in learning any language, but natural languages will have more exceptions to the patterns.

After spending a month on Esperanto, I saw HUGE progress after studying a few hundred words, noticed a huge amount of grammar patterns and how to notice them, and just generally got the experience of 'this is what skill milestones feel like.' Later, when studying French, I used that experience to recognize French word endings and what they tend to indicate, word functions, patterns in pronunciation, guessing with cognates/similar words, and I knew what the first 'milestones' I was aiming for would be. In a similar pattern: French milestones took me a few months each to hit, so when I studied Chinese later and it was taking 2-3 times as much study time... I knew which milestone to expect myself to 'work toward' and achieve next, and knew what making progress should feel like (even if it felt like it was moving slower) so I didn't give up. I was aware that Chinese language skill milestones might 'take more hours' so I didn't panic when it was taking me almost a year of reading graded readers in Chinese to move on to simple webnovels, whereas in French I'd only been reading graded readers for half a year before I felt ready to move on. I knew the general process, because I'd done it before in a shorter timespan with French, with Esperanto.

Is Esperanto useful to you? Only you know that. I personally did not find it useful in general for me, and didn't continue to study it. But it did teach me 'how' to study a language, what progress to monitor, and gave me the confidence that I was capable of learning.

If you really feel you're incapable of learning any skill in a new language, then spending some time on a language more similar to what you already know (if possible - a language you have motivating goals with), may help you see you are capable and can learn. An addition to this: spend a LOT of hours studying as a beginner, if lack of progress demotivates you. Once you push past the beginner stage, you'll be able to do goal-related things in the language you study and that will keep you motivated. But in the beginning, progress feels slow and you feel very confused. So the more upfront studying you do, the quicker you will push through that hard-to-motivate stage.

Is learning a language that is more similar to ones you know going to take less hours of study? Probably. But either way, motivation over hundreds or thousands of hours, for years, is going to be needed. So the goals you wish to achieve will be more important in your success, rather than how many 'hours' it will take.

What do you do if you get demotivated that it's taking SO LONG to hit the next language skill milestone? Fair concern. I got demotivated OFTEN by how much longer it took to reach milestones in Japanese compared to in French. First: try to keep perspective. It's normal for it to take more hours to understand certain things, if the language is not very similar to ones you know. You have to build a bigger foundation of understanding for lots of totally new stuff. Second: you're going to hate me but I'd suggest upping the study hours per day (or week). Studying Chinese RARELY demotivated me, despite it taking more actual hours of study to hit milestones compared to French, and why? Because I increased my study time for Chinese so I was still REACHING milestones in a reasonable amount of months (very similar to the months it took to hit French milestones). 2 hours a day of Chinese study was more than 1/2 an hour of French study, but 2 hours was doable. And it meant I still got to watch shows and read within a few months, and watch/read without looking many words up (depending on difficulty) by the end of year 1. Once you are doing the goals or sub-goals you have, it becomes so much easier to stay motivated. Once I could watch cdramas before they got translated, or read any novel I wanted using Pleco or Readibu to help? It was very easy to stay motivated and do things I WANTED to do in chinese. From there it was just practice/learn using activities I had the goal of doing.

Finally, similar to the suggestions above, if you find yourself in a motivation rut what can you do? I personally try to do 'study sprints' when I'm getting demotivated and need to see significant progress. What I do is pick a small goal, then spend 1-2 months studying as much as I can to improve in that goal. Suggestions: A beginner may make the goal to study the alphabet, a pronunciation guide, and 300 common words and see how far they get by the end of the month. (If at the end of the month the pronunciation is easier to hear and alphabet is easier to read then they succeeded - and they likely will). Another beginner may make the goal to read graded readers 1 hour per day or more all month and see how much they can read. (If the first graded reader they read is easier to read at the conclusion of the month, such as less unknown words or faster reading speed, then they succeeded - and they likely will see progress). A beginner/intermediate learner into flashcards might try to study as many flashcards in Anki as they can for a month. An intermediate learner may pick an audiobook and try to listen to AS MANY chapters as they can in a month, or may pick a novel and look up every unknown word while reading for 1 hour per day or more, until the end of the month. The idea is to pick a goal where you KNOW you're current skill level, work HARD on studying to improve that skill for a month, and then try to do the skill again and see how much progress you've made. I find it very motivating. It can take months to broadly notice progress milestones like managing to improve in your overall reading skill to tackle more difficult novels. But it can take just A MONTH to learn a few hundred new words and make the current novel you're reading become much EASIER to read, or the current show you're watching to become much EASIER to follow, or for the listening skills you're struggling with to become much more instant and reliable.

Example: one of my most recent sprints was to improve my Chinese listening skills. So for a month, I listened to audio flashcards of chinese-english sentences audio, and audiobook chapters (re-listening to each chapter a few times). I saw progress in 1. The audiobook got easier to understand over time, and 2. I tried watching a cdrama I've watched before, only this time I watched it without any subtitles, and it is now much easier to quickly comprehend and follow the lines (even without chinese subs). A sprint I did after a 2 year funk with minimal japanese progress was to cram study 2000 words in memrise Nukemarine's LLJ decks (took 3 months) then try to play a japanese video game I'd tried playing before the sprint. Another japanese sprint I did was listen to japaneseaudiolessons.com free lessons for a month, to work on improving my listening comprehension and recognition of word-order faster, and it did really help with seeing an improvement in those things.

As a beginner, I think the sprints can help with staying focused on small achieveable goals and seeing your progress (like reading daily, watching a show daily, studying X new words daily, going through a chapter of a grammar book weekly, etc). And then as you get farther and can actually do some of your sub-goals, can help with pushing yourself to some significant improvement in a particular area. (Like if you reached a sub goal of reading easy webnovels, it might be a month where you read a webnovel with more unique words that's 'harder' and look all unknown words up, and by the end of the month you see that medium-difficulty webnovels now feel as easy as the 'easy' ones did at the start of the month).

And then... if you study like me, which tends to be periods of a LOT of study followed by lulls where I might watch/read/listen to the language but not do much active study, then the sprint goal months tend to help cram in 100 hours of study every so often. So that you'll still (on average through the year) have studied 1-2+ hours a day. I do not focus well, and sprint goal months along with more relaxed months where I just watch/read/listen to stuff when I feel like it, is the only way I can get myself to study regularly. If you can consistently study daily, then sprint goal months can help you make Significant progress in a very specific area if some slow-progress area has been demotivating you. (And you can turn the sprint goals into challenges with friends, or tests to see what study methods work great for you versus bore you).

[shiftthemoon]

reality shifting isn’t hard. you’ve been told it’s hard because everyone’s too scared to admit it’s not. they cling to their 800-step methods, their must-have crystals, their perfect conditions because they think that if they let go of that control, they’ll fail. but here’s the thing: the more you try to control the process, the more you convince yourself it’s out of your control. and that’s the problem. that’s why so many people feel stuck. shifting isn’t some big, far-fetched thing. it’s just you. it’s always been you.

we’re conditioned to think we’re powerless. think about it—school, work, society, all of it drills this idea into us that everything has to be proven, earned, validated. so, when you hear about shifting, your brain freaks out and says, wait, wait, this is too easy, this can’t be real. and then you spiral. you overcomplicate it. you make yourself think you need the “perfect” script, the “right” subliminal, or that you have to meditate for three hours while the stars align perfectly. like, no… you don’t. all of that? it’s fluff. it’s noise.

at its core, shifting is belief. just belief. no, really, let that sink in. you don’t need to “do” belief perfectly. it’s not something you master through sheer willpower. it’s something you already have. you’ve believed in things your whole life. you believed in gravity without needing proof. you believe your favorite songs are beautiful without needing to explain why. belief is natural. it’s effortless when you stop overthinking it. that’s the energy you need to bring to shifting—trust. trust that your mind knows what it’s doing, and that if you let it, it will take you there. every single extra thing you pile on? the overthinking, the doubt, the need for guarantees? that’s what’s slowing you down. not the “lack of progress,” not some mythical “block”—it’s you convincing yourself it’s harder than it is.

and let’s talk about social media for a second. oh my god, the shifting community on social media… i get it. it’s comforting to see other people on this journey. but let’s be honest—how much of that content is actually helping you? like, really? 90% of the time, scrolling through shifting advice isn’t inspiring; it’s overwhelming. everyone’s got their own opinions, their own “best methods,” their own rules. one person says scripting is a must, another says it’s a waste of time. one person swears by affirmations, another says visualization is the only way. and before you know it, you’re sitting there questioning everything you thought you knew, wondering if you’ll ever get it “right.” spoiler alert: you already know how to shift. you don’t need a thousand voices telling you what to do. in fact, the more you listen to them, the harder it becomes to hear yourself.

take a break. seriously. log off the apps. give yourself space to breathe and think. ask yourself: why do i want to shift? what’s stopping me? what feels right to me? no tiktok trend, youtube guide, or reddit post can answer those questions for you. only you can. and i know that sounds scary. we’ve been conditioned to think we need external validation for everything, but shifting is a deeply personal thing. you don’t need a step-by-step tutorial. you need to trust your instincts. that’s it.

and let me be clear: i’m not saying methods or subliminals are bad. they’re fine if they help you feel aligned. but they’re not what makes shifting happen. you are. methods are just tools. if you use them, great. if you don’t, that’s great too. because the truth is, shifting isn’t about doing things “right.” it’s about letting go of the idea that you need to.

so let me break it down for you. the only things you really need to shift are:

1. a desire. you have to want to go to your desired reality. no brainer, right?

2. belief. this is the big one. you have to trust it’s possible. no “what ifs,” no “but hows.” just trust.

3. persistence. if it doesn’t happen right away, that’s okay. don’t give up. if you’ve ever learned to ride a bike, you know that falling doesn’t mean you can’t do it—it just means you’re learning. shifting is the same.

that’s it. no fancy rituals, no endless research, no “perfect” conditions. the process is simple because it’s natural. you’ve probably done it before without even realizing it— the only reason it feels hard now is because you’ve convinced yourself it has to be.

stop making it harder than it needs to be. shifting isn’t this unattainable, mystical thing reserved for “chosen ones.” it’s something anyone can do. you can do it. your mom can do it. that anti-shifter lurking in every crevice of shiftblr could do it. you’ve always been capable. but you have to stop getting in your own way. stop doubting yourself. stop relying on others to tell you what’s possible. this is your journey. own it.

and above all, be patient. shifting is not a race. it’s not about how fast you can get there or how perfect your dr is. it’s about trust, intention, and focus. log off, tune into yourself, and let it happen. shifting has always been yours to claim. it’s not something you need permission for. it’s not something you need to earn. it’s just you, your mind, and your belief. always has been, always will be.

[esotericalchemist]

𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄 - 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐞: 𝐆𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐩 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐆𝐚𝐦𝐞 ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

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This is the third post in a 12-part series dedicated to helping you glow up using the wisdom of astrology. Each post explores one of the astrological houses and how it influences key aspects of your personal growth and transformation.

In this post, we’re focusing on the third house—the house of communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. This house reveals how you connect with others, share ideas, and navigate the flow of information in your life. Glowing up your third house means refining your communication style, building meaningful relationships, and embracing your creative voice to express yourself with confidence and purpose.

𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Aries rules this house, your approach to these themes is bold, direct, and action-oriented. Ruled by Mars, Aries in the third house adds fire and urgency to how you connect with others, absorb information, and share your ideas. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your assertive communication style, harnessing your mental energy for focused learning, and embracing your pioneering spirit to inspire and motivate through your words and actions.

Speech: Bold, Direct, and Impactful

Aries in the third house brings a fiery and straightforward energy to speech and communication. You’re naturally confident and unafraid to speak your mind, often becoming the initiator in conversations. However, this boldness can sometimes come across as blunt or impatient, especially in situations where others need more time to process ideas.

To glow up in your speech, focus on tempering your directness with empathy and tact. While your assertiveness is a strength, learning to listen as much as you speak will enhance your effectiveness as a communicator. Practice active listening and consider the emotional tone of your words, ensuring that your message inspires rather than overwhelms.

Leverage your passion to speak about topics that excite you, as your enthusiasm is contagious. You’re especially effective in leadership roles or in debates where your confidence and quick thinking can shine.

Networking: Fearless Connection-Building

Aries in the third house thrives in dynamic and fast-paced networking environments. You’re a natural connector, unafraid to approach new people or initiate conversations that lead to exciting collaborations. Your pioneering energy means you often take the lead in groups or communities, rallying others toward a common goal.

Your glow-up involves channeling this fearless energy into building meaningful and lasting connections. While you’re quick to dive into relationships, make sure you invest time in nurturing them rather than focusing solely on the next exciting opportunity. Seek out networks that align with your ambitions and encourage you to grow.

To enhance your networking glow-up, embrace technology and tools that allow you to connect efficiently. Social media, professional platforms, and innovative communication methods can help you expand your reach and make your ideas heard.

Learning: Energized by Curiosity

With Aries ruling your third house, your approach to learning is fast-paced and hands-on. You prefer action-oriented methods, diving into new skills or subjects with enthusiasm and energy. Your curiosity is a powerful motivator, and you’re drawn to topics that challenge you or offer immediate results.

To glow up in learning, focus on developing consistency. While you’re excellent at starting new intellectual pursuits, sustaining your focus over the long term can be challenging. Break larger goals into smaller, actionable steps to keep your momentum. Your competitive nature thrives in environments where you can measure progress or test your knowledge, so consider joining study groups, participating in contests, or engaging in collaborative projects.

Embrace opportunities for practical learning, such as workshops, short courses, or hands-on experiences. You’ll retain more when you’re actively involved rather than passively observing.

Creative Expression: Fearless Innovation

Aries in the third house brings a pioneering and bold energy to creative expression. You’re unafraid to experiment and push boundaries, often creating work that feels dynamic and fresh. Your creative glow-up involves leaning into this courage while ensuring your ideas are polished and well-structured.

This placement suggests a natural talent for storytelling, public speaking, or persuasive writing, especially when tied to themes of leadership or motivation. You excel in areas that allow you to express your individuality and inspire others to take action. Consider exploring creative pursuits that involve movement or spontaneity, such as acting, performance, or content creation.

To glow up in creative expression, focus on refining your raw ideas. While your initial spark is powerful, taking the time to develop and polish your work will make it even more impactful. Collaborating with others can also help balance your fiery energy with complementary perspectives.

𝐓𝐀𝐔𝐑𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Taurus ruling this house, your approach to these themes is steady, grounded, and value-driven. Ruled by Venus, Taurus in the third house brings a harmonious, patient, and persuasive quality to your words and thoughts. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your ability to communicate with clarity and grace, building strong and reliable networks, and expressing your creativity through beauty, practicality, and consistency.

