#and sometimes i wanna delete them

[bixels]

I'm not getting into The Giving Tree discourse...

[hooned]

three pretty best friends 💌

[ablog]

Girl help I wish to travel to different dimensions just to watch a movie/show I really like a little to the left

[goldensunset]

sora’s new roommate looks like a really nice and normal girl i wonder what her story is

[krotiation]

"You can't ship rhack, it's toxic!!" Wrong, that's exactly why I ship it

[iwritenarrativesandstuff]

my best advice for people who want to stand up for human rights: stop looking for enemies to fight and start looking for friends to talk with

not only does this center your focus on the people who are actually affected as opposed to your own moral self-righteousness, treating more people as potential friends opens you to at least hearing out various points of view, prevents dehumanization and radicalization against entire groups of people, and actually allows you to start working on long term solutions

[wonder-and-wildflowers]

I love being aroace, but I desperately need friends who will prioritize me and won't make me their second choice without it turning into them having a crush on me.

Being pushed aside for a romantic partner hurts. Being less of a priority to someome I've known for YEARS than someone they've known for like 3 months is DEVASTATING.

Having a friendship with someone who prioritizies me and puts me first and is intentional about the effort and time they put in is all I want. And call me selfish but I want them to do it without falling in love with me.

I want them to do it platonically. Or alterously.

And you know what? I'm sick of people having crushes on me. I'm sick of friends building an entire relationship with me just to come out and say they only did it cause they wanted to kiss me. Or fuck me. Or both.

And then they get angry because I don't see them that way. They get resentful because they acted like thidls and behaved this way with the intention of is being a romantic investment.

And now I have to deal with the emotional distress of having someone pour so much into me, love me, prioritize me, doing a complete 180. And them resenting me for being upset that their behavior towards me has changed.

Them being resentful that I still expect thier usual behavior, because to me those were stardards for a platonic relationship that they set with me, and to them it was all a ploy to get me to be their girlfriend. They don't want a qpr. Thats never good enough for them.

[bunnyboy-juice]

spent the first hour and change at work deleting some old files and am having a grand ol time laughing at myself for not realizing i was a lesbian sooner

[squuote]

sometimes I get nervous about oversharing or venting cause rlly, I just wanna post and enjoy art and the things that make me happy but this is like. kinda the only place I feel okay doing it. I know I don’t gotta apologize but I want to so, sorry if I get a bit much with it

[chibishortdeath]

Great googley moogley it’s all going to shit! Every day becomes exponentially more terrifying!

And all perfectly timed to just right at the start of what’s supposed to be my adult life where I get my shit together and be useful and productive!

[foxgloveinspace]

I mean this in the nicest way possible: I wish I was a better friend.

[vanyabeam]

Do y'all ever look around at the women and girls in your life and just think about how different they would look/act/live, how free they would be, if they weren't raised in a patriarchy? Like what their hobbies would be, what they would do for a living, what education they'd get, how they'd dress etc.

I'm looking at my mother, sisters, friends, neighbors and colleagues, imagining another version of every single one of them, that isn't so self concious, so oppsessed with looking pretty and feminine, that didn't stay with her shitty husband/boyfriend, that went with the career path she actually wanted, that isn't forced to wear that head covering, that doesn't have to hide her sexuality, that can safely go outside at night, that was never sexually assaulted/raped, never sold off to an older man, never treated as an incubator, never abused or used by a male in any way, and it fills me with such sadness.

None of them deserved any of that horrible shit they went through, and yet the things I listed aren't even the worst of what happens to women in our world.

And idk, I'm laying in my bed, staring at the ceiling, not knowing what to do with this hole in my heart. The grief of so many women and girls, from the first instance of sexism till now, not living the free lives they could've if men weren't so cruel, it's just so soul crushing.

[twili--link]

To those who play dating sims / visual novels where you can make the Main Character, what would your character be like if roles were reversed and they were the one to romance? What route would your character be?

What tropes / other writing devices would you use for them?

And what kind of endings would they give you?

[milimeters-morales]

(NOT ATSV) my ideal miguel and miles friendship (bordering on enemies) dynamic is where Miles is sort of a Mean Girls figure where he’ll say the worst things to Miguel, who actually has no problems dishing that shit right back out, is usually too fed up or somewhere else mentally to reply. They fight a lot, more physically than verbally, usually in a slapstick comedy type of way. Miles is banned from Nueva York once a month and got a restraining order against Miguel in his own dimension. His parents fucking hate him and Miguel hates them right back. Rio has tried and failed to poison him via food and Jeff is considering hiring a hitman. Gabriel is beloved by them. Miles takes Miguel’s money at least twice a week to go spend it just because he can. Miguel has tried (and succeeded once) to get Miles sick with a future illness because he figured out the lesbian bar Miguel liked to perform at in drag. Miles has cried at least once in every room of Miguel’s apartment and Miguel has been confused on what to do each time besides an awkward hug and pat on the back. People are rightfully worried for Miles’s safety at least 80% of the time but when they aren’t they’re shaking their heads at the two’s antics. They need to be separated until they have a healthy “this is a grown ass man / this is stupid little girl i don’t like at work” relationship and it’ll take an act of god for either of them to realize their current one isn’t healthy at all and has extremely negative impacts on their mental state.

[lock-my-feelings-in-a-jar]

Please BE EXCITED about stuff you like/ want to be excited about 💞 That's what life supposed to be about, finding joy in the smallest things, in the things we enjoy and love. And the people that judge us for having that joy in our hearts lose their own life, because they spend too much time judging someone else's life instead of doing something with their own. FUCK them

this is one of my favorite asks and i love you

[oh-meow-swirls]

was looking through old posts and i'm surprised to see that i seemingly didn't have any commentary on anything in 3 in chapter 7, 8 or 9, the posts related to 3's story go from "my first reaction when i saw yopple-bot was 'i love you. but also you are definitely the boss for this chapter-'" to "i have been in hell all day. hell being bada-bing tower." funny to me cuz those chapters are like, the best ones sdfkljsdfjfsdkjlfsdjkl-