#and then you have the cousin issues
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It's like....m my voice and my actions have the power to influence things.... But yet something always stays the same.... And to what extent does it change things..... Is there ever positive everlasting change from any of my actions......... What am I doing all of this forrrr who am I doing it for.......
#mommy issues will fuck you up#and then you have the cousin issues#and big brother issues#and eldest daughter syndrome issues#this feels so weird like it feels like#depression is hovering in the corner and I'm not spiraling into it#but it's there because how do I even process and address the gargantuan amount of unresolved issues around family stuff#i got so many jobs and moved so many times and challenged myself to bond with so many new people#and for whatttttt#for what!!!!!!!!#i don't care abt it all making sense or anythinf#i just have no concept of tangible progress from any of my efforts#so like#what am I even doing what do I even want to dooooo#i want to take a class.#i want. tangible progress#i don't need to be making progress all the time#that is okay#but#unresolvednesss is happening and it feels Bad#i need conclusions#resolved things#so I can begin a next chapter of whoever me is#do I even#i think I do#want to still get good at art professionally#but I want to bond with people over eating mayo at 3 am again#and sometimes I wonder if holding on to professional art stuff too much gets in the way of that#they can be one and the same#i just need to not even be brave but get overrrr myself
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❝ And the new Bloodline's Judas is about to get his ❞ While his brothers were willing to still side with their cousin again, even after he refused to apologize for all his years of torment, when Solo Sikoa finds himself surrounded, all on his own and offered a final chance of mercy by the same man should he just surrender to him, Solo instead decides to stand ground and is met with an onslaught of six finishers in a row before ultimately being pinned.
#wrestling#wwe#survivor series#wargames#solo sikoa#roman reigns#jey uso#jimmy uso#the usos#sami zayn#cm punk#wweedit#wrestlingedit#my gifs#long post#they really beat their lil bro down all to side with their big b!tch@$$ cousin who STILL cant even say sorry for years of tormenting them#idk kinda goofy if you ask me#yall better have some plan in all this or that is fr just sad lmao#solo hasnt done even half of what roman has#but everyone treats him like the biggest villain#...how powerful of him tbh#also michael cole i will FIGHT you what do you mean JUDAS#my faves iyo and solo both out here getting dubbed a judas#not jimmy out here superkicking his entire family not jey or sami#my guy who showed up last & held out the longest in a group that was falling apart before he even got there HOW DARE YOU#solo saying 'this isnt how it was supposed to be' BABY#he is literally a baby and you guys are MEAN#i have issues with the ending but i appreciated this moment#in that solo was willing to go down fighting rather than giving in and bowing to roman even when so outnumbered#...and they still have not and are not proving to me why solo is supposed to be the one in the wrong lmao
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There's probably discrimination between fresh and saltwater merfolk, maybe between different depths of the sea too
I can imagine there's a rule of
If you blink and see a merfolk swimming towards you looking for a bite, that's a seafolk.
If you blink and you see a mer that wasn't there before, that's a freshwater folk.
If you blink and wake up in heaven, it was a swampfolk
#i can imagine seafolk are weaker in a lot of ways comapared to freshwater or swamp mer#they csn def go longer without water#probably also have climbed trees or even can crawl on land to get stuff to bring back#the enviorment is just as dangerous cause eveything is camouflage#plus attacks from snakes and other land creatures#swamps have better eyesite than other mer and probably even use braille oflr other craft ways to find places when its very swampy#overall they would be more resilient I think#like have you seen catfish? those mfers live off of battery acid and live in a tank of mountain dew for a year without issue#or lung fish that can go a year without water?#armored catfish skeletons??#yea seafolk are very very strong but their hillbilly country cousins are built different for sure#and have more aura#chad cowboy and critter mers vs the virgin sea mer struggling to walk in human form#not writing#not requests
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Slow Horses is like cocaine for people who are addicted to father-son relationship between two fucked up guys who aren't actually related
#'what is he some sort of twisted fucking father figure to you eh?'#yes he is actually#I called it from DAY 1 that Lamb is basically River's dad and everyday he hopes his idiot fucking son (affectionate)#doesn't get himself killed#also catherine standish is his mom but that's for another post#the MI fucking useless family#Louisa is the older sister who's Going Through A Phase shirley is the cousin with anger issues#Ho is uhmmm sibling who's chronically online#marcus I'm still trying to decipher you#slow horses#river cartwright#jackson lamb#I have the abolity to properly analyse this show but now I need comfort and found family thank you#father-son relationship
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The cutest reminder ever that the way family works in TSAMS canon is that two parties have to be in mutual agreement that they are family. If one party doesn't agree then they aren't family. Parties can revoke familial ties whenever they want and that means they are no longer family.