Speech: Steady, Persuasive, and Resonant

Taurus in the third house gives you a natural ability to speak with calm authority and warmth. Your words carry weight because of their grounded and thoughtful delivery, making you a persuasive communicator who can earn the trust and respect of others. However, Taurus energy can sometimes lean toward stubbornness or a reluctance to adapt to new perspectives.

To glow up in speech, focus on cultivating flexibility and openness in conversations. While your steadiness is a strength, embracing the give-and-take of dialogue can enhance your effectiveness. Consider using storytelling or sensory details to captivate your audience—Taurus’ connection to Venus means you excel in creating vivid, emotionally resonant narratives.

Leverage your calm tone and ability to simplify complex ideas to influence others positively. Whether in negotiations, teaching, or one-on-one conversations, your grounded approach helps others feel at ease.

Networking: Building Strong, Loyal Connections

Taurus in the third house thrives in networking through reliability and trustworthiness. You’re not the type to rush into relationships; instead, you value building meaningful, long-term connections. People are drawn to your steady and dependable nature, and you’re especially skilled at creating a sense of stability within your social and professional circles.

Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts by stepping outside your comfort zone. While you naturally prefer smaller, close-knit groups, branching out to connect with diverse people can open doors to exciting opportunities. Use Venus’ charm to foster collaborations that feel both creative and mutually beneficial.

Focus on quality over quantity when it comes to relationships, and ensure your networking reflects your values. You thrive in environments where authenticity and practicality are celebrated, making you a natural fit for partnerships that aim for meaningful, tangible outcomes.

Learning: Grounded Curiosity and Practical Application

Taurus brings a steady and patient energy to learning in the third house. You prefer methods that allow you to build knowledge step by step, and you excel in mastering topics that have practical, real-world applications. Whether it’s learning a new skill, developing expertise, or diving into creative subjects like design or culinary arts, you approach learning with purpose and persistence.

To glow up in learning, challenge yourself to embrace adaptability. Taurus energy can sometimes resist change or cling to familiar ways of doing things. Exploring new techniques, technologies, or perspectives can help broaden your intellectual horizons.

Hands-on learning environments are especially beneficial for you. Consider workshops, apprenticeships, or other opportunities that allow you to engage physically with the material. You retain information best when you can experience it directly and see how it relates to your values or goals.

Creative Expression: Beauty Meets Practicality

With Taurus ruling your third house, your creative expression is grounded in beauty, harmony, and practicality. You have a natural talent for creating works that are both aesthetically pleasing and functional, whether through writing, design, music, or crafts. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your Venus-ruled creativity and infusing it with your unique voice.

You’re especially skilled at bringing ideas to life in a tangible way, turning abstract concepts into something others can see, hear, or touch. This placement favors pursuits like poetry, songwriting, graphic design, or any form of art that combines structure with beauty.

To glow up in creative expression, focus on consistency and innovation. While you excel at creating enduring works, don’t be afraid to experiment with new tools or mediums that can elevate your craft. Collaborating with others who share your values can also help you refine and expand your creative reach.

𝐆𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐈 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house is the natural home of Gemini, making this placement a powerhouse for communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. Ruled by Mercury, Gemini in the third house imbues you with sharp intellect, quick wit, and an insatiable curiosity about the world. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your ability to articulate ideas with precision, strengthening your connections through meaningful dialogue, and embracing your versatility and creativity in learning and self-expression.

Speech: Quick, Clever, and Engaging

Gemini in the third house gives you a natural talent for communication. You’re quick on your feet, eloquent, and able to adapt your message to suit your audience. Your words have a magnetic quality, capable of captivating others with humor, charm, or intriguing insights. However, this rapid-fire communication style can sometimes come across as scattered or superficial.

To glow up in speech, focus on developing depth and clarity. While your ability to touch on a wide range of topics is impressive, diving deeper into your ideas will make your words more impactful. Take the time to listen actively and respond thoughtfully, as this creates stronger connections with others.

Your strength lies in your ability to connect ideas in unique ways, so don’t shy away from using metaphors, storytelling, or creative language to captivate your audience. You thrive in roles that require public speaking, teaching, or writing, where your words can inspire and educate.

Networking: A Natural Connector

Gemini in the third house makes you a social butterfly, skilled at forming connections and weaving together diverse groups of people. Your natural curiosity drives you to engage with others, making you an excellent networker who thrives in dynamic, fast-paced environments.

Your glow-up involves learning to prioritise quality over quantity in your relationships. While you’re great at making acquaintances, focus on deepening the connections that truly matter. Engage in conversations that go beyond surface-level topics, building trust and understanding with those in your network.

Gemini thrives on information exchange, so consider leveraging technology, social media, or other tools to expand your reach. Your knack for connecting people with ideas or resources makes you a valuable collaborator, and your ability to navigate complex social circles is a key asset in your personal and professional life.

Learning: Endless Curiosity and Mental Agility

With Gemini ruling your third house, learning is second nature. You’re endlessly curious, constantly seeking out new information and experiences to expand your knowledge. This placement favors a fast-paced, multifaceted approach to learning, where you can explore a variety of subjects without feeling confined.

To glow up in learning, channel your energy into structured study plans that allow you to follow through on your interests. While your curiosity drives you to start many things, it’s important to focus on completing projects or mastering key skills. Short courses, workshops, or online platforms that offer bite-sized learning opportunities are especially beneficial for your quick-thinking nature.

You’re particularly skilled at synthesising information from multiple sources, so consider sharing your insights through teaching, blogging, or creative projects. Your ability to make complex ideas accessible to others is one of your greatest strengths.

Creative Expression: Dynamic and Multifaceted

Gemini in the third house brings a playful, versatile energy to creative expression. You’re a natural storyteller, writer, or performer, capable of bringing fresh perspectives to any medium you choose. Your creative glow-up involves embracing your ability to juggle multiple ideas and finding ways to channel this into meaningful work.

This placement thrives in mediums that allow for flexibility and experimentation. You may excel in writing, podcasting, acting, or creating content that engages and educates. Your versatility means you can adapt to changing trends or experiment with different styles, keeping your work innovative and exciting.

To glow up creatively, focus on consistency and refinement. While your ability to generate ideas is unmatched, following through on your creative visions will make your work more impactful. Collaborate with others who can complement your strengths and help you bring your projects to life.

𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐄𝐑 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Cancer rules this house, your approach to these themes is deeply intuitive, nurturing, and emotionally resonant. Ruled by the Moon, Cancer in the third house adds a personal and heartfelt touch to your words and connections. Your glow-up in this area involves mastering emotionally intelligent communication, building strong networks through empathy, and channeling your creativity into storytelling, writing, or other expressive arts that touch the heart.

Speech: Emotional, Compassionate, and Memorable

Cancer in the third house gives your speech a nurturing and emotional quality. You have a natural talent for making others feel heard and understood, and your words often carry a sense of warmth and care. This placement makes you a wonderful storyteller, capable of infusing your narratives with emotion and depth that resonate with your audience.

However, Cancer’s sensitivity can sometimes make you hesitant to speak up or overly cautious in expressing yourself. To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your emotions with confidence. Trust that your intuitive insights and personal stories have value, and don’t shy away from sharing them.

To enhance your communication style, work on developing structure and clarity. While your heartfelt approach is a strength, combining it with a well-organized message will make your words even more impactful. Journaling, poetry, or reflective writing can also help you refine your voice.

Networking: Building Genuine and Loyal Connections

Cancer in the third house thrives in creating deep and meaningful connections. You’re not one for superficial relationships—your networking style is built on trust, loyalty, and emotional resonance. People naturally gravitate toward your empathetic energy, and you often become a confidant or source of support in your social circles.

Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts while maintaining your authentic approach. Step out of your comfort zone to connect with individuals or groups that align with your personal and professional goals. Look for opportunities to collaborate in settings where emotional intelligence and creativity are valued.

While you excel in one-on-one interactions, try engaging in group settings or community events to broaden your reach. Cancer’s nurturing energy makes you a natural at creating supportive and cooperative networks.

Learning: Absorbing Knowledge Through Intuition and Emotion

With Cancer ruling your third house, your approach to learning is intuitive and emotionally driven. You absorb information best when it resonates with your personal experiences or connects to something you deeply care about. This placement favors subjects like history, psychology, or anything tied to family, emotions, or personal growth.

To glow up in learning, focus on finding methods that engage both your heart and mind. You might thrive in environments where learning feels personal and hands-on, such as workshops, mentorships, or small-group settings. Cancer energy also benefits from routine, so creating a dedicated space or time for learning can help you stay consistent.

Be mindful of Cancer’s tendency to dwell on the past. While reflecting on previous lessons is valuable, ensure you’re also open to exploring new ideas and perspectives. Embrace opportunities that challenge your comfort zone and expand your intellectual horizons.

Creative Expression: Storytelling from the Heart

Cancer in the third house brings a deeply emotional and nostalgic quality to your creative expression. You’re drawn to storytelling, whether through writing, art, or performance, and your work often carries themes of home, family, or emotional growth. Your glow-up involves embracing your ability to create works that touch the hearts of others and exploring mediums that amplify your intuitive gifts.

This placement thrives in projects that allow you to connect emotionally with your audience. Writing memoirs, crafting poetry, or creating visual art that reflects your inner world are all excellent outlets for your creativity. Cancer’s connection to the Moon also suggests a natural rhythm to your work—following cycles or patterns in your creative process can enhance your flow.

To glow up creatively, focus on sharing your work with others. While you may feel protective of your creations, opening up and receiving feedback will help you grow. Collaborating with empathetic and supportive peers can also amplify your talents.

𝐋𝐄𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Leo rules this house, your approach to these themes is bold, expressive, and infused with personal flair. Ruled by the Sun, Leo in the third house adds a natural charisma and magnetic energy to your words and ideas, making you a captivating communicator and creative thinker. Your glow-up in this area involves embracing your confidence, using your voice to inspire others, and channeling your creative brilliance into meaningful self-expression.

Speech: Confident, Dramatic, and Captivating

Leo in the third house brings a vibrant and commanding energy to your speech. You naturally draw attention when you speak, often captivating your audience with your enthusiasm and storytelling ability. Your voice carries warmth and confidence, making you an engaging communicator who can inspire and uplift others.

To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your dramatic flair with active listening. While your passion is a strength, ensuring that conversations feel mutual rather than one-sided will strengthen your connections. Refine your ability to articulate ideas clearly and authentically, avoiding any tendency to overembellish.

Leverage your talent for storytelling and public speaking to make an impact. Whether it’s presenting ideas, entertaining others, or advocating for causes you care about, your ability to speak with conviction is one of your greatest assets.

Networking: Inspiring and Charismatic Connections

Leo in the third house makes you a natural networker, someone who lights up any social or professional setting. You have a magnetic presence that draws people toward you, and your generous nature makes others feel valued and inspired.

Your glow-up involves using this charisma to build purposeful and empowering relationships. Focus on connecting with people who align with your goals and values, and don’t shy away from taking the lead in group dynamics. You thrive in collaborative environments where your leadership skills can shine.

To deepen your networking efforts, practice humility and openness. While Leo energy loves to be in the spotlight, sharing the stage with others fosters trust and mutual respect. Seek out mentorship opportunities, both as a mentor and a mentee, to create a network built on shared growth and creativity.

Learning: Energized by Passion and Creativity

With Leo ruling your third house, your approach to learning is fueled by passion and a desire to stand out. You’re most engaged when exploring subjects that allow for self-expression or offer opportunities to showcase your talents. Topics like the arts, leadership, or personal development resonate strongly with your vibrant energy.

To glow up in learning, focus on turning your curiosity into mastery. While your enthusiasm helps you dive into new topics with gusto, staying consistent and disciplined ensures long-term success. Consider enrolling in courses or workshops that allow you to share your progress publicly—performances, presentations, or exhibitions can motivate you to excel.

Learning through creative outlets, such as acting, writing, or designing, is particularly effective for this placement. You thrive when your studies involve an element of play or personal expression, so don’t be afraid to make learning fun and interactive.

Creative Expression: A Stage for Your Brilliance

Leo in the third house brings a theatrical and dynamic energy to creative expression. You’re a natural performer, whether through speaking, writing, or artistic pursuits, and your work often carries themes of confidence, leadership, or personal triumph. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your creative talents and using them to inspire others.

This placement thrives in mediums that allow for self-expression and recognition. Whether it’s acting, poetry, music, or social media content, you shine when you put your personality into your work. Leo energy also loves the spotlight, so sharing your creations publicly can be a source of both pride and growth.

To glow up creatively, focus on refining your ideas and collaborating with others who share your vision. While you’re naturally talented, honing your craft ensures your work reaches its full potential. Use your creative voice to uplift and empower others, turning your expression into a tool for inspiration.

𝐕𝐈𝐑𝐆𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Virgo ruling this house, your approach to these themes is practical, analytical, and detail-oriented. Ruled by Mercury, Virgo in the third house gives you a sharp mind, a knack for problem-solving, and a gift for conveying information with clarity and precision. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your communication style, using your analytical strengths to build meaningful connections, and channeling your creativity into work that is both beautiful and purposeful.

Speech: Precise, Insightful, and Purposeful

Virgo in the third house brings a thoughtful and pragmatic approach to speech. You’re a natural at breaking down complex ideas into simple, digestible concepts, making you an effective teacher, writer, or communicator in professional settings. Your attention to detail ensures that your words are well-chosen and impactful.

To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your analytical nature with warmth and empathy. While your precision is a strength, overly critical or overly technical communication can come across as detached or intimidating. Practise active listening and infuse your conversations with encouragement and understanding.

Your talent for structure and organisation makes you an excellent communicator in areas that require clarity and accuracy, such as research, education, or editorial work. Lean into these strengths while working on adding a touch of relatability to ensure your audience feels both informed and inspired.

Networking: Thoughtful and Reliable Connections

Virgo in the third house makes you a conscientious and dependable networker. You excel at forming connections based on shared values, intellectual pursuits, or mutual goals. Others appreciate your thoughtful and supportive nature, which makes you a trusted confidant and collaborator.

Your glow-up involves stepping out of your comfort zone to embrace a more dynamic approach to networking. While you prefer quality over quantity in relationships, branching out to meet new people in different environments can lead to unexpected opportunities. Leverage your natural analytical skills to identify the most meaningful connections and invest time in nurturing them.

You thrive in settings where communication is purposeful, such as professional organisations, learning groups, or collaborative projects. Focus on networking efforts that align with your intellectual interests or professional aspirations.

Learning: Methodical and Detail-Oriented

With Virgo ruling your third house, your approach to learning is grounded and methodical. You excel at absorbing information in a structured way, often preferring topics that involve analysis, practicality, or skill development. Virgo energy thrives on continual improvement, so you’re always seeking ways to refine your knowledge and expertise.

