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cliché but opposites attract with yeon sieun? can be a headcanon or a scenario !! whatever you want 🫶🏼 tysm
Impulse And Intellect
Pairing: Yeon Si-eun x GN!Reader Requested: Yes
Summary: A headcanon about Si-eun falling for someone who is his complete opposite.
Length: 676 Words Genre: Fluff / Light Angst
Warnings: Fluff, outgoing/impulsive reader behavior. Status: Complete!
♡. Si-eun first noticed you because you were everything he wasn’t. Loud laughter, quick emotions, and a warmth that seemed to follow you wherever you went. He didn’t understand you at first, and it lowkey annoyed him how you could just say whatever you were feeling so easily.
♡. You, on the other hand, found him fascinating. Calm, composed, and almost infuriatingly blank at times. Si-eun was like a puzzle you wanted to figure out.
♡. When you two started hanging out more (mostly because you forced yourself into his space, sitting next to him at lunch, dragging him into random conversations). Si-eun realized you weren’t just reckless, You felt everything deeply. But somehow, that didn’t make you weak; it made you strong in your own way.
♡. You love poking at Si-eun just to get any reaction out of him. Tugging his sleeves, mimicking his serious expressions, leaning way too close when he’s trying to study. Half the time he just blinks at you like "are you done yet?". But sometimes you catch the tiniest smirk before he hides it.
♡. You had no problem dragging Si-eun into chaotic adventures sneaking off-campus for snacks, last-minute study sessions that turned into you ranting about life, and even stupid bets like who could stay quiet longer, which are always his idea. (you lost every time, but he secretly liked when you talked).
♡. Speaking of, Si-eun secretly loves hearing you talk about your day, even when you ramble about random, pointless things. He won’t always respond with full sentences, but he listens so intently it makes your heart hurt a little.
♡. He doesn’t always know how to comfort you when you get upset. If you cry, Si-eun sits there awkwardly for a second before offering his hand or wordlessly pushing a snack and drink toward you. He’s trying, okay?
♡. Si-eun is the type to wordlessly fix your jacket if it’s slipping off, or move you to the inside of the sidewalk without saying anything, and press his hand lightly to your back when he feels you getting overwhelmed. No big gestures. Just quiet, constant care.
♡. He tries not to show it but seeing you upset messes him up more than anything. He’ll stay awake texting you, walking you home, or sitting quietly by your side, anything just to be there. Even if he doesn’t know what to say.
♡. You're the reason he starts carrying extra band aids or mini-med kits easy to carry. Not for himself: but for you. Because you keep scraping your knees, bumping into things, and somehow managing to get minor injuries doing the most ridiculous things.
♡. The first time he calls you "reckless," you grin and say "And you love it." without missing a beat. He looks like he’s about to argue but just sighs and looks away.
♡. Si-eun always pretends he’s not worried about you when you get yourself into stupid situations, but the way he shows up without you calling, and the quiet one or two word lectures he gives you afterward: kind of gives him away.
♡. When you’re feeling restless and impulsive, for example: "Let’s go on a midnight walk!" "Let’s dye our hair!" "Let's prank Baku!" Si-eun sighs.. but 95% of the time, he goes along with it. Quietly, Grumpily, But he’s there. Always.
♡. You once tried to teach him how to take silly selfies. He just stared at the camera like O_O the entire time. You love him for it anyway. (that exact photo became your home screen wallpaper.).
♡. He doesn’t say "I love you" first. Instead, it’s you blurting it out in the middle of a heated moment. Si-eun just blinks at you before replying in a small, quiet voice like it's the most embarrassing thing in the world: "I know. Me too.." Which is honestly more then you expected in that moment.
♡. People wonder how the two of you work so well together. What they don’t realize is that You don’t fix each other. You just make the hard days softer, the lonely days warmer, and life a little more bearable, together.
Taglist: N/A Header’s Creator: @saradika-graphics
#☾#✿#strawberrywrites#strawberryanswers#headcanon#x reader#gender neutral reader#weak hero x reader#weak hero class x reader#weak hero class 1#weak hero class one#weak hero class two#sieun x reader#yeon sieun#yeon sieun x reader
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honestly i was so scared that you didn't think transandrophobia was real but you do and i'm so relieved 😭
i've had asks saying basically the exact opposite of this and i'm gonna be real here i still don't know what the fuck transandrophobia is and i don't like that we're wasting time making new little hyper specific labels for our oppression rather than doing something about the oppression.
sometimes you just need to say Shits Fucked and go back to fighting against anti trans laws and helping your community. go see a drag show or something i promise it's way more fun
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sometimes the thing you think you have written is way less interesting than the thing you have actually written.