"Code Relation" theory is stupid because you're then implying that Eclipse is Sun and Moon's child. Which he isn't. Or that Killcode is somehow Moon's child and his brother at the same time that he's Eclipse, Lunar and Bloodmoon's "father" at the same time that they're Sun and Moon's grand children. Like, we're seeing the issue here, right?
Don't make things more complicated than it has to be. Just accept the fact that family is literally determined by a verbal agreement between two animatronics and nothing else because none of them were born from wombs. That means respecting canon when characters in canon decide that they aren't comfortable being family (like Eclipse) or just straight-up disown everyone (like Bloodmoon). It's okay to have headcanons, but don't try to push them onto canon.
#alex talks#tsams#tsams discourse#the sun and moon show#just respect canon#not everyone has to share your headcanon about how family should work#pushing headcanons onto people and claiming it's canon is rude#and really fucking gross too#let people enjoy canon without having headcanons that they don't like/agree with being shoved in their faces#istg if I see another argument as to why a harmless ship is “actually incest” because of “code relations” I'm going to scream#yes I am staring at the people who are making that claim about shadowplanet#code does not define family in this show have we not learned this already#if that were the case then most of the animatronics would be related because they were made by fazbear and that would be an issue#because a lot of them are dating like bros please open ur eyes and see how this stuff actually works in TSBS instead of#Pretending your headcanons are canon#again#it's fine to have family headcanons and the code relation headcanon but don't push it onto canon#that's so rude and annoying#also do you really think the VAs would joke about shadowplanet if they thought it was somehow incest#in any way shape or form#family doesn't work by “relations” it works by agreement#Solar wasn't family until he agreed to be family#and even then he was like “yeah a distant cousin or smth idk”#idk now I'm just#alex screams into the void#yeah#pop off king
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"but if they're just honorifics used for everyone regardless of familial relation how do we know who's related and who isn't" if their family name isn't Jia they're not part of the Jia family. How all the Jia family members are related to each other is still unknown, but like Xue Baochai is not actually a sibling of Hong Lu's because she is part of the Xue family and not the Jia family
#limbus company#project moon#canto viii#limbus company spoilers#canto 8 spoilers#me post#i don't really care about whether or not there's incest since that's already a thing in the original dotrc w/ all those cousins#but some of you guys are getting kind of weird about chinese cultural norms#really wish pm had taken the time to have one of the characters be like “what? youre siblings but you're betrothed?” and someone could go#“oh no that's just how people refer to each other here"#sort of like how they explained the hours and what a kezhan is#EXCEPT THAT THEY PROBABLY DIDN'T REALIZE IT'D BE AN ISSUE. BECAUSE KOREA ALSO HAS HONORIFICS LIKE THIS#THIS IS A WESTERN MISUNDERSTANDING!!! WE'RE COOKED
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finished my first run and id die for her
#ohhh tabitha the issues that you have….. i love that the dynamic turned from cousins to the worst siblings ever#her autistic swag is crazy#scarlet hollow
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adding 'tentacles are in the walls' to my list of vague x mansion facts
(X-Men #25)
#xmen#xmen comics#professor x#charles xavier#snap scans#snap chats#i solemnly swear not to abuse this information <- lying#like ya couldnt have built an elevator .... or a ramp ........ why do you do this to yourself this seems complicated dont you think#forced to ask the question how many other bits a bullshit like this exists in his house. i hope the answer is a lot#charles xavier has the right to turn his house into inspector gadget's cousin i think but how do you even come to this solution#'theres a very slim possibility i'll walk downstairs and fall how should i protect myself if the time comes. wall tentacles.'#like girlfriend. did you know i love you.#ok im finishing this issue than im working. im going to the comic shop with my friend later today so thatll be fun !!!!!#bye :)
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bart and wally aka the “we have a hard time understanding love because of our childhoods” gang
#bart allen#wally west#flashfam#the thing about bart and wally is that#yes they annoy each other to no end but make no mistake they also have a warrior’s bond that transcends cousin rivalry#do you guys remember the ‘bart&wally Turning Point’ issue of impulse where bart took them back to BLUE VALLEY.#AUGH.