To glow up in learning, focus on cultivating confidence in your abilities. While you’re excellent at mastering the details, Virgo energy can sometimes lead to overthinking or self-doubt. Remind yourself that progress, not perfection, is the goal.

Hands-on and skill-based learning environments are particularly effective for this placement. Consider taking courses, certifications, or workshops that provide both theoretical knowledge and practical application. Virgo’s natural curiosity and adaptability make you a lifelong learner who thrives on mastery.

Creative Expression: Functional Beauty

Virgo in the third house brings a unique blend of creativity and practicality to self-expression. You have a talent for creating work that is both beautiful and useful, whether through writing, design, or other mediums. Your glow-up involves leaning into this gift and embracing creative pursuits that reflect your meticulous attention to detail.

Your work often carries themes of order, refinement, or improvement, and you’re particularly skilled at editing, organising, or enhancing existing ideas. This makes you a valuable collaborator in group projects or creative partnerships.

To glow up creatively, focus on sharing your work with others. While Virgo energy can make you highly self-critical, learning to trust your talents and accept feedback will help you grow. Experiment with different styles or mediums to push your boundaries and elevate your craft.

𝐋𝐈𝐁𝐑𝐀 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Libra ruling this house, your approach to these themes is graceful, diplomatic, and relationship-focused. Ruled by Venus, Libra in the third house enhances your ability to connect with others, create harmony through words, and express yourself with charm and elegance. Your glow-up in this area involves refining your communication style, building balanced and mutually supportive networks, and channeling your creativity into collaborative and artistic pursuits.

Speech: Diplomatic, Charming, and Harmonious

Libra in the third house gives you a natural talent for communication that is smooth, persuasive, and fair. You have an innate ability to mediate conflicts, bridge opposing viewpoints, and make others feel understood. Your words often carry a refined and poetic quality, making you an engaging and captivating speaker.

To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your desire to please others with the need to express your own truth. While your diplomacy is a strength, avoid overcompromising or downplaying your opinions to maintain harmony. Embrace the power of your voice and trust that you can share your ideas while still respecting the perspectives of others.

Leverage your Venus-ruled charisma in environments where your communication skills can shine, such as negotiation, teaching, or public speaking. Sharing beauty and balance through your words allows you to leave a lasting impression.

Networking: Building Balanced and Supportive Relationships

Libra in the third house makes you a natural networker who thrives on creating connections that are mutually beneficial and harmonious. You excel at forming partnerships and collaborations where trust and fairness are the foundation. Your charm and social grace draw people toward you, and your genuine interest in others helps you build meaningful relationships.

Your glow-up involves expanding your networking efforts by embracing both personal and professional opportunities. Attend events, join groups, or engage in collaborative projects that allow you to meet like-minded individuals. Focus on cultivating relationships that bring balance and mutual support to your life.

To enhance your networking glow-up, lean into Libra’s artistic energy by participating in creative or cultural communities. Surrounding yourself with people who share your love for beauty and refinement will inspire you to grow and connect on a deeper level.

Learning: Inspired by Beauty and Connection

With Libra ruling your third house, your approach to learning is social and relational. You thrive in environments where you can engage in dialogue, share ideas, and explore perspectives with others. Collaborative learning, such as study groups or discussion forums, aligns well with your intellectual style.

Your glow-up involves exploring subjects that feed your love of beauty, balance, and harmony. Topics like art, design, law, diplomacy, or psychology may resonate strongly with you. You learn best when your environment feels peaceful and inspiring, so create a space that supports your focus and creativity.

To grow in this area, challenge yourself to embrace occasional discomfort in your learning journey. While Libra prefers harmony, growth often comes from tackling challenging topics or stepping out of your intellectual comfort zone.

Creative Expression: Collaborative and Elegant

Libra in the third house brings an artistic and collaborative energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to mediums that allow you to explore beauty and balance, such as writing, design, music, or visual arts. Your work often carries themes of harmony, justice, or relationships, reflecting your Venus-ruled sensibilities.

Your glow-up involves fully embracing your creativity and seeking opportunities to collaborate with others. Working in partnerships or teams can inspire fresh ideas and help you bring your vision to life. You may also excel in projects that involve aesthetics or design, where your eye for symmetry and elegance can shine.

To elevate your creative glow-up, focus on completing projects and sharing them with the world. While Libra energy thrives in the process of creation, finishing and showcasing your work allows your talents to make a lasting impact.

𝐒𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐏𝐈𝐎 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, networking, learning, and creative expression. When Scorpio rules this house, your approach to these themes is intense, transformative, and deeply perceptive. Ruled by Mars and Pluto, Scorpio in the third house gives you a sharp, penetrating mind, a powerful voice, and the ability to uncover truths that others might miss. Your glow-up in this area involves mastering your ability to communicate with precision and emotional depth, building strong and transformative connections, and using your creative expression to inspire and empower others.

Speech: Intense, Persuasive, and Transformative

Scorpio in the third house brings a magnetic and powerful quality to your speech. Your words carry weight and often leave a lasting impression on others. You have a natural ability to tap into the emotional undercurrents of conversations, allowing you to speak directly to the heart of the matter. However, your intensity can sometimes feel overwhelming to others or come across as too confrontational.

To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your directness with sensitivity. While your ability to uncover and address difficult truths is a strength, softening your delivery can make your message more palatable and impactful. Use your passion and emotional depth to inspire trust and transformation in your audience.

This placement makes you an exceptional speaker or writer in areas involving psychology, healing, or taboo subjects. Sharing your insights and personal experiences in an authentic way can help others find clarity and empowerment through your words.

Networking: Transformative and Trust-Based Connections

Scorpio in the third house thrives on forming deep, meaningful relationships. You’re not interested in surface-level connections—your networking style is focused on building trust, loyalty, and mutual growth. People are often drawn to your intensity and magnetic presence, and you have a way of seeing potential in others that they may not yet see in themselves.

Your glow-up involves expanding your network while maintaining your discerning nature. Open yourself to connecting with a wider range of people, but trust your intuition when deciding which relationships to nurture deeply. You thrive in environments where emotional honesty and transformative dialogue are valued.

To enhance your networking glow-up, engage in group settings that align with Scorpio’s themes, such as support groups, healing workshops, or discussions about topics that others may shy away from. Your ability to connect on a soul level makes you a powerful ally and mentor.

Learning: Driven by Curiosity and Depth

With Scorpio ruling your third house, your approach to learning is intense and focused. You’re not satisfied with surface-level information—you want to dig deep, uncover hidden truths, and understand the “why” behind everything. This placement favors topics like psychology, metaphysics, criminology, or any subject that involves uncovering mysteries or delving into the unknown.

To glow up in learning, focus on balancing your need for depth with an openness to diverse perspectives. While you excel at diving into complex topics, avoid getting stuck in obsessive patterns of study. Exploring lighter or more playful subjects can help you maintain intellectual balance.

Scorpio’s energy thrives in self-directed learning environments. Independent research, shadowing mentors, or hands-on experiences allow you to engage deeply with your chosen subjects. Your glow-up comes when you turn your insights into actionable knowledge that benefits yourself and others.

Creative Expression: Raw, Powerful, and Healing

Scorpio in the third house brings an intense and transformative energy to creative expression. You have a talent for channeling deep emotions and profound truths into your work, creating pieces that resonate on a soul level. Whether through writing, art, or performance, your creations often carry themes of rebirth, healing, or empowerment.

Your glow-up involves embracing the raw authenticity of your creative voice. Don’t shy away from difficult or taboo subjects—your courage to confront what others avoid is one of your greatest strengths. Your work has the potential to inspire and guide others through their own transformations.

To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on refining your craft and sharing your work with the world. While Scorpio energy can be private, allowing others to see and benefit from your creations will amplify your impact. Collaborating with like-minded individuals can also help bring your creative visions to life.

𝐒𝐀𝐆𝐈𝐓𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Sagittarius ruling this house, your approach to these areas is expansive, optimistic, and driven by a thirst for knowledge and adventure. Ruled by Jupiter, Sagittarius in the third house brings a philosophical and visionary energy to how you express yourself, learn, and connect with others. Your glow-up involves refining your ability to communicate your big ideas effectively, building connections that broaden your horizons, and channeling your creativity into projects that inspire and uplift.

Speech: Enthusiastic, Visionary, and Inspirational

Sagittarius in the third house gives your speech a lively and optimistic quality. You have a natural talent for engaging others with your enthusiasm and ability to weave compelling narratives. Your words often reflect your philosophical outlook, and you’re gifted at inspiring others to think beyond their current perspectives.

To glow up in speech, focus on clarity and structure. While your expansive thinking is a strength, it can sometimes lead to rambling or overlooking important details. Work on refining your delivery so your big ideas come across clearly and concisely. Balance your passion with active listening to ensure conversations feel mutual and meaningful.

You excel in roles that involve teaching, public speaking, or storytelling, especially in contexts where you can share your vision of a brighter, more expansive future. Sharing your wisdom with an open and approachable style amplifies your ability to inspire.

Networking: Global and Inspirational Connections

With Sagittarius in the third house, your networking style is adventurous and far-reaching. You thrive on meeting people from diverse backgrounds and forming connections that broaden your understanding of the world. Travel, education, and cultural exchange often play significant roles in your ability to build relationships.

Your glow-up involves leveraging your natural charisma and curiosity to create meaningful and impactful connections. Focus on cultivating relationships that challenge you to grow and align with your ideals. Don’t hesitate to reach out to people in distant places or unfamiliar fields—your openness to new experiences makes you a magnet for exciting opportunities.

To enhance your networking glow-up, engage in global or community-focused groups. Whether it’s through social media, international collaborations, or events that bring together thought leaders, expanding your network beyond local circles will help you thrive.

Learning: Expansive, Philosophical, and Ever Curious

Sagittarius in the third house suggests a love for learning that is boundless and adventurous. You’re drawn to subjects that challenge your intellect and expand your worldview, such as philosophy, travel, foreign cultures, languages, or social sciences. Your learning style thrives on exploration and hands-on experiences, rather than rigid or traditional methods.

To glow up in learning, focus on channeling your broad curiosity into specific goals. While you enjoy jumping from topic to topic, committing to mastery in a few key areas will allow you to translate your knowledge into impactful action. Consider pursuing studies or workshops that involve travel, group discussions, or experiential learning.

Your ability to connect diverse ideas makes you a natural teacher or guide. Sharing what you’ve learned with others through writing, speaking, or mentoring allows you to solidify your insights while inspiring those around you.

Creative Expression: Expansive and Uplifting

Sagittarius in the third house brings a visionary and optimistic energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to projects that explore big ideas, celebrate freedom, or inspire hope. Whether through storytelling, travel writing, filmmaking, or public speaking, your work often carries a sense of adventure and possibility.

Your glow-up involves embracing the fearless and expansive nature of your creativity. Don’t limit yourself to traditional formats—experiment with mediums that allow you to incorporate travel, culture, or philosophy into your work. Your ability to blend inspiration with education makes your creations both engaging and impactful.

To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on consistency and follow-through. While your ideas are grand and exciting, bringing them to completion is what will leave a lasting impact. Collaborating with others who share your vision can help ground your projects while maintaining their expansive spirit.

𝐂𝐀𝐏𝐑𝐈𝐂𝐎𝐑𝐍 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. When Capricorn rules this house, your approach to these areas is grounded, disciplined, and purposeful. Ruled by Saturn, Capricorn in the third house imbues your words and ideas with authority, structure, and a focus on long-term goals. Your glow-up involves mastering clear and strategic communication, building reliable and supportive networks, and channeling your creative energy into projects that reflect your ambition and determination.

Speech: Practical, Authoritative, and Strategic

Capricorn in the third house brings a mature and thoughtful energy to your speech. You naturally convey authority and reliability, making others respect your opinions and insights. Your communication style is often focused on practicality, preferring substance over flashiness.

To glow up in speech, focus on balancing your serious tone with warmth and approachability. While your straightforwardness is a strength, adding a touch of relatability and empathy will make your words even more impactful. Practise active listening to ensure that your conversations feel collaborative rather than one-sided.

You excel in roles where your ability to convey complex ideas with clarity and precision is valued, such as teaching, business presentations, or writing instructional material. Developing storytelling skills can help you connect with a wider audience while maintaining your authoritative voice.

Networking: Building Reliable and Strategic Connections

Capricorn in the third house makes you a deliberate and strategic networker. You prioritize forming connections that align with your goals and values, often gravitating toward relationships that can stand the test of time. You’re not one to waste energy on superficial interactions, preferring to invest in people who are equally committed and reliable.

Your glow-up involves expanding your network by seeking out mentors, collaborators, or colleagues who inspire and challenge you. While you may prefer smaller, close-knit circles, stepping into larger professional or community networks can help you gain exposure and access to valuable opportunities.

Capricorn’s influence means that you’re skilled at cultivating mutually beneficial relationships in professional settings. Focus on showcasing your reliability and work ethic, as these qualities naturally attract others who share your ambition.

Learning: Structured and Goal-Oriented

With Capricorn ruling your third house, your approach to learning is systematic and goal-oriented. You thrive in structured environments that allow you to master a subject step by step. This placement favors topics that lead to practical or professional advancement, such as business, finance, law, or leadership training.

To glow up in learning, focus on combining your disciplined nature with a willingness to explore new perspectives. While you excel in mastering traditional methods, branching out into creative or unconventional learning styles can help you broaden your skill set.

Your learning glow-up also involves applying what you learn to real-world situations. Capricorn energy thrives on tangible results, so seek opportunities to implement your knowledge through projects, internships, or hands-on experiences. By turning theory into practice, you not only deepen your understanding but also build a reputation for competence and reliability.

Creative Expression: Ambitious and Purposeful

Capricorn in the third house brings a structured and ambitious energy to creative expression. You approach your work with a focus on long-term impact, preferring projects that are meaningful and enduring. Whether through writing, design, or strategic planning, your creative efforts often reflect your dedication to quality and precision.

Your glow-up involves embracing your natural talent for turning ideas into actionable plans. You’re skilled at managing the practical aspects of creativity, such as organizing projects, meeting deadlines, and maintaining consistency. This makes you a strong leader in collaborative settings, where others can rely on your vision and follow-through.

To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on infusing your work with emotion and personal meaning. While Capricorn energy values structure, allowing your vulnerability and passion to shine through adds depth and resonance to your creations.

𝐀𝐐𝐔𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐔𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Aquarius ruling this house, your approach to these themes is innovative, unconventional, and forward-thinking. Ruled by Saturn and Uranus, Aquarius in the third house gives your words and ideas a visionary quality, often ahead of their time. Your glow-up involves embracing your originality in communication, building diverse and dynamic networks, and channeling your intellectual and creative brilliance into projects that inspire progress and change.