#this isn't even intended as a dig at mxtx because whomst amongst us writerly types hasn't been there#and like!! she still wrote it!! she still wrote this story!#just like robin hobb definitely never INTENDED for the fool to become as important to the trajectory of the rote books as he became#but she still wrote him#she still brought that character to life#the great estthing about writing a story is also the thing that can make it such a nightmare#you are going to put stuff into your writing that you did not intend to put there#and sometimes those happy accidents elevate the work to new heights#and sometimes they do the exact opposite of that#and because those inclusions are unintentional#you are bound to miss them when you revisit your own work#'but i didn't mean to communicate [x] with my story! i meant to communicate another thing!'#okay! better luck next time! your current story says what it says!#for better or for worse you have to make peace with that#ray.txt
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yeah your boyfriend peeled you an orange but would he fake his death to make you his afterlife? would black flowers blossom, fearless on his breath?
#see house would absolutely fucking not peel that orange#but only because wilson would never ask#academic citation: (‘You would pick up my laundry if I asked you to’ ‘Go ahead. Ask’ ‘I wouldn’t do that to you’)#as for the opposite scenario#house wouldn’t ever say peel me an orange#he would just wait for wilson to peel one for himself and then steal that#if he ever did ask him to peel one it would be for the exact reason all these girls on tiktok r doing it#I mean he basically already did that experiment with the borrowing money thing LOL#but yeah I think wilson either do it as quickly and efficiently as possible if the circumstances are dire enough for house to be believably#sincere in his request#or he would get innedietly suspicious and interrogate him about what he’s up to#probably both actually#I digress#sometimes an act of service is going down with him hand in unlovable hand#house md#greg house#gregory house#hilson#james wilson#house/wilson#hatecrimes md
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Ahh it’s a revolving door of hyperfixations and favorites. BUT. Here’s a couple that revolve in my head
Elizabeth Nash and Amelia from Mystery Matters/Manor Matters. These two ladies couldn’t be any more different. And I’m obsessed with them. You have a sassy firebrand red head Indiana Jones type

Like they don’t even really hide it lol. Elizabeth is just. I love her. She gets spooked sometimes and is pretty bad with the self talk. But she still does her thing. Owns a manor. Has a dog people think is a werewolf. Deals with the supernatural with panache. She’s got a few love interests, has an eye for details and clues and is sassy about it all. Will call anyone she’s mad at a bastard. Swears intermittently. Has a grand old time doing her thing despite a ton of rumors.
Amelia is the exact opposite. Red headed older woman, polite, well spoken, shy and gentle and super friendly. Has a kid sister who looks nothing like her but is still sweet. Her love interest is Elizabeth’s uncle, Carl. But Amelia is an antiques restorer. She loves cats and chess and helping Carl in a magic manor with a ton of secrets.
Then in Power Rangers there’s a few but I’ll go with Katherine “Kat” Hillard. We support women’s rights but most importantly we support their wrongs here. Like Tommy, her husband, she’s a reformed evil ranger. And she is MY pink ranger. She’s a professional high diver, a former ranger, can buck mind control on her own, is respectful and resourceful and capable and sassy. Absolutely full of attitude
favorite character from any media BUT it has to be a woman. in the tags now go (pls talk to me about your favorite fictional women pls pls pls pls)
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9. worst part of canon 10. worst part of fanon
for whatever fandom(s) you want but xiv and fl are two we immediately recall we're both into
9. worst part of canon
for ffxiv: the way heavensward handles the infamous "bloody banquet" sequence from the end of ARR is like. GENUINELY atrocious. like a complete failure in every conceivable way. it's dragged down the entire expansion for me, that's how unbelievably bad it is. it's by far the worst piece of writing in the entire game bar none, i hate it, every day i wish they had just had the balls to murder nanamo in cold blood and be done with it
for fallen london: Why Is The Third City Written Like That.
