#also daddy issues fr fr

[gregmarriage]

FUNNIEST SCENE EVER ACTUALLY

[winesharksea]

ty really is winning the in-laws lottery, his father in law is a classical musician with a special connection to cats, his mother in law is an avid reader of 150+ years, and they live on an expansive property with chickens and probably a lot of other wildlife in the area

[paul-newmans-sauce]

better call saul tumblr fandom hear me out. howard was probably a rlly flamboyant child and george hamlin probably couldnt stand it. are you picking up what im putting down here

[the-river-rix]

Charles Rowland Ik what you are

[worstloki]

What is your favorite kind of thorki fanfic? Everyone knows that you read them

okay okay so imagine all the terrible popular fanon tropes that get attributed to Loki. Now hand them over to Thor and do them well—!

[dirtytransmasc]

Hi!!!!

Do you have any hcs for how Alicole would try and solve and argument with the kids? Like, their dynamic (especially Aegon with Alicole cause he’s the oldest) is just so interesting and I’ve always wondered how an argument/disagreement would play out with them

ooh, tasty concept.

with arguments amongst the children, they try and get them to take a step back. they'll each take a kid (or two if it involves all of them) and give them a hug or something of the like, easing the tensions, before helping them come to some sort of compromise or agreement.

when it comes to non petty arguments that every child has, the source of issues amongst the kids is the following;

with Aegon they have to settle his need to compensate for feeling as though he is lacking. he tends to pick on his siblings when he's feeling down on himself. so it's a lot of affirming words and hugs while also chiding his cruel behavior. he's definitely hard on himself about being cruel as well, he doesn't like being mean it just sorta comes out of him when he's not in good spirits about himself. he shoves his siblings away over little things when he's upset which only makes him feel worse in the long run. the whole situation makes it hard to parent, as it's not right how he treats his siblings at times, but it's also awful how he feels and how it presents itself. there's typically long talks after the fact. Aegon's usually in his dad's arms, more often than not, while he mom comforts him.

with Aemond it's cooling his temper and frustration, deep breaths and grounding. they remind him that he can't let every jab get a rise out of him, that he always had them to turn to when he needs help, that he's not alone to handle his anger. they try and learn more and more each time, what triggers his anger, what helps him calm down, what to avoid, etc. sometimes he needs to just be held other times he needs a moment alone to breathe. they also try and help him learn how to self regulate and also make his siblings aware that he's getting upset prior to him lashing out (they also talk to them about it).

with Helaena, arguments tend to be because she thinks so differently from her brothers. not only is she a girl in a house of boys, but also because she's autistic (I was the autistic 'sister' in a house of boys for most of my life, it definitely brewed some unique arguments, and I'm gonna project god damn it), their ways of thinking and doing are so different sometimes that she just loses it. so with her, they let her talk, they let her ramble and decompress until she can ground herself, then they have to try and explain the boys point of views, how they see may not be the right way, nor is hers, neither are, but they have to learn to agree. then it's hugs and kisses and talking it out, before they go back to hashing it out with the boys.

Daeron's the most agreeable with the siblings, very adhd coded in my mind (so I'm going to project my brother onto him cause they're very copy pasted in my mind) so when he gets into an argument it's because he's going too fast, too passionate, and/or too much. so again, like most of their children, it's grounding first talking later. like Helaena, they have to explain that the way he is isn't bad or wrong, but that's sometimes we need to slow down, take a breath, cool off, and than continue.

with arguments they take their kids separately, normally separated into different rooms and they visit them together. depending on the exact situation they may just offer hugs and softness, or they'll play a slight game of good cop/bad cop, though they're careful with it. the goal is to solve the problem, not slap a bandaid on it. they tend to each kids needs before handling the actual issue at hand and then being them together to find a solution.

they can both be soft and stern in their own ways. Cole is typically softer on them, as he gets to their levels, takes them close while talking, but he has a stern voice and makes it clear he's willing to put a foot down if need be. while Alicent tends to be a bit more formal and stereotypically authoritative, sitting at the table with them, even if she holds their hands in hers and pulls their chairs close so she can stroke their cheeks.

normally the kids can make right up, or at least come to peaceful terms, but if it doesn't, cause kids can hold grudges like no one's business, Alicent and Cole are forced to remain wholly neutral which is much harder than one would think. most of their fights that lead to grudges are very childish so it's really just waiting for them to crack and realize it was a stupid argument. this is made easier when they don't get involved, so they just laugh amongst themselves where the kids can't see them, and try and keep face in front of them (they can smell weakness and betrayal. send help. a 4 kids household isn't easy). they definitely have moments where they wave the white flag cause one of the kids accused them of siding. the "get along" shirt is also an active and well worn member of the family (Aegon and Aemond share it often)

this video is very much Aegon and Daeron. they feud often. they're either acting like Aegon is a second dad to him, or they are actually going to war and have been sworn enemies for generations, fighting a battle to honor their forefathers (Alicent and Criston are so tired). speaking of Aegon being a second dad, he definitely oversees a lot of arguments between Daeron and his friends... does he understand little kid drama? no. is it entertaining as all hell? you fucking bet, he wants to hear all about what little James did at daycare.