Speech: Innovative, Visionary, and Inclusive

Aquarius in the third house gives your speech a unique and captivating quality. You have a knack for discussing complex or abstract ideas with clarity, often weaving together concepts that others might not see as connected. Your words carry an air of innovation, and you’re skilled at challenging conventional thinking while inspiring others to explore new possibilities.

To glow up in speech, focus on grounding your ideas so they are accessible to a wider audience. While your futuristic perspective is a strength, simplifying your message and tailoring it to your listeners ensures it resonates more deeply. Practise active listening to balance your forward-thinking approach with collaborative dialogue.

Your communication style thrives in settings where ideas are exchanged freely, such as brainstorming sessions, think tanks, or debates. Use your natural charm and intellect to champion causes or projects that align with your values of equality and innovation.

Networking: Diverse and Future-Focused Connections

Aquarius in the third house makes you a natural networker who thrives on forming connections across cultures, industries, and ideologies. You’re drawn to people who challenge your thinking, share your ideals, or bring fresh perspectives to the table. Your networking style is less about quantity and more about the quality of meaningful, forward-looking collaborations.

Your glow-up involves expanding your network by embracing a variety of social and professional circles. Seek out groups or communities that are aligned with your passions, such as humanitarian causes, technological innovation, or intellectual exploration.

Leverage technology and digital platforms to build global networks. Aquarius energy excels in online spaces, where you can connect with people who share your progressive vision. Focus on nurturing relationships that inspire growth and align with your commitment to making a difference.

Learning: Innovative and Interdisciplinary

With Aquarius ruling your third house, your approach to learning is unconventional and exploratory. You thrive when delving into topics that are cutting-edge, unusual, or intellectually stimulating. Areas like science, technology, social reform, or futuristic ideas resonate strongly with your curious and progressive mind.

To glow up in learning, focus on finding balance between breadth and depth. While you’re skilled at juggling multiple interests, honing expertise in a few key areas will allow you to make a lasting impact. Embrace collaborative learning environments, where diverse perspectives can spark new insights.

Your love of discovery makes you a natural at self-directed or interdisciplinary study. Engage in online courses, workshops, or group discussions to explore ideas in innovative and dynamic ways. Use your intellectual flexibility to connect seemingly unrelated fields, creating groundbreaking insights in the process.

Creative Expression: Revolutionary and Unique

Aquarius in the third house brings a bold and unconventional energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to projects that challenge societal norms, inspire innovation, or explore futuristic themes. Your creative glow-up involves leaning into your individuality and embracing mediums that allow you to experiment and push boundaries.

You excel in areas like writing, content creation, technology-based art, or activism-inspired projects. Your work often carries a message of progress or equality, reflecting your commitment to making the world a better place. Aquarius energy thrives on collaboration, so consider partnering with like-minded individuals to bring your visionary ideas to life.

To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on turning your big ideas into tangible outcomes. While you’re a master of brainstorming, following through on projects ensures your creativity reaches its full potential. Share your work boldly, knowing that your unique perspective is your greatest strength.

𝐏𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐄𝐒 𝟑𝐑𝐃 𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐄

The third house governs communication, learning, networking, and creative expression. With Pisces ruling this house, your approach to these areas is intuitive, imaginative, and deeply empathetic. Ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, Pisces in the third house adds a dreamy and poetic quality to your thoughts and words, allowing you to connect with others on an emotional and spiritual level. Your glow-up involves mastering your ability to communicate with clarity while maintaining your creative depth, building soulful connections, and channeling your creativity into expressions that inspire and heal.

Speech: Poetic, Empathetic, and Inspiring

Pisces in the third house gives your speech a gentle and heartfelt quality. You have a natural ability to express yourself in a way that touches others emotionally, often weaving imagination and intuition into your words. Your communication style is compassionate and idealistic, making you an excellent storyteller, teacher, or guide in matters of the heart or spirit.

To glow up in speech, focus on grounding your ideas with clarity and structure. While your intuitive nature is a gift, it can sometimes lead to vague or overly abstract expressions. Practising direct communication while maintaining your poetic touch ensures that your words resonate deeply with others.

This placement favors artistic or spiritual pursuits in communication, such as writing poetry, creating music, or guiding others through emotional or spiritual challenges. Your words have the power to soothe, uplift, and inspire those who hear them.

Networking: Soulful and Intuitive Connections

With Pisces ruling your third house, your networking style is based on empathy and emotional resonance. You’re drawn to relationships that feel meaningful and spiritually aligned, and you often connect with people who share your ideals or creative vision.

Your glow-up involves learning to balance your natural openness with discernment. While you easily form deep connections, setting boundaries ensures your energy is protected. Seek out networks that align with your values, such as creative communities, spiritual groups, or humanitarian efforts.

Pisces energy thrives in environments where authenticity and emotional connection are valued. Focus on nurturing relationships that feel mutually supportive and avoid overextending yourself in trying to meet everyone’s needs. Your glow-up lies in cultivating soulful networks that inspire and elevate your journey.

Learning: Intuitive and Imaginative

Pisces in the third house makes your approach to learning deeply intuitive and creative. You absorb information best when it resonates emotionally or sparks your imagination, often preferring subjects that allow for exploration of the arts, spirituality, or universal truths.

To glow up in learning, focus on balancing your intuitive style with a bit of structure. While you excel in creative or abstract thinking, building routines and setting clear goals can help you stay focused and bring your ideas to fruition.

You may thrive in learning environments that are fluid and experiential, such as workshops, retreats, or hands-on creative projects. Subjects like music, painting, dreamwork, or healing practices resonate strongly with your Piscean energy.

Creative Expression: Mystical and Healing

Pisces in the third house brings a deeply imaginative and soulful energy to creative expression. You’re drawn to artistic pursuits that explore themes of emotion, spirituality, or the mysteries of life. Your glow-up involves fully embracing your ability to create works that inspire, heal, and connect with others on a profound level.

This placement thrives in mediums like writing, music, visual arts, or film—anything that allows you to channel your emotions and visions into something tangible. Your work often carries a sense of mysticism or universality, reflecting your deep connection to the unseen world.

To enhance your creative glow-up, focus on developing confidence in your unique voice. While your sensitivity can make you hesitant to share your creations, trusting in your artistic vision will allow your work to shine. Collaborating with like-minded individuals can also help bring your ideas to life.

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[incorrectbatfam]

i'm so scared

what will happen to my future

Everyone, take a deep breath.

Now, I cannot tell you what's going to happen for certain. All I know is things are gonna get more tense as steps will be taken backward and people will become more divided.

As we regroup, the first thing we need to do is evaluate the cards each of us hold. It'll look slightly different for each of us. It could be aspects of your identity that act as a protective factor. It could be your financial standing, education, connections, or platform. It could be the city or state you live in that allow more opportunity for progress.

After that, you assess the risks. That means determining where you are in terms of safety and how to protect yourself. What that also means is asking yourself what risks you are willing to take. I'm a stubborn ass who has no qualms taking direct action and the only way I'm leaving is if I'm dragged out kicking and screaming. I know that's not something that can be expected from everyone, but for every person that lays low, we also need people who are willing to take those risks and cause a scene.

These two components come together in the actions we take. Petitioning and protesting. Donating and volunteering. Providing counsel and sanctuary. Supporting nonprofits, libraries, and local businesses while boycotting the corporations working against our best interests. Educating ourselves, listening to people being affected, and raising kids to be empathetic people. Most importantly, it means voting at every level every time, not just when there's a candidate that aligns perfectly with your views.

And it is so tempting to find someone to blame, especially when half the country voted for this guy and a bunch of people didn't vote at all. You're scared. You're angry. So am I. These emotions can be useful tools, but they can just as easily devolve into hate—it's the easiest way to think in the face of uncertainty, but the least productive. Don't let the powers that be convince you that your neighbor is your enemy. We are only doomed if we stop having each other's backs.

[tarysande]

The best part about coming back to the source material after a looooong time is you sorta get a fresh look at canon in comparison to whatever the dominant strains of fanon have become. Or, in fact, whatever your own dominant strains of headcanon have become.

I mean, yes, Garrus “I’m not a good turian�� Vakarian gets infinitely cooler (and more competent!) by pretty much every metric as the storyline progresses. He does. But fresh out of ME1 and into ME2 through his recruitment, I find myself genuinely amused by how thin the veneer of badass is over a pretty dominant core of straight-up nerd sprinkled with idealism mixed with self-doubt.

When you have Garrus in the squad all the time (and thus get all his ambient dialogue and remarks), you really pick up on the number of times he calls out bad behavior, unethical actions, cruelty, and rule-breaking, especially in ME1.

He’s not actually a hothead who can’t abide rules of any kind. In fact, most of the time he’s pretty pro-law-and-order, and he gets amusingly hall-monitorish when people are breaking rules he considers important and worth following.

Fundamentally, Garrus chafes when his sense of what is just is at odds with what the authorities do about that injustice (or what they stop him from doing). And I would hazard a guess that the reason his actions seem so intense or harsh or "of course we should have shot down that ship in the middle of the Citadel" is indicative not of his impatience but of the degree to which he thinks the authorities have failed to uphold that justice. We know he can be patient. He's a sniper. His whole modus operandi on Omega is precision kills without civilian casualty. But when that long fuse finally burns down, he goes from zero to shooting down ships in the middle of the Citadel in what looks (from the outside) like a heartbeat.

And yes, injured pride hastens the burning of that fuse; he doesn’t like losing. Or admitting defeat. Or failing.

Having just replayed his recruitment mission, a few things really stood out to me this time.

The merc bands really hate him--and they also reluctantly admire him (he's described as smart, resourceful, dangerous, idealistic, brave, slippery; they all agree they only way they managed to get this far is by isolating him and employing dirty tactics). I mean, there's literally a station-wide announcement that Omega can return to "business as usual" once Archangel is out of the picture because he was disrupting things so completely.

The way Garrus blames himself for the deaths of his squad is so freaking turian. Failure reflects on the leader who places his people in danger they can't handle, not the individual who fails. Heavy is the head that wears the crown. Yes, Sidonis betrayed him, but the person Garrus blames the most? Is himself. For trusting Sidonis in the first place. For raising Sidonis to a position where he had the means and opportunity to harm others--and the weakness of character to turn coat, to save his own hide, instead of dying to protect the others.

Garrus mentions more than once that he was trying to emulate Shepard. And his tone always implies that he knows he failed because Shepard would never have let a Sidonis into the fold. Again, he's blaming himself. Like a good turian. Yes, he wanted to avoid the red tape and bureaucracy of C-Sec, but his code--Archangel's code--certainly aligns with Paragon Shepard's morality (with a Garrus Vakarian twist).

And since it wouldn't be meta without adding a Tara's Headcanon Twist ... I've always wondered why "Archangel" when it's such a ... human concept. But this time, when I noticed how he spoke about Shepard's influence, and how quickly he brushes aside the name when she asks him about it, I wondered if it wasn't actually his way of honoring the mythology of the dead woman whose example he was trying to follow. Not that Shepard is a God he's worshiping, but ... there is something about the way he talks about her. Garrus doesn't make himself over in the image of a God, though; he's the soldier, the right hand, the avenging angel responsible for carrying out divine punishments suited and proportional to the crimes committed, the rules broken, the selfishness or cruelty of the perpetrator.

[charmedreincarnation]

Success story navigation

I've been getting so many asks with questions that feel like they can't be answered any differently than things I've already covered. It's as if I'm receiving the same queries over and over, and I understand the frustration that comes with feeling unheard. I've also received numerous messages from people who are really at the end of their journey, feeling lost and defeated. Whether it's because you've seen no progress despite your efforts, you've been at it for years without tangible results, or you've tried everything with no success, or perhaps your life has even gotten worse with the law or other obstacles – I get it, I truly do.

I want to address the overwhelming sense of despair that comes when you've exhausted every option for so many years and still see no light at the end of the tunnel. To those of you who feel like you're standing at a billions crossroads with nowhere to turn, to those who feel like you’ve put in years to this journey, to those who feel like you’re life has gotten worse even with the law, know that you're not alone. It's incredibly difficult when you've invested so much of yourself only to feel stuck or worse.

That's why I'm going to link success stories that I believe align with the mindset you likely have. By following their journey and tweaking it to suit your circumstances, hopefully, you can find the success they did.

There's nothing more I can say that I haven't already answered or said, but I hope these stories can provide a new perspective and the encouragement you need. May they guide you in finding the path that leads to the success you seek. Remember, it’s often at our lowest moments that we find the strength to rise again.

The ultimate success story with everything you need, mindset, tips, LOA, and Edward Art

For people who struggle with intrusive thoughts and mindset and want to use that to their advantage

My personal favorite success story

Simple Success story for those who prefer to affirm and persist

Very easy pragmatic success story (maba shortcut)

Age and years it took to succeed doesn’t matter success story

You can shift with desperation and bad circumstances success story

Yes you only need your imagination success story

Everything is possible stop asking

It's easy to feel alone, but remember that whatever you're going through, someone else has also faced similar challenges. We all start in different places; some may have an easier beginning than others, but we share the same equal potential to achieve greatness. It's important to acknowledge that while our journeys might differ, our ability to overcome obstacles and reach our potential is universal. Embrace the shared human experience and take comfort in knowing that you have the power within you to rise above and become the best version of yourself. Realizing this is just as important as becoming the richest hottest bitch with the mastery of the void and shifting okay. You’re not alone, you’re very powerful, and you CAN do it. Everyone has the potential to do it, you’ll have hurdles but where in life do you not!? You can struggle here with those journey or just struggle with the life you don’t want like everyone else. Nothing in life is easy, choose the hard path to get where you want so you can be happy forever, I promise it’s worth it.

This covers all the asks I’ve gotten. I really hope the struggle comes to an end for you guys. I know how hard all of you work, and I am truly happy and grateful to see how much you all love yourselves to put yourselves through an amount that sometimes seems pointless and fake, but it will be worth it. That’s just something you have to allow yourself to understand.

[deliciousangelfestival]

Holly Jolly Charade | Bucky

Character: Bucky Barnes x Female! Reader

Summary: Turns out, bringing a fake boyfriend to a family dinner worked out just fine.

Prompt: fake dating becomes too real

Part 2 : The Christmas Shift

Written for @the-slumberparty's December Daze Challenge.

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Have you ever had one of those mornings that just feel perfect? The kind where everything aligns so effortlessly it feels like the universe is on your side?

No traffic, no line at the coffee shop, and all your usual rush-hour chaos smoothed out like butter on warm toast. Especially now, with Christmas looming, when there’s so much to get done, a morning like that feels like a miracle.