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10. worst part of fanon
for ffxiv: ehhhhhhhh.... i may get a few tomatoes for saying this, but maybe the hype over haurchefant??? i feel like ysayle's death was infinitely more impactful and it's honestly really lame that everyone tends to overlook her in favor of Some Guy that- while he did die tragically and excellently- tends to be heralded as just. the gold standard sole standout example of characters that have died over the course of the story. i just wish my girl iceheart got some more love, y'know. she deserves it. she deserves it mayhaps even more than that elf does. what i'm saying is stop giving your WoLs passionate tragic flings with haurchefant and swap him out for ysayle to create the doomed yuri i KNOW that girl deserves
for fallen london: this one is hard, because i honestly feel like there's not much about fanon stuff in FL that really irritates me personally...? and it's such a small fandom that saying anything specific feels weirdly mean on behalf of the guys that actually like that particular fanon trend. like. the ffxiv fandom is so large and so spread out that i feel comfortable more intensely bullying it, but FL is like a small town where everybody knows everybody else and idk maybe i'm overthinking this single question way too much. um. people occasionally blatantly ignoring themes and subtext is kind of annoying, i guess. like all of the liberation of night discourse threads on reddit that are just full to the brim of guys saying the judgements are, if not strictly good, at minimum correct in enforcing laws and light and just generally being little dictator god bitches? it's like. Bestie. Bestie That's What The Scoundrel Would Say. Bestie. Bestie For The Love Of God You Do Not Want To Have The Same Opinions As The Scoundrel
#in case yall couldnt tell if you dont specify a fandom I just do a random grab bag of stuff ive been into lately lol#ask#ffxiv#fallen london#sometimes i feel like i need to have a banner attached to the bottom of my FL posts like i think the LoN is based actually#there is nothing more pogchamp than blowing up tyrants#i just also happen to rp a character who believes the exact opposite#(bc it's fun and free to put oneself in the head of a fictional guy with directly opposing perspectives to your own)#ffxiv crit
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John Dory: Wait wait look in this bag.
Clay: Wha—
John Dory: [takes out his hand and does 👌]
Clay: … STOP IT. YOURE NOT A 13-YR-OLD BOY! IF I WANTED TO DEAL WITH THAT SHIT, I’D HAVE A TEENAGER OF MY OWN! KNOCK IT OFF!!
#Jenna Marbles quotes >>>>>>#I love that Clay is the exact opposite of what I thought he’d be#he just don’t silly anymore GAJSHFKFL#I imagine he’s silly sometimes but he’s soemoen whonjust wants to pay his bills and do is taxes in peace#dreamworks trolls#trolls band together#trolls 3#trolls john dory#trolls clay
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@medlinka:
Sometimes when I’m tired and I want to experience my body, I try to make a weird shape. It’s like your post about making weird mouth noises. It’s not about accomplishing anything, it’s more like reminding yourself of the weird and wonderful things you can do with this tool you have, and finding what feels good to do.
This sounds like a good exercise--it's also however almost the exact opposite of what I had in mind when I wrote the OP. What I'm craving is activity where a] there's a very definite line between doing it right and doing it wrong, b] doing it right is difficult, c] I become able to do it right. I actively want something where all three are true.
(And like, I know there's no shortage of things to try in this world that are like that, it's not that I can't think of any. I'm just recording the desire in the hopes that doing so will make me pay attention to it, I guess.)
I am craving the experience of doing something skillful with my body. The closest things I have are running and work but there isn't really skill there merely effort
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i love how before i got diagnosed i was convinced i had autism for the longest time even tho im kinda like. the exact opposite of an autistic individual in so many ways.