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Do you think shuggy ever gets possessive over one another?
Definitely. Undoubtedly. And it goes both ways.
I believe the most obvious answer would be saying Shanks is the possessive one because, you know, have you seen the rizz this clown has to always attract people? Cross Guild??? So Shanks gets jealous easily but I don't think he actively shows it because he wants to keep things peaceful and he truly does not want Buggy to get angry at him for this. So it's small, subtle moves that let others know Shanks is possessive over Buggy but without making Buggy notice.
On the other hand, Buggy is way more explicit with that. Shanks is just too nice. It doesn't mean he flirts with everyone he meets but he just has a flirty personality and it does look like that when he's being polite, plus, for some reason every girl wants to fuck Shanks. That man looks disgusting and very gay to me, but whatever the female gaze wants, idk-- And Buggy is more the type to get angry at Shanks and yell at him about it and quickly drag him away from any flirtatious conversation, but Shanks kind of sort of likes it, ngl. ("Awww you want me only for yourself, Bugs?" / "Shut the fuck up")
But this doesn't only happen romantically and I doubt you meant it only in that way. I was saving my favorite thing for last.
I think they were possessive of each other since they were kids. You know. Always being together and clinging to each other constantly. Never being without the other. They of course argue but they always have this "he should be with me" sensation when the other is with someone else because it just doesn't feel right to be apart from him. They have also always been possessive in the way of like-- Not the "you're mine" sort of thing but "we belong together, that's how it always has been". On the battlefield too, btw, if you touch one of them you will probably end up dead because they're just that protective (Shanks does it in a more obvious way and Buggy could kill someone to protect Shanks but he would blame Shanks anyway and say he didn't do it because of him when he totally did).
There's just something about them now that screams how they want to go back to the way things used to be when they could live in their own bubble together, only the two of them. And there's this clear possessiveness because their love is only theirs and no one else's. And I believe them to be extremely protective in all stages of their relationship. When they were kids. When they were teenagers. Even when they were fighting. And even more, if they date again.
By the way, I just had the most adorable thought about lil kids Shuggy being this possessive. A little headcanon-- Roger always playing with them and showering them with love because of course he did, and he used to hold Buggy and go "He's mine!!! <33 My ray of sunshine!!" and Shanks instantly got so possessive and angry going "No!!! Mine!!" and Roger kept joking about it until Shanks cried and he had to let go of Buggy if he didn't want the kid to have a whole breakdown about it (Buggy didn't give a single fuck btw he liked to be with Rayleigh better).
#if you were expecting a 'nah they have a very healthy relationship' it's not going to happen because they don't have it#they possessive and codependent and get easily jealous bc they both have !! abandonment issues !!#this has been going on since they were kids#the often bought together do not sperate meme is about them#the way i adore them sooo much#the headcanon at the end is just something my grandma does with me and my cousin and he's just so cute saying i'm his that i had to add thi#also sorry if there are any mistakes or it's boring or whatever i'm on my period and i am exhausted today but i wanted to post something#one piece#shuggy#red haired shanks#buggy the clown#ask-bean!
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so somehow I’ve convinced myself these two unrelated characters in different unrelated USA shows BOTH CREATED BY Jeff Eastin are cousins/siblings and I’m like 4k words deep so there’s no going back


so you see the vision please tell me you see the vision
The punnett squares are punning
baby ain’t you related


#aaronposting#kgcollar#elizabeth burke#mike warren#graceland#white collar#aaron tveit#tiffani amber thiessen#tiffani thiessen#someone talk to me#about this#I’m going#insane#he’s just crazy cousin mikey 🤪#like Elizabeth is like oh yk I have a cousin who’s big time criminal like my whole family hasn’t heard from him in years he may be dead#from#drug related issues#and Micheal Warren in his cunty fbi jacket like .-.#baby it was deep cover#and one time she’s like oh let me show you a pic of mike and there’s not any bc of the photo restrictions#and everyone thinks she’s rationalizing this traumatic relationship or whatever#but Mikey’s just doing. fine ish graceland was tough for him#baby ain’t you related#i need to be put down
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people mostly talk about splitting as literally all-or-nothing--"I love you" or "I hate you"--but I personally experience an in-between point sometimes.