But just when you think the day’s off to a perfect start, something always has to disrupt the flow. This time, it’s your phone buzzing with a text message.

Mom:

"I’ve sent our ride to pick you up. No more excuses!"

You groaned audibly and rolled your eyes so hard they almost hurt. The text left an invisible weight pressing on your chest. It wasn’t like you hated your family, but the thought of attending their Christmas dinner was… exhausting. Ever since you moved out, you’d been dodging these gatherings like a pro.

In the first couple of years, they were understanding. Your excuse? A new job, fresh out of college, with long hours and no time for travel. They’d bought it. Then, a few years later, you said you were busy building your business, and that worked too.

But now? Now your business was thriving, and worse, everyone knew it. Thanks to that damn magazine article, your entire extended family knew about your company’s success. Including how much profit it was making. You should’ve refused the interview. You should’ve told your friends to leave you out of it.

Now there were no excuses left. Your family saw right through them.

You tossed your phone onto your desk with a huff and ran your fingers through your hair, trying to come up with a last-minute plan. The thought of sitting at that table, sharing space with your aunt of all people, made your stomach twist.

She was the epitome of judgmental nosiness, prying into every corner of your private life, not because she cared but because she wanted to compare. She loved knowing someone was doing worse than she was—it was like her secret Christmas joy.

You groaned again, typing furiously on your phone. “How to get away from Christmas family dinner” was the search query, but every suggestion seemed ridiculous or impractical. You sighed, slumping back in your chair.

A sudden knock at the door startled you.

“Come in,” you said, not bothering to glance up from your phone.

The door creaked open, and your vice president, Bucky Barnes, stepped in. He held a stack of papers in one hand, his other shoved casually into his pocket. His loose, long hair, still a work in progress, framed his annoyingly handsome face. He was wearing a crisp blue shirt with the sleeves rolled up, black pants, and the faintest smirk on his lips.

“Here’s the report,” he said, stepping closer and placing it on your desk. “Just need your signature, and the team can have an early paycheck.”

You glanced up briefly, pen already in hand. "Why didn't the finance guy give this to me?"

"Because they're afraid of you." He leaned against the desk, folding his arms, his smirk growing into something more mischievous.

“You look like someone Googling excuses to avoid their ex,” he teased, tilting his head toward your phone. “Or did your mom finally pin you down for the family Christmas dinner?”

You shot him a withering glare, tapping the pen against the report in irritation. “Mind your business, Barnes.”

“Hard not to,” he said with a shrug. “You’ve been muttering under your breath about aunts for the past five minutes. Also, your face? It’s doing that scrunchy thing again. Looks like someone ate a lemon.”

You leaned back in your chair and crossed your arms, staring daggers at him. “You’re awfully chatty for someone who’s been begging me for months to let him quit.”

“Begging?” He scoffed, a mock look of offense crossing his face. “I just said I wanted to try something new. But nooo, you’re like, ‘Stay here, Bucky. You’re the best VP ever.’” He fluttered his eyelashes dramatically, earning an eye roll from you.

“Don’t flatter yourself,” you said, snatching the pen and signing the document with more force than necessary.

“Aw, is that your way of saying you’d miss me?” He grinned, grabbing the papers and straightening them with a satisfied nod.

“No. It’s my way of saying you’d never survive on your own.”

He laughed, heading for the door. “Well, good luck with Christmas dinner. Don’t forget—misery loves company. Or in your case, a nosy aunt and smug cousins.”

You rolled your eyes, ignoring him as you continued scrolling through your phone. Your search results were less than helpful, but then one suggestion caught your eye: “Tell them you’re traveling with your boyfriend.”

The idea wasn’t entirely ridiculous. Your mom had been nagging you about finding someone and settling down for ages. Without thinking it through, you began typing a message.

“I can’t. I already have a trip planned with my boyfriend. Didn’t you want me to get married?”

Satisfied with the excuse, you hit send and placed your phone on the desk.

Not even two seconds later, the screen lit up with an incoming video call. It was your mom.

“Crap!” you yelped, fumbling for the phone. In your panic, you almost dropped it, but Bucky, quick as ever, snatched it mid-air. Unfortunately, his finger brushed the screen, accidentally accepting the call.

Your mother’s delighted face filled the screen. “Oh my goodness, you didn’t lie! You have a boyfriend. And a handsome one at that!”

Bucky froze, his eyes widening in shock. “Uh… I… wait—”

Your mom wasn’t listening. She leaned closer to her phone camera, grinning ear to ear. “It’s so nice to meet you! Both of you are still at the office, I see. Perfect. Cancel your plans and bring him to the family dinner!” With that, she hung up before you could say a word.

You stared at the blank screen, your hand still frozen mid-air. “What the heck just happened?”

Bucky turned to you, raising an eyebrow. “I think I just got adopted as your boyfriend.”

You groaned, rubbing your forehead. “This is a disaster. I texted her saying I had plans with my boyfriend so I wouldn’t have to go to dinner.”

“Do you even have a boyfriend?”

“No!” You threw your hands up in exasperation. “And now my mom thinks we’re together!”

Before Bucky could respond, your assistant knocked on the door. “Ma’am, the driver is waiting downstairs for you.”

“Shit,” you muttered under your breath, scrambling to grab your coat.

Bucky leaned casually against the doorframe, watching you with an amused expression. “I could play along, you know.”

“You? Helping me?” You scoffed, slipping your arms into the coat.

He shrugged, grabbing his own jacket. “I didn’t say I’d do it for free.”

You narrowed your eyes at him. “What’s the catch?”

“I want to resign. And a generous bonus while we’re at it.”

You gaped at him, incredulous. “Seriously? Why do you want to quit so badly? You’ve got great benefits here.”

He followed you out of the office, adjusting his jacket as he walked. “I want to explore more. I’ve learned a lot here, but it’s time for something new.”

You glanced at him, half-annoyed, half-impressed by his confidence. “Unbelievable.”

“Come on,” he said with a mischievous grin. “How hard can pretending to be your boyfriend really be? I’ll even charm your aunt.”

“Oh, this is going to be a nightmare,” you muttered as the two of you stepped into the elevator.

“Maybe,” Bucky said with a smirk, “but at least it won’t be boring.”

As you stepped into the lobby, your eyes immediately landed on the sleek black Maybach parked by the curb. The driver stood beside it, wearing a formal suit and gloves, ready to escort you to the inevitable Christmas dinner. Of course, it was your mom’s car—a glaring reminder that she always got her way.

You stood frozen for a moment, torn between irritation and resignation. The reality of the situation hit you like a weight: there was no escape this time. You chewed the inside of your cheek, contemplating running back upstairs and locking yourself in your office.

Before you could make a move, you felt a presence behind you. Turning around, you found Bucky standing there, casually slipping on his coat.

“Fine,” you sighed. “I’ll fire you.”

His lips quirked into a triumphant grin. “Finally.”

“But,” you added sharply, pointing a finger at him, “if you want to leave on good terms, you’d better play your part well. Convince my family—especially my aunt—that we’re a couple.”

Bucky gave you a mock salute, his grin widening. “Got it. I’ll play my part like I’m gunning for an Oscar.”

You nearly laughed at his response, a small chuckle escaping despite yourself. “Let’s go.”

Once inside the car, you pulled out your phone and scrolled through pictures of your family. Handing it to Bucky, you said, “Don’t worry about my cousins—they’re pretty cool and don’t ask too many questions. The real trouble is my aunt.” You pointed at a specific photo.

“That one,” you said, gesturing to a woman in her sixties, decked out in pearls, bright red lipstick, and chunky jade bracelets on both wrists. “She’s the one you need to watch out for.”

Bucky studied the picture, raising an eyebrow. “She looks… interesting. Definitely has a lot of character.”

You snorted. “That’s one way to put it. She’s the type who compares everything—lives, careers, relationships. If she starts asking questions, keep your answers vague. She’ll latch onto anything you say.”

Bucky nodded thoughtfully, his expression serious. “Got it. What about your parents?”

“They’ll be relieved the moment they see me walking in with a boyfriend,” you said dryly.

He nodded again, absorbing the information like he was preparing for a mission. “Then I’ll make sure to play my part well.”

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Inside, the house was bursting with holiday cheer. Laughter echoed through the halls, mingling with the warm hum of Christmas music. The living room was a festive wonderland, filled with garlands, twinkling lights, and an enormous tree decorated to perfection.

The moment you stepped through the door, a woman in an elegant dress swept toward you, her arms outstretched.

“Finally!” your mom, Robin, exclaimed, pulling you into a side hug. Her perfume was a comforting mix of cinnamon and vanilla, and her excitement was almost infectious.

Then her eyes landed on Bucky, and her expression shifted into one of pure delight. “My prayers have been answered,” she said, clasping her hands together. “Come here!”

Before Bucky could react, she pulled him into a warm hug. He blinked, caught off guard but recovering quickly, wrapping an arm around her lightly.

“I’m sorry for the late introduction, ma’am,” Bucky said smoothly, stepping back with a polite smile. “I’m Bucky.”

You stepped in before your mom could ask questions. “We just became official recently.”

Robin’s face lit up even more, her eyes darting between the two of you. “Good! Welcome, Bucky.”

“Thank you,” he said with a slight bow, his tone respectful but calm.

As you stood with your mom and Bucky in the foyer, a woman approached, her presence unmistakable. She wore pearls as if they were a permanent part of her body, bright red lipstick that seemed freshly applied, and her signature jade bracelets jangled with every step. Her hair was big—almost comically so—and styled to perfection. It was your aunt Teresa, the one you had warned Bucky about.

“Well, well, well,” Teresa said, her eyes scanning Bucky like he was a prize. “Is this the boyfriend I’ve heard so much about?”

You stiffened, forcing a tight smile. “Yes.”

Bucky, ever the diplomat, stepped forward with a friendly grin. “Bucky Barnes. Nice to meet you, ma’am.”

“Oh, call me Teresa,” she purred, giving him an appraising look. “You’re quite the charmer. And so handsome! No wonder she finally brought someone home.”

You bit the inside of your cheek, struggling to maintain your composure.

“So,” Teresa continued, her tone dripping with faux curiosity, “how long have you two been together?”

“Not too long,” you said curtly, trying to end the conversation.

“A little over three months,” Bucky added smoothly, his tone warm and engaging.

“Three months?” Teresa said, arching a perfectly shaped brow. “Well, you’d better lock him up, dear,” she said, turning to you. “We’ll be planning another wedding soon!”

“Teresa,” Robin interjected gently, noticing your discomfort. “Why don’t we give them a moment to settle in?”

You took the opportunity to grab Bucky’s arm and drag him away, your jaw clenched.

As soon as you were out of earshot, you muttered, “That’s just the beginning. Wait until she finishes her fifth glass of wine.”

Bucky chuckled, shoving his hands into his pockets. “She’s... entertaining.”

You rolled your eyes. “That’s one way to put it.”

Later, Bucky met your cousins in the den, and as you predicted, they were laid-back and easy to talk to. They exchanged jokes and stories, asking Bucky only a few lighthearted questions about his work. You watched from the sidelines, thankful that at least some of your family wasn’t exhausting.

At dinner, everyone gathered around the massive dining table, the centerpiece adorned with candles and holiday-themed decorations. The atmosphere was warm and festive, but the moment Teresa began talking, you felt the familiar weight of dread settle in.

“So,” Teresa began, her voice carrying over the clinking of cutlery, “my son just secured a new oil permit. Big deal, you know. And my daughter-in-law? She got promoted to partner at her firm. Isn’t that wonderful?”

You nodded politely, forcing a neutral expression. “That’s great, Aunt Teresa.”

“And what about you?” Teresa asked, her tone dripping with condescension. “I hear your little business is doing well. But it must be so stressful, hmm? All that work with no one to share it with.”

You bit back a retort, focusing on your plate instead.

Bucky leaned toward you and whispered, “This is boring.”

“Yup,” you murmured in agreement, spearing a piece of food with your fork. “She always does this. She’s the one who insists on family dinners.”

The two of you exchanged quiet remarks, completely ignoring Teresa’s continued self-praise. Finally, she noticed and turned her attention to both of you.

“Are you two even listening?” Teresa snapped, her bracelets clinking as she gestured dramatically. “And tell me, when are you two getting married?”

Bucky didn’t miss a beat. He leaned back in his chair, a mischievous smile playing on his lips. “Well, Teresa, we want to make sure we don’t rush it. After all, we wouldn’t want to overshadow the amazing achievements of your son and daughter-in-law.”

The room went silent for a moment before your cousins stifled laughter, and Teresa pursed her lips, clearly caught off guard.

After dinner, you helped your mom arrange desserts on the table in the kitchen. The aroma of freshly baked pies and cinnamon filled the air. Robin looked pleased, humming softly as she arranged plates.

From the dining room, Teresa’s voice drifted in as she tried to corner Bucky for more questions.

“So, Bucky,” Teresa began, her tone overly sweet. “Tell me, what’s it like working with her? She must be such a perfectionist.”

Bucky didn’t falter. “Actually, she’s brilliant. One of the smartest and most hardworking people I’ve ever met.”

Teresa narrowed her eyes slightly, clearly fishing for more. “But she must be difficult sometimes. Don’t you think?”

Bucky smiled, his tone calm but firm. “No more difficult than anyone else who’s successful. If anything, she makes work more enjoyable.”

You overheard the exchange and couldn’t help but feel a flicker of gratitude. For all his teasing, Bucky had your back.

Later, when the two of you were finally alone in the den, you let out a long breath and slumped onto the couch. Bucky poured himself a glass of whiskey from the bar cart and sank into the armchair across from you.

“You’re fired, Bucky,” you said, though there was no heat in your voice.

He chuckled, raising his glass in a mock toast. “Thanks, boss.”

You rolled your eyes but couldn’t hide the small smile tugging at your lips. “Seriously, thanks. I’m glad you came.”

“Anytime,” he replied, sipping his whiskey. “Just don’t make me sit next to Teresa again.”

You both laughed, the tension of the evening finally starting to fade.

You leaned back on the couch, your fingers tapping the glass of wine in your hand. The room had gone quiet after the bustling chaos of the family dinner, and Bucky was nursing his whiskey with a far-off look in his eyes.

“I still don’t get it,” you said, breaking the silence. “Why do you keep wanting to quit?”

Bucky’s gaze shifted to you, his expression unreadable at first. Then, he set his glass down and leaned forward, resting his elbows on his knees.

“Because I want to be on the same level as you,” he said, his voice steady but carrying a weight that made you pause.

You blinked, confused. “Huh?”

“I want to start my own business,” he explained, his eyes meeting yours. “Be my own boss. I’ve learned so much working with you, but I need to prove to myself that I can do it too.”