#like. i cannot communicate in anything less than a metaphor like when i try to explain smthn#i can never do it concretely. unless im very medicated lol#or i always inherently assume everyone around me is lying. so i learned that oh i have to#revolve what they said as if it were true! bc sometimes people dont lie right??? n i do it in the exact moments were people lie#aaaalmost got kidnapped like that once when i was 12. lol#like it has the same effects but it stems from a completely opposite thought module#i have motor impairments but normal cerebellum function tests bc my issues stem from being prone to catatonia#n slowing down n speeding up constantly#schizotypal is so frequently confused w autism for these exact reasons i suppose#it was very fun when i heard that
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Me when I have plans but my head looks like a trashcan on fire and like 3 separate "mes" are arguing with me about said plans

#like ok. guys we made plans. please.#like genuinely i have no idea how other people just exist like whenever i want to do something there is at least one part of me that very#passionately wants to do the exact opposite even though it wasnt there just a second ago#like is nobody elses head a car filled with people going on a road trip or what?#because i kinda assume that that is the default state of being but nobody else seems to have as many problems with it#because i do feel like my head is a car full of people going on a road trip.#and hey from the outside it looks so united; right? it looks like just one car and it looks like it must be calm inside but it isnt#because theres a driver and a navigator in the passenger seat and several family members in the back seats and theyre shouting#something at the driver and the driver is getting really irritated and someone is sleeping in the trunk of the car#and if the driver gets pissed off enough theyll shout 'OK! Do it yourself if youre so smart!'#and lets go of the wheel and crawls into the back to sleep#and then someone else takes the wheel and theyre driving the car#and sometimes that exchange of the wheel is calm because only one person wants the wheel#but sometimes its loud and chaotic and painful because everyone wants the wheel and theyre all fighting and trying to take it#and sometimes two people are driving at once#and sometimes nobody actually wants the wheel they just like to complain. so nobody is driving and the car is speeding down the high way an#it might just drive off a cliff because nobody wants to go ahead and take the wheel#and sometimes the driver is really really really really tired and would LOVE#for someone to take the wheel for a bit but nobody wants to take it. and sometimes the driver kinda wants to keep driving#but someone goes 'Actually I'm taking the wheel; this looks like a job for me. Sod off.' and yeets the driver to the back#or to the passenger seat#and i assume that this is how it works for everyone.#which is why i assume that i am VERY bad at handling it
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How did I deal with the stress of this week today so I didn't explode?
Simple!
I wrote 6k worth of pure glitra filth, like a very normal person does! :)
#Make It Up to Me is turning out hot ifn I do say so myself#sub Catra#domme Glimmer#some soft and sweet moments and a lot of the exact opposite of that too#wish this counted as Actual Work I Need to Get Done but oh well#sometimes mental wellness is stored in the wlw pwp
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(Questioning) cluster b culture is being so so annoyed at certain ways people act because "i KNOW you're doing that for attention i can TELL. I dont act like you at least, im wayy more natural and subtle with it" even if that might not be true, and the way they act is also completely harmless and lighthearted. Can't help but feel bitter that they're seemingly acting so blatantly obvious and DO get the attention, while you (the cooler daniel) tried learning to be less obvious and dont.
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#cluster b culture is#questioning cluster b culture is#cluster b#npd#aspd#bpd#hpd#Mod Reef#anonymous#honestly. sometimes you gotta make it obvious#even to the point of literally saying ''hey i need attention''#feels embarrassing and like the exact opposite of what you want to do but so long as the people around you are understanding#you'd be surprised at what works
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#* & make way for rapid clown honking — ooc .#// this is me speaking to the void#// sometimes… i feel like im doing Too Much on here like concept wise#// and i dont want it to be hard to follow along for others????#// like with the way im expanding into different fandoms now i feel like its Messy#// i say this as i feel the exact opposite when i see another blog with an entire hodge podge of canons and ocs and get so excited over it#// hm
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man ... dave is such a good brother and it's really interesting to me knowing how bro was ...
#was bro sometimes an actual good brother or is dave just doing the exact opposite of what bro did#live sid reaction#act 6 intermission 3#dave strider#rose lalonde
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ykw actually I am angry + disappointed w them. I've been pushing how I feel aside and trying to make it my own fault so it's all contained but I think theyve just been mean. and they really should know me better ik I try to pretend I don't expect more from them so I feel less hurt when they do things that upset me but we've been friends for years by this point. like come on.