I don't know what I'd call it other than "thin-ice devaluation" or something along those lines.
like, yes I devalued you recently and I realize now that I was being irrational, BUT if you say something even slightly suspicious, hurtful, or incorrect, I'm going to assume that you're evil and/or useless again much faster than I would have before.
#narcissistic personality disorder#npd#actually narcissistic#actually npd#I'm sure this is relatable to other splitters but I don't want to clog up the tags of PDs I don't have so I'll just tag ->#cluster b#(not that only cluster B diagnoses involve splitting but. it's a bigger issue than it is in clusters A or C on average)#anyway I just text My cousin about the fortnite/miku collab and she replied 'I didn't know they SUPPOSEDLY confirmed it'#and I was thinking. what the fuck? supposedly?? are you accusing Me of being unreliable??? a liar and/or nitwit????#then she said 'I'm not really into miku anymore.' great (sarcastic). the one thing we had in common is out the window#is that all you think of Me? THEN she said that I can ask her for help if I join fortnite#and now it's like she's saying I'm too incompetent to learn on My own. fuck off!!#and I wouldn't have taken any of this so personally if I weren't JUST coming out of a devaluation episode#she used to be My equal/safe person so I would have been like 'oh she's so kind to offer Me assistance' but not right now. I'm delicate RN#so anyway I DO NOT want to talk to her anymore BUT I have to power through it. sigh. I haven't spoken to her in almost a month#so I'll just feign gratitude. I'd hate to burn bridges after all. gotta keep My options open
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Can we like, unsexualize parent issues???
It was kinda funny the first time, but at this point, one can't talk about paternal problems or maternal misconducts without someone assuming they're seeking out m/dilfs
I saw a video of moms and dads in the military and such coming home and, like most, I cried. Opening the comments, I saw one that said "I'm crying and I don't even talk to my dad 😭", which is real lol. But then someone replied SO DAMN UNPROMPTED "don't have your dad? Go get a daddy 😏"
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GET YOUR ASS OUT OF HERE. THIS IS A NONSEXUAL COMMENT ON A VERY NONSEXUAL VIDEO. WHY DID YOU FEEL THE NEED TO SAY THAT???
But fr, can we stop sexualizing an unfortunately common childhood trauma??
#idk about the other fatherless#but when someone suggests i (or whoever) should cope with fatherly absence with older guy relationships i wanna puke#i dont want to physically fill the empty space#i want a dad#i want a redo at life but with a dad this time#i was to steal my cousin's very present dad because why does she deserve one but i dont (i would never shame her for having what i dont)#i want to yell at every girl and guy who complain about their father because what do you mean he's “too present”#again i would never shame someone who's parent is overbearing to the point of suffocation#i understand how that's uncomfortable and they have every right to feel how they feel#but i simply understand it#i dont relate in any way#so it can seem ungrateful until its better explained to me#this is NOT a stab at people who have two present but fucked up parents#just self expression#i should probably stop ranting now#i need to get a damn diary lol#parent issues#daddy issues
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just spent HOURSS!!!!! of my day . making fop family tree. its got 63 people rn uhmmm yeah
i think i have everyone . maybeee missing a cousin or two idk
#fop#ck.txt#i'm losing my mind . errmmm we need that season2 STAT#i got all the fairywinkles . all the cosmas. all explicitly mentioned von strangles i'm not counting every portrait in . that one ep#i got all the turners . smaller stuff with vicky's family and hazel's and chloe's . mark's there. uhmm#you can have exes so . i got endless potential cupid's in there#and then his immediate family from the greek mythos . i am NOT doing more#its fop focus<3 i just want cupid there idk he's growing on me#OH i also have a few dimmadomes. not all of them ik there's a lot. the issue is idk how they all relate . and how many generation. thats in#thats info i need for this thing#i wanna say thats everything...................idk#there's no easy way to share it which is lame i worked . for hours.#on this little website#idk what else to add this might be everyone#there's a few ships and hc stuff but i'm trying to keep it mostly canon confirmed info so idkk.. yeah that might actually be everyone#except for wanda's one cousin but that could also be like .. idk. mafia family isn't always family-family it's complicated and#i give up on trying to understand it#the wiki considers them family-family so yk what sure . thats all i need idc. he's only missing since idk which uncle he's related to#it'd be cool if you could just add sorta . miscellaneous family members#everything else is great tho you can do a lot#i originally did this on a different site and it sucked#the site i'm sticking with tho is uhmmmm familyecho.com its really simple but in a nice way#i think i've been working on this on and off since 6 and now its 11 so gn everyone . maybe i'll try sending a link or something
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"I want them a little autistic 🥺" shut up. Please shut up. You've only seen the glorified traits on social media and as soon as an autistic person goes into sensory overload or has an unorthodox interest or gets upset when a routine changes or literally acts as anything other than the "precious smol bean" that you've fabricated in your head, you'll get turned off immediately. That's not on the autistic person, that's on you for cherry picking what traits you want in a partner with no regard for how people are actually affected by autism. Stop being weird about autism and at least TRY to educate yourself.