You studied him, trying to piece together the sudden intensity in his words. “That’s it? You’ve got some big plans, huh?”

Bucky exhaled a soft chuckle, but there was something else in his eyes—something unspoken. “Yeah, big plans,” he said, swirling the amber liquid in his glass. “I’ve always admired you, you know. Not just for what you’ve built, but for who you are.”

You tilted your head, still not fully grasping the weight of his words. “You admire me?”

He looked at you, his blue eyes holding yours longer than usual. “Yeah. For a long time now.”

The air between you shifted, and for a moment, you couldn’t find the right words. You thought back to all the years you’d worked together, the arguments, the jokes, and the moments where he always seemed to have your back.

But you dismissed the thought, brushing off the flicker of something deeper. “Well,” you said, forcing a grin, “I’m glad you’re ambitious. Just don’t expect me to give you glowing references when you leave.”

Bucky laughed, leaning back into the armchair. “I wouldn’t dream of it.”

That year marked the first time you’d asked Bucky to pretend to be your boyfriend, a favor born out of desperation. He played the part so convincingly that even your family believed it.

The second year came, and to your surprise, you asked him again. By then, it had become a strange tradition—your fake boyfriend who seamlessly charmed your family while sparing you the agony of invasive questions.

By the third year, something had shifted. The lines between pretending and reality blurred, and you couldn’t shake the growing warmth you felt whenever he was near. It wasn’t just gratitude anymore—it was something deeper.

When the fourth year rolled around, you made a decision. No more pretending. You told him you wanted to stop the charade, but instead of ending things, you found yourselves starting something real.

And in the fifth year, you stood side by side at the altar, promising forever to the man who had been beside you all along.

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A/N : There will be part 2. I'll use the prompt from @the-slumberparty

[divinesangel]

— 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐮𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

i felt called to do one of these today, enjoy!

— 𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐞!

— 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟏

your future lover will absolutely adore how authentic you are. they will feel a great curiosity about your energy and how you navigate through life. they will be able to see through you and sense that your wisdom and personality are deeply influenced by your past or the experiences you've endured throughout your life. they will admire your resilience and emotional strength, while also appreciating how mindful you are about the things that truly matter and important issues. you are someone who, despite facing many difficulties and conflicts, continues to see the positive side of every situation and sets boundaries in your personal relationships. your energy will become something quite special for them, as you will be able to help them see things from a different perspective and progress in life. you tend to do this unconsciously, so it's very likely that you won't even notice how much you'll impact this person.

your person will always want to make you happy, and they will put in whatever effort is necessary to do so. they'll have plenty of love to give you, and you'll undoubtedly feel their affection. you won't have to worry about anything or question whether they truly care about you or things like that, because they'll always make it clear through their actions. i see them working day by day to make you happy and doing everything possible to make things work.

— 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟐

you will become this person's rock.

this person seems to have spent a great deal of their life juggling numerous tasks without allowing themselves a moment to breathe. they feel like they must always be doing something and cannot pause to reflect on their feelings or internal conflicts. your arrival in their life is going to open their eyes, and they will see you as someone to trust, as that light at the end of the tunnel.

up until now, they have been feeling very lonely, and i sense that this is due to their lack of communication about their feelings. there is something preventing them from speaking about how they feel, and this only causes that pain to intensify further. however, i see that with you, they will begin to consider giving that much-needed inner change a chance.

they will adore that you are someone so stable and with such clear ideas. they will see you as a person with an organized mind who knows how to maintain composure in the most difficult moments and find a solution.

— 𝐩𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟑

this person will want to be with you on the spot!

they will see you as marriage material. it's highly likely that this person will want to move very quickly or that certain things will happen faster than expected. at first, it might seem a bit suspicious to you, but it's simply how this person operates. i sense that they act swiftly due to their emotions, allowing themselves to be carried away by them, which might lead them to want to marry you or commit rather quickly. they'll want to give you the world and more, although at times, they may have some doubts about whether their love is reciprocated or if you truly enjoy being with them.

this person will admire your character. you earnestly fight for what interests you and for the people you love. you have no problem defending what you believe in and anything that aligns with your values. they'll be aware that sometimes you may struggle to trust others due to past experiences, but they won't hesitate to show you their true intentions and anything else in order to be with you.

[skylinesnsunshines]

pac: the person you are becoming in a year (TIMELESS) -`♡´-

hi everyone! im back again for a 2nd pac for you all <3 the response from my 1st pac was so amazing so thank you all for supporting me. i no longer feel motivated to do readings for celebrities but i won't be entirely opposed to doing them, i'll just be more selective on who i'm reading and what i'm reading about. any requests for pac topics will be much appreciated! thank you everyone :3

disclaimer: all for entertainment purposes only, free will exists and energies are subject to change. if it doesn't resonate then it might not be the pile or reading for you. remember that this is a general reading, so i'm channelling the energy of the majority, not a specific individual.

(italicised is the card on the bottom of the tarot deck which is meant to represent the subconscious/blind spot of the situation + rx means reversed)

photo cr: pinterest | dividers | personal readings | tips

PILE 1 -> PILE 2

PILE 3 -> PILE 4

pile 1 ~ 4 of cups, 3 of swords, 9 of wands rx, the moon

okay so i want to reiterate that you have free will and i am just the messenger, so you don't have to claim this if this doesn't resonate. i feel a sense of rigidity with your energy cause i keep seeing an image of someone trying to bend steel and clearly failing. you may be running away or avoiding a certain situation due to it not aligning with your life plan. some of you might have virgo placements as well, cause i keep hearing that you "have an image to upkeep" and deviating from your plan will cause you a lot of anxiety. you may struggle with being okay with the unknown, which leads you to constantly seek reassurance from others or tangible things (e.g achievements). The main message I'm getting from this is to surrender, which is easier said than done but once you let go of certain expectations you will be reborn and no longer feel the dread of past situations that haunt you. you might be unhappy with your progress over the year, but remember that consistency matters most and you can't keep moving forward on a foundation that is easily shaken. i keep hearing longevity, which makes sense why you might feel frustrated about not moving at the pace you hope for because whatever skill or resource you are building will follow you throughout your life. i also get reminded of chappell roan, as many people are referring to her journey with the phrase "sometimes it takes 10 years to become an overnight success". i do think that this next year, you will be focusing on your healing and learning to let go of anxieties regarding your self-perception. now, the moon on the bottom of the spread tells me that the person you are becoming in a year is still hidden, mainly due to the choice that you have when it comes to your growth. there will be a lot of truths regarding yourself and the people around you that will help you elevate into the best version of yourselves. spirit's encouraging you to embrace the unknown, and be aware of the power that you hold within yourself. you have autonomy and are the deciding factor on the outcome of your future, the universe is here to encourage and support you into the person you want to become.

i know the tarot was a bit gloomy, but the oracles actually show lots of success and strength that you will find within yourself. the valley card depicts a situation where whatever the universe throws at you, your resilience perseveres as you have more resilience than you give yourself credit for. i love the panther card, as it encourages you to explore the unknown and to not limit yourself on the preconceived outcomes that you may envision for yourself. this card is encouraging you to embrace fluidity and limit the need to control on how it will unfold. a situation that you may perceive to be a failure today could be what leads you to unfathomable success in the future. the unicorn card also encourages you to embrace the unknown, you are destined for great things and it's important to learn to trust the universe. believe that things are unravelling for you behind the scenes and that you don't always need tangible things to measure your growth/success. it's important to remember that your path should not be compared to anyone else's and placing certain beliefs limits the outcomes of the person you want to be.

oracle cards ~ valley: deep personal strength and peace that assure success. 22 panther: no expectations. unicorn.

channelled song ~ one step at a time by jordin sparks

pile 2 ~ 8 of swords, 9 of swords, page of pentacles rx, judgement rx

this spread tells me that this year will teach you how to stand on your own, and uproot beliefs that no longer serve you. you might be someone who experiences a lot of racing thoughts, and you might struggle to manage them. i feel that within a year, you will learn to manage those thoughts and learn to trust your intuition more than your anxieties. you will learn to separate those two patterns for you to have a guide on what/who to trust. i'm sensing you might be someone who often sees past the surface and your innate gift is the gift of knowing, but it often frustrates you when you don't see movement in your physical reality or when it doesn't align with your vision. spirit's reminding you that you are so powerful, but you need to learn to let go of those feelings of always needing to know, we as humans living in this reality aren't meant to know everything as life is meant to be experienced and lived rather than entirely orchestrated. i'm hearing that in a year you will learn to embrace the unknown and make decisions based on how you feel rather than what you think. i think you could be extremely sensitive to energies (twin!) and you're being taught to really practice trusting yourself and your gut even if you see it isn't logical. you have so much inner knowing or guidance but oftentimes need someone else or physical evidence to validate your intuition, and the universe is saying it doesn't always work like that. the universe is asking you to look within and build a stronger connection with your inner guidance system and believe that you truly know best. the universe is reminding you to operate from a place of gratitude and trusting even in things that you don't believe other people will understand. this is a never-ending journey and within a year it'll be only the beginning of you living your most authentic life.

the boat card details the possibility of receiving a gift or monetary help through your environment. you could be enrolling in a competition in which you succeeded at or experiencing your luck through help from another individual. the eagle describes someone who is meant to be the light-bringer in the darkness of life. while it's important to say that this is not your sole identity, it aims to help you acknowledge your unique vision and honour your inner knowing to help embrace its unique energy. you might have been struggling to "fit in", but the spirit's saying that that's not your path and you are meant to stand out to inspire others. while everyone brings a unique trait to the table, your trait is to understand your light and not dim it for anyone's sake. honour your gift by embracing beliefs that resonate with your authentic self and bringing them to the world to show that not everything needs to be full of doom and gloom. crow energy is incredibly potent, and it is often a symbol of the occult as crows often embody a meaning when it shows up in people's lives. while this meaning is often deemed as negative, people misunderstand the crow as crow energy can only be understood with a clear mind. this reiterates the point of trusting your inner guidance, and also listening to your body when it comes to different experiences (eating a new food, making a new friend, etc.). crows are often misunderstood, but the universe is reminding you to have faith in your vision and that you are your greatest ally.

oracle cards ~ boat: money or property through an inheritance, winning or windfall. 30 eagle: you are more. crow.

channelled song ~ talk to me nicely by blxst

pile 3 ~ the fool, the hierophant, strength rx, 8 of cups

a new version of yourself will emerge in a year, representing stability and authority. you will have a new beginning, whether in your career, love life, or personal life. spirit wants to remind you to embrace your wisdom and share your gift of communication, as i feel that in a year people will feel called to ask for your guidance more. i also noticed that your spread has the colours orange, red and yellow so they might be important colours. since this will be a new experience, you might feel uncomfortable/unsure of your capabilities, but spirit's encouraging you to find a silver lining as this will test your resilience and self-assurance. by next year you will release a lot of the restrictions that you have placed on yourself, and feel that you will find a newfound level of strength when it comes to your resilience/willpower. i do think that initially, it will feel difficult for you to accept that you've grown cause i see resistance, but you'll eventually shed those feelings of tension and wholeheartedly accept the new change coming in. this spread could also indicate that if you are in a relationship, in a year the relationship may be elevated commitment-wise. within a year you will be someone who will be looked at with a lot of wisdom, and how people will look at you with amazement as you feel like you are trudging your own path. i feel that there will be a new sense of yourself that will emerge that puts you in a position of influence, wether that'd be in your personal or professional life. i see you as a really humble individual, and that you are sometimes even unaware of the strength that you possess. while humility is one of your greatest traits, it's also encouraging you to be more comfortable with being acknowledged and given your flowers. learning how to be confident authentically in yourself and your abilities is something that you could be experiencing. spirit's also hoping to bring your attention to a "lack" mindset that you might operate on. i don't see this as a bad thing though, as this lack seems to stem from the hunger and desire to always do better and be the best. your determination is what makes you special, but it's also encouraging you to sometimes stop and smell the flowers as you can sometimes feel that once you achieve something it's time to set your sights on achieving the next. spirit's encouraging you to pat yourself on the back and practice gratitude, as oftentimes your feelings of lack can sometimes disrupt your ability to be present in reality. overall, the experiences you will have within a year will shape you greatly with 3 major arcanas coming out, and spirit's saying that you are so deserving but to also remember to celebrate yourself and your achievements.

again the tulip card touches on the romantic aspect as it signifies great passion. so within a year, you might feel a new sense of passion reignited with another person, if that doesn't resonate, it could be a new passion for your creations or hobbies or even work. the antelope is encouraging you to be more mindful of your intention through movement to release any pent-up emotions you might have. on days when you feel it's difficult, it's encouraging you to move by not letting your circumstances fully dictate your worth. you are smarter than you give credit for, and you inherently know how to bounce back from difficulties. it's reminding you to move and trust yourself/your body to help you get through difficult periods. the first thing i notice from the eagle card is how eagles fly alone and at high altitudes, and that in a year you will embody the bravery of the eagle by learning and accepting your true self and trusting the path that you're on. you might lose some people along the way, but you've learned to be good on your own. i see for those of you who are manifesting a relationship as well, this frequency will help you attract a stable/secure relationship.

oracle cards ~ tulip: great passion. 27 antelope: shake, release, heal, move on. eagle.

channelled song ~ priorities by tyla

pile 4 ~ 10 of wands, temperance rx, 6 of pentacles, queen of swords rx

my pile 4's, you seem to be the provider group. you might have many burdens due to your self-perception/upbringing/environment. people look to you to provide whether that'd be financially, emotionally, with your time, etc. (this could also be cause you're financing yourself). i see that you might be the type of person to keep to yourself when going through hardship, that could be because your environment is difficult and it's encouraged you to develop a mentality of "trudging it out". i'm seeing someone who has a wound on their back/the back of their head and is unaware of how big the wound is because you need to keep the show going. everyone around you is asking you "are you ok?" and your response is always "i'm fine, keep going" and while your resilience is admirable, it's worrying to them given that they're able to see how clear the wound is. spirit's encouraging you to not keep to yourself and share the burden, as i can see that there is a lack of vulnerability you share with others. one of my favourite sayings i learned recently is that "shared sorrow is half a sorrow, and shared joy is a double joy", and i feel that this saying could be relevant to what you're currently going through. i'm hearing that in a year, you will learn to shed those beliefs of thinking that you're a burden and that you will learn to incorporate more balance in your life. these experiences will help you cultivate the skill of expressing your feelings and emotions coherently, also improving your mind/body connection. i feel that you have a lot to give to others, whether that'd be time, wisdom, or even loyalty but you might feel that since it's not tangible or physical you don't have much to contribute. for that i say, those around you who get to experience the most vulnerable parts of you see you as an even stronger person, because you also inspire them to undergo the same transformation.

you could meet a person within a year that helps you undergo this transformation, or be the catalyst of that change. it could come out of the blue and take you by surprise, but their energy seems so delightful that i feel like over time your friendship or relationship with them will flourish. the phoenix card tells the story of a transformation and reminds you that your current reality does not define what you will experience ahead. i see you shedding beliefs that ultimately don't serve you, and truly help you become the person you see as your best. i'm feeling a need for control with this group, so the buffalo also reminds that setbacks are an opportunity for upliftment. although it is natural to want to grieve and feel your emotions, it's reminding you to not sit in that energy for too long because of your resilience. you have gone through your hardest days and will continue to do so as you will experience days filled with happiness and fulfilment that reflect on the work you put in yourself.

oracle cards ~ handshake: a meeting with a stranger could be important. 42 phoenix: transformation. buffalo.

channelled song ~ the fighter - gym class heroes ft ryan tedder

so that’s it for the reading! let me know if it resonated and if you have any feedback, questions or requests! my ask box is always open for a chat as well <3 sending you love and light always :) hope you enjoyed it!

