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a-god-in-ruins-rises · 2 days ago

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looking at a bunch of my old favorite mutuals blogs that have been inactive for years. i miss them, even if i never really talked to any of them. when you're mutuals with a person for so long they become a comforting presence even without talking. you see them every day and read their posts about their thoughts or feelings or about what's going on in their life and so on. and they just become a part of your daily life in such a subtle way.

and then one day they just never post again. without warning. shit sucks. i actually hate it.

#i think about so many old mutuals like every day #just wondering where they've gone and what they're up to and how their lives have turned out #i love them and miss them so much #actually there have been a couple times when old mutuals suddenly become active again after years #but i can't count on that -- most don't #i wish there was some website or app or whatever #that would make it possible to stay in contact indefinitely #like i just imagine something like linktree or whatever #but also something more #just this one central hub with one username and it is just saved forever #and so any person who remembers your name can just look it up and suddenly have access to all these ways to contact you #because i've had my blog deleted a few times and like i gotta slightly change my url every time #so if someone looks up my og blog url they won't be able to find me #and that shit makes me sad #just a slight change in url could mean the difference between staying in contact #whatever #i get like this occasionally #nostalgic and sad because i miss old mutuals #scrolling their long abandoned blogs #idk why i do this to myself lmao #i do it with facebook sometimes too #i haven't posted since like high school #and sometimes i go back and see all my friends' profiles frozen in time #because a lot of their profiles are also inactive for whatever reason #i don't know why this shit makes me so sad #so yeah if you're a mutual -- even we don't talk -- don't ever just randomly delete or become inactive #even if we don't talk you can give me your other socials or whatever #or even an email idc #i just don't want to lose connection with any of you -- when i'm 80 years old i wanna reminisce with y'all #and i wanna throw everyone a feast someday

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