#my cousin was able to get a diagnosis and he struggles with brushing his teeth because of sensory issues#which has led to multiple cavities and he gets so frustrated with himself#autism is not something that needs to be cured but you still have to acknowledge how it can negatively affect someones life#autism#autistic
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I read your tags on the favorite blorbo post and honestly this is the first time I've seen anyone mention 6th grade leader in the wild. May I ask what you love about him? Cuz I love him too, he's determined and tough but still very much a snotty nosed kid in a lot of ways
Gosh dude I've been a fan of him and his friends since I was like, 8. I'm sure I loved them for some other silly reason back then but currently he's just funny. Accurate to his age group back in the day so there's a dorky nostalgic feel to episodes where he has proper roles as someone from a tiny rural town. I also think there's something funny about the 6th graders being a scary force and all in the porno episode and games just for them to be like... I can't think of another word(long work day) but like, lame. LOL. And I don't mean it in a bad way! There's just something so amusing about how 'scary' they are when the main 4 are straight up killing people and the like every other episode. The 6th grade leader still having his shirt with his face on it in Post COVID got me, though he doesn't look like he had a great time imo
But really it's just that he's a funny kid, I guess. The shirt, full dedication to seeing boobs(the entire chase for the porno and straight up kidnapping Cartman once they're out of the hospital in Trent's episode is SO funny), him and the others doing their fake motorcycle noises, his totally sick dance moves in FBW the other just couldn't handle(replaying like a month ago and heading Usher's name was like walking into a wall), etc etc. He's just a brat. He's always been fun to draw, too, which is an easy plus for me personally òvó9
I lost my train of thought and this is mostly a ramble now but he's funny! And not very bright! I know the games are hit or miss on being considered canon but I'd love a brother reveal 💔 There haven't been any prominent Asian characters from his time and I'm nosy.
Some of it also comes from an AU my brother and I made for fun a while back where 6th grade leader(senior), Michael(junior), Mike(junior), Butters(sophomore), Sarah Collins(sophomore), and a couple others work together at Burger King under Rick and the shenanigans of that have been funny. Working fast food brings people together in some interesting ways. Good and bad pfft
#sorry this is like a lot of nothing LMAO im shy and talking about the 6th graders or like. ticket booth rick feels so dorky#'cringe is dead!!' yes i know but no one cares about these guys it's embarrassing ok snfhs#this took like an hour bc i felt i was yapping too much and then lost my place anyway pffft HOWEVER#have you played snow day? understandable if not. anyway. i am still upset there's only brown hat kid#BUT. the plow truck they stole and painted? it's got graffiti on it I'll have to find later to remember what it says#but it has a little hand print in paint on one of the doors and in my heart 6th grade leader did that#wanted to draw some lame thing where they all graffiti'd it but alas. the cringe feeling has frozen my art again#ALSO the 6th grade leader is pretty consistent with keeping his red bike while his friends keep changing theirs!#'omin that's just continuity issues' I KNOW but i choose to believe he babies his bike up until the trent episode#and the others keep wrecking theirs. bartles having a pink bike in the fellowship episode sticks with me. yellow in preschool pretty sure#which is exciting#ok i'm going to bed now but appreciate the 6th grader question they're silly#they're also kind of a reminder of the old style i suppose and i miss that a lot </3#i miss when brown hat kid had ginger eyebrows for an episode. he has brown hair in post covid 🕊️#kennys-parka-jacket#sp#6th graders#<- for my own organization sake haha#feel free to chat more or dm if you ever like. i get frozen by cringe often but i do enjoy talking about characters with people 🫰#i hc him as being adopted by a shitty white family and he tries a little too hard to fit in sometimes pffft#but I'd love a canon brother and/or cousin reveal. him being asian and around since the beginning is like. never addressed iirc
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