[claudiafrankie]

Soul Purpose/Why Are You Here?

Disclaimer: Tarot is not an evidence-based practice. You are in charge of making your own decisions.

Pile 1: Abundance

Hey pile 1! You picked the Abundance oracle card. Your tarot cards are the 2 of Swords, 3 of Swords, and the King of Cups.

As I was shuffling I was focusing on the imagery of your oracle card. I strongly got the feeling of being kind of put on the spot. You are having to make quick decisions. It's like the shape in the center of the card has so much going on around it. It's chaotic! The figures filling the picture look like sea creatures to me - sea urchins, those glowy jellyfish that live in the bottom of the ocean, sand dollars... All floating around in the current but in this big, condensed cluster. It's kinda dark in there but there's some sun coming through the current above.

Under sea kelp beds, that's the environment. You're here:

You're not quite sure what all you're going to come across. Cute fish... shark... friendly anthropomorphic sea otter wearing a news cap and suspenders... multiple sharks...

It's a little creepy/ominous but more importantly very beautiful and serene and otherworldly.

You're swimming through this kelp garden and you don't know what you're going to find, and all kinds of different things are going to pop out at you, you're going to have a lot of options in a lot of different areas in your life. You are not going to be someone who is stationary for very long. I think if you are stagnant and still (something you may struggle with) you aren't happy. You are bored more easily than others and have a deep craving for knowledge and novelty, absorbing every last drop of life that you can.

I think in human design, generator people's tell-tale sign for being out of alignment is frustration, they thrive off of having choices to pick from. This helps them feel inspired and like they are getting more out of life. Maybe you are a generator in human design, I think that is the most common type. You are a person of the people, you are salt of the earth, you care deeply for humanity and always pull yourself back to center when you catch yourself straying. You don't let things get to your head as much as you could.

It also looks like there's a chromosome in the center shape on the card. You are here unraveling karma from your past lives and for your ancestors. You are probably dealing with karma that you didn't create personally but exists in your bloodline. The bottom of the deck is the ten of swords - there are mostly sword cards here, with the king of cups standing out as the only water card. This is very Ardra energy in vedic astrology - strong, turbulent, powerful and stormy emotions. Ardra's deity is Rudra, a form of Shiva - who rules over storms. You are clearing out ooooold emotions that have been rotting in your family tree for years. You are finally processing some long-neglected baggage and releasing it.

The combination of the progression of the two to the three of swords, ending with the King of Cups suggests to me that you are going to become a true master of your inner world. Your lens you look at the world through will reach a level of clarity previously unknown to you and likely to your family. You are in tune with the environment in an electric way, sensing the humming and buzzing and shifts in the pitch and tone of the current washing around you. You let it all pass through you, understanding the futility in pretending to be unaffected. You let it pass through you, and you let it be there, and you don't let it shake you. For this reason others will cling to you - the RWS King of Cups sits on a throne carved from solid stone. It is anchored in tossing waves with a grey sky suggesting storms ahead. He looks calmly onward. People will view you as a shock-absorber, someone who can weather catastrophe and guide others through difficulty. I think this is where you are headed, but maybe aren't there quite yet.

Other people might get away (or at least seem to) with pushing aside their pain and never really dealing with it. You aren't one of these people. Your path to fulfillment is through making difficult decisions, sometimes ones where there really isn't a good option. Some of these decisions could affect other people as well. I see this as your heart existing in your head. So much compassion in tandem with a razor-sharp mind. Highly analytical, meticulous, maybe even fussy, combined with glowing warmth that can only be achieved by facing hardship.

There could be a significant male figure in your life who guides you, and you may not recognize the significance of his impact on your life until he's no longer in it. This might be someone you only know for a short period of time before parting ways. Maybe at the time of meeting them it's too overwhelming for you and it doesn't end so well, but the more you digest the relationship over time and think about what you learned from them, the deeper you understand the purity of this person, and the reasons why he navigates the world the way that he does. I think, going through hardship yourself and choosing to remain soft and gentle, you recognize this as a lesson you learned from this person. It's brave to continue believing in people. Also, it's possible to do it without being naive.

This pile knows the true meaning of unfairness. You know what it means to be made to feel selfish for taking care of yourself. You know what it means to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders, to be going through immense difficulty behind the scenes and still getting through the days treating people with kindness. Yeah you just see and feel the pain in others, you sense their stories even if it's just a stranger. You probably walk away from getting coffee and wondering how the barista is handling their breakup even though that was your first encounter with them.

Pile 2: Phenomenon

So right off the bat, Chappel Roan's song Feminomenon might be of significance lol. Maybe that song you was on repeat for you this summer, or you are LGBTQ+, or in some way don't fit in with the norm. Chappel Roan is famous for her drag outfits and crazy makeup and big hair - you could be into style, fashion, hair/makeup. Or maybe you are wanting to get more into these things but don't know how? Maybe you are struggling with expressing yourself right now, and this is a recurring struggle you deal with. If you are struggling with it, I think it's because it's actually something you're really good at - I think you have a natural eye for fashion and art, it's just that you need to reconnect with this part of yourself, and that re connection process will help you get deeper and better with and at it.

Next to your Phenomenon oracle card I pulled the Nine of Cups, Ace of Cups, and the Page of Cups. So all water, you are definitely here to learn how to express your feelings. I think you often feel like sharing how you feel makes you self-centered or you're "making it all about you," even though it ironically helps your relationships because you connect with people better when you're emotionally honest with them.

I think currently you're at a pretty comfortable spot in life. You've worked really hard and have been very much in your earth energy - taking care of your body, keeping a clean home, focusing on consistency at work and in your self-care and discipline. You've worked really hard to get here, and you're finally learning how to give yourself credit for it.

However, I think it still feels like something is missing for you. Looking at your cards (from right to left), the Page of Cups is offering the Ace of Cups to the Nine of Cups. The cup you're looking for, the special sauce that you are missing right now, is connected with your inner child. I think while working on improving your earth energy has been wildly beneficial for you (maybe you're successful for your age, or just really good at keeping your shit together and running a sane life for yourself) you have lost a little bit of touch with your inner softy.

I think you're probably cringing at that too, a little bit lol. Like "man I don't have time to cry and play in my coloring book I gotta pack lunch for work tomorrow" hahahaha. But honestly, if someone has that mindset or thought process about playfulness and fun, they need that energy the most!! In your list of things to do over the weekend that keep your life tidy and chugging along, you are being called to add something wholesome and fun in there.

It's easy to get in the swing of daily living and going through the motions, and it's not wrong at all to pride yourself on your ability to keep a tidy ship. BUT lol that doesn't mean you have to lose out on some harmless chaos and unstructured fun times. You don't let yourself let your hair down as much as you could be. Obviously don't go out and go crazy and do something dangerous lol and if you're not ready to go clubbing every weekend you can start small! Maybe there's a bakery near you that you haven't tried with kick ass muffins, go try that place out. If you're really particular about cleaning your place, try cleaning it in a more 'chill' way if that makes sense lol. Try out letting go of intensity and a "I just need to get this done" attitude. Maybe that means the floors won't be as spotless after mopping than they usually are but hey, they're still clean right?

Yeah I think what's really coming through for this pile is letting going of perfection and holding yourself to unrealistic standards, so much of your power lies in fun, and not just fun but also facilitating fun. Lifting up the people around you. With the Ace of Cups in the middle of your spread, you guys are here to out pour to those around you. People are enchanted by you and think you live a charmed life, they are envious of your innocence, your lack of care for/about status and authority. It's refreshing (i mean, these are all cups cards lol) on multiple levels! You might not notice how your inner child lifts people up, and how just one conversation you have with someone leaves them feeling nourished after you walk away.

Pile 3: Vulnerability

Hey pile 3 welcome!

You guys picked the vulnerability oracle card and your tarot cards are the four of pentacles, the ace of wands, and the magician. This is the description for your oracle card:

"As the flower opens and offers itself, the butterfly says "yes." Opening and exposing ourselves to new possibility comes with risk, but also holds the potential for great reward. Be willing to share your gifts with the world, allowing the acceptance and recognition vulnerability can bring."

This one feels pretty damn straightforward haha, you guys are here to build literally any life that you want to. I am looking and these cards as a progression - the man in the four of pentacles seizes the ace of wands and becomes the magician. Literally he lets go of these four measly pentacles, grabs the magic wand, and become the magician he was always meant to become.

You guys have sooooo much power within you. Your manifesting skills are truly off the chart and it seems like right now you're not really sure what to do with this gift. I think you could be feeling overwhelmed by all the possibilities. You are probably the kind of person who has a lot of different interests, can feign commonality with just about anyone because you're smart and absorb knowledge like a sponge - so you have tidbits of information on a huge range of topics. Someone will bring up in conversation that their grandparents berry farm is suffering because of a disease or certain kind of pest in the area and you're like "oh yeah I've heard that those types of flies are invasive and it's like becoming a widespread problem" lmao.

You could be a gemini mars or north node - the tarot card associated with mars in gemini is the nine of swords - literally analysis paralysis is your guys' biggest obstacle. You have everything in your head, but you struggle to bring your creations to life. I wouldn't be surprised if you guys are some flavor of neurodivergent, maybe ADHD or on the autism spectrum. You are ahead of the times.

I think this pile is similar to pile one because I'm getting an ancestral element for you guys. I think the women in your family have packed on years of frustration because they were made to believe that they just can't build for themselves. The women in your family line have sat with huge creative potential but the fear they carried prevented them from being able to actually use it to birth their ideas into the real world. They saw their fathers and brothers and husbands go out into the world with so much confidence, maybe with less skill or more boring ideas, and create success for themselves. I think you should know that it was not all sunshine and roses for the men in your family - there was such a huge amount of pressure to achieve and earn and perform that they didn't even really get a chance to really choose what they wanted to do. They just knew that it was expected of them to do well and provide for their families.

But the women, ah there is so much rage honestly. You have the chance in this lifetime to channel not only your own creativity but that of your mother, her mother, her sisters, etc. I think when you create it's a full experience for you. Like it's not that you don't phone it in, it's that you can't. You can't make something and not be fully in it. I think this might be part of your blockage as well - you tell yourself that if something you make isn't perfect or exactly as you envisioned it in your head, then it was a waste of time. It wasn't. I think if you allow yourself to be messy and be a little more process-oriented, you can really get the ball rolling for yourself. And honestly probably process a lot of those packed on emotions from your family.

You are someone who can get quick results in things if you really put your mind to something. Right now it seems like your task is to sift through your daydreams, then after that you can start taking some little steps towards making something happen. Even if it's something tiny you do to get closer to a goal, it's still really important for you guys especially to really celebrate that. And really mean it when you celebrate! If you guys work a job you aren't crazy about to pay the bills like so many of us do, maybe you have been drained or just don't see how you have the time to make one of your interests something more than just an idea in your head.

This is going to be a process of re-parenting yourself in a way. If you belittle your accomplishments and progress towards the things you really want to bring into the world, they will slowly shrivel up. You wouldn't make fun of a kid for trying something new and not being amazing at it, so you can't do that with yourself. You deserve support and love on your journey, not only that but you need it! You have the power to create the space for yourself to thrive in, and then thrive in it! You guys are honestly like buzzing with electricity. I think sometimes you have so many ideas that you get confused and tired just thinking about all of them, and maybe you act out in frustration but your not even sure why your upset. There are parts of yourself that have not been given enough attention, and once you start letting them out in the light they can show you what they can help you do in this life.

I think too that getting more in touch with your sexuality will help with this process, getting more in your body and letting yourself feel sexy and sensual, really being in the moment with your body and then carrying that energy with you in your endeavors. Yeah let yourself be a horndog lol it will help you reach your goals

Best of luck pile 3, not that I think you need it hahaha

[tarotwithavi]

3 things you need to let go of in order manifest your dream life

1. Fear of Rejection

Do you realize that your fear of rejection is holding you back from doing so many things? Also why do you fear rejection ever thought about that? Yes we all fear something and rejection is a really scary word. Nobody likes rejection but the truth is the fear of rejection is what is holding us back and those who have let it go of this fear have achieved great things. Everybody is afraid of rejection so to say but what kind of rejection? Societal rejection that the society won't accept you for who you are, romantic rejection that your crush won't like you back or rejection from your own self? Why do you reject yourself? Why do you reject your thoughts? Why do you think that you are not capable of what you desire? This may not be a big thing but in order to evolve and grow you need to go through these questions and ask yourself why you fear rejection.

3 things to do to let go of this fear

Understanding Impermanence: Recognize that rejection is a part of life, and it doesn't define your worth. People's opinions and circumstances change, and rejection doesn't necessarily reflect a permanent state.

Focusing on Growth: Embrace rejection as an opportunity for personal growth. Learn from the experience, adapt, and use it as a stepping stone towards self-improvement.

Building Resilience: Develop resilience by realizing that not every rejection is a personal attack. Building a strong sense of self allows you to withstand setbacks and move forward with confidence.

2. Expectations

Sometimes you expect too much from people and from yourself too and when you cannot fulfill those expectations you feel upset. You have a great heart and there is no doubt about how pure and innocent your energy is. You do your best in everything you do, if you love someone you love them from all your heart and you will do everything for them. You expect others to do the same for you, expecting is not a bad thing but being upset over others not fulfilling YOUR expectations is not good. You need to let go of those expectations. And you don't have to live up to others expectations also. As a human we always expect others to do something for us or we just expect something in return. It's in our nature. You don't have to fulfill others' expectations and others don't have to fulfill yours. So you just need to let go of “expectations”.

Mindful Awareness: Be conscious of your expectations and question whether they are realistic. Sometimes, expectations can set you up for disappointment if they are too rigid or dependent on external factors.