#just got home and went to put my shit away but my flatmate was in the kitchen and i got suddenly so mad i had to walk back out#not going to do or say anything while im this upset. i need to be a lot calmer before i can even be in the same room as her#like okay. so originally it was just the two of them getting drinks and theyd rather it was just them bc i dont drink. thats cool#it wouldve been difficult for me to join them after work bc travel. and ik theyd done this before just the 2 of them and had fun#i can fully respect that its why i said no and stuck by that decision when she asked again#but to not mention she was taking the day off work and btw i just found out that BOTH of our other old flatmates joined in too#to not mention that they were travelling that entire distance and that it wasnt just drinks it was a whole day out together#thats just mean. why wouldnt you tell me that why did none of them say anything.#and the fact they did the exact same fucking thing last weekend too i didnt know about that at all#like i need to stop trying to justify it. im allowed to feel unwanted and excluded bc thats exactly what theyre doing.#im tired of feeling like other people dont want me around. i know i can be difficult and annoying sometimes. but im really not that bad#and we're meant to be friends!!!!!! like youre supposed to like your friends. and want to spend time with them. or at least i do#and yeah everyones annoying sometimes thats just part of being alive ur supposed to tolerate it if ur friends#im allowed to want to feel like im wanted. im allowed to want ppl to care abt me. that shouldnt be too much to ask for#but the overwhelming message im getting at the moment is they dont want me around. and when i am around them i feel like they dont listen#to me and that they dont really care how i feel unless it directly involves them or theyre responsible for it#i feel like they dont see me as a real person that exists. only a version they have in their heads and they base all their assumptions and#decisions off that version instead of directly communicating with me. and constantly avoid me under the guise of 'giving me space'#when im upset or having a difficult time and most need support from other people. i just feel really unseen#and ik that part of how i feel IS exacerbated by insecurity and depression. like they do care to some degree#but also a lot of it is evidenced in the way they act towards me. mainly my roommate bc shes the person i interact with most#and personally i find the most direct ways of showing u care abt someone are showing up for them. and making them feel seen#and maybe not everyone feels the same way. but thats how it works for me anyway#so to repeatedly exclude me and avoid acknowledging that ive been having a difficult time is the opposite of that to me#which is the point im trying to arrive at... sorry ik ive probably said similar things repeatedly the last few weeks but i feel like its#crystallising a bit like this is the core reason why im so sensitive and reactive atm and why i got so upset by it#idk. not tonight bc im still very emotionally raw but maybe tomorrow if im calmer i should explain that i was upset + why to her#i avoid doing that so often when im upset bc i dont think theres much point in having a conversation abt it unless u expect some kind of#resolution from it. or if you want an apology but idrc abt being apologised to the crucial thing is what theyre going to do different#and i love her but shes very resistant to changing her behaviour bc of other ppl being upset by it. and like i said before she has
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thinking today about constantine and the various personas / disguises he wears as a con man!!
when he wants to make people underestimate his intelligence (and/or get under some rich snobs' skins) he has a tendency to thicken his accent, play hard & heavy with aphorisms, and adopt an overly-cheerful, affectedly blasé attitude. (a great example being his introductory "morning squire! nice day for an orgy, eh, wot?" when he got himself invited to that high society fuckfest to scam england's upper crust with some bullshit magic.) he'll get much more touchy-feely, gets up in people's spaces more than is socially appropriate, and really plays the fool, so when he turns around and reveals the trick, he gets to enjoy all the gobsmacked reactions.
when he wants to fit in with high society or get something out of someone by making them feel important / respected / bonded to him in some way, the scouse doesn't disappear; his voice just gets lower, slower, and has smoother, crisper enunciation. maybe a touch of RP if he's really laying it on thick. this version of constantine has got tailored suits and cufflinks, avoids touching and being touched like the plague, mirrors behaviors to make connections, makes eye contact like he's playing chicken with everyone he looks at, and offers hook-ups to all the vices known to man, as well as the ones known by those well beyond humanity. he makes a point of establishing himself as a useful and reliable contact for anything and everything, so that if he ever needs an angle on someone or a little extra cash, he knows exactly where to get a little lucrative material.
the common thread between the two is that he makes himself memorable, be it in a positive or a negative way. he makes sure people not only see him, but take note of him; that they leave with a memory, so if their paths ever cross again or they ever need his particular skillset, there's a chance to turn a profit later on.
#i view constantine very much as someone who knows Exactly who he is and how he's perceived by the world#and he both leans into it and practices getting around it at all times. whichever is more useful to him in the moment#he manufactures the way he comes off to people that he's trying to work an angle on. he tailors himself to an ideal#and if he doesn't like you then he is doing Every Little Thing Possible to give you the exact Opposite of that ideal#for as long as you will let him mock you with it#and at the same time that he's a shit-eating liar & a pro grifter he's also very openly & unabashedly himself in almost every situation#he just picks & chooses what parts of himself to put out into the light. cold bastard for the cold bastards. loyal friend for loyal friends#i can't remember atm where he got his nickname as a 'man for all seasons' but he really truly is#( headcanons. ) I'M JUST LIKE THE BASTARDS I'VE HATED ALL ME LIFE.#anyway this is the last gasp of my paper-writing brain so idk if it makes sense all the way#suffice to say he is not afraid to make every aspect of himself into a useful tool. he doesn't shy away from himself in any regard really#it's why the self loathing hits him so hard sometimes: he's always glued to the screen. always viewing himself in technicolor
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