when the kids are arguing with them, which with the way they run the house is pretty rare, but not impossible, they first take a step back for themselves. they will never show anger or cruelty towards their kids, so they make sure they're ok before they even think about talking to their kids.

talking will always be their goal, they never want to use threats or punishments to get what they want from their kids, and they have different ways about it. because their kids know how their household works, that things work on their time, and that just being open and honest, they really just need a day or two to themselves, if the reason for arguing isn't time sensitive, and then they can just take it out.

Aegon is sulky, he just closes himself in his room or flees to a friend's house (which they let happen so long as he leaves a note, leaves his location on his phone, and checks in every few hours) if its really bad. he'll drag himself back to the kitchen table in 48 hours tops, wanting nothing more than for his mom and dad to love him again (they never stopped).

Aemond is just frustrated past reason, so he'll go out and fence with his dummy or just something physical, then he's more willing to listen to reason.

Helaena normally had a boundary or nerve pushed, which was normally accidental, either cause she was already frustrated with something or something changed and it just put both parties in bad positions. space is all she needs.

Daeron is a bit of all the above. he's sensitive, though hard to cross, its often more about other things, something his parent did just broke the camels back, so a long run brings everything back to reason.

Alicent and Criston care so much about their kids, every argument they have with their kids, typically one-sided as they refuse to truly yell, breaks their heart whether or not they did anything or not. they never plan to punish their kids for arguing, they were kids once and they know that its good that they feel safe enough to stand up and fight for what they believe to be true, that they feel safe to shout and disagree with them. they would rather that over anything else, cause they know their kids trust them.

while they aren't permissive with their kids, their are rules and hard limits, they don't count arguing as something to be punished, and their kids don't tend to strand into punishable territories. so resolving a fight is a long talk at the kitchen table, no man's land so to speak, where all parties air their grievances. the problem is discussed, apologies are said on all sides, and sometimes it doesn't always end in a hug, but it does end in feelings being soothed and bridges mended. no one walks away with hard feelings.

they're not perfect, but they make it work, and because they've put so much time and effort into making their home safe and sane, the whole family in therapy, making active efforts to be nothing like their first "home" true arguments are far and few between, and when they happen they're equipped to handle it. Alicent and Cole are such good parents, their kids love and trust them, theirs so much space to talk and negotiate and handle issues early on that there typically isn't any reason to fight. I think that's what makes them such a good family, cause its so hard for me to picture them actually fighting outside of petty things.

[penofwildfire]

Actually a huge fan of when people take a canon character and basically make them their OC. It's fun. I do it all the time.

[gamesyoushouldbeplaying]

Bad news guys playing a tiefling in baldurs gate after watching fantasy high means i instinctively say "Daddy?" Like Fig every. Fucking. Time a devil is on the screen

[flowery-king]

Idk what type of denial I'm in but the defanged au is a fucking Philip redemption au what was I on to be constantly reassuring people it's not a redemption plot lmao open your EYES Flowery

[undercovergirl]

never would've I thought that i would prefer their lita plot but here we are...

[cheemken]

Ey, what are your angsty headcanons about the champions? You already did Cynthia so I want to know the rest :)

Hehehe sure owo

Have angsty hcs hahaha

•Lance has a a ton of scars on his back and his chest, and it's from "training" for his Clan Leader duties

-oftentimes the elders just say it's training for endurance

-the elders hated him for sparing Clair from the "training" taking all the hits from her, but he'd rather not have her go through the same like he did

•Lance had to kinda raise Clair on his own as well, seeing as her parents were very traditional and still held the standards of the Blackthorn Clan

-they were also kinda neglectful

•Steven's mother died when he was young, and the Metagross he has now was once a Beldum that his mother gave on his tenth birthday

-Metagross is one of the few reminder he has of her, seeing as his father hid or threw everything away that's a reminder of her from their own home in Rustboro

-but in his home in Mossdeep, he still kept the necklace she had with an emerald stone in it, and he never showed it to his father in fear of taking it from him

•Wallace was disowned by both of his parents, and he lived w his sister for a few years before meeting Juan and finally getting back on his feet

-his sister died bc of childbirth, and he had to raise Lisia on his own bc he doesn't trust his brother in law, seeing as he left the moment he found out she was pregnant w Lisia