Embracing Flexibility: Cultivate flexibility and openness to different outcomes. This doesn't mean lowering standards, but rather being adaptable to the twists and turns that life may bring.

Communicating Expectations: Clearly communicate your expectations to others when appropriate. This reduces the chances of misunderstandings and aligns everyone involved.

3. Self-Doubt

We've all been there, right? Dealing with self-doubt is like a universal thing and is a common human experience. But, let's be real for a moment, when did we let that self-doubt become the boss of our lives? Like, where did it even come from? Because, let's face it, it's not like self-doubt runs in the family or is scribbled into our DNA. Nah, it's more about what others toss at us. I used to doubt myself and still do actually(sometimes). But hey, I'm putting in the work. The more I do, the clearer it gets why the wise ones always say, "Who cares what anyone else thinks?" It's like, do you, be you, and forget the noise from the peanut gallery.

Positive Self-Talk: Challenge negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Focus on your strengths and past successes to counteract self-doubt.

Setting Realistic Goals: Break down larger goals into smaller, achievable steps. This allows you to build confidence gradually and see tangible progress.

Seeking Support: Share your concerns with trusted friends or a mentor. External perspectives can provide valuable insights and encouragement, helping you overcome self-doubt.

[albywritesfiction]

After The End

Premise 

Your former fiancé and heir apparent of the Aurelian Kingdom, Prince Ædan, has married the love of his life, the fair Saintess Helene. As the nation celebrates their union, you are left alone to pick up the pieces of your broken heart... until you receive two letters. One is an invitation to the office of Prince Ædric, the crown prince's younger brother and rival for the throne. The other is a letter filled with concern from your childhood friend and secretary-in-training, Cyfrin, who is currently assisting your father at your family’s ducal estate in the countryside. Each letter contains a proposition that will change the course of your fate forever.

Which one will you choose?

Features 

Play as the male lead’s abandoned betrothed of a historical fantasy romance that has reached ‘The End.’ You will be able to customize your character’s identity and appearance with a variety of options. 

Choose between two routes for your next course of action. Will you accept the offer of an alliance with the crown prince's younger (and more capable) brother and become the monarch you were always meant to be? Or will you take a step back from the noise and hubbub of high society in the capital and return to your family's estate in the countryside, where your best friend promises to arrange such a great vacation for you that you’ll forget about your ex in no time? 

Characters

The Second Prince: Ædric Aurelius

Ædric is known throughout the kingdom as the Dark Prince, not just because of his ebony black hair, but also because of his unsociable disposition. While it is true that his deep violet eyes and usual scowl can be intimidating, he has been nothing but kind to you in all the years that you have known him. Sometimes you would catch him looking at you with a small smile on his face, but he would always deny it ever happened.

(Ædric's introduction post)

The Future Secretary: Cyfrin Galanthus

You have known Cyfrin your entire life, and your father has known him for even longer, given that he discovered your best friend on the doorstep of your home when he was just a baby. Even though he is the older one between you two, he often trails behind you like a duckling following its mother when his break times align with yours. He has often been compared to a dog: always eager to spend time with you, fiercely protective and loyal, sullen and moody whenever you are apart.

(Cyfrin's introduction post)

The Crown Prince: Ædan Aurelius

Handsome and charismatic, Ædan is the definition of a fairytale prince… just not your fairytale prince. With his golden blond hair and crystal blue eyes, he easily captured the hearts of the people upon his social debut. When he unleashes his soft smile upon a crowd, there is a very high chance that more than half of those present will swoon. You, too, were once enchanted by that smile, back when you thought your love would last until the end of time.

(Ædan's introduction post)

The Fair Saintess: Helene

If your world was the setting of a typical romance novel, there would be no doubt who the protagonist would be. People say that her beauty is a blessing from the gods, and that her silver hair and golden eyes were meant to set her apart as the Favored One. Helene may have almost the entire kingdom wrapped around her little finger, but you know that her true colors are lurking just beneath the kind and naive front she puts up.

(Helene's introduction post)

Status

Chapter 1, Part 1: releasing on January 5, 2024 9:00 PM EST

Chapter 1, Part 2: in progress, estimated release in April/May 2024

Chapter 1, Part 3: in progress

(MC's introduction post)

(Frequently Asked Questions)

Game Link

[a-very-tired-jew]

Rebranding, Rebranding, and more Rebranding

Something I have noticed over the course of this year is that many of the SJP groups that were behind the campus protests, and supported the larger off campus actions, have either dissolved and created a new group, dissolved and joined an already existing group, or rebranded.

If they rebranded or dissolved and reformed under a new name they typically went from SJP to PSC to AD. You can see the progression across social media where accounts for various university groups suddenly stop and others begin following this pattern. Each time it correlates with attention they don't want (e.g. the most recent being the outing of Samidoun as a terrorist front group and the organizer behind these college protests).

But now with the attention being brought towards who is funding and educating these groups and the resulting consequences, I'm seeing them dissolve and join others that align with their ideals. The most recent move is to join YDSA groups across campuses, which in turn have moved from being democratic socialist groups into full blown tankie ones*.

This is another trend I've noticed as groups that purported to be progressive socialist spaces have revealed that they were actually tankie spaces all along, and they were just hiding their more extremist radical positions under a veneer. As we've seen across this site, social media in general, and Leftist spaces, tankies are not friends to Jews and use Soviet era rhetoric to "disguise" their antisemitism behind claims of "anti-Zionism".

I'm saddened that YDSA groups have become this way and have embraced antisemitic propaganda and rhetoric, but I'm not surprised (which saddens me even more).

Part of me knows they're being manipulated by front groups who seek to manipulate their dissatisfaction with the USA, the West, and the world for their own goals. That these fronts are taking these young adults and focusing their fear, anger, empathy, and sympathy at a situation that has nothing to do with them. It's seeding in historical revisionism, conspiracy, antisemitism, and all sorts of hate into these groups by couching it within progressive language. It uses words like "genocide" and "oppressor" to play on the emotions of these young activists because they're big scary words that play to big emotions.

But I've also been around long enough to know that antisemitism is always just below the surface for many people. Yes they're being manipulated by terrorist front groups. But also, how many of them are saying hateful things they've heard throughout their lives? How many of them are just saying horrendous shit towards Jews in the diaspora and/or in Israel who have no power whatsoever regarding this war because they can? How many of them are just being hateful ignorant antisemites because now they can openly spout the conspiracies about Jews they've always believed because society taught them it was true but not okay to say until now?

Something will happen eventually, and I'm sure we'll see these young adult activists complain about it. But freedom of speech and the right to protest here does not mean freedom from consequences. So take a moment before you go and call a Jew a k***to their face and think.

*if your YDSA isn't this way, that's fine, I'm not speaking about yours then. I'm speaking in generalities and trends I've noticed across college campuses and through speaking with my colleagues. We don't focus on single points of data, but the general trend.

[alltheboysandgirlsiloved]

Last night I was thinking about kenlynn/brookenji again, and more specifically about their breakup and why it is so important. I've already talked about how, in my opinion, they are at the stages of their lives where it becomes obvious that their lifestyles and values don't fully align (you can read it here, it's a long boy) but I wanted to talk a little bit about why their breakup is so layered but also realistic.

I want to start off by saying that it is obvious that Kenji and Brooklynn love each other. The ways they handle their relationship are visibly different, they have slightly different needs, I also (that's just an assumption) think that they have different love languages that they don't know how to match, but the fact remains - they love each other.

That's why Kenji's decision to break up with Brooklynn is so important to me. Because, while Kenji started as a pretty self-centered dumbass, he grew into a person who treasures his family and friends greatly. He is willing to self-sacrifice, when the push comes to shove he will do anything to help. And he feels the same way about Brooklynn - he loves her, platonically and romantically. He loves her as a friend and he loved her as a girlfriend. He knew that he would hurt her, his decision to break up with her couldn't have been easy.

And yet, despite his feelings, he broke up with her. And it was the right call. It was the call that many people in relationships hesitate to take - ultimately, he decided to choose himself. And let me emphasize here and now - it wasn't selfish, it was a healthy thing to do. Being in a relationship in which you don't feel like you are loved as much as you want to be, and in which your partner, despite you sending them signals, ignores your needs, is not healthy. I'm not saying that Brooklynn was toxic or whatever, I'm also not saying that Kenji doesn't have obvious attachment issues. I'm saying that it wouldn't be healthy for him to continue this relationship. Sometimes you have to choose yourself over your partner, which is not an egoistical choice. Relationships consist of two (or more) people and they have the same rights, their needs are equal. Kenji recognized that he was put aside and it didn't sit right with him, and that's alright. Choosing yourself is a good thing to do, it's a mature thing to do. More people should do it in full honesty.

Breaking up with your loved one in a situation like this is probably to most difficult thing to do. It was probably one of the bravest things Kenji has ever done, especially considering that he and Brooklynn share such past, share friends, share (found) family. Right after standing up to Daniel, it was probably one of the bravest things Kenji has ever done emotionally - he chose himself. And it wasn't easy. It was emotionally taxing, it was nerve-wracking, it was... a lonely feeling. Because you are suddenly alienated because you find that you're the only one who cares about your comfort in the relationship.

And that's why I also think that kenlynn getting back together would kind of... reverse all the progress that Kenji has made. Especially with his dare-devil, self-sacrificial arc in jwct s2. You can be selfless but still care for yourself - both physically and emotionally. Kenlynn getting back together would just... I don't think it would be healthy. For either of them really but especially for Kenji. Kenji, who was treated like literal garbage by his father mind you, needs to remember that he deserves to prioritize himself. That it is alright to love yourself with all your flaws, and needs, and demands. There is nothing bad about taking care of yourself.

[qqueenofhades]

I also think leftists view liberals and centrists as worse than right wingers because liberals and centrists maintain the status quo, thus prolonging capitalism. In the case of accelerationists, they think a revolution is only possible if people are desperate enough to want one and so they often align themselves with right wingers who they know will make things worse (see MAGA communism as one example). To them it doesn't matter if the fascists will take power because they believe fascism always fails and communism will naturally follow. All the deaths will be worth it in the end.

I hit ask before I finished. I meant to add in parentheses that all of that is of course an oversimplification, but those are pretty much the arguments I saw in multiple leftists subreddit, on tumblr and twitter in the past few months. I know leftists irl are more normal.

See, this is what I mean when I point out that Online Leftists have become just as much of a zero-sum radicalized death cult as the MAGA Trumpists. They're willing to embrace any atrocity, global disaster, terrible people, and massive death toll as long as they think it'll bring their Shining Ideology (TM) to fruition, and then of course this will last a thousand years and never be changed and humans will bow down as a group to this Shining Ideology and destroying everything will be Worth It In The End. Apparently. This is complete ahistorical genocidal nihilistic gibberish, where any progress to fix the world and make a better future for the billions of people alive right now is actually Bad because What About the Glorious Revolution?!?! It is Totally Real! It Will Work! O Bow To Us Great Keyboard Warrior Dipshits! If You Don't Want to Violently Die With Everyone You Love, You Are Part of the Problem!!!!!

Now, I don't know about you, but I sure as fuck don't feel like sacrificing everyone and everything is a great tradeoff for whatever Communist Utopia these cosplaying pissbabies think would be the ultimate fruition of their labors. It's lazy, it's dangerous, it's stupid, it excuses them from ever having to do any effort to make the world better right now, and it feeds into the worst impulses and movements of humanity and the same mistakes that have been repeated in history over and over. This is basically what the late 19th-century and early 20th-century Communists thought: people would rise up in a Great Socialist Revolution, overthrow capitalism and fascism and every other bad thing in the world (which would somehow never ever come back, I guess) and then the future would be bright and shining forever. In practice, it resulted in tons of bloody and pointless deaths, a lot of failure, and some communist regimes that were absolutely zero improvement whatsoever on the oppressive systems they had replaced (and often were in fact MORE oppressive, but online leftists don't listen to people who actually grew up in these regimes and are not eager to see them come back). And guess what? Capitalism and fascism were not actually defeated Once and For All Time! Because yet again, you cannot just Violently Revolute your way to Ultimate Morally Pure Power once and for all, kill the Right People (aka everyone) and then everything is fixed forever. If it was ever going to work, it would have already done so. It has not. This fallacy is the cause of pretty much all the evil in human history. So. Yeah.

[chelledoggo]

okay, so... you know what i would LOVE to see?

a deconstruction of "conservative cartoons" like Mr. Birchum or The New Norm... BUT, it deceptively markets itself as a straightforward conservative cartoon.

like, here's what i'm thinking:

we got your white, old-fashioned, masculine husband protagonist, a centrist, openminded wife, and a couple of children. one of the kids would probably be a dudebro son who aligns more with their dad's beliefs, while the other would be your stereotypical "blue-haired nonbinary progressive activist."

you'd, of course, also have your token "non-woke minority friends" to the main character: the black conservative, the disabled veteran, the "not like the other gays" gay man, etc...

they all live in a suburban neighborhood. their kids attend a public school, where the teacher is your stereotypical "liberal soyboy wokie" (a la Mr. Karponzi from Mr. Birchum), and is presented as the "main antagonist."

episode one starts out straightforward, with no indication of it being a deconstruction or subversive, in order to lull the conservative audience into a false sense of security.

we get the introduction to these characters, their conflicts, etc... the husband complains about how "soft" and "woke" society is becoming and reminisces about "the good old days." the first major conflict would probably be CRT or pronouns in the classroom or something.

but starting from episode 2, we start seeing the MC deconstruct and question himself. the little hints of deconstruction would start out small and subtle, like he might just take pause at an opinion he had and think "hmmmm... this feels right to me, but... i wonder... was i too harsh?"

and then with each episode the MC starts to reflect on his upbringing with a strict authoritarian father and a meek, submissive mother who always seemed unhappy. he slowly starts to realize that he was manipulated and coerced into being "a real man" by his abusive father.

he starts to think to himself "okay, WHY do i dislike progressives? WHY do i have a problem with 'safe spaces?' don't vulnerable people deserve to feel safe, even though i never did? and WHY do i have a problem with trans and nonbinary people? yeah, it's a little odd to me, but they're not harming anyone."

as he reflects and deconstructs the outdated beliefs he had engrained in him, he finds himself growing a closer bond with his nonbinary kid, while also realizing he needs to start teaching his dudebro son to be a respectful and non-toxic man.

by the end of the season/series, he finally admits to those around him that he's not proud of who he'd been in the past, and although he still has a long way to go and will probably have to spend the rest of his life unlearning his old ways, he's going to try his best to do right by those around him.

someone should get on this. at the very least it would be funny as fuck to watch conservatives melt down, while at best it would be a beautiful narrative on how we need to examine our beliefs.