-he doesn't think he's that responsible, but he is, oftentimes he just fears that maybe one day he'd become like his parents, and he'd rather die than to be like them

•Iris honestly hates lil holidays like "father's day" and "mother's day" bc she has no one to celebrate it w

-when she was younger, she'd often get envious of her friends who get to celebrate it w their own parents

-but as the years went by, she learnt to live w it, just being content that she has Drayden w her

•i have a ton of Dia angst posted so like,,,, just check the pokemon hcs tag or champion diantha tag for it hahah

•Hau actually resents his parents so much for being absent most his life, leaving his grandfather to raise him

-he told the other Champions of this, and they were equally as pissed

-he and Iris have this solidarity of having no parents, leaving their grandfathers to raise them

-Iris does help him cope with it, they’re doing well now at least 

•Leon I wanna say does have imposter syndrome, and he knows that Rose also controls the league, that's why he's dubbed as undeafeated

-but he knows just how capable Raihan really is of beating him and taking his title, he knows how capable Sonia still is to beat him too, and the thought scares him

•Geeta's family was also kinda,, traditional?? In a sense?? But like in a sense where they're rich and such, that the parenting style made Geeta look down on people and was taught that if she had enough money she could get them to do whatever they want

-ofc, that kinda reflected w Paldea's League

-she honestly doesn't know what to feel most of the time, she kinda trained herself to be numb to almost everything and she conditioned herself to believe everyone else has the same mindset as her

-cause back then her parents always gave her hate that they masked as criticism, now she thinks that criticism should hurt and should force that person to change

-and if she doesn't feel that hurt and pain that much, then hey, maybe others don't as well

[angelsdean]

yes my mommy issues are worse than my daddy issues. yes my dad Was the angry man in the house but then he mellowed out while my relationship w/ my mom continues to get progressively worse. yes when i think of john winchester i actually think of my mom more than my dad. oversharing on main✌️😙

[introspectivememories]

I want more of jam give me more of jam

JAM LORE TIME!

he's originally from metropolis

so like he was failing badly at living in gotham when everyone else meets him

j: hey im heading out. gonna get some groceries

everyone else: like that? where's your emergency gas mask? your crowbar? your stun gun? your taser? your-

jam starting to get a little freaked out: do i need all that?

the group takes a trip out to metropolis for a month every summer

yes bear has tried to back out every time. no, they don't let him

bear is the first friend he makes in gotham. despite living together, all 3 of them didn't really talk. and then bear and jam have a class together and it's like all the pieces fall into place

bear is the one who picked him up after hia first rogue attack. jam was hyperventilating and sacred out of his mind and bear sat with him until he calmed down

jam is the best at talking bear out of his hallucinations. mainly because pain is the fastest way to take bear out and the rest of them are really opposed to hurting bear even more. jam's reasoning is "seeing his dead best friend bleeding out on our dining table hurts infinitely more than me punching him in the face"

anyway they use jam's method as a last resort

jam is studying astronomy and whenever someone in the group has a bad day, he takes them to the observatory and points out stars until they feel better

he wants to become a professor. he doesn't know that everyone with a phd gets put on a watchlist in gotham and his friends don't have the heart to tell him

in the earlier drafts of this character, i had him be in a one sided love with mori but i scrapped that bc why would i want to create more drama in the group

i also thought about just pairing up mori/jam and khadija/chinna but like that felt too easy to me

but gay people tend to attract other gay people, going by like every friendship i ever had, so maybe that'll work? idk

his parents were really against him moving to gotham but he decided to go anyway

he's an august baby. august 17 to be exact

that's all i got for now! thanks for the ask! <33333

[forestbuilt]

≛ 𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐉𝐔 𝐇𝐀𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐑𝐀𝐌𝐀 & 𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐉𝐔 𝐁𝐔𝐓𝐒𝐔𝐌𝐀 ⸻ FOR THE SINS OF YOUR FATHER YOU, THOUGH GUILTLESS, MUST SUFFER.

NARUTO, Vol. 65, Chapter #622 / VENIENNES, DOOMED FROM THE BEGINNING / MITSKI, Jobless Monday / LI YOUNG LEE, A Hymn to Childhood / KEY BALLAH, On Fathers / THE FRONT BOTTOMS, Father / HIMIZU (2011) / CHARLES DICKENS, Great Expectations / UMBERTO ECO, Foucault's Pendulum

[lighthouseas]

coming to you this pride month: me questioning my sexuality (again)

[parcai]

how do you love brother dynamics but hate eldest sister arcs? 😭

bc they don't call themselves mother earth's daughters LMFAOOOO 😭